>That one guy who messages you and wants to have a have a full on chat as soon as you login into Steam/XBL/PSN
Do you have anybody like this in your friends list, /v/?
Are you that person?
>that guy starts dumping all of his personal issues on you
>he does this constantly
>tfw you want to just unfriend him and tell him to fuck off but at the same time he's going through a lot of shit and you'd want someone to least listen to you if it were happening to you
Honestly, if I'm getting fed up with someone harassing me, I just fucking block them. Playing vidya is one of the only times in my life I get to relax and just kickback; nobody is ruining that for me. NOBODY.
I do that with people I'm not friends with in a heartbeat. Never understood why everyone's so thin-skinned in online gaming these days - if someone's giving you shit, just mute them and move on.
With friends though I only block them if they continuously do it to the point where I don't feel like playing the game anymore. I can get that the guy in my first post has a lot of shit going on in his life, but so does everyone, and I just wanna play some fucking viddy. I did end up finally unfriending him after I told him he's never gonna work his shit out by unloading it on me. He finally got back to me a few months after and apparently he took what I said to heart since he turned his life around.
>Friend comes online
>Shoot him a general greeting, ask if he wants to play something
>Always has some excuse before playing something else with someone else
>Eventually just stop asking
Hell I know him in real life, but we never play shit together and it pisses me off something awful.
I usually have the opposite problem - friends always hit me up for a game right before I'm about to log out and go somewhere and I always feel like they're gonna think I'm ducking them or something when I really do have to go.
We've been friends for 3 years, we always get along fine. He spent his birthday at my house as well as Christmas.
I know he's got problems of his own, it's just frustrating to have a friend who's into the same shit as you and then you can never actually play anything with them.
>In mutliplayer game
>People choose that time to pour out their feelings to me
>Get mad when I don't respond
Yeah I get it, I'm playing a game, you know I'm there, but it's a multiplayer game, I can't pause.
I get annoyed because I have other friends I play with on steam that I want to play with without being bothered
I dont get how a man can be so clingy to another man if theres no gayness involved. The dude gets sad if I dont play with him and even makes up blatantly false stories to grt attention
Sorrt for blogging but im so confused ;.;
>forgot to turn off message sounds
>person who types a novel one sentence at a time starts talking to you