/a/nons, it's almost December. Are you going to man up and ask someone out, or will we end up seeing each other on a bench again this year?
>Got a 3DPD gf early on
>Father has to move to the U.S for work 7 months in
I will meet another good p/a/l at the local bench.
if i sit on a bench in my neighbour i will most likely get robbed, well its not like i can somehow get a gril
Don't worry about them. They'll just be missing out and leaving two more women for the rest of us.
actually might make it this year if I don't chicken out or get rejected by the 3/4 girls I'm considering
Might seem like it now but getting cutesy with someone you like fires off some wonderfully scary things in your head Anon
Love can make you more productive
You just have to try your best, anon! There's a 51-49% split between women and men, so statistically there HAS to be someone for you!
There has to be someone for everyone, there's too many different kinds of people we can't just rule out everyone by dating just a handful out of the billions that there is
Had a good friend, instead of going to university she had a kid, and doesn't talk to me anymore.
>Living in the city with the lowest percentage of women in the country.
yeah no. those stats are better than worse, but you cant jump to that kind of conclusion
love exists, but as sexual attraction. men feel love for women much more than women feel for men. this is for two reasons. the first is that women are weak and because it takes so long to have a baby, they must be protected. it was very advantageous for everything about a cute female to drive us crazy about them. their form, their smell, etc. the more insane our genes made us for them, the more crazy things we would do to ensure they and their babies would make it, and that means the species is winning. the second reason is that as the baby makers, girls need to be picky about what they get. at a glance, this seems to make you think "oh thats good, after she chooses me, she'll want to keep me more." no, thats how we work. for a girl, picky means going for the next best thing that comes along immediately. men are not much of prizes, because our role in sex is easy and can be found anywhere. her job is very demanding, takes forever, etc. and because of this, she will wait as long as she can, and try as many as she can until mr. perfect comes, disregarding "love" for the most part.
of course this is just an averages thing, it's not like exceptions dont exist. im saying this because theres about to be a lot of shitters pointing this out at me as if it matters
anyway, your "love" is very real. her will be too, if you happen to be a very perfect man, in every way possible
I've seen this posted every year since it first started and in all those years I still haven't progressed in life...
I never actually understood this one. /a/ literally shouts 3DPD 24/7 since forever but for some reason the Amagami Challenge doesn't get shitposted not even when /a/ was more elitist than these days.
What is the reason for that?
>What is the reason for that?
Because /a/ has always pretended about everything since forever. And it does it because it knows what it pretends to be is much better than what it actually is and encourages otherwise.
>OP telling people to go to /adv/ and /fa/
Jesus Christ, the only thing you'll find in /adv/ is self-pitying mongoloids and the only thing you'll find in /fa/ is self-loathing mongoloids.
Here's a piece of advice, if you're well past your teenage years, chances are your hormones have settled down to the point where you have a good idea of what you want. If you dress like ass, talk like a retard, and have a shit attitude, and trying to develop conversation skills, dress nice and learn about subjects you don't give a fuck about is just lying to yourself and the person you're even dreaming about courting.
Just be yourself, for every half-brain no-good yabbo theres a handful of equally brain-dead and uncultured people willing to jump at them within a 100 meter radius. Just don't act like a fucking spaz because, "oh man how could anyone like me, im so autistic." Its all in your head, billions of people have learned to live with it, so can you.
/adv/ isn't that bad, for the normalfag boards that is. They can be helpful, but after a few days you might notice that it's really just the same shit all over and predominantly men asking for advice about women about the same inane things.
It's a front, really. Look at the old late nights ronery threads and you'll realize that once you peel away the bravado and endless cynicisms, quite a portion of /a/ actually do desire some aspects of the so-called normalfag lifestyle.
You know how you're being right now? Posting about your likes and your disdain about the comment? That's being yourself. Just communicate you, using words, and you'll do okay.
