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There's literally nothing wrong with being a nazi

>should I be worried?
are you Jewish or a gypsy?
if not, then no

>>18517945
The constant hating might get old after awhile.
It really depends on you, are you okay with these kinds of interests/behaviors?
Me personally, I'd get the fuck out of there. Just because I know I would get tired of the hatefulness spewing out. Unless you're like that, who wants to be around that shit 100% of the time. And you can't say it isn't 100% of the time if that's who he is. Even if it's not coming out he's probably having some sort of nazi thought.

>>18525277
Yeah, I've beaten out my brother's teeth and have had some legal trouble for yelling at people. just glad it happened years ago, they fucking lynch white people now for calling out niggers

>>18525277


Move out, loser

>>18525277
meditate. turn inwards. seek the root cause of your anger. then let it go

>>18525154
oh, and as a kicker, i have this cool friend who i dont really talk to that much but she invited me to a group chat anyways and its been fun hanging out. but even still she just has dissappeared in the chat for the past couple weeks.. and nobody really seems to talk anymore.

If it hasnt been made clear yet but i have issues with friends leaving

>>18525154
He's not even in the rain. He's just watching the rain.

Sound like you are running people off. Try sending them both a message and ask their reasons why, tell them you would like their advice upon how to improve yourself.

Also, talk less and listen more.

Bump, I'm going through the dame shit you are. By the time night comes I feel useless.

>>18525015
It feels terrible. I think I am dealing with it pretty optimistically, but I cannot take the idea of her with someone else yet.

Anyway, I think that getting productive is way better than start going out with random girls so I can feel "winning".

All the free time in the world man.
Go get physically fit.
Beat thing you can do for yourself.
Bike. Take morning runs. They'll wake you up. It's just a truly great feeling to be a top notch human being.
You're body will feel great and so will your mind. Focus all that negative energy into your work outs/outings.

>>18524929
I'm thinking about buying one of their laser system. I'm querious also. I've got a few fine hairs on my back and shoulders that I'd like to get rid of. Anyone buy a laser system?

>>18524929
1.) public hair
I don't see any potential problem

2.) body hair
it will grow in slightly differently

>>18525120
>laser hair removal at home kit
I would leave it to the professionals with their professional grade machines

>>18524929

I have a lot of chest hair and abdominal hair,
I just use a pair of scissors and cut it every now and then but never remove it completely.

Some girls really love hairy dudes.

That's just me tho... why do you wanna remove your body hair?

>>18524886
Search the Internet - my qt is my lg. We only play dom sub it's not the 24x7 that some are into. I did my research then we created a relationship that is us. I also created a fetish survey that we filled out then shared with each other. It helped give us direction and ideas for things to do in the future. Have fun. Start the covo with here are our safe words. Red = stop | yellow = slow down

>>18525173
I mean we've tried lot of things and I know most of her fetishes and limits and how to play around them comfortably and safely. In fact, she was very averse to having her arms tied up once because she "needs them" to stop me from making her cum too much or she'll "go crazy", but I gently pushed it on her until she learned that she enjoys going crazy.

My real issue stems from how I formatted like a bulleted list of punishments for her to "unlock" whereas most of our play is very organic, evolving from the mood. I just don't know how to add stuff to it.

IE:
>1. Finger her ass up to the second knuckle.
>2. Spit in her mouth.
>3. Pigtails, mascara, and lipstick.
>....
>10. Stepping on her face.

Any ideas?

>>18525270
Nipple claps or cloths pins. My qt needs a good spanking once a week or she turns bratty.

Make her ask permission to cum.
Have her stand in front of you naked - put your hand down close to her pussy the raise 1 finger and say Fuck my finger. While she's humping your finger belittle her. My qt gets off when I call her a filthy slut. Slowly move your hand so that she has to chase your finger to cum.

>>18524824
bump

Fucking own her like she's a piece of meat and serves no purpose on this planet except gratifying your immaculate cock.

Furthermore, challenge her limits and call her a miserable excuse for a human who gets off being shit on the bottom of your heels and slap her ass as you choke her from behind.

Chicks love that.

First of all, what is your max free time you have on average per week.
I would hope you are in school or have a job, and if not go get one.

>>18524797
>does it cut into your life and things youre supposed to be doing in a way that ultimately lowers your overall quality of life.

Its too many video games. Cut back. Prioritize.

>Is your life otherwise fine and youre up to speed on both things you have to do and things you care to do?

It is not too many video games. Your life. Do whatever you want.

>>18524797

I would recommend that you split your free time in half: half for video games, half for friends and other hobbies and interests.

If you don't have friends, that's OK, but if you don't have other hobbies and interests, please try to cultivate some. It may take some effort, but it's worth it.

One of the reasons that video games can be so tricky long term is that they give an artificial sense of accomplishment because you're always "progressing" in some way: they aren't passive like TV or movies. So it gives the false sense that you're being constructive in your time, whereas it's not quite the same as actually being constructive like learning an instrument or getting in shape or studying a foreign language or something.

Nothing wrong with video games, just make sure you also do other things to be a well rounded, interesting person.

