/vt/atv/ - Virgin Talk/All Things Virgin Literally just a place

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>>23301015
>A/S/L
20/Female/Georgia U.S.
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Singing, recording, music/ Chick-fil-A/ GSU
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Choice, I'm a church girl
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
No, not at all
>If/when you think you'll lose it
When the time is right
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Nope
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
Hell no
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
Probably all of them
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
No
>Have you been teased about it lately?
No
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
No
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Haven't really thought about it
>What would you like it to be like?
Perfect
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Typical cliche stuff. Broad chest and shoulders. A guy who has his life together really.
>Anything else you'd like to share?
No not really.

>>23301147
Do you believe in God?

>>23301147
A church girl on 4chan? YEAG RIGHT

>>23301229
Yes. I know I'll probably get hate for this but I don't want encroach on anyone's beliefs.
>>23301238
I'm new here. A friend of mine told me about this site.

>>23301269
This site is full of anti Christian anti church related things INCLUDING sex and nudes...that friend might be trying to see you naked

>>23301147
This must be bait

>>23301269
>Yes. I know I'll probably get hate for this but I don't want encroach on anyone's beliefs.
I just think it's a dumb reason for waiting is all. Kudos to you I guess that an eternity of pain and fire is actually enough to keep you from having sex. Couldn't say that about most Christians. But then even people who do for some reason blissfully never realize that other sexual acts than vaginal sex are considered sodomy, so catholic girls give handjobs and blowjobs and think that's somehow better.

although... ->

>I'm new here. A friend of mine told me about this site.

>show up on /soc/
>cocks everywhere
>guys meeting up to blow each other
>"better post my pic"

I'm not really believing this.

>>23301287
Yeah he warned me about the stuff I might find on this site but it's not as bad as I thought it'd be. Some of the boards are even very "normal".
I just wanted to get to know him better

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>A/S/L
M/28/UK
>Contact info
Only if someone asks for it.
>Hobbies
Video games, reading
>Employment/Education
Uni/college drop-out
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Girls don't even look at me, they're looking at the hot guy behind me.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Sometimes.
>If/when you think you'll lose it
Realistically, never. Not unless society changes somewhat and guys like me are held in higher regard than the guys currently at top of the food chain.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
It manifests to every aspect of my life.
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
I don't like the idea of paying for it, I can only really get a boner when a girl actually likes me.
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
They can tell by looking, I'm the virgin archetype. My appearance screams "this person has never seen a vagina."
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
Not really, I don't hide the fact if it comes up.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
Nope.
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Usually every day, I fap but don't cum, I will fap every day but only cum on the day I'm having a bath so sometimes three times a week, but I can't help fapping every single day. if I'm on the internet I get drawn to porn.
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
ok i guess
>What would you like it to be like?
like in porn
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Legs genrally, thights/knees/feet, shemales, chubby girls, flat/small breasts.
>>23301015
>. A guy who has his life together really.
My biggest flaw in life haha.

>>23301307
See>>23301295


There are cocks everywhere and the literal scum of society on here. There will be guts begging for your kik just to get nudes.. Then again the bible never said sending nudes would send you to hell so maybe we might get lucky

>tfw no chaste christian gf that scolds you each time you have a boner

>>23301320
I have no intention of sending ANYONE nudes. I just figured it'd be interesting to try something new and profane without having to fear of any real consequences.

>>23301361
Never said you would, but guys will ask. Besides trying something new would be sending nudes like on SC or whatever

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>>23301361
>I just figured it'd be interesting to try something new and profane

that's how it always starts

>>23301383
She is a qtpi. Wouldn't mind seeing her tits

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>A/S/L
20/m/aus
>Contact info
if you want
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
uni student
hobbies are sports, vidya and weather monitoring
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
take a look at me
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
yeah kinda
>If/when you think you'll lose it
who knows, could be this year or in 10 years life is weird
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
not really it's just annoying
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
no it wouldn't feel right
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
probs all of them despite me never directly mentioning it
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
ye
>Have you been teased about it lately?
no
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
ye
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Nerveracking but glorious
>What would you like it to be like?
Just glorious
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
vanilla stuff but with a bit of latex and light femdom thrown in
>Anything else you'd like to share?
No

>>23301361
Would trying something new being sending nudes? Otherwise you're not doing anything profane.

