another rate thread, except in this one you list your pros and cons as a person, so that there is a little more insight provided for who you're rating
well read, fit, always loyal, decent wage for my age, can keep my cool when dealing with bad situations or angry tourists at my job, good with kids
pretty forgettable, a little vain, awful at keeping a conversation interesting so i often get ignored, skeletor, looks like a fuckboy in photos, unsocial, always thinks about the 'good old days'
I guess smart
Generally open to everyone
Not good looks
Don't explore thing too much
Artistic, Chill, Dog Person, Tolkien lover
BPD, Body dysmorphia, Probably too much of a wrasslin' nerd
Heavy on morals.
Literally can't deal with people to save my life.
Finds selfpity irrational.
Gets tired of people easily (myself especially, not pretentious).
Looks like an even bigger fuckboy in photos.
Damn your hair is delicious, 8.5
6.5, you seem cool as hell. We'd explore together.
Lack of passion and motivation sometimes
Chill, kinda smart, open-minded, determined
Somewhat depressive, lazy, somewhat unsociable
-A little lady
-I get along with anyone really, I don't give a shit who you, within reason. People say I'm funny.
-Laid back and easy going, nearly to a fault possibly.
-Artistic. Into music and film.
-I just like hanging out. People often say they feel really pleasant and without worry when chillin' with me.
-I felt like an asshole writing writing out my pros.
-Like I said, I'm probably too carefree in general. I tend to let important things get away from me.
-I talk too much.
-I go down with a sinking ship when it isn't healthy for me.
-Cannot spell for shit. If it wasn't for spellcheck, I'd legally be retarded.
-I steal jokes from TV shows often.
-My diet sucks dick.
these threads are always great
will do a long list just to annoy petty people
well-read (for age)
doesn't hold grudges
apparently i dress well
willing to spend an extortionate amount of time doing things for the benefit of people i like
varied music taste
attempt to understand all points of view
i tend to forget things that are actually important
i assume that i'm better than other people
i don't leave the house
quite a lot of people would find conversation with me boring or grating
my principles might annoy people
i get pretentious when discussing '''''''''''''deep''''''''''''' things
mostly apathetic towards material well-being of myself (so i'll probably never have a fantastic career)
might nudge you to adopt a healthier diet
will vote mean of appearance and described personality
i don't really talk to people often in person, but i'm pretty sure i could get along with you well
would discuss books and music with
i can sympathise and almost ignore all of these negatives desu
i'm pretty much indifferent to all of them, but i suppose forgetfulness is a detraction
>Don't explore things too much
emphasise on this?
i'm pretty sure a while back you said that you like math, i mostly get along with people who like math
would be fun to talk with you, probably
will continue next post
Honestly, I feel like rating people's personalities to be too tricky. So I'll say what I'd do with you and rate you normally. Sorry if it doesn't go with the rules, phams
Would chill with. Would not get jealous when women only talk to you when you're with me.
Would chill with to the end of time. 7.5
Would jam with. 7
Would hang out with. Seems like spending an unplanned day with you would be fun. 9
Would also chill with. 8
Have a deep, pseudo-intellectual debate with. 6.5
Wing man for. 6 - 6.5
I feel you on your con's. I too have a problem keeping conversations rolling. Still a cool dude though
Nice guy. Your Pros outweigh your cons for sure.
7.5 You seem like a really cool/chill fellow. +points for dog lover
I really like your honesty. You seem like a down- to-earth person who knows who you are and would be cool to hang with.
5, your pros and cons sound like a stereotypical lonely autismo
8, I dig it gingy
Jesus, you're all fucking boring
>I can make a mean grilled cheese, my aux tracks are straight fire.