Have fun!

Period sex isn't a big deal.

Gotta stand your ground mate.
If she's using the bjs as leverage, then tell her flat out she can't pull that card. Tell her under no circumstance are you ever expecting her to do shit, and if she chooses to do so out of her own free will that's on her and she cannot expect anything in exchange.

You can tell her to get on the pill so she doesn't even have periods anymore. Thats what the fuck I do because getting a period every month is so fucking inconvenient.

Anyway, I think your gf is being an immature baby. You are never expected to do anything you dont want to do, even if she willingly does shit she doesn't like to do for you that you never explicitly asked her to do.

I'd tell her firmly once and for all, no is no. You will not EVER fuck her on her period and if that is really a dealbreaking thing for her then so be it. Thats where you draw the line, its not happening, and you expect her to respect that.

For what it's worth, I can sympathize with her feelings to an extent. I think given the severity of her reaction it is less about missing out on sex for part of the time, and more about your rejection making her feel gross about herself and her body. Periods are kind of a sore point for many men - it's not really an exception for them to turn up their nose at a mere mention of periods, even if they think that graphic diarrhea stories are funny. Chances are that she has some level of discomfort/shame or embarrassing memories herself that play up now that her own boyfriend also does not want to be intimate with her when it's her time of the month.

Having said that, you are not obliged to do anything at all and she shouldn't even want to hold anything over your head to get you to do a sex act. You reluctantly doing stuff with her isn't going to make her feel better to begin with, no doubt.
If you don't want to do sexual things to her when she's menstruating then I do think you're not in the right place to expect her to compensate you for it ("shark week is blowjob week") but it doesn't sound like you do to begin with.

As for a compromise, do you still do sexual things together without penetration? I think even just a steamy make out session could help a bit with feeling unattractive, but I would also recommend something like mutual masturbation. It will drive the point home that you still find her attractive without you doing anything with the blood.

I hope this gives you an idea.

Focus on your education. You're gonna need a very high paying job to support those 5 kids anon.

>>18524755
It may be cliche, but YOLO isnt just a meme. It's a legitimate way to live your life. Do what makes you happy, even if its just for a little while.

>>18524757
Im doing a computer science degree at a very good uni, im on the right track.

>>18524753

unless you know specifically what oyu want it wont help much. having a degree in business is aversatile degree to get into really any business at an okay starting pay, but beyond that, eh.

i manage a business now and didn't go to college for it. I have a bit of a knack for it and perhaps others dont. but if you don't really know what kind of business you want to run its not going to be too helpful i would imagine.

>>18524753
>I would like to open and run my own store of some sort, would this be the way to go?
You don't need to get a degree to do this.

>>18524774


this is also an important note. having a business degree does make getting a business loan easier for sure, but on the flip side college debt makes it harder.

>>18524677

I think you need to atone for your sins, harlot.

>>18524705
If i murdered you then i will lol

> Just because i had sex and live with my boyfriend doesn't mean i am already evil and sinner?
Well, going by biblical standards, you are a sinner. Not evil or really bad or anything, but it is a sin.
That doesn't justify the way she's treating you though.
My best guess would be that she was genuinely trying to help you and was hoping that you would say yes and be happy or something, and now she is really disappointed.
Generally speaking, try to talk to her again.
You should both try seeing each other's standpoints. Ifyou feel this doesn't change anything and she's nothing but bitter towards you, let her go, it's the best for you and probably even her, seeing as how that's not the way Christians should treat others.

Lube helps, anon.

>>18524665
>How do I love again?

For starters you should start with loving yourself and moving on to better ASMR Artists...

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>>18524676

You know nothing of my loneliness

It's 100% normal to want kids, don't let her talk you out of it, and don't get married if you can't come to an agreement on this. If she hasn't changed her tune by 25-26 or so, you should consider moving on and finding someone else. I don't wanna burst your bubble, but this is one of the most serious incompatibilities you could have in a relationship.

>>18524592
Agreed, Anon, but I just don't think I'm ready to make that call yet. We're not trying to talk each other in or out of things, but we're having too much fun to really call it quits for something we're not ready yet for in the first place. That's why I asked her about our "deal". I'll keep my mind realistic that kids won't be some guaranteed ticket to a happy life, and she'll keep her mind positive that being a parent wouldn't be horrible or end any enjoyment in her life. Here and now, we're enough for each other, and even though I would like kids, they're not yet a dealbreaker when there are other options for fulfillment and love on the table.

>>18524570
You probably thinking you can change her opinions, just bear in mind that you won't change nothing, even if she really loves you that something hard to change and it's too much of a sacrifice for both of you.

i mean, if you want to bust a nut go for it. It's not gonna end well though.

>>18524566
Listen OP. Just ask her for a casual fling. Don't tie her down to anything.

>>18524566
Read Camille Paglia she's an awesome Feminazi - she believes girls should be sluts like the boys. I voted Trump but love the way she mocks the liberal Establishment. It's lots of fun to bash SJW from the LEFT. Also when you're riding her just as you're about to cum -- yell I love Trump and hold on for the ride.