Also you should post a timestamp cus I'm going to assume this is a troll otherwise.

I get jealous of younger virgins than me such as >>23301402
but then I realise you might end up like me, approaching 30 and still a virgin so my best wishes to you virgin-chan,

>>23301372
>Besides trying something new would be sending nudes like on SC or whatever
That is true but so is jumping off a cliff would be considered trying something new also. Both of which I have zero intention of doing. I'm not stupid enough to be so easily manipulated on a website as to send some random stranger nudes.
I came to see what people are really like here not trade naked photos of myself with strangers. I see it a bit like a Safari or an expedition really.

>>23301432
People here want nudes, that's what we are really like, also jumping
Off a cliff is fun you should try it, or jumping out of an airplane 10/10 would recommend

>>23301432
One would kill you, one is a fun sexual activity.

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>>23301421
why would you wish that on me ;_;

>>23301432
>I see it a bit like a Safari
rude

>>23301448
This.. Albeit cliff jumping is pretty* safe to an extent if there's water at the bottom

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>>23301450
You misread me Champ, I'm saying I don't wish that on you.

>>23301440
>People here want nudes, that's what we are really like,
Well they're not going to get them. I guess I'll just browse /fa/ maybe even post there from time to time if people just want nudes on this site.
>also jumping
Off a cliff is fun you should try it, or jumping out of an airplane 10/10 would recommend
With a parachute obviously
>>23301448
>fun sexual activity
Sorry but I don't share that sentiment.

>>23301481
All the boards want nudes or contact info eventually

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>>23301476
My bad
You'll get there senpai I believe in you

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okay so not a virgin anymore but i sympathize with a lot of you.

>been a loner all my life
>depression, anxiety, all the good stuff
>basically spent all my time indoors
>made an account on some chatting app, added some pics and info about myself(not a dating app though)
>met a girl, spent fucking 3 or 4 months talking to her but was too scared to meet her.
>we part ways and have a shitload of regrets.
>meet somebody else, somebody way out of my league but we hit it off so well its unbeliavable.
>i had a lot of flashbacks of what happened with the last girl i spoke with all day, every day and knew i would have to meet this girl or i'd fucking die from all the regret.
>got sent to the army (its mandatory here)
>knew i had depression so i was sure i would get released
>we made a "bet" with the girl; if i get released i'll travel to her and we'll get drunk or something
>got released, felt so "lucky" and relieved, gotta go back in 12 months
>decided not to overthink and just took a bus there (300miles) and tried to be myself the best i could.

fast forwarding a month;

>we're together
>obviously lost my virginity
>happiest ive been in years

the lesson here is- take control of your life. dont be like "maybe i shouldnt.. i just cant do it..". just fucking do it- whether it's going to the gym or asking your crush out.

>>23301489
Reddit it is then

>>23301500
Good go to reddit

>>23301481
You wouldn't know because you haven't tried, presumably.

So you're here to talk to people? Post some contact info, I'll talk to you.

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>A/S/L
21/M/USA
>Contact info
doesn't matter, people never contact anyone
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
programming, video games, tech shit, watching anime
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
was incredibly unpopular as a little kid, never developed social skills, now I'm a 21 year old guy with 0 friends and has never had a relationship
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
it bothers me most of the time, especially now that my brother is engaged and I can't talk to him, my 1 friend, without his fiancee telling me how funny she thinks it is
>If/when you think you'll lose it
I might never, social skills this bad at my age are pretty much end of the road. If I ever get in a relationship now, she's either going to be a gold digger or is going to have to deal with decades of anxiety and mental issues built up from spending 20 hours a day alone talking to myself
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
it usually fucks up my relations and opinions with women, I've seen a particularly cruel side of most women where they like to laugh whenever I get into mental or physical pain, much like the OP here, who sees us as a safari to entertain "her"
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
no, I'm not paying anyone, I already feel like a waling wallet
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
yeah, if they don't already know they can probably guess
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
not really, my family thinks I'm gay though
>Have you been teased about it lately?
sister in law is always saying shit to people about it and always gives details about what she does when she fucks my brother too. funny enough, she lost hers at 20
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
maybe 2-3 times a day
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
I'd hope something special like young love, but that's probably way behind me

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>>23301496
Thanks, hopefully we'll make it.

