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Are over 90% of females irrational or is it me? 2017-07-08 06:25:40 Post No.18497378
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Are over 90% of females irrational or is it me?
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I can't stop wondering if there's something wrong with me and my perception of women or if they are actually all crazy/selfish/irrational beings. Every girl I've dated, every woman I've encountered, every female I've seen online doesn't seem like an example of a sane normal person to me. They are immature, narcissistic, stuck up and I pretty much hate them. Don't get me wrong I'm not gay and I enjoy pussy as much as the next guy but all of my anguish in life has been caused by females including my mother, my female friends, the mother of my daughter who I lived with for ten years then fucked a bunch of random strangers behind my back, the girls I meet online dating who lead you on to think they're the perfect match then start acting just as psycho as the rest. What can I do to change my perception? I don't want to be lonely and not date women but they have been making my life a living hell and I just wish I could start thinking positively of them
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been wondering about the same. even the girls who look cute at first are extremely narcissistic and rude
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>what can i do to change my perception
start dating men. not being funny here, or serious for that matter, but the point is that when you date men you realize that they arent any different than women. you see these flaws in women because thats where your interests lie. the men you talk to tend to be on a surface level or just the ones you let your self get close to and you dont think about it too much.
ive dated women. then i dated men. they're both insane.
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>>18497381
Yeah, as soon as you think you found one of the nice quiet types they call you up in the middle of the night screaming at you and threatening suicide because you didn't respond to their texts that night.
>>18497382
That could be because gay/bi men are effeminate in nature in addition to the fact that being ostracised causes mental issues. If I could have a deep relationship with a straight man beyond the best buds realm then that would probably be best but I doubt there are many guys who could connect on any sort of emotional level beyond being friends without thinking its gay. Even living with another man has its social stigma let alone being non-gay "partners" financially, emotionally and otherwise. Besides when you have the natural drive to desire pussy you wanna get laid and if you don't like dick then you either suck it up and be lonely the rest of your life or fuck a gay dude and hate it. Don't think I can do either but don't think I can put up with women much longer either
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Coping with being above-average at best 2017-07-08 06:01:06 Post No.18497325
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Coping with being above-average at best
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I grew up in bumfuck nowhere with lots of dumbshits where I basically breezed through school and life and everyone thinks I was a genius. Before high school I actually believed that bullshit, but when I entered high school in an actual populated city with actual prodigies and genius that worldview was essentially crushed into nothingness.
I never got into the honor rolls and my academics never got past B's. However, even then I still somehow got successful with extracurricular and academic orgs enough to have a few notable achievements. I was still undeservedly praised for shit I am incapable of doing. This kind of shit happened even until after uni: people around me were better in every way possible (academics, activities, connections, athletics) but I still get ""successful"".
Now I'm working in an okay position in some nice company that got ""impressed"" from what I did on the interview with them. They offered me a position that is definitely a great deal for someone with no significant experience. However, I still can't shake the feeling of being a fraud. It's like I'm the only one who thinks I'm a fucking failure which would mean that everyone around me is very easily impressed, or that everyone is just giving me pity points for being so pathetic.
What the fuck is wrong with me /adv/? Everyone thinks I'm winning but every win I get I feel more and more like shit.
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>>18497325
the world isn't divided between geniuses and retards. most of us are somewhere in the middle, and like you said you are probably 'above average'.
so whats wrong with being there? you act like unless you're a genius you deserve absolute shit. maybe NO ONE deserves absolute shit a long as they can do the fucking job, who cares what their actual IQ is?
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>>18497325
As a guy who has just been going through this at uni, i understand how much of a cycle it is. How disappointed with your own work you are and feeling out of your league or worrying about if someone calls you out on it.
You're comparing your own identity to others perceivable identity instead of valuing the stuff you've done off your own volition.
Have you considered seeking professional help? Even having someone to vent to about it helps a lot.
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I'm from a somewhat similar situation to yours, except I honestly think I'm a bit more of a free thinker. You are doing well for yourself, though, better than me. It's a good thing you moved during high school instead of after.
