How many girls do you match with on Tinder after a day or two of swiping? Is a couple dozen reasonable?
Coupple of dozen after a few days is excellent for a guy, your one of the most attractive on there.
Most average guys are lucky to get 2-12 matches in a week.
Show us your profile?
Sup /adv/
so how do you know when people are bullying you and when it is banter?
Like sometimes at work or a party, someone will say some "joke" about you, that makes you feel slightly embarassed but you go along with it because everyone is laughing.
How do you know when you should just let it slip as banter and when it's actually an "attack" on you.
Because there is a difficult balance:
>either react offended and appear like an asshole
>either laugh with it but then you are encouraging other people to see you as a doormat
basically how to react in this situation?
>>18454654
You don't give a fuck unless you absolutely have to. Like an adult.
Also if they're joking about you being fat or such things you can do something about, maybe they got a point.
How do i get a dog to stop barking?
Its not my animal, it is my roommate's so i probably should not touch it but the issue is she showers it with affection and when she goes out to buy garbage foods (she is fat af), she leaves the responsibilities to me ("can you walk Dorsey for me") which always involves me cleaning big piles of shit because the dog hasnt shit for days but every time i put it back in its cage it will not stop barking forcing me to let it roam the appartment.
The neighbors are sending noise complaints to me since i am here most of the time (college student) despite me explaining that i do not own that dog. I told her she needs to take care of it or give it to the animal shelter, but she says the she likes the arrangement since i've been a pushover for so long.
What do i do here?
>>18454647
Muzzle?
>>18454647
Let it out and scare it off, then blame your room mate for leaving the door open. Be in the shower when your room mate goes someplace. You found the door standing open when you got out of the shower.
>>18454836
Holy shit good idea. No legal troubles come with that right?
Studying in Florence for a month and just realized 1. I've never done laundry without those little Tide pods you just throw in the washer and 2. The washer in my apartment is both totally different than a washer I've seen in the US (the drum rotates towards you as opposed to the other axis) and all the dials/buttons are in Italian
Please help my dumb clueless soul
Here's the drum, I think the bit with lines is for the detergent
And these Italiano words
>walk past two god damn thots in between classes
>one thot says the other thot wants to sick my dick
>both edgy and weird and honestly pretty ugly
wyd?
>>18454535
you sound like quite the alpha catch yourself.
as a French friend used to say: "hambeasts are for practice."
now you know.
alright so I'm being accused of a misdemeanor assault. The only evidence is audio but I don't know how good that is for a fight. They attacked me and I defended myself. The person attacking is on 13 or so different medications and seeing a shrink. Can I use that to my advantage? Also will I get a public defender or is that only for felonies? Also have pictures of injury from previous scuffle.
>>18454495
Don't know much about law, but in my state it's illegal to audio tape someone without telling them first. The evidence can be thrown out and won't be considered in the case.
I think you could use the mental shit the other guy is going through to help your case, just make sure you have your own ducks in a row.
>>18454495
In where I live, recording the audio/video without consent would get you in trouble. No matter what the reason is. I don't know what it'd be in your place, but best to keep the record, just in case, though you don't mention it until it's become absolutely necessary or permitted by court.
Also, the better ammo would be your injuries, doctor/forensic perhaps could help to determine that you're the one in defense not the perpetrator.
One more question lads what would be the statue of limitations for assault on a minor? Younger brother of 16 was involved. For info am 19
I noticed we had a advise board so I have a question. I tried to masturbate as many times as I could today and came about 7 times, now my dick hurts. What do I do?
Stop masturbating until it stops hurting. Also, when you masturbate, don't grip it so tightly.
>>18454481
It'll pass. If there's chaffing, don't fap until it cedes. Lube up as much as possible and lighten your grip to prevent pain.
>>18454481
It is almost the same principe as running too long or doing pushups until your body starts hurting.