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>A/S/L
23/m/NJ
>Contact info
kik: YM2612
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
videogames/security guard/high school diploma
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
never been a social person and never had the opportunity to get that close to someone.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
not so much the virginity, but moreso the lack of companionship.
>If/when you think you'll lose it
if it happens it happens.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
it doesn't help.
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
desperate enough to attempt using tinder. wouldn't pay a prostitute.
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
the ones that matter.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
if asked I won't lie, but I'm not gonna openly state it for no reason.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
not really.
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
pretty frequently.
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
no clue.
>What would you like it to be like?
loving and/or passionate, lots of cuddling, little or no talking.
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
just about anything goes.
>Anything else you'd like to share?
can't really think of anything myself, but I'm open to questions.

>>23301511

shit man, that's sad and you sound cool; gl

>>23301511
2-3 times a day, wow anon, I feel dirty and sweaty after fapping just once =/

>>23301511
You're actually very handsome.

I was a virgin until 21 for similar reasons, though according to 9/10 anons, it's easier if you're female.

>I'd hope something special like young love, but that's probably way behind me

Granted you found someone decent who liked you back on a personal level, you shouldn't have a problem with this. You're still young. And attractive, to boot.

>>23301541
thanks
>>23301551
I need to get it in check for sure, but I had low test for a long time as a teen and after some treatments, I have a hard time dealing with all this excess shit without rubbing one out
>>23301554
thanks dude
It probably isn't out of the possibilities, but tinder and OKC and the like always make me feel like shit
since most messages I get back are asking about stats (money, dick size, height) or they fall off into awkward silence when we realize that the things I like she thinks are 100% boring as shit
same thing with 4chan, we message back and forth, and either one of us gets nervous and stops responding or we realize that we like nothing in common and the conversation dies

>>23301592
Don't get me wrong I'm not judging, like I mentioned in my own reply, I fap every day but I try not to cum because that's the main part that makes me feel dirty, so I kind of edge it, fap but not cum until I know I can refresh myself after it.
I wish porn wasn't so addictive though and I'm not even sure not being a virgin will change that.

>>23301592
>most messages I get back are asking about stats (money, dick size, height)
I've never used Tinder, but it strikes me as the sort of place that's by definition shallow. As for OKC, I'd screen women through the compatibility rating. If you have a high rating (like 90% or higher), it serves as a pretty good excuse to message her, and also a kind of assurance that you'll have more than one or two things in common.

>same thing with 4chan
I'd imagine with 4chan, as you've said, it's mainly an issue of one or the other becoming nervous. Anxiety disorders, if mental illness threads are any indication, are prevalent here, and that's not even speaking of run-of-the-mill shyness.

And as for

>>23301511
>I've seen a particularly cruel side of most women

I'm really sorry you had to experience that.

Anyway, you're a good looking guy and seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

>>23301693
I wouldn't recommend OKC, it has way too many pay2win features at this point and the compatibility function is a broken mess.

>>23301774
I haven't used it in over two years, so I've no idea of the current state of things.

Good tip though.

