What's the appeal of ojou?
They're usually just arrogant, entitled cunts or just frustrating because their status makes you feel like you're inferior to them.
Is it subtler masochism than what people who like violent tsunderes have?
Nothing subtle about it.
I want nothing more than for an ojousama to spit on me and call me a pig while dohohohoing~
Justified tsundere with high class benefits
I feel like I can't call the Nanami episodes shit without someone crying about the "symbolism" and "social critique" or whatever the hell. Utena is great, but the Nanamishit episodes sucked.