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what lead you into this situation?
do you feel like you have enough energy to get out of this on your own or would you need help?

>>18513897
I honestly don't know what the turning point was, ive been sad a lot in my childhood and worried a lot about my parents (divorced), but as I got older I got over it I guess, 10 years ago I started dating my wife we moved in together and I was focused on that then and happy, I started a new business and lost about 30,000 in 2 years and closed down...I was sad during that time tho...as far as over coming it myself if I knew the right direction to move in I could possibly..

>>18513914
how did you "get over it as you got older"? have you actually resolved the issues that made you sad then or have you just pushed them away?
how is your realtionship with your wife?
what about the kids? how old are they?

itßs understandable that you have a low when you experience stuff like losing a business. but hey, good for you to even start one. that´t not something a lot of people can say about themselfes. now you would need to pick up the pieces and start again, now with more knkowledge and experiene.

>>18513842
just show more clavage

>>18513900
how can i pull that off without risking my reputation?

>>18513842
>i feel like i somehow lost it.

you got fat

She's worthless, look, she cheated on her exes. She cheated on you, and she will cheat on you again. Have some self respect man, you mean nothing to her, she's a selfish, vile fucking whore and you can do better.. And even if you don't find someone else its better to be a alone than to be a cuck.. I know 4chan throws that word out a lot but if you stay with someone who openly cheats on you you're a cuck... Don't be a cuck man. I trust you'll do the right thing

>>18513855
Sorry didn't read the part where she has a new bf, just forget her man.. Keep yourself busy, find a hobby, go our with friends. Eventually she'll just be a vague memory

>>18513841
>Erm...sex is just sex, right? It shouldn't matter, right? Right? her having sex with someone doesn't mean she's worthless, right? God help me.
"Worthless" is a dumb way to put it. "Selfish, untrustworthy, shortsighted, inconsiderate, cruel, and whorish" would be better.

Sex is not "just sex" if you're in a relationship. There's supposed to be a certain level of trust, care and emotional intimacy as well. She obviously doesn't give a fuck about any of that, she obviously doesn't give a fuck about you.

You're basically like one of those girls who can't let go of her abusive boyfriend, can't let go of the idea that "he could change." She won't change, she doesn't want to. She's not sorry. I doubt she's capable of genuine remorse or empathy.

Caught my girlfriend cheating on me. Should I just kill myself?

How do I compliment a girl's appearance via social media without coming off as creepy?
A girl just sent me a snapchat clearing asking for a compliment now I am stuck on my end racking my brains on what to do.

>>18513333
Nah. Just dump her and move on with your life.
Sorry dude, it feels awful. But it goes away.

>>18513285
No, you will not die of the vitamin binge. Yes, you will die some day.

>>18513285
Aren't gummy vitamins for like... little kids? I assume you'll be okay. Is there even a limit to how many vitamins you can eat? I thought getting more just means they won't have any effect and they don't want you to waste them.

most vitamins in excess of your body's requirements are pissed out they probably have a limit on how many you should eat because they're fucking expensive and not candy you turbo retard

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The real question is, how do I get a girlfriend like this?

>>18513233
Be very attractive, with a great personality and then hit on very attractive girls till you find one who is a good person, too.

>>18513233
just keep masturbating to anime until sex robots are affordable and stop dwelling on these childish fantasies

My stomach feel like shit, feeling down, a bit dizzy and no will to do anything while feeling the necessity to move around every minute.

Which side effects exactly?

>>18513167
see
>>18513141
Also feeling very insecure to do shit outside my house. Been 1 week since my last time in the gym, I have a presentation to do saturday and I'm in panic just with the thought.

>>18512502

wrong. i tell girls how pretty they are all the time, i tell them how they make me feel, i open up about my life, and have never owned a car (thogh I live in a city right off the blvds so having a vehicle isn't as important as it is elsewhere).

also theres plenty of guys who are just waiters or bus boys or working retail with girlfriends, and yes they have hot girlfriends too.

at the end of the day all a relationship takes is being as attractive as your desired partner, and not being a complete mess.

