Yes, still trying to get over the fact that this person who took my erp virginity would go on to ditch me for someone they believed was better. However, the person I was ditched for brutally mind fucked my crush. I think it was fucked up with what happened to my (now former) crush but don't expect any sympathy from me.
The funniest part is that I started coming to erp threads to escape such drama irl. I know, fuck me, right?>>1039997
More than once
Too bad either my trust issues caused me to dump them, or I feel insecure always fucked up me trying to do anything more with them.
Twice, first time we met up and found we had almost nothing in common and the chemistry we had online was not there irl. Never spoke again with him once I got home.
Second time we kept it a distance relationship and we have been great friends for years now.
Since then no, I just slut around and don't get attached to anyone.
Yes, only once. I like a lot of the people I choose to ERP with, and make friends with most of em IRL, we hang out, play smash, league, smite, Risk of Rain, I stream Kung Pow and shit for them etc. But I've only ever really fallen in love with one of them, and unfortunately he lives in Germany. I really hope he doesn't get killed or attacked by those mudslimes.
Once. Still have a crush on her. But like most people I've ERP'd with, she lives far from where I am. Last time I talked to her, which was 2 days ago, she was sick and was possibly having hallucinations. I can't help but feel worried, considering she mentioned she won't buy medicine and will just wait out the illness. And the fact that she ran away due to family issues at one point doesn't really help. I just feel like I'm bringing misfortune to her.
I can't do anything to help.
>Blog ends here.
Yep, and it went from ERP to phonesex & sexting. It was through her that I experienced the sensation of having hot wax dripped on my body. Ended up building her confidence enough to the point that she started dating, and we ended up breaking it off.
If you're expecting honesty from an erp relationship you are in for heartache.
I was in an online relationship with a guy I met on a game for nearly a year, we had regular erp and phone sex. I told him I loved him and that I wanted to be with him because it's what he wanted to hear, when he tried to force it to the next level I told him I was in a relationship and it wasn't going to happen.
He got extremely mad but honestly he should of known better, he actually thought I would drop my boyfriend who I'd been with for years for him over some phone and text sex..
Point I was making is that it's role play, it's not real dating and if you take it as so that's on you.
You can't make people love you anon. Best you can do is be someone worth loving.
Love you, buddy.
Are you seriously trying to pass it off his fault? You're a manipulative, narcissistic moron. Get a clue.
Piece linked me the thread and told me to post.
First person I had a crush on was my shitpost ERP partner from /Lolg/ on /vg/
second was a guy I genuinely fell in love with who one day told me he was feeling suicidal then disappeared for a month.
Third was somebody from the discord group that would shitpost ERP threads with the likes of Lizard and santa
Fourth was Mizuki.
Years ago yes. It developed into more of an "online relationship with regular e-fuckings" as ourselves than just ERPing. We broke up eventually because she out of nowhere goes "but i'm getting so many other offers".
Good boy, now go do what you want to do in life.
That's when you terminate contact as gently, but firmly, as possible. The best route to take is to maintain distance from your partner, OOC. If you've been cybering instead of taking up roles, that's more difficult. Just don't cyber if you're the sort to get easily attached, and know how to spot those who do. At the end of the day, relationships between partners hardly work out. When they do, that's great; it is not the majority of the time, though.
Tl;dr: treat it like a professional, but casual, relationship.
my situation is special.
I fell for a guy and messed things up really badly and he stopped wanting to speak to me.
So I started talking to him on a different account I already had and managed to patch things together without him figuring out who I was.
Then he fell in love with my second persona and I had to break it to him who I really was.
Even though I still loved him.
>Feeling sorry for him
Quite a few times in my history with ERP.
Just struggled with getting attached, in that regard. Now it's basically the other way around. I lose most, if not all interest in my partner following an ERP.
No, I'm only bacon...
I don't have time to ERP anymore, but did a ton back in my day.
Met a few, made love to even fewer. One that got away was some girl in Atlanta with a big rack and even bigger issues. Ended up getting knocked up by a bus boy at the sports bar she worked at. I still miss that crazy gal sometimes.