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A/S/L
25/m/near nyc
>Pic
no
>Contact info
ask
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
golf, skiing, music festivals/yes/bs in computer science
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Im ugly as fuck, you see in the news all the time people protesting and saying how they hate white men, feminists hate us. Pretty much everyone hates us
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
makes me depressed
>If/when you think you'll lose it
to a hooker
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
depression, mania
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
yeah if it was legal
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
none, im fit so people wouldnt assume i was. Plus i dress like a metrosexual.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
yeah i lie, people would make fun of me
>Have you been teased about it lately?
above
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
a lot
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
not good
>What would you like it to be like?
good
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
women that strictly like white men
>Anything else you'd like to share
My mom asked me why i go to the gym so much if i dont hang out with girls, I told her so i look good when i see myself in the mirror. Her face.jpg

>>23302050
You have a nice Justin Beiber type body anon, I am truly surprised there aren't more women interested in that.
I would feel pretty confident with a body like that instead of my beer belly.

>>23302080
Ugh, you can't see my body under all my clothes. Im actually uncomfortable taking my shirt off and i dont like showing my skin.

You see a lot of guys at the gym wearing tight under armour or tank tops, I got baggy sweats on.

22/m/usa

pretty introverted, so I really don't talk to women.
I am really shy so I have a hard time meeting new friends (I have a a few good ones I picked up over the years), doubly hard when it comes to women.

I think I am fine when I start talking to people, it is just really fucking hard to meet girls. Also I know girls have thought I am cute in the past and I have had some girls I didn't know explicitly flirt with me, but I spahghetti'ed.

I am going to school for a CS degree but their are no fucking girls in my classes, and at my retail job all of them are either 30 year old single Mom's or fairly unattractive (not being picky I swear).

If I just were able to have one on one conversations with girls regularly I would probably be set. Also I have never met a girl that I thought I had a lot in common with, but I don't know.

As for an ETA for when I am going to lose it though I have no idea. Right now it really seems like never.
I really am unsure if I really want a girlfriend either, but not having one makes me feel a deep sense of shame because it implies that something is wrong with me, though luckily my best friend since 4th grade is in the exact same boat as me.

>>23301147
do you have lots of guy friends?

>>23302258
I have a good balance of male and female friends but I prefer to hang around my sisters. My pool of friends has declined steadily since high school because we don't see each other as often as we used to.

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>A/S/L
22/m/german
>Contact info
Nope.
>Hobbies
Theatre, gaming, reading (fiction & non-fiction) and generally learning things. Will probably start a blog soon to get into journalism.
>Why you think you're still a virgin
It's a few things. First, I am abnormaly thin and basically don't have any body fat or muscle. Add to that a spine deformity and a face people wouldn't describe as 'sexy' and you have a bad start-off. Then part of it is the way I approach women, I think. I never feel immediate attraction based on looks. So I never get flirty or give the needed signals. I only start to feel attraction later on, when I got to know the person more. At that point its either she has no interest anymore or we have developed another kind of relationship. And then when I am in situations where she shows interest, I'm like a deer in the headlights. There were a few occasions where I cockblocked myself. Also
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
It used to. Everyone around me had gfs/bfs and having sex. And then theres the whole stigma and societal idealization of love and relationships. So naturally I judged myself by that standard. But by now I've gotten over that, comparing myself. So if it happens, it happens. If it don't, it don't.
>If/when you think you'll lose it
Fuck if I know.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
It hinders me insofar as I lack the experience. I feel I'm not good at giving relationship-advice or talk to friends about sex because I have no experience.
Would you pay to lose it?
Nope
>How many of your peers know you're a virgin?
My friends in my hometown can prbly guess. But where I currently live no one knows, although it should be obvious I'm not a pussy pirate.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
Kind of. Depends on who I'm talking to and whether it comes up. I don't spout it out or whine.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
Nah.

Will answer the rest if someones interested.