>Active and working on financial shortcuts
>poor uni student
>Not very sympathetic
>Get bored s u p e r easily
I can really get along with anyone, but I usually dump people off that I get to know. It's hard meeting people like me :(:(
those are some pretty big cons (though they'd matter more to a relationship partner than a friend)
i think you're too directed towards the arts for me to be able to discuss too much with you
not sure if i'm a bigger fan of this hair
i'll give it time
morals and hatred of self-pity are fantastic, as i've said before
another thing i've said before is that you'd have decent utility as a person in my life; i'm sure i'm going to lapse on my will/drive at least once more in my lifetime, and you'd probably be decent at convincing me to not be a bitch
hair isn't that bad desu
shorter sides and you're set, the quality of your hair (rather than the style) seems pretty good
lack of motivation sucks, but i actually enjoy motivating people
i should've added to my positives/negatives that i sometimes treat people like personal projects and try my hardest to improve them
loyalty is good but it has to be proven
i'm not too sure i like what 'open-minded' means anymore
it's become synonymous with ultra-progressive
determination is great and you look smart (and that's at least slightly indicative of intelligence)
unsociable is my thing, laziness is not
>a little lady
as above, laziness sucks, but i was lazy not too long ago so i suppose i should overlook it a little more
can't determine too much from this post, though
will continue next post
this thread is good at sapping my time
we'd at least be acquaintances if we went to the same university or something, but likely more
laziness and captain, we're sinking are, again, not the best, but i derive some enjoyment out of helping people fix these things so i suppose there's that
you also like good music (see: the same music that i like)
is dishonesty meant to be an ambiguous in whether it's good or not?
wit, intelligence and thick skin are great
most are, really, apart from misanthropy and dishonesty
what are you studying, anon? this might help
grilled cheeses are pretty a-ok
our personalities might clash after a while, we'd probably want to talk about entirely different things and partake in different activities
alright, bump up to a 7/10
10, trust me i'm sure my diet is far worse.
>I go down with a sinking ship when it isn't healthy for me.
i can relate to this one a lot
i agree, i think me and you would get along well. i feel like a conversation with you probably would be on a subject that interests me so my 'can't keep a conversation' con would be void. i like seeing you in these threads because you contribute the most
7, the dishonest con just sticks out to me. at least you are honest about it, ironically enough
5'10 usually but 5'11 last i measured
Not a fan of the dog person tbqh, most encounters I've had with those have resulted in showing their lack of decency regarding caretaking and priorities. 5
You don't have bad hair perse, the styling is just poor. The cons aren't that severe, although lack of passion might stump you in several areas of life. I got told I was unpassionate by my ex several times though so we can be friends regardless. 7
Being lazy kind of counters the claim that you're determined. 4
Bit too ambiguous on the traits, hard to get an image of what you're like. 5
Insomniac is a pretty big con since it probably limits your common day. I'm not the artsy type but it probably means you're pretty open to new things.
>Would kiss on forehead during drunken frenzy. 8
I can't handle cynics, you remind me of my ex. 3
The point was to get a clear cut image of who you are as a person, that you can make a grilled cheese and your tracks are fire don't define you.
You seem like the stereotypical american, frats anyone? 5.
I missed you, I apologize.
I feel like you're the biggest logical thinker here of all. However I also feel like you're like me and have to get to the core of arguments just to settle the issue. This'd be regardless of whether the subject was of great importance or didn't realistically matter in the slightest.
I also feel you'd destroy me in an argument and hence I find it difficult to see us work together. 7.5
Out of curiosity, how stubborn are you in defending a point that you know is a already a lost cause?
Not as a devil's advocate, I'm on about a point that you agreed with at the start of the conversation but had been convinced otherwise at some point in the discourse.
I might've been right to add this to my list of cons
I'm not too sure why I do it
He (probably) meant personality traits
Pros: chill guy, smart, smooth motherfucker, loving, can keep a good exciting conversation.
Cons: I am an unloyal piece of shit, im lazy, im a bossy asshole, angry, loud, obnoxious, oblivious. (Cheated on my last gf)
decent with money
i talk awkward
kind of judgemental but im aware of it
pretty much a normie
I was referring to the personality traits that you listed. I'm fully aware that you're male mate.
It shouldn't be a big issue to admit defeat in that case but it'd bother me greatly regardless. I don't really instigate arguments about subjects that I don't control and usually just leave them be.
In a specific situation where I had been admitted wrong though I'd probably attempt to find a loophole that proved my point ever so slightly.
I'm a piece of shit when it comes to relationships due to this because I'm perceived as cold and careless. Something women seem to hate.
I'm as cheesy as my grilled cheese, mang
cry about it
Probably business and/or marketing. I have enough cash to start up something small, but I'm working on building a grow room in my house. What kind of activities are you in to, anon?
I had the same issue in my one previous relationship
I recall the phrase "you're too logical all the time" at least thrice and the label "robot" at least a dozen more times.
