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>penis hard

wat do
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>>18455183
kill yourself

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Male anon here.

> Have a best friend who is QT
> Know each other for 3 years
> I left my GF. Couped with it etc.
> A month ago I told my BF that she is super sexy and that I'm open to be her fuck friend
> Unexpectedly she agrees. A couple of days later we have sex. I thought she liked it (came 4 time), later the same week we did the same with the same result
> Tells me she is a sexoholic and doesn't like it in herself

> After that she wants me to play (touch) with her, but no sex.
> Tells me that she prefers to now in advance if sex is an option fo the night
> I send one sexy SMS and she tels me that she doesn't want me to talk like that to her

> Did I mention that during that time she was trying to make her past love get back to her?
> And he dumped her for real last week.

We are talking with each other via SMS, didn't have a chance to talk in 2 weeks.

We will meet on Thursday. Anyone can have an Idea what that all means? I never knew anyone who is a sexoholic so I don't have an idea how It works.
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Fuck your retarded use of abbreviations. But to the point, she's emotionally dependant on others which she expresses through sex which she sees as validation. Wants to cut the nymphomaniac behaviour and settle down now that she's had enough of the cock carousel, but is obviously trying to keep her options open if she doesn't get her "love" back.
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>>18455172
I never thought about it this way.

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Why does hate/disagreement affect me so much more than praise and why is it so much easier to (properly) reply to?
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>>18455090
You're only human, our minds are predisposed to respond actively to negativity.

Try generating some positive momentum so you start to feel better in yourself. That way your self-esteem could become an echo-chamber that keeps you happy.
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>>18455102
I'm trying to do that now actually by improving my surroundings and myself, it's helping. Though I have another problem related to this. I tend to put less effort into things where I'm not motivated by anger or other negative emotions. I can write essays about a topic that gets me steamed but it's hard to really communicate with kind and agreeable people as well as I'd like to, I just don't seem to put the effort in as much.

How fix?

So I am planning to move into the historical part of my city. But I am not able to combine the beautiful old facade with modern furniture inside. It is just a contradiction. How would you guys live in there?
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>>18455082
Mix a few classic pieces with minimal decor and it looks classy.
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>>18455082
I'd use full IKEA's furnitures inside.

Ha, I'm joking, but going full retro with vintage and antique decors would be too much to maintain and shit.
I think I'd get by with modern furniture but with touch of classicque here and there to spice things up.

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Hi. I think I'm developing an eating disorder..
I'm on these shakes which are meal replacement, I have a weight watchers meal for dinner and have snacks inbetween that.
I'm counting calories and tracking them on an app.
I dont feel like I'm losing weight but I've lost 9lbs in 2 weeks and I dont know if thats good or bad.
If I dont know the calories in food I wont eat it.
People at my work place think I'm stupid for going on a diet because im 'already tiny', but I truly believe theyre either being kind or taking my short height into thinking I'm an acceptable weight.

I feel like I'm on top of this at the moment but im worried I will become more obsessed.
I feel fine. Any advice?
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No that's normal. Eating disorder is in the mind not the body. I lost 30 pounds by being meticulous and over-aching with my food intake and I'm still losing even though my BMI is at high normal right now.
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>>18455075
Ok that makes me feel better. The few people in my life have made a big deal over my counting calories and have tried to get me to break my diet.
I'm not going to because once I start breaking it i know I'll break it every other day and then soon be back where I started.
They also think that me not drinking anything besides green tea and water is insane? Have you had similar situations? I never know what to say back to them.

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this isnt exactly asking for advice im asking for someone who has amazon prime linked to their twitch account so i can use it for PUBG. can i have it ples?
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How do I become the ultimate edgelord?
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>>18455002
wear a fedora, vape, and join antifa
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>>18455002
Watch edgy anime to start
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Play with fidget spinners

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so how long should one be working in a company without getting promoted or getting a job more relevant to your degree until you can say its a dead end and should look for work at another company?
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Until your frustration starts impacting your efficiency. But honestly there's nothing wrong with looking for better opportunities when you're already employed
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in todays work climate you should really be changing up jobs every 18 months if you're ambitious
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>>18455019
>Until your frustration starts impacting your efficiency.
Probably not going to happen, I'm already the technician with the highest productivity BECAUSE I hate this job and think its beneath me.

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I'm stuck as a neet for the next three months and need something productive to do with my time, what do?
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Hello everyone, I am in need of a new phone after my 3-4 year old Motorola Moto G is slowly giving up.

I want to spend around 100-200 € and I don't need a big screen as I've been pretty happy with the 4.5 inch screen but I'd definitely go bigger if the price is reasonable.

