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So greetings fellow 4channers,I'm in abit of a shitty situation.
Thing is,I've been fat my whole life,and I always hated it...Last year I made a great push and lost 15 kilos SOMEHOW..but due to certain circumstances I've gained most of it back.
I would appreciate if you guys guys could give me some motivation;be it making fun of me or giving me reasons. I'm not denying that I am a pig,that just cannot stop eating.I need something permanent.
Thank you in advance.

I'm a virgin too,if that helps,and don't bother replying with ''kys'',I've already considered it,but realised it won't do me any good .Thank you.

Pic kind of revelant;thought it wasa cool
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>>18404856
Post pic of your hand
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It doesn't look too bad
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>>18404874
You're not that fat, you shouldn't be obsessed with your size. But you should fuck someone already nigger kys

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Hey, I am heading over to my girlfriend's for the first time and she wants us to watch a horror movie. I am afraid she will get scared so much we won't be doing anything because of it. So can anyone recommend any newer horror movies which won't scare the shit ouf of her? thanks.
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Evil Dead Remake
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>>18404583
I watched it already.
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>>18404579
If I was your girlfriend and fucking wanted to watch a horror movie with you, I'd be pissed if you made me watch something not genuinely scary

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What is there to do in life, beside playing pointless video games and watching movies ?

I literally don't do anything else.

I'm interested in learning other languages, learning how to play guitar, i'm interested in drawing or in acting, but i never do anything because the grind is so long and i feel like i'll never make it anyway

i'm 23 and i've been like that for 10 years, When i'm not in class i spend almost all of my free time alone in my room, in the dark, playing stuff or browsing the internet.

I'm 23 already, i feel like i'm wasting my youth, i think i'm a decent dude, i could probably have fun with other people, live a real life, but i don't know how to do it and i'm always secluding myself in my own little world

I don't even like playing games anymore, when i launch one i ask myself "what's the point"

What do please
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>>18404561
Do the grind. Make yourself do the grind. If things were easy, there wouldn't be satisfaction when you achieve something.

One really good platitude I heard was this: motivation isn't something you get once and that's it. You have to motivate yourself every day.

It's 100% true. I'm tired of studying constantly my body is almost always sore from lifting, but I don't stop studying or working out, because I force myself to do it. Some friends I haven't seen in a while said I look really in shape, I got A's in most of my classes - that's why I pushed myself.
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I'm 22 just got a piano, learning music theory and plan to learn how to transcribe and compose too. I like to draw too. No matter if you want to draw cartoony, realistic or somewhere in the middle. You still need to learn the art fundamentals and draw from life. Remember drawing from life doesn't mean you have to practice realism. It's simply drawing what you see in front of you.
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>>18404624
>>18404643

Thanks for the advice

you're both right

but i'll never make it anyway, i'm hopeless

shit

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I want to suck my best friends dick but im not gay. What to do?
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Is he gay or bi? If yes just propose it, if not dont do it lol
/thread
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kill yourself
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Troll harder

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My ex thinks I'm crazy and a bad person and that I need help. She talks about how shes afraid I'll come to her house and hurt her family or her pets. When she broke up with me I spammed her with calls, changed my phone number and made new accounts on social media because I wanted an explanation, closure for what happened and she wouldnt tell me. I feel like a huge piece of shit. I never intended to hurt her. I always thought my heart was in the right place. But she said I'm manipulative and she says that I force people to sympathize with me.

I don't know anons. I disagree with some of the things she said but I can't help but doubt myself now. Maybe I am manipulative. Maybe I've been lying to myself to justify all the shitty things I do. It feels like I don't know who I am anymore.

What makes a person a "bad person"? are morals subjective? Even IF my heart was in the right place, even if I was trying to do the good thing with no malicious intent, it doesnt justify what I did at all does it?

I realize I take extreme stupid unnatural actions to try to fix things, but I'm not sure if my mindset or feelings are completely wrong.

I've talked to a lot of people about this and they all tell me that I'm not a bad person and that what I did do was fucked up but that I tried my best and that I need to find someone that will actually care about me.
But she told me I was a bad person. How can the person that I spent everyday talking to, that I told her things I've never told anyone. How can she be wrong when she probably knows the real me?