I'm sure it was frustrating for the both of us (that is, me and her)
My current girlfriend actually admires the trait, though. I can't say I've been more relieved about something for quite some time.
>Probably business and/or marketing.
I'd assumed you'd started, unless you have but you somehow don't know what course you're taking.
I like to read, mostly. I don't really like many other things. Despite that, I seem to spend more time posting on here than reading.
I also study, but that's something I dislike.
Clearly, my activities are limited in number.
Hello /soc/. Incredibly depressed today. Be as brutal as you can with your rates, I want to improve myself wholly, and then I will find someone that I'm truly worthy of having.
>Musician of 20 years, passionate about community emotions and art, great cook, 6'3", so-so shaped body, always have weed on me, always aspire to be something 10x greater than anything I was the previous day.
>Suffer from ADHD depression insomnia and specific social anxieties, introverted, extreme nerd, hard to talk to at first, haven't worked out in a long time.
Try to stand out more and you sound like A1.
You do have great looks. The socially awkward thing is what's getting in the way, I deal with it all the time.
Can't go wrong with nerdgasms of LotR.
If you can't deal with people, then first you must deal with yourself. Once you finish that, others will be easier to come in contact with.
I think you're downrating yourself. There must be more pros. You look quite attractive to me. The posters in the background say more about you than you are saying.
Nothing wrong with not being a socialite. Being smart is always a plus.
A little lady? Wat? You look alright to me, I think changing your hair and fashion might make you look older IMO.
Ayyyyy gingabro. Carefree and living in the moment is nothing to be ashamed of. I wish I was more carefree. There's nothing wrong with stealing jokes, talking, or spellchecking. You look pretty fit for not having a good diet. True story, you rule.
It's easy to forget many things, and pretension on certain subjects is born within everyone, friend.
If you think you're elitist, then just start stepping in other peoples shoes. You'll soon find that there's no such thing as an elite.
I can tell you get bored, no reason to tell others that they're boring. Weed is not bad man.
I got into way too many arguments that ended with "Do you really love me?". It's not that I wouldn't want to change, it's just that I can't correlate caring for the other person and just accepting that they're wrong.
There's nothing wrong with being wrong, atleast I tell that to others.
If you think you're unloyal, then challenge yourself by injecting your emotion into a relationship that you care about.
Nothing wrong with talking awkward I do it all the time!
Reading is so universal that it kinda makes up for the lack of other activities. I'm an undeclared major. I don't know if that's a thing at all unis, but we have it here.
Well, it is a rate thread.
also 9, you seem like a pretty cool guy, join STS9 lel
I actually like that you can be vain without seeming arrogant. 8.5-9
You've got the social skills mang, if I had to guess I'd say it's anxiety/self-doubt holding you back. 6.5
If dogs like you, that speaks well of ya. 5.5
8.5. I reaally relate to the bit about getting tired of people, was planning to list it in my own cons.
6. The way you've described yourself makes you sound kind of flat and boring, but maybe you just aren't motivated to write more.
Aaah, I can relate to the letting things get away bit. Kind of a lot. You seem like a humble, self effacing guy, I like that. Don't steal jokes though mannn 6-6.5
Funnily enough, I got a lot of these vibes from you in the assumptions thread you posted in, but now it's too late for me to take any credit and have anyone believe me. You were definitely one of the more intelligent people posting there, and someone with that kind of keen insight and reserved style is bound to dip into arrogance and wind up feeling isolated. I feel like we could be friends, but I'd be playing devil's advocate for humanity. 7
I like that you listed cynical as a con. Too many people see it as the inevitable consequence of wisdom or intelligence, when it's really just a perspective. One that grinds people down. 7
Actually, you don't seem very empathetic. 5.5
Then there's me. Let's see...
Good listener. Attentive and understanding.
Good at reading people.
Articulate, good at learning, and generally reasonable.
Committed to growth.
Let opportunities pass me by.
Inevitably get bored and contemptuous of pretty much everyone. Feel contempt for myself as well.
Maybe a little too idealistic.
Have difficulty getting started, getting rolling.
Quick to judge.
I always forget to post the pictuuuuuure. Add that to my list of cons: absent-minded. Distractable.
