Got a friend request from an ex.
Should I add her, despite my current gf making a fuzz about it?
I feel like I would hurt my current gf's feelings if I do it.
My Ex has a baby, so I have nothing to gain from it except curiosity.
>have nothing to gain from it
>current girlfriend doesn't like it
If these were both true, you wouldn't be asking. It's a no-brainer. I don't believe that you don't want anything from her.
>>18436804
Truly, I just want to see how fucked up her life is. I don't want to say it, even here anonymously.
I feel fucked up for wishing that.
>>18436813
>Ugh, I'm just having fun with it
>You know that a nigga was lost
>I laugh in my head
>'Cause I bet that my ex looking back like a pillar of salt
>professor says that if he doesn't see work by today he makes no promises that he'll grade them by the transcript grade deadline
>thought I sent in that essay
>actually didn't
>did send in the essay by today but it's late...I'm pretty sure by see, he meant less turning it in by today and more actually seeing it on time
>now professor is saying that he never got the one I sent last week (on time); I actually have proof that I sent it in
>but this doesn't matter, what matters is the other essay--that one could make me fail the class
>probably will be kicked out of school
>probably forced to repay 30000$ of grants
>will fuck up my life
>my plans
>my dream
>my family
What should I do, /adv/? I wish I was rich enough, but the walls are all crashing down and this could really mess me up in the long-run. In a way I don't mind being kicked out...that cuts off some of my plans, but that's something I can recover and grow from. But owing that much money...? I don't know what to do. I don't think it's possible for me to beg for that kind of money...and fuck knows that it'd take me years to pay that kind of thing off. Years.
I'm so worried and scared. I don't know what to do...
>>18436713
Bump...
>>18436713
Just fucking go to his office and lay down the situation. After all these are also people.
>>18436754
Finals week is over and final grades are issued tomorrow night. I don't think he'd be in his office, and even if he was I'm already back home. Just got the news of this fuck-up when I got here.
what do people mean when they say two people have "chemistry"?
what differentiates this from friendliness?
Rather or not both people are single or not
>>18436711
stupid meme word that normies use
>>18436711
Its a fancy word to say it clicks between eachother
So my doge ate some plant it had purple flowers and had really deep roots and he's swelling.... Anons help
Here's the plant
Get the fuck off /adv/ you absolute fucking moron. Call your local poison control center (you can look up the number online, I'd do it for you but I don't know where you live) or an emergency vet clinic in your area (also easily searchable). Do it now.
Maybe there's someone who'll recognize that plant on here at this hour of the night AND be qualified to tell you how dangerous it is / what to do about it, but I doubt it. Get help from the professionals, that's why they're there.
>>18436675
I recognize the plant but cant name it. Call the vet immediately you bellend we aren't able to treat your pet they are.
I feel crazy and lonely my depression is struggling with my anxiety is not good.
There is no one to talk to.
I don't know how to express my emotions honestly I do not think people wants to hear me talk about my problems either?
And to put the last nail into the coffin I was sexually, mentally and physically attacked by a white CIS male while I knew him to express my emotions on a larger scale. Afterwards, I was diagnosed with ptsd, and experienced severe head trauma, in addition to multiple bruises all over my body. This experience traumatized me a lot, and it is one of the main factors that contribute to my being
Should I go ahead and finish now?
>>18436669
>Should I go ahead and finish now?
Of course not, and coming from someone who's been in your situation - minus the sexual assault - it can and does get better. That's easy for me to say and hard for you to believe, I know, but it's still true.
But your problems are probably well beyond the scope of this board's ability to help. Are you seeing a mental health professional of any kind? If not, can you start?
Should you bust a fat nut on your face? Sure thing kid
I'm tired of you suicidal faggots. Kill yourself and don't forget to do a backflip
What are good ways to punish yourself for your inadiquacies
"Punish" yourself by forcing yourself to improve.
Any other answer is just pathetic.
>>18436654
>Improve on being ugly
How
>>18436659
>intelligence
>humour
>wit
>charm
>shrewdness
>social skills
Good looks will help. Being better at other things will help you more. Who gives a fuck what you look like, make this world your bitch. There's little you can do about your looks so fucking forget about them - dress well, stay fit and have a good haircut, and be done with it. You have other things to offer than being a pretty piece of meat. It's more important to train your mind.
I need fucking /adv/ice.
I've liked the same girl for almost 2 years. And each day I like her even more. I've tried many solutions. shit i thought losing my virginity was gonna bring my confidence up with dating.it never did. not one fucking bit. I need help. Im crazy for this girl. if i dont have a solution. i really should fucking kill myself.
Yes. I've told her. her respond
"idk how to respond to that but thanks"
Jesus fuck why does love fucking suck?
okay. agreed. love fucking sucks. are you and this girl friends?
>>18436632
I mean we talk in school for a bit junior year. but 10th grade we talked a lot bc we sat next to each other. that's how I fell in love with her.
Sounds like she isn't interested if that's her response. It's gonna suck and it won't be easy but my advice would be to move on. It'll hurt but it's better than your current situation. And over time the pain will subside and you'll find someone who reciprocates your feelings.