I'm so lost. and I feel like I just want to give up.
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>>18404411
if any clarification is needed just lmk
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Good and bad is subjective. She's the one that had to deal with your obsessiveness/stalking so it was worse for her than it was for other friends. She had to worry about her own safety. Maybe she didn't need to, maybe the most you wanted was to talk. I don't know the specifics, but if that's what she was mostly complaining about, I wouldn't worry too much. Just remember you don't necessarily "deserve" an explanation from someone who doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Repeatedly messaging them is harassment, and can be scary regardless of your intentions. It is a bad thing to do, but doesn't ultimately make you a bad person. Try to be more conscious of how your actions affect others instead of acting based on how you feel.
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>>18404411
You probably weren't that bad until you didn't accept the break up. Accept the break up and if you can move and start a new life.

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is there any benefits in getting properly diagnosed with depression?

theres no way that im not depressed and i wouldnt take the medication either way
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this is my dilemma, I definitely need the meds but they're not worth side effects of getting fat, not giving a shit about anything, if I can't get wellbutrin I'm basically fucked and I probably can't because it's expensive.
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>>18404404
Yes. You can recieve real help and psycholog help.
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>>18404404
check out these 404 404 digits

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Hi /adv/
So I have a problem,I've been in a relationship for over 4 and a half years. A few months ago a new female co-worker started peeking my attention until I've somehow developed a crush on her. She is super nice and we connect in so many ways but she also has a boyfriend. I know I'm a piece of shit for even noticing another woman given my status but I just can't help it, I've just fell for her and I can't seem to get over it. What should I do ? I can't ignore the fact that my current girlfriend was beside me for better and worse but I can't control my feelings for this other girl.
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Wtf is wrong with noticing another woman? The way you conduct yourself is more important than who you look at or crush on. If you are thinking of actively pursuing this other girl, you should at the least tell your current gf. If you don't tell her and pursue a romantic interest in this other girl anyhow, be prepared for some guilty feelings and some very irate arguments. People tend to sell themselves down river when trying to hide something.
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>>18404380
How can I pursue this girl as long as she has a boyfriend?
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>>18404414
You dont

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Me and my girlfriend just got into pegging. Its pretty amazing sitting back and receiving pleasure from her and she really enjoys it which I loves seeing.

Are there any femanons with tips or guides out there for her to improve her pegging skills?
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have you considered dating a man?
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i've pegged my bf a few times and i think the best position is him laying on his back on the edge of the bed, his legs up on my shoulder. that way i can firmly grasp him and i can do powerfull thrusts because i'm on my feet. it's also the most comfortable position for stamine.
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>>18404137
Do you see him differently now?

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I'm 32 years old, finally moving out, I really want to be on my own, desu everyone in the house is annoying, my mom and dad get in my way, but they are ok with me moving out, my sister on the other hand will one day be crying, then the next be angry saying shes going to be in hell after I move out.
She lost her job in January. DESU I did consider moving out with her a couple months ago, but didn't because I want to date and bring home girls, and it would be fuckin awkward with her.
Oh yea a month ago she looked at my fuckin phone while I was showering cause I had a date, but I also had some texts to a hooker from backpage, so she just texted me skank all night. Also when I broke up with my gf 2 years ago I saw she told someone "Plus he and his sister was really close, definite red flags" shes too fuckin close to me, shes 34, and she realizes I dont wanna be as close to her, but I cant admit it to her. I try telling her I'll still be in her life, etc. She goes on how she has nobody, and brings up how she should've moved out with this ex-druggie she dated like 10 years ago. She's 35 btw.
I'm moving out in August, and I think I have to at this point, because shes acting insane, any advice though?
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>>18404045
Her biological clocks are ticking and that makes her crazy. Tell her how to find and date guys who are looking to settle down. Make with her online dating accounts, help her take photos and support her in finding bf. Slap her hard if it must be done and explain to her how to date boys and how to filter cum and dump guys.

Also she is fat, isnt she?
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>>18404083
Yes she has gotten fat, used to be skinny.
She looks down on online dating, but dont go to bars, and again doesn't have any friends.
Problem is, since we both are in our 30s she is so used to the family dynamic, but me, I really want to start a new chapter of my life.
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>>18404100
Show her
>>>/fit/ sticky so she can start unfatenning process.

Slap her and force her to try online dating. Also tell her that after 40 she will be practically infertile. Even kids after age 30 have higher chance of autismus and other birth defects.

Do it for her. Slap some sence into her and force her to stand on her own legs.

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Dropped around to my parents place today.
Turns out my sister who's 30 and never held a job has moved her boyfriend into my parents place.
This drop kick doesn't work, doesn't pay rent and constantly tried to start arguments with me.
Should I drop my entire family?
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Express your concern to each person, one-on-one. Start with mom, then dad, the sister, then boyfriend.