>the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
Oh I do. 90% of /soc/ has basic introvert personalities that are easily understandable. I went through most of my teenage years being a sadkid, then I grew up. :^)
>there's nothing wrong with being wrong
Now teach me to phrase this in a way which doesn't make me appear to be the most arrogant fucker on this entire planet
I don't think I would want to change, though
Being honest, you've probably got about 4/5ths of the entire pool of the female population to choose from, shouldn't be too unlikely that you'll find a person more suited to thinking over feeling.
What's the time difference between these two pictures?
>I want to improve myself wholly
Truly solid attitude, anon
I'm on the same boat as you. Improve ad infinitum with me
I always find being adept at cooking to be a great trait, too (probably because I cook myself)
>passionate about community emotions
what exactly is this?
I get a vibe that some of my views might be conflicting with yours to a fault (this is only a problem if it unsettles you, though), this happens far more often than not, though.
Probably 7.5/10 (mean of appearance and personality)
You seem pretty smart yourself.
I'm assuming (hopefully correctly) that your sensitivity is not at conflict with your ability to be reasonable
>Inevitably get bored and contemptuous of pretty much everyone.
I should've put this in my cons too
I honestly would be friends with a lot of people here, but I feel that I would too soon prefer to be alone again. I wouldn't want to abandon someone like that as I have done too often before.
I see a lot of similarities with me, though:
Lack of common sense
You sound like a nice guy deep down but I rated you pretty low because due to the cons you posted I don't think I would ever find that out in real life... like, I would notice the introversion and anxiety first and then not get to know you well enough to find out about the pros
Disloyalty is something I hate, cheating is even worse. Bossiness, laziness and anger are also extremely grating in unison.
Competitiveness and frugality are nice
Rationality and open-mindedness are so often claimed (and falsely so) that I just ignore them in list of pros.
None of the cons are cons though, and you do look reasonably reasonable.
List isn't comprehensive enough to be too indicative of anything. You seem like a typical friend/acquaintance that I would associate with in school to avoid the judgement of being a loner.
I don't know
social anxiety, unattractive, reclusive, have very little in common with most people
lol Very funny, you gave me a 3/10, then a 7/10. Which is it?
First of all, nice dubs.
Secondly, The picture in the tan shirt was taken just 15 mins ago. The picture with the hoodie, red glasses and long hair was taken a month ago (basically what I look like with the hair down and not up), and the final short hair picture was taken about 3 or 4 years ago.
>Passionate about community, emotions, and....
is how that should've looked.
If you have viewpoints or opinions on life or whathaveyou, then good. You're doing it right. In fact I think everyone should have their own opinion to anything. It will only bring humans a few steps closer to being unified in the first place. We're meant to have different permutations of thought so that we can help and nurture each other, not destroy. What kind of thoughts do you have that you think differ from mine?
Thanks for your brutal honesty. My problems are both a blessing and a curse. Hard to explain, but I've gotten that same answer before.
Dude, if that's the filename to your picture, then I'm not sure what you're doing here...
Yeah, I don't think it is.
I'll admit that I take a lot of joy in outdebating the glasses-wearing-arrogant-NEET type people who pride themselves in being more rational than everyone else.
> I wouldn't want to abandon someone like that as I have done too often before.
Fuck, man. I literally said this to a girl a month and a half ago. I feel like such a social nomad.
I jokingly rated you a 1 before for that comment, but then I read your info. You legitimately are an asshole. Would avoid. 2/10
Seems like a normal, chill dude. 6/10
Bad motherfucker 10
Opps, missed yuh, Froman. I'm an extrovert too, when I'm not feeling sick from being so tired. Would chill with. 8
I appreciate your honesty with your description of yourself, even though you said you were dishonest in it, haha. 6.5
You seem like a cool guy. 6.5 - 7
Might just be in my experience but most women take "It's not you, it's me" positively as long as it's beneficial for them. Obviously you'd want to base it on something that they can't argue to make the risk of just sounding daft void.
I had a pretty strict childhood and so I used to based my arguments as to why I'm more of a logical thinker on the fact that my dad was the same. Women appreciate the will to change, not the change itself.
If we want to save time you could just introduce me to your girlfriend and we'll be set mate.
You sound like a dipshit.
I definitely should've put more effort into my pros and cons list.