What source of or how to find news free of retard american and Jew programming?
>News
>Free of propaganda/brainwashing
Pick one.
There is a reason I don't watch TV or read news, except for some science news on certain tech blogs that I still heavily filter out.
>>18436618
Read the guardian and then subtract it from the other news sources you read to remove the Jewish background noise.
>>18436618
They own literally everything
Everything.
Me and this one girl got super drunk and had sex.
Neither of us actually reached orgasm but we tried.
She said that she doesn't remember much from that night, but I still kinda remember what we did.
Did I do something bad? Or can I chalk it up to us both being shitfaced?
She wasn't passed out or incoherent. And she initiated it. But I went along with it, so can I still be blamed?
>>18436450
Of course you can be blamed. This is redpill 101. I'd not mention it, to be safe
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0di743NZhbl
>>18436463
I've literally felt like killing myself because of this whole thing.
I've never felt more awful about anything in my life.
But this made me smile.
God fucking bless you man.
How long does a broken finger take to heal?
I punched a hole in a wall and broke 'neck' of my middle finger. It was fucked up and bloated pretty bad, I wasn't able to put in cast to heal because work commitments at the time. It been maybe two or three months since then and, if I bend it backwards, it still makes crunching noises and hurts. I also can't spread fingers properly, like if you imagine were told to put your hands up by police, my fucked up hand looks like I was trying to do that Klingon star trek symbol.
Will get better over time or there something I meant to be do now that will make better? I try not to use it so much but it's my dominant hand so.
>>18436416
Have you tried to reset it? Grab your finger really hard and yank it
>>18436416
Jesus Christ man get to a doctor immediately. You can cause permanent damage by not having it tended to correctly.
>>18436423
It might sound like he's joking but this is literally what you do. Just make sure you pull it along your finger's centerline
>be me age 15
>date 16 year old boy from my school
>literal best friends for two years
>do everything with boy
>don't have a lot of friends, but anon compensates and more
>so fucking content
>have anxiety/depression but anon helps
>may 2016
>boy about to go away to college in august
>me getting ready to go into my senior year of high school
>we can do this anon.jpg
>find out anon was plotting to cheat and move on with his life
>changed all bios on twitter/instagram took my name out
>confronted him, said he was sorta bored
>left him
>as 2016 progressed anon gets caught up in drugs and me alcohol
>anon develops schizophrenia
>thinks i'm in the FBI, a bunch of weird shit like that
>not the same person i left a year ago
>tried to talk to him a month ago, completely batshit and refuses antipsychotics
basically i've been mourning the loss of his personality since about this time last year. i always find myself getting painfully drunk and all relationships i try to have are meaningless one night stands or ones that i mess up. i still have no friends. i'm going to college in august and hope to make friends but as of right now i can't stop reading the sane letters he wrote me in 2014 and absolutely breaking down. it's been a year and i'm not over it. any tips?
Purge all the old stuff, get rid of everything, cut all ties and move on. Living in limbo is only going to hurt you and make it where you cannot move on. Get a dog, find a new guy, pick up a new hobby. Stop torturing yourself
>>18436470
>this
Stop torturing yourself by reading old notes. Improve your life by focusing on other shit. New guy will fall on your lap next thing you know it
>>18436408
Stop being a fag
how do i achieve happiness?
from the looks of it you generally dont, best you can get is a fleeting sense of happiness and if youre lucky the time in between isnt completely miserable
>>18436404
wish i was that lucky
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1VDMwCZqenV
I feel like everyone is stupid, and no one is useful to me in anyway. I feel like anyone I socialize with just slows me down intellectually or literally. There's no one I enjoy conversation with. No one that shares my odd interests. The world is full or brainwashed morons, and judgmental pricks. I would rather be alone than with anyone.
Wut do i do?
Grow up and realize everyone went through that phase.
>>18436300
>waaaah waaaaah waaaaah I'm a spechial snowfrake waaaaah
Grow up.
Find a girlfriend.
Are there any virgin girls in college? I'm going to college (Temple U.) this august, and I've always hoped to lose mine to someone else, to share the experience and get closer with someone, to bond over it. Is this too far-fetched considering our society's current state or is it entirely possible?
>>18436220
Of course there are. Never subscribe to what you "think" is the norm. Just because you hear a lot about people sleeping around and being gross and whatever does NOT mean that everyone does it. Lying to yourself and indulging in these things because, "everyone else was doing it" leads to no good.
The people pushing this idea that everyone loves casual sex or whatever else are gross people trying to rope in more people to follow suit. Stick to what you believe.
>>18436220
bumping cuz interested
>>18436234
Lol what are you gay?
has anyone here gone to their high school reunion?
My 10 year is coming up and Im debating if I want to go or not. After I graduated I swore id never be one of those guys coming back to relive the good ol days but im curious to see what its like
>>18436176
whats wrong iwth reliving the good ol days?
>>18436176
I dropped out, so I don't think I get invited
Go so you can fuck some bitch you use to know in the library