>/adv/ isn't that bad
For the most part it is
Also /fa/ are a bunch of hipsters
/fit/ is trying to be chad
Some people just need to be guided by someone who knows their shit and be close friends with them. Works better than any advice that the internet can give you
Part of why I stopped being a normie is because "just get laid and get a girlfriend brah" really means "get a hair cut, waste lots of your money on fashion, pretend to be someone else, and force yourself to be in social situations where you'd rather kill yourself than be there, and somehow magically know what to do in them". It really is tons of effort for such a small output, putting your penis inside of a 3DPD. It's incredible that the world thinks it's okay, to expend so much effort just to get your dick wet. "It's all jus game, brah. :^)" Not to mention how impossible such a quest would be when I can't even make real life friends.
It's still vague, there's still lines you need to follow
There's this too
They're good for fitness advice to an extent, sometimes they have good threads where you're bombarded with fantastic information but yeah, for the most part they're a bunch of closet faggots
I've never been to /adv/ myself so all I can say that /fa/ is shit. Look up what color goes best with your skin and hair color and buy some outfits, a good pair of shoes that suit most of your clothes and you are set. Also don't be lazy and look for clothes in your size, a bad fit looks terrible.
I've been getting the bench for three years now. The thing isn't that I have not the nads to ask her out, as a matter of fact, I've already even told her about how I feel about her.
The issue is that I do not want to lose her. To me, she's a pretty swell person to hang with and I am not exactly fit for a gf tier relationship, so I'm expecting to fuck up and leave things so awkward, we'll never talk or anything like that again.
that's my spiel anyway.
Dude what the fuck are you doing. You are stupid if you hang out with females that won't fuck you. She already sees you as her emotional tampon so just ignore her for a few weeks then ask her if she's down to it. Talk to 5 random girls on the street every day in the meantime.
And that's the thing normalfags don't and never will get. If I chose 'to be myself', I'll never even get a job.
It's 'be yourself only if it's a self that most people can accept'.
Everyone is already who they are, the problem is that many are afraid to be who they are in front of other people, which is flawed, because no one can live happily being something they are not forever. Which is why when presented in a situation of finding someone you want to be happy with, you have no other choice but to be yourself.
Sure you might fail more than you'd like depending on how you are, but the disgusting truth of the human race is no one is too deplorable by everyone
If you feel about her in a certain way, be true to both her and yourself. Thinking things are rushed is a preconceived notion you are imposing upon yourself to keep a fictional status quo to spare yourself the anxiety.
Nothing worth doing comes easy
No person is born solely a lazy fuck that only wants to waste away. There are only people who have a passion and people who have yet to find it. Whether you choose to seek it out is your own problem, but just because you are this way doesn't mean you're incapable of finding anyone who will accept you
Close but not quite
Don't be thinking there's some mysterious force trying to make you conform or whatever, people always think this and it's pretty silly. No one is out to get you
There's an underlying fact of being healthy and being useful to yourself and this is the being yourself, fuck the self that others can accept. It's more so do what you want to do within the confines of law and ignore the social ramifications
Thanks for the advice, anons. I'll take it with a grain of salt. We're meeting again either next month or March.
You two have a swell night and I hope you 'n' your waifus find peace.
Can confirm, was a NEET for 2 years with literally no human contact. When I returned to college even just being friends with this cute touchy girl that I tutored in math did crazy things to me. Mood/behavior/attitude included.
sage for blogshit but that's all these threads turn into anyway
I actually got a date with a boy tomorrow, so far so good /a/non-kun
>and because of this, she will wait as long as she can
Until a special moment called menopause hits and she becomes functionally worthless. Women are actually ticking timebombs when it comes to fertility.
newfag suck on my
gajin virgincock PLEASE!
me too brah, we gonna make it we gotta
I feel like living in an apartment with fellow weebs I hang out with is counterproductive to me meeting any girls. But this is the first time I actually bothered to read this challenge. ...I-I guess I'll try?
Plus as it stands, my room is covered with so much neckbeard-tier anime merch...including two really lewd body pillows.