>>23301015
>>A/S/L
28, Male, Chicagoland
>>Pic
I have none, wait, yeah no fucking way
>>Contact info

>>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Quit doing art 16 years ago, Arc Welder, Statutory Construction
>>Why you think you're still a virgin
I got nervous when an attractive older woman wanted me, Refused Underage pussy thrown at me. Assburgers, 5 years of regressive solitude.
>>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Yes greatly, I work at night time my mind wonders I beat myself to death when I'm not asleep
>>If/when you think you'll lose it
Probably rape a limmerance object.
>>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Yes nobody trusts me, people think I'm a closet Homosexual. It affects my job as well. aside from psychosis
>>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
Yes, tried I was grossed out. going to start playing with MDMA, Im at the end of my rope
>>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
I bet all of them, I don't talk about sex, I stick out. My friends don't associate with me
>>Do you try to keep it a secret?
Best policy but I never lie
>>Have you been teased about it lately?
No, People are terrified of me. I would probably get violent at this point.
>>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Yes, On off, but way too much, I try to quit, longest ever gone without was about two months. its my fault im an addict
>>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Horrible
>>What would you like it to be like?
Id like to be rough with whoever she is but I want to kiss
>>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Axilism? kissing? Degradation?
>>Anything else you'd like to share?
I hate women, I regard human life as invaluable as that of an animal. see People don't care or understand its a metaphor >>23301295
>>23301295
>>23301295

>>23302229
You should go to place where you can find people that share the same interest with you.
As for the being shy part my advice would be to join some clubs or pick up some hobbies that make you interact with other people I know you may not like it and it'll be hard at first but that's honestly the best way you can develop your people skills to get the lady friend you want. Only through trial and error can you achieve the level of confidence you need to talk to a girl you like without spilling your spaghetti.
>but not having one makes me feel a deep sense of shame because it implies that something is wrong with me,
No, if you truly feel that way that you don't want to be with anyone then it's not a problem. As long as you're not hurting anyone else and be a decent human being then you shouldn't feel shame for something you lack.
>though luckily my best friend since 4th grade is in the exact same boat as me.
Don't compare yourself to others.

>>23301147
>>23302291
>Cute
>Forthright
>Smart

Would get to know and bond with before starting relationship.

>>23302441
save your breath homes, it's more than likely a guy

>>23302441
Keep you're head up Anon. Take it a day at a time and don't give up.
I know what it's like to give up. I want to know what it's like not to give up.

>>23302461

I'm not being morose, I'm just saying that it seems like it would be worth getting to know you.

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>>23302491
I'm always willing to help another person out but I don't feel safe putting out any contact on here. I'll still post from time to time on this board. You'll know when it's me. Despite all the pervs and creeps you might encounter here there's a certain charm this site has.
Here's another pic of me I'll post in the future so you can recognize me.

>>23302547

> that filename
totallynotstolenfromfacebook.jpg

>>23302547

All good, yeah I try to be a balanced sort on here. I've had plenty of positive experiences with some girls and even gone on some in person dates that went very well.

I'm on the opposite side of the country, so I suppose it's just rhetoric. There is a girl that lives a couples hours drive away who is in infrequent visitor I want to get to know better, she has my contact but so far so slow.

>>23302547
Want to talk, just friendly add pacram on kik

>>23302596
Everything in due time man.
Good luck Anon! I hope you find what you're looking for.

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>A/S/L
18 TX
>Pic
Ok
>Contact info
Kik InVelvetDreams
>Hobbies
Lifting, anime, film, video games
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Women don't find me attractive and I am socially inept
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Of course. Every waking moment of my life.
>If/when you think you'll lose it
Never
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Yes
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
Paying a hooker doesn't mean as much. You aren't desired by anyone.
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
Everyone
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
No
>Have you been teased about it lately?
No
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Almost daily
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
I won't have it
>What would you like it to be like?
Just being able to have it with a girl is enough,so long as there is nobody besides me and the girl
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Someone desiring me as much as I desire them
>Anything else you'd like to share?

Women don't count as virgins, they can lose it whenever they want with relative ease. Why post in a thread about virgins if the only reason you're a virgin is that you don't want to gave sex?

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>>23301015
>A/S/L
26/M/TN
>Contact info
Not really any
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Games,comics,cartoons,anime,going to shows and beer/36k/HS
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
I don't go out much at all and when I do I'm with friends. I'm not handsome enough to get girls by looks alone.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Not too often. I more or less just want companionship every now and then
>If/when you think you'll lose it
I have no idea. Almost 27 so it's getting slimmer
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Nah not really.
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
I mean I could try a club if it came down to it.
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
Nobody knows.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
Yup. Everyone has the image of me and I don't want to change it.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
Never
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Every other night
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Awful for her.
>What would you like it to be like?
Average
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Tanlines, long legs, and bondage
>Anything else you'd like to share?
Not really.