So what exactly do you need help with, again? Why exactly do you feel like a fraud?
If this were your situation, would you break up with your girlfriend or what?
>Girlfriend of three weeks texts "I saw this really cute swiping app on TV. I'm so glad that I haven't felt the need to use these apps since we started dating. I haven't even checked it out yet, your support means so much to me."
>I decide to be chill about the "yet," even though it's a big red flag, and respond "I'm glad you feel supported and hopefully you don't need to check the app out at all. I'd rather be heartbroken and hurt than cheated on."
>Few hours later she responds "I was just thinking how i love that you didn't get upset with me for saying this. But I've cheated before, and so it's something I'm wary of. I have had problems with instant gratification, but I love you."
So I'm thinking of being clear and responding "If you cheat on me, I will leave you." But it's precisely because I've been more gentle that she's been honest about these things. I'm wondering, do I enjoy the sex and all while it last, keep chill, and leave her if she admits to cheating. Or do I give her that ultimatum, which may result in her no longer being honest if she does cheat? For all I know she has.
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>But I've cheated before
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I feel like these conversations are always much better to have over the phone than through text. The fact that shes hinting at using a dating app at all, then telling you she loves you, but she has cheated makes me think shes really fucking immature.
How old are you guys? Is this a fairly new relationship?
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>>18497226
Op plz drop the Thot
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You are all women right? i'm a male anon and i need some advice.
i just started dating this girl. she's 5'3, normal body. but she has double d breasts. would a Juniors XL tank top fit her?
i want to surprise her with a gift since she loves yoshi and i feel like this would be perfect, but i have literally no clue if it would fit her or be comftrouble for her to wear around the house
pic related
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>>18497194
Come on man, go bother /fa/ or something with this stuff, or heck, ask somebody in a store. Judging by this you're not much of a social hero though, so maybe it's not an option unless you want to open the floodgates of pasta.
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>>18497194
her poor back she needs to get smaller implants for her frame
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I'm currently dating two girls and I think im in love with both of them. The worst part is these girls are sisters what to do. I don't want to hurt anybody
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>>18497181
Well since there are sisters good luck and not hurting anybody. Only thing I can imagine that's good is if they're really not close to each other. Like I'm not close to my sister and I barely share anything with her.
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>>18497181
Become a Muslim so its legal
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>>18497206
Actually muslims can't marry their wife's sister
Lol'd tho
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How do I bring something up that i'm upset about to a girl (not my gf) without sounding like a bitch? I'm upset with her lack of recent communication, it feels dishonest, but I still want to be friends if she is being truthful. How can I bring it up without either accusing her, or making myself look clingy/jealous?
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>>18497129
"hey, I've missed chatting with you recently. Is anything up?"
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>>18497129
>How can I bring it up without either accusing her, or making myself look clingy/jealous?
Just don't be bitchy, man. Text her something short and sweet like >>18497229 says. I usually go for "hey, long time no see, how are you doing", or something equally cheesy, but sometimes I just send my friends memes or song recs or articles or whatever I find interesting. If they are interesting in having a convo, they'll respond believe me
also mate if your friend is busy with exams/family affairs or w/e else try to be understanding. I know no contact sucks but if there are serious reasons for that you gotta be understanding
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Gf's dad caught us having. Anyone experienced this before. Her dad saw us in the act from a distance (we were doing it an extension outside the House). I'd say you only saw me through window as I was on top and my gf was below the window. It is possible he might have just thought I was making out with her topless. She hasn't spoken to her dad yet but he hasn't told her mum. We're both in college and we thought both parents were asleep when we did it. Will the awkwardness fade after a while?
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>>18497011
*caught us having sex
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>>18497011
Why would it be a problem? He's the one who should be embarrassed, and if he didn't look away as soon as he saw what he was seeing, he's a creeper.
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>>18497023
I just think he might hate me now. We got along great and now be witness me banging his daughter like
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I hate the things that I say and do, and I have no idea how to change it.