Please help me find a new phone, I appreciate any serious advice and help.
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Today was college result and I got 20.50 score out of hundred and I know its all my fault for being a lazy looser BUT WTF SOMEONE GET 100 out of 100 I am like shit nigga what happened and the second highest score is wait for it 63.75 I am completely blown away how the fuck and the ones that got 63 are from 1997 while the one that got 100 was from 1999 I can't comprehend this bullshit are there really that talented people or just simple case paper outing
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Iktf, I always wondered how some people manage to score full score
Most people around me think I am smart, but even if I learn and think I have got everything, I never score 100
It doesnt matter in real world though
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They study their asses off. They take good notes and they pay attention in class.
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>>18454879
Well some people dedicate their WHOLE time to studying because all their care about is having good grades and not improving (which might be the case for our guy) , totally wrong imo . We're not robots , I've known some of these people and they are completely failures in other normal stuff like communicating sport not relying on parents for differents tasks etc.

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How into eye contact? Everywhere I read that it's good and connects people and yet whenever I look someone in the eyes it just feels autistic and they're uncomfortable and creeped out. My appearance is not a problem, I've been told that I'm attractive a lot.
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It feels autistic, yes, but you just have to do it. Make eye contact for a few seconds, look a bit to a side (I think by only turning your eyes, not your head) for a shorter time, then make more eye contact again, repeat. If they are unconfortable it's either because you are doing too much eye contact or because they are the autists.
Try to not do something bad with your eyebrows, I mean don't frown.
Some people never make eye contact and that can also feel weird once you notice it.
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>>18454870
eyes like this make you fear ?
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>>18454884
>>18454884
Yeah I think I do too intense eye contact
Sometimes people give me that long stare 'why are you staring at me' during a conversation and it makes me feel like something's wrong.

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Hey anons.
I am sure I have a sex addiction. Yes, I am a young male and know an interest for sex is healthy.

For as long as i know(since i was a kid), sex has been at the top of my mind with everything I do. Every person I talk to and every topic we talk about, I can and do relate to sex.

It's not special for me to browse sex related sites, forums and threads for 5 hours on one day. While doing my usual stuff, I also keep checking if I have messages or updates on things.

Anyway. It has been getting worse and worse the last few years. I have been doing stuff that could be bad for me or loved ones and it's eating me up.
So far, I have switched studies over 5 times because my procrastination and addiction work together quite easily and I can't seem to finish anything.

Deadlines for work or school easily get pushed out of the way because I need to browse porn or chat with people. I choose to miss the train just because i haven't came yet.
I have a loving girlfriend who is the nicest to me and I don't actually want to lose her.

It's good to tell you guys this, but my question is: (how) can I stop these thought and behavior patterns?
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>be me 14 minding my own stuff
>chick being annoying kinda making moves
>1 year later we at our school's annual function she being total clingy kinda fucked up we ignore each other
>she got herself a bf I kinda felt like I missed an opportunity
>1 year later after graduation she again start getting clingy
>I am kinda annoyed and wanna know what should I do
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>>18454701
Tell her to stop and don't go bragging on the internet about getting attention from a girl
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>>18454701
wow, if she wanted you getting a bf is an odd way of expressing it

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>23
>Have good GCSEs and an IT Btec diploma (Distinction Merit Merit)
>Absolutely no money right now but Im saving up (work as a waiter)
>All my job experience is working retail, food handling, cashier work etc.
>Currently live on a sofa at my dads place and hold a deep seething resentment for my current lot in life

What are my prospects?
What kind of job could I get that lets me move out somewhere, long term or short term, just so I could have my own space?

Like working on a cruise ship or teaching people how to speak english abroad, or working in a summer camp in america or something

I dont mind being somewhere completely new on my own. I just want to work where I can save money over time, and live decently.

Any ideas/inspiration?

Not really sure what to do with my life and Im miserable. Nothings gone right for me in a long time.
Well I guess if you just count adult years then nothing has ever gone right for me
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>>18454687
I don't think anyone has any idea of anything here except something about redpills.

You got friends right? You should be able to acquire something through them.
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>>18454774

Ive got friends
Not sure exactly what I could get out of them though
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i had a friend who joined the navy, he's making enough money to support 2 kids at 22 and had no real qualifications or experience before joining, he really likes it, gets to see the world and shit, cameradery, free room and board

only downside is you're locked into the job for a term of service, which is normally 4 years unless war is declared or something, but thats no different than going to uni really

you also have to pass a bunch of physical fitness tests to join

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