>>23302626
*have
Not gave

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>A/S/L
21/Male/Minnesota
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Music, guitar, writing, movies, good talk/Night stocking at a small grocery store/ film production major
>Why you think you're still a virgin?
I think it's mostly a lack of experience talking to women. I'm rather hesitant because I'm worried I'll seem creepy. I'm not in the best shape either (solid dad bod, no protruding gut or man titties but a general lack 9f definition) so that doesn't help.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Yeah
>If/when you think you'll lose it
I hope sooner rather than later. I'm gonna be able to spend more money soon so hitting the bars and putting myself out there might help.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
I have pretty low self esteem and the virginity doesn't help.
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay to lose it?
I'm not in the financial situation to pay for it and I think I can do better than the bottom of the barrel. This might be my problem though.
>How many of your peers know you're a virgin?
My close friends know, most of my other friends do to. I wouldn't tell my coworkers.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
I don't bring it up. If I'm sure people will think less of me I'll lie.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
No, I try to avoid the type of people who would belittle someone over virginity.
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Yes, it used to be a daily thing but I'm trying to cut it out of my life.
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Pretty awkward and never very good for the girl.
>What would you like it to be like?
A fun experience for the both of us where I learn how to please her.
>>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
I'd be down to try foot stuff, some anal play, being dominated. Idk, wouldn't throw that out there unless I knew she would be down or wouldn't be weirded out.
>Anything else you'd like to share?
I think that's everything.

>>23302547
Ok you're definitely fake. Get raped, faggot.

>>23302612

You as well.

>>23302651
If you say so man.

General out stuff, anime /unemployed/ college

Soc usually rates me 5-6, but none of my pictures ever show my multitude of skin conditions, so I am definitely below average /I am an emotional wreck that ranges from “things are ok” to “Why haven’t I killed myself yet?!” / Mentally? I am generally a shitty excuse for a human being. Narcisstic, depressed, trust issues, downright paranoia, autism, the list goes on..

In and of itself, no. My virginity isn’t the problem to me. It is the biggest glaring symptom of how fucked up I am, that I have been unable to lose it.

I highly doubt that is ever going to happen.

Symptom, not the disease.
Nope. If anything I feel like giving in and paying for it will be the thing that finally pushes me to suicide.

No idea. None know for sure, that I am aware of. What they suspect…
Yep.

Nope.

A couple times a week. Afterwards tends to be when I am at my lowest.

I expect it to not happen.

Nice? Loving? Preferably with some belief that there is someone in the world who legitimately cares about me.

Long hair, bondage, bdsm :spoiler: probably because I feel that the only way I am ever having sex is either because I find someone else so broken that they want me to hurt them, or that they just want to hurt me :spoiler:

Not really.

>>23302402
>You should go to place where you can find people that share the same interest with you.

Yea not to many girls at the computer club.

>>23302824
Are those the only interest you have? Maybe branch out a bit. I'm sure there's more computer clubs in your area than just one.

>>23302847
Well no, but it is my most club friendly hobby.
At best I can hope for a 1:10 girl guy ratio in those kinds of places.

I don't really do very many things girls are generally interested in, other than things I don't think there are clubs I can go to.

>>23302864
1. Smile. If you're not used to doing that when you meet somebody new, it'll feel weird at first, and you might creep a few people out when you're still bad at it. You'll get used to it.

2. Demonstrate interest in the person. Even if you have to fake it. When somebody says hello, use a welcoming tone of voice and very open body language.

3. Demonstrate interest. Both in the other person, and in things that you like. The corrolary to this is listening to the other person's interest, sharing yours, and building common ground.
If you'd say you're an emotionless person, I would say either 1. you're suppressing your emotions or 2. you're really not interested in much about other people. One of my friends found himself in the latter category but that was just an unwillingness to show emotion.