I catch myself saying or doing things in social situations that don't accurately represent who I really am. Shit that would make me dislike anyone else if they were the ones saying it.
How can I get better at expressing myself?
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Give an example. Like are you being a beta bitch when you want to assert yourself, or being a dick when you want to be nice, or something else?
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I've got the same problem OP. No matter how much I try I say these stupid things I don't know how to catch them. I just want to be a good person.
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I am with you. I am thinking one thing and doing exactly the opposite. I can't hold myself and I have done such retarded things and self-sabotaged myself and reached the levels of being an asshole that shouldn't even be possible.
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Life advice from older heads? 2017-07-08 03:13:22 Post No.18496948
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Life advice from older heads?
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2017-07-08 03:13:22
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I'm a young guy 19, got a lot going for me, good life set up, working towards my aspirations. My main focus is maintaining my peace and avoiding the drama my peers seem to revel in, I'm not antisocial, I just prefer other types of fun and interaction instead of getting wasted and partying all the time, I'd like so me advice from more experienced men, on how to maintain my peace, what kind of people and activities to avoid, etc. Anything is appreciated
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from another 19
no one knows anything
they'll act like it but no one aspires to be great anymore
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>>18496948
there are only 2 things that really importnace
1.money
2.get your own family
Nothing more than this
but if you don't have this 2 thing
the questions , depression , confuse will ask for you
and... only good music is OLD music ONLY
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>>18496953
for got link for music
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nRk6sLhywLo
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>you must become a normalfag or otherwise your life will be hell
How the fuck do I become a normalshit? I don't even want to be one. I don't like to socialize I don't want gf, and NEET life-style seems like living like royalty. But for some reason everyone says that not having these things and not wageslaving your entire live is hell.
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>But for some reason everyone says that not having these things and not wageslaving your entire live is hell.
You say "for some reason" but the reasons seem pretty clear from your image.
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>>18496943
But i don't care about other people having family. I don't want it. But sometimes I feel lonely and when I happen to be in social setting, I hate it and I return to playing vidya
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>>18496960
Didn't you read the rest of the post in the image? Eventually, your parents won't be able to support you, one way or another. If your siblings have to take on the burden of your existence, the only remaining healthy relationships you have will be strained as a result. Do you really want to be the weird loser uncle in the lives of your nephews and nieces?
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Dude acting like a prick towards me to look cool in front of my girlfriend, what do? 2017-07-08 02:48:24 Post No.18496899
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Dude acting like a prick towards me to look cool in front of my girlfriend, what do?
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So basically there's this one dude, and idk he seems to hate me or be jealous of me cause the girl he likes is my GF. So me and my GF have our own Discord server and this dude likes to come on sometimes, however whenever he joins it's a pain in the ass. He's one of those "XDD IM SO RANDOMZ LOL" kids and blasts bad memes through his phone on mic but that ain't the point, I feel as though this dude hates me
I moved to Australia in 2014, and I'm originally from Scotland, so I've still got my Scottish accent. Whenever I'm talking to the GF occassionally he tries to imitate my accent as in taking the piss out of me for it, or he just calls me a dickhead or some bad insult and I don't know the exact reason why.
My guess is that this dude just has a crush on her and is pissed cause I'm her boyfriend, cause I've never said anything bad to the guy, I try to talk to him but he just doesn't give a shit
I've tried explaining to my GF the situation, she says that she's only known the guy for like 2 weeks so she doesn't know exactly what he's like personally, but maybe he just doesn't like a lot of people
It's not like I'm sitting here scared shitless of this dude tryna shit on me tho, I mean I'm the one dating the girl so I'm pretty happy with the way things are going
But just wondering if you guys have anything to say about this situation? Any reason you guys think this dude is acting the way he is?
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Just ban his ass, you own the discord server right?
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Any reaction is an overreaction. But the next time he mocks your accent you can always tell him to go fuck himself and then do not get drawn into an argument.
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Nah the GF made it, and she's like "OH BUT HE'S FINE WITH ME THOUGH" sorta deal
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Tl;Dr: Taking pride in your gender then saying you dont want to identify with it is attention whoring and parrotry.