You don't have to do any of that shit. It helps to do at least some of it.

Honestly, man, it's just NOT THAT HARD. There's a small minority of guys who truly have no luck, but 99% of the time, when a dude has trouble getting laid or getting a girlfriend, it's because he rarely approaches women, not because he's undateable.

Here's a more realistic list.
>don't be a total pushover
>don't put her on a pedestal
>don't be a completely boring conversationalist
>practice good hygiene
>if you don't have a job/car/apartment/whatever, be taking some kind of measurable steps to improve your situation

You'll notice that list is also what you need to do to be a minimally functional adult, i.e. shit you should be doing anyway.

Do those things and also regularly approach women and you'll find one who likes you sooner rather than later, I promise.

>>18512520
>at the end of the day all a relationship takes is being as attractive as your desired partner, and not being a complete mess.
I know what you're saying, but even people who are a mess get into relationships.

OP, there are millions of guys out there who have none of what you say men need to have and do none of what you say men need to do, and they still get women. So basically, you're wrong.

>>18512403
I think it's fine
vaginas look strange anyways, and connoisseurs of cullingus typically don't care too much on the looks of the stuff

>>18512403

some do. some dont. most don't really care. honestly by the time a guy gets to your vagina hes already gung ho on whatever his plan was. if he was intending to date you hes not going to say 'OMG SHE HAS AN OUTIE VAGINA'. honestly you are more likely to get that reaction from your belly button than from your vagina.

>>18512403

can't speak for most guys, but I don't prefer it

I would look for a cream with lidocaine, like the ones for mouth ulcers. A doctor could also inject it with lidocaine and place a small rubber band around it, it would atrophy and fall off.

>>18511541
I had/have three but ever since I installed a bidet on my toilet the have not flared up since then. It's been over 5 years now and life is great.

>>18512411
Bought one today. Stung like hell to be honest. Worried it may be an anal access and the doctor doesnt reopen till next wed.

Cold compresses are helping, got codeine but thats gonna fuck me with the constipation.

Dunno guys

I could be the first man killed by a hemorrhoid

How do I initiate

>>18511144
Step 1:

Go get your own girlfriend

>>18511284
Seconding this. Stop messing up relationships.

i do too.

Find a guy you like and ask him out.

>>18510939
What if he says no?

>>18514594
Csgo

>>18514705
rip too bad everyone cheats

>>18514728
You are kidding me right? If you are so bad that you need to accuse others of cheating instead of admitting how bad you are, you are lost case.

Download recoil map from workshop, when using any rifle use SINGLE SHOTS until you learn what is what, learn how to camp and when out of money simply buy ump.

Go to settings and set brightness to maximum and disable mouse acceleration and set up reasonably high sensitivity so you can do 180º turn with low effort and set up crosshair as static small.

>How do you even find someone interested for that kind of shit?
Mostly Tinder, or swing clubs if you have the stomach
>How weird can it be?
As much as sex with anyone. First time is like losing your v-card, for better and for worse
>Was it a great experience for you?
Not all of them, but the best ones were fucking awesome. Doing threesomes overall is on a positive balance for me

>>18514732
I see, thanks man. Also me and my gf both have little experience about sex in general, and maybe that's stupid, but I think we should do it later, when sex becomes kind of "repetitive" if you know what I mean. Am I a faggot or is that just right?

>>18514742
Partially right. That's not something you do to save your sex life or relationship of boredom. If someone does that to keep going with their partner, they're just lying to themselves.

I'd say if the opportunity shows, do it. It's quite rare to find a bissexual gf, and way rarer to find a second bi girl up to it. You don't pass an opportunity like that. Go for it, just don't get too paranoid and hurried.

he's got a bad case of the feels. he wants to take it slow. you can try harder if you want to speed things up, but you might damage your future relationship.

>>18514448
But if i keep things slow he maybe will lose interest

That's generally what happens when people get out of a serious relationship m8