I've been trying to do this off and on for a month now but I can't delete Vshare off my phone
Not jailbroken and do not want to jailbreak
If you can't delete it (no X when the apps are wiggling), then it is a system app (installed in /Applications/ instead of /var/mobile/Applications/.
The only way some guy's app could be a system app is if you're jailbroken: sideloaded apps still go in /var/mobile/.
You should probably hook your jailbroken phone up to Redsn0w and use the "install Cydia" option, then install a terminal and use that to delete the app from /Applications/ .
Here's an idea: howabout instead of creating and bumping multiple threads with no new information, you wait until you have something useful to contribute?
All the information you've given so far does is paint a portrait of someone too stupid to delete an app off a phone.