When females beg for equality, then, in the same breath say how proud they are of their bodies and how proud they are to be female. As if being female or male was something to be proud of?
Seems the whole feminism thing is just the attention whoring of girls who are for the first time feeling confident enough to post a picture of themselves, but can only do so under the guise of a greater cause.
If I'm against someone identifying me as a nigger, and don't want people treating me like i was one, then i call my group the niggerists, people from all walks of life would put their hand on my shoulder and tell me sincerely that I had autism.
Be proud of your inner humanity rather than something society set on you (being female), and preach equality of your fellow human, your thoughts are no more a female than mine. So why identify with it. Anything else will only pull us apart further.
Thoughts?
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Who gives a shit?
These are my thoughts.
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>>18496832
Nothing else to do, thought a discussion involving a mindset that many have would be fun.
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You're actually retarded.
The NAACP exists and nobody bats an eye at the name.
Females actually do think differently
Your nigger thing is a terrible analogy since feminism and the root word female are not inherently mean like the word nigger
You talk about preaching equality but what's with the nigger stuff?
Every time I quit smoking I gain weight, and it seems to stick around.
I quit smoking (and drinking) two weeks ago for what I hope is the last time. Since then I've gained ten pounds. Will my metabolism ever catch up?
I've been walking for at least a mile every day and have been eating less and healthier (low carb, nothing processed). Still I keep gaining.
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>I've been walking for at least a mile every day
That's nothing. You lose like 100 calories for walking 1mile. That's like one fifth of a 100g chocolate.
Your metabolism is not your issue, it's your diet and physical activity. Count your calories.
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>>18496809
I didn't walk at all before I quit smoking. I was basically hikkomori, drunk, and chain-smoking for weeks.
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>>18496791
>Every time I quit
so you haven't really quit once
You've only quit when you don't have to quit again
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Well fuck me.
I'm a student but my uni is tiny and the girls there piss me off in alot of ways and aren't my type either. Also I don't know any people in this city.
Is approaching women on the street my only chance of meeting any attractive girls? I don't come in contact with them, apart from on the streets or in trains.
>also: why am I having such trouble now? I used to be able to approach girls no problem but now I'm fucking scared as hell again
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volunteer is the best option. you find tons of girl there and they think that you are a good person
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Don't you have any friends that have female friends? Try to find cool girls in some places where genders mingle, which shouldn't be hard if your not living in Mormon city. Befriend some, especially if your not attracted to them and their not you type. Here's why: Some of them might be awesome friends. They have female friends you might feel interested in.
"Girlworld" isn't some secluded space if your not a retard riddled with mommy issues.
And don't approach them in the street, that's an awful idea
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go out to places, try approaching a girl you have seen several times or go to bars
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Hey adv I don't feel comfortable having sex. I want to but I feel like if I go out and fuck I'll catch something. Condoms aren't safe bc they don't prevent skin to skin infections such as herpes. I feel super paranoid about this and don't know about fucking without catching something. Help?
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Fuck women you know and trust. STDs are only rampant in communities that promote random hookups: that's why gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV are so big in the gay communities and among hookers, but not in society in general.
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>>18496799
To add to this: You can never really know or trust anybody and Hell is other people. Good luck OP!
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>>18496755
You're not likely to get herpes unless someone is shedding or actively has a sore. Sex is always risky but using a condom greatly reduces the risk.
>>18496799
STDs are prevalent everywhere people have sex (read everywhere) and yeah hookup culture doesn't help but sex education is also super important here. A lot of people delude themselves into thinking they don't need to get tested because they're not the kind of person who gets that or they "haven't hooked up with anyone sketchy" when really THEY are the exact kind of person who is spreading disease by being uninformed.
>Condoms aren't safe bc they don't prevent skin to skin infections such as herpes.
Also OP you're choosing to focus on the possibility of someone having herpes on their scrotum or thighs when condoms reduce your risk of HIV and many other diseases by like 90%.