But that's the point: you need to figure that out, and the only way to do that is to try things. Think of it like a strategy, follow a game plan, and when you fail (because you absolutely will fail), take some notes (seriously, write down relevant notes about the interaction when you get home), re-evaluate your strategy, and try other solutions. Eventually it will start coming somewhat naturally, but you've gotta work to get at it

I hate when people say things like "just be yourself, just let the conversation flow naturally," because those things are both ingrained by habit. If you didn't build those habits growing up, you need to start. Except, it's harder now, because most people built those social habits when everyone around them was still doing so as well.

You can do it though, man. . Let yourself be afraid, accept that you'll mess up, give yourself permission to feel awkward (because EVERYBODY gets socially awkward multiple times a day), and then try. And don't expect perfection. With some effort, you'll become passable, and eventually you might start to enjoy it.
You've got this man.

Lemme break it to you guys, sex isn't important. It feels like a fucking wet handjob, got super disappointed.

>>23301147
also
>church girl
How? How is someone like you, aka little miss perfect, on something like 4chan?

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>>23303003
Shut the fuck up.
>sex ain't dat good bruh I've had it before

>>23303022
You do know that they fake the hole moaning thing in porn, right? it really isn't that good, my friend thinks the same. We were both super disappointed. It was ok.

>>23303007
I've already answered this.

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>>23303039
You disgust me normalslime.
>bruh it's not even that good to have someone who likes you enough to have sex with you!
>it don't even feel hood bruh
Fuck off.

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>>23303043
I honestly cannot tell if you're real

>>23303058
Dude, don't be mad because I had sex and you didn't. Also trust me, it's better not to be hyped about it.

>>23303070
Should you care?

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>A/S/L
20/Male/New York
>Contact info
kik: noicebrew

skype: omnishake
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
I'm a blue collar worker my way through my apprenticeship
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
I had a few shots at being with some pretty girls in highschool but I turned them down because I didn't really like them. Now I work a fulltime job surrounded by gruff old men.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
What mostly bothers me is that I haven't found a partner yet and my prospects aren't that great to find one
>If/when you think you'll lose it
I just left a longish LDR on pretty bad terms so I'm seriously considering just banging an escort and get it over with.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Nah, my problems are just in my head
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
I'm not desperate, I just want to feel wanted and loved even if it's fake ;_;
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
A few out of the whole gang
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
I don't hide it but I don't broadcast it, most of my friends know I think
>Have you been teased about it lately?
A few months ago I was in class trying to put on a SCBA (breathing mask with tank) and I was having trouble putting the hose in so the instructor asked me "you a virgin son" and I shook my head without thinking about it. Classmates didn't let it go ;_;
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
y
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Awkward and terrible if it's with an escort. Hopefully if it's with someone I care about it'll be special.
>What would you like it to be like?
In an ideal situation it'd be with someone I cared about deeply and who valued the experience. Realistically the majority of girls think it's weird.
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
I like the girl taking the lead honestly.

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>>23303078
Just fuck off Chad, christ. Neurotypical piece of shit.

>>23303084
Probably not, just intrigued.
>>23303090
Walter White?

>>23302949
I'm not that autistic... I know what to do, I just get really afraid when I am around lots of people. I don't feel safe around strangers.

I just have a really hard time reaching out to people I don't know. Honestly it's kind of uncomfortable. If I am surrounded by strangers I can feel lots of fear.

If I am in a room alone with someone in a place I am comfortable I can just talk.

At school I am surrounded by strangers, and I feel alone, sometimes someone might ask me something and I reply in a friendly way and might even start a conversation, but usually I don't get repeat conversations and it seems those people just go back to their group and I can't approach the group.

If someone isn't actively trying to talk to me I can't talk to them.

>>23303090
motherfucker you are 20?

>>23303096
Literally who? Epic soc meme bro.

>>23303116
Chad Thundercock is a meme across 4chan fuckin newfag.