I'm sure the young look will help when you start to get older also good pros 7
Cool, nice, honest, and tasteful guy. Would definitely hang with. 8.5
I think you have good style and like your pros. The attempt to understand all points of view, enjoys learning, and the willingness to help those that you like really stand out to me. You seem like a cool, interesting, and intelligent person. 8.5
Damn man...those are some really bad cons. I'm gonna say 2.5 but if you cut being a cheating, angry, loud, obnoxious,bossy and oblivious asshole it would 7.
seem like a chill dude 7.5
Stop with this bullshit 'woe is me', 'please pity me even though I believe myself to be better than you because I'm so unique and different' mentality.
>What kind of thoughts do you have that you think differ from mine?
I suppose I'll just list some and expect at least one to be a point of conflict.
I'm not actually up for discussion right now, though. It's approaching 3am and I don't want to fuck my sleep schedule up again after following a decent one in recent weeks.
Far-right wing economically
Cultural supremacist (in that I believe that some cultures are far better at promoting a prosperous civilization than others)
Social darwinian (not absolutely, but more than most (mostly in that weakness should not be incentivised))
Lack of belief in the significance of human life (not that human life ought to be destroyed without a second thought or anything)
Perhaps other things. I actually like disagreeing with people in theory, but in practice most people are really bad at debating hypotheticals and detaching their emotions from their points of view.
If we want to save time you could just introduce me to your girlfriend and we'll be set mate.
If anyone could replace me, it'd be you.
I'll pass on this invitation for now
You could still update it
You just look interesting to talk to, by the way
I'm really unsure as to what attribute gives off that vibe
This is good. Nobody is solid on econ, sociology, evolution, or human existence. It's good to spread your views to something that may not be recognized as 'civil' or 'good'. Both left and right will win in the end because only a united race can fully realize a true prosperous civilization. That's just what I think.
Yo ginga, you are a badass mothafucka. Picture me some riffs my good man.
Pros-I make lots of jokes, can hold up a conversation, im always down to listen to peoples problems, i love to learn about new music and shit by talking to people outside of my area
im also a good cook
Cons-I can be forgetful in talking to people, I am at times very self absorbed/self centered, im awkward until friends with someone
i am not good at making baked goods
id give you an 8/10
5/10 if you cut your hair could get up to a 6.5
if you got rid of the chin fuzz or changed the hairstyle youd be a dime, they just dont compliment each other imo
your hair is fine, work on a beard too
i give you a 6.7/10
i would give you extra points if i could see full fro, but since i can't 6.5/10
8/10, your beard makes you very daper,
5/10 but pros indicate i would totally sit and pick your brain
shorter hair 6/10
longer hair 7.5/10
you look like a cool dude 7/10
idk i just really like your face 9.5/10
At least I'm cosmic
Yeah, it's improved with my new job in sales but you can tell it doesn't come naturally
Thanks famalam. You seem like a cool guy, would vidya with. 6.
Pros: good dad with an amazing kid. musically inclined. Plays multiple instruments and sings. Writer. Fighter. Tall and strong. Work hard play harder. Explosively personal and interactive. No brakes, no pauses. Concealed carry permit holder and truck owner. Saves turtles trying to cross the road. Not interested in fuck and forgets.
Cons: work too hard for my own good. Doesn't know when to quit. Too open too often. Fights with anyone for anything. Stubborn, judgemental and pigheaded. Foolish, full of bravado and terrified to let go and love someone ever again after my ex wife bailed out on me and my son.
-introvert wishing was extrovert
These rates probably shouldn't mean too much now
=====5 is average =====
always the lad 8/10
=====5 is average=====
better pic, f a m
I put others first
I'm not materialistic
I try to do good...
I can make a mean bacon and egg sandwich.
Not that good looking
I'm a loner .
I'm loud, as in I'd quite happily yodel through the streets without much consideration for others ear drums.
I worry/overthink a lot.
You're a cunt for cheating.
Personality: No clue, need more info.
Looks: Hahaha, what the fuck are you doing Jedward? 8, but god damn man.
Personality: 7?, wrestling is a pro my friend.
not feeling too much substance from this list desu
always respect a cook tho
+++being an actual good dad
writing, lack of interest in fuck and forgets and conceal carry probably mean we'd get along
last con sucks entirely (for you)
i can relate to these
+++masks contempt and scrutiny of the world with a layer of irony and memes
true honesty implies a lot of other pros, and i'm sure ur a gr8 cook bb
>I try to do good...
hit me in the feels anon
feeling all of your pros
reminds me of me but raised in a different environment after a certain age