Say your real concern is the lack of a job. If the boyfriend gets a job, your sister will dump him.
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>>18403701
why don't you tell your parents to kick him out?
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Thank you for the replies.
The boyfriend threatened me when I asked him what kind of work he was looking for.
My sister called me names and walked off.
Parents have done nothing.
I'm not sure I want the headache.

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there is a girl that frequents a bar that I go to with my friends. Somehow one of my friends introduced her to me, and now she is infatuated, borderline stage five Clinger. I have absolutely zero interest, but she doesn't seem to get the hint, so i've decided I'm going to do everything in my power to try to be as unattractive as possible to her. However, nothing I've done so far has worked ( not texting her back in the normal time, not a knowledge Ing any of her "subtle" hints, being racist/making fun of disabled people, etc.) it's become a game at this point, so I ask from you, what are the worst things I can do to turn a girl off of me forever?
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>>18403642

You don't want to do this. Suppose you are attracted to another girl--then this girl can tell that girl what an asshole you were to her. You have already provided her with some ammo...racist comments, making fun of disabled. Do you think a potential girlfriend that you're interested in wants to hear that about you?

Find some other way...like just telling her you don't want a relationship right now.
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>>18403642
Tell her you're gay
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>>18403720
>>18403751
Healthy adult here. This is terrible advice.

She obviously hasn't taken social que that most people would pick up on, so it's time to be direct. Pretending you're Kate Hudson in How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days isn't a viable real-word option for the following reasons:

1) Social circles are all interconnected. In life, it's wise to assume anything you say to one person (with the exception of a few who have demonstrated trustworthiness) will be repeated with frequency and complete disinhibition. If you tell a lie to get out of this, assume everyone you know will hear it and that she will learn the truth upon repeating what you said.

2) It's not always possible to be subtle and allow the other person to save face, especially if they're as persistent as this one sounds. That being said, it's still rude and cowardly to not be upfront with people. Unless you fear she would harm you if you directly reject her, it is the most efficient and kindest thing you could do.

This girl obviously doesn't get it; probably because you've been nothing but warm and kind to her.

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I live with my grandmother and I am trying to see my gf who lives in Massachusetts. However, my jew grandmother wont stop screaming at me about how a $460 plane ticket is a war crime. How do i get her to shut the fuck up and let me buy the goddamn ticket?
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>>18403192

Book the flight more than a week in advance to cut down on costs.
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No, fuck flying use a gray hound bus tickeylts are cheapr youd get there in like 16 hours for 80 bucks round trip. Flying fuckin fuck off
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>>18403563
You sound like you've only ever ridden a greyhound and never flown on a plane. Fuck off.
>>18403202
This. Having an Airmiles card doesn't hurt either.

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Hello /adv/
I'm a beginning pixel animator, and decided to start small with this video: https://youtu.be/joJFmAJq9dk
I have two requests
>Please give me critique
>tell my if it looks like he's moving his hips from side to side, or if he's gyrating.
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Gyrating
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>>18403206
Bitch, he's swaying
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I'm sorry, but I don't know what he is. I do not see this thing as a human or animal. It looks like a green line on a yellow pedestal or something with some fuckin handle or tail or something that grows and flickers, topped by a yellow thing under a mushroom cap.
I'm sorry OP, but I am completely lost.

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Let's discuss age difference between men and women in relationships.

What is too much? be realistic, not a moralfag.

this is assuming the girl and guy both want to be together.
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The rule I've heard is your age divided by 2 plus 7 if you're the older one.
Coincidently I'm turning 33 this year and my girl turned 22 so almost
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>>18402300
>The rule I've heard is your age divided by 2 plus 7 if you're the older one.
are you talking about the age of the girl or the difference in age?
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>>18402308
Not him but its in reference to her age. So he's 33, divided by 2 is 16.5. And 16.5 + 7 = 23.5.
So by this rule he's about a year too old for her, since she's only 22.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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How often do guys get likes and messages on sites like OkCupid?
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>>18401788
I get 1-2 likes a week, but messages never. I think I'm decent looking, but okcupid is also dead thanks to tinder, there's hardly any girls on it in my city.

So, absolutely nothing compared to a typical girl's 100 likes and 500 messages a day.
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What are some classic signs of cheating from women? Been backstabbed several times and I need to learn what to look for.

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