Penis is not exactly muscle, but it can take so much punish and friction until the skin and mass start hurting and signalising it needs time off to regenerate.
Try adopting some sport like swimming so you dont have so much time to fap.
Does anyone have advice on how to end a relationship and become just friends with benefits or fuck buddies?
>>18454465
by talking my dude
its hard cause one side is always more in love than the other, but it is usually possible in given time, not right away tho
>>18454465
(OP here)
So I have a gf, but I know we won't work out in the long run. However, if we have a clean break, her life will get way worse, really fast (shitty family, shitty friends, she's trying to pull herself out of it). I really don't want to do that to her. Further, if she's left without a cock for too long, she may just go find some dickhead, just to not be alone.
So for me, the best solution seems to be to stay involved with each other, and keep fucking, while we both look for other good people. As they say, "You don't go shoe shopping barefoot".
I know it's selfish on my part, but whatever, I don't want to get desperate either.
>>18454469
Yep. I'm working slowly, but I've got about 6 months before she'll have to decide.
Hello
i need advice for my face.I have very sensitive skin
how do i have smooth face?
>>18454464
wash face with warm water, mix sugar and olive oil and apply it, leave it on for a few mins and wash first with warm, then with cold water
Yesterday I picked up Doom Classic Complete, but I don't know which source port should I use. Prehaps you have any suggestions guys?
How does it feel to stop masturbating for around 7 days? I'm a very impulsive masturbator but I want to stop doing it too often. What's your experience in sex and flirting when you stop jerking off fellas?
>>18454448
There's a hard reset. I once went 30 days without masterbation, it eventually reached a point where it was hard to get an erection.
Been on your shoes once. When I stopped jacking off for a week, I became more aggressive and approaching woman more often. Every interactions also somewhat became more sexualized.
If you're really a compulsive masturbator, it'll help you with self-discipline and clearing the "cloud" in your mind, so you'll have clearer drive to to do more.
>>18454448
I'm still finding the answer to that question. Put this thread up once a Month?
I won 2 tickets to a museum i wanted to go to (a ticket costs $12). The problem is i need to pick them up and the drive is like an hour by bus. I am studying right now for finals so i feel like its a waste of time...
Do you think i should go pick them up or just leave it?
>>18454445
Go get the museum tickets and study during the bus ride bingo bango.
What museum is it?
>>18454445
free the dog at once anon
How does one recover from a huge mistake?
>>18454418
Acknowledge the error
Analyze what led to it
How can You prevent it from happening again?
Can it be Fixed? How?
Fix it
If it can't be fixed then come up with a different solution(Keep it Legal and Moral)
Got on tinder two days ago and now i have my first date. Both 20 and both on vacation in the same city. I don't know what to expect from this and i've never had sex before. How should i handle this date ?
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>How do I become a more confident person?
I went from 270+ pounds to 160. I consider myself well maintained, and live a healthy lifestyle. I go to the gym nearly every day. However, socially, I feel only slightly less awkward then before. I have a hard time thinking of how others see me, and my appearance to other people means a lot to me. I've never had a girlfriend, and I feel I've never learned the social skills required to even communicate properly around women I'm even moderately attracted to. I've been described as a very nice person but just kinda shy. Are there any tips for improving my self confidence?
Only way to get more confident is to expose yourself to social interaction. Just start talking to people. It will be awkward but eventually will get easier. As for women do not go strait for a romantic relationship right away. Just try and make some female friends at first.
>>18454407
That seems to be the consensus answer i see. I need to learn how to just talk to people.
>>18454397
First I have to applaud you for that. You've proven you've got the willpower to go from 270 to 160.
With that in mind, I think you've got what it takes to learn social skills, confidence and communications: discipline.
Perhaps as the first steps you could use some helps in form of opening self-improvement books like "how to make friends and influence people", "the art of seduction" and go outside force yourself to interect with people, if you're in lost remember what you've learned from self-improvement books to push on.