>>23303118
This
>>23303116
Head back to facebook/reddit.

>>23303118
>>23303122
I've probably been on 4chan longer than both of you, and I am not proud of it so no idea why you guys are. God, you tumblr people are weird as hell. Also, when you say "meme across 4chan" I think you mean meme across /soc/.

>>23303098
I can see why but my friend told not to post any pictures of myself that I've took recently and only post a selected limited amount of photos of myself. So I won't be providing a time stamp. whether you think I'm fake or not is up to you. I couldn't care less.
>>23303100
Like I said before
>Let yourself be afraid, accept that you'll mess up, give yourself permission to feel awkward (because EVERYBODY gets socially awkward multiple times a day), and then try. And don't expect perfection. With some effort, you'll become passable, and eventually you might start to enjoy it.
Conquer your fears by facing them is really the best advice I can give you.

>>23303096
Calm your tits. The guy's right. Newsflash: Not having had sex isn't the only or primary thing that defines your personality and all of your hopes and wishes. And if it does then you should change that.
The guy has had the experience and didn't like it. You're obsessive about it HAVING to be good under all circumstances. Because if it weren't, you would question yourself. Why you wasted so much frustration, anguish and time worrying about it if it then turns out it wasn't worth it.

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>>23303139
Just stop

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>>23303151
>just stop caring, works for me

Fuck off.

>>23303098
My friend called me Walter White, RIP ;~;

>>23303106
People thought I was 20 when I was 13. The ride never ends.

>>23303143
I wasn't going to ask for a time stamp anyway, so don't worry. Believe it or not I'm not one of those weird horny 12 year old 4channer guys.
>>23303151
No point in even replying to that guy, probably a 12 year old.

should i try and lose my virginity with a girl on tinder? im fairly socially inept, but decently handsome and i work out religiously and i think a superficial app like tinder might make it easier to find someone to lose it to.

>>23303163
It would work for you, too.
And I'm not telling you to stop caring. Just being obsessive, angry and miserable.

>>23303190
Ye, prbly right.

>>23303139
Your bait game got weak fast.

>>23303182
>People thought I was 20 when I was 13. The ride never ends.

If you want to fix that shave the beard and grow some hair...
Jesus, it's so thick it looks like make up.

>>23303223
I'm not baiting, tho.

>>23303221
No, it wouldn't work. How do you propose I go about making myself less "obsessive
, angry, and miserable"?
Just like magic? Wish as hard as I can until it comes true?

>>23303143
>Conquer your fears by facing them is really the best advice I can give you.
uggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... fuck...

>>23303249
If you can't answer that yourself, then you're a lost cause and need to do some thinking.
And you know what? I've just taken one of the greatest dumps a person could possibly have taken. And I'm not letting you ruin this feeling of resounding bliss. So long then!

>>23303285
Well what would you recommend then?

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>>23303294

>>23303319
No I am sighing because I am disappointed in the truth. I guess I already knew this, I just latched onto the opportunity to talk about it.

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>A/S/L
31/m/Ohio
>Pic
>Contact info
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Origami, video games, reading, cult tv shows, trivia, learning shitty jokes. Drug store and restaurant shift supervisor. Grad school dropout, BA in sociology.
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
No idea how relationships worked. Very naive for a long time. Low self-esteem.
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
It does since I'm so old. I'm not sure a girl is going to wait for me to catch up to where I am supposed to be sexually at my age.
>If/when you think you'll lose it
No idea, although I've had more attention from girls in the past year than the rest of my life. No idea why.
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
It does make me apprehensive about starting a relationship.
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
I've thought about it, but not right now.
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
None, but I suspect they think I'm one.
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
Yes.
>Have you been teased about it lately?
No.
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Varies. I'll go a few days without any then watch a few vids in the same day.
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
I'll either cum really quickly or not at all.
>What would you like it to be like?
Lots of touching, kissing, cuddling.
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
Pubic hair, long hair, smaller boobs, light bondage.
>Anything else you'd like to share?
Not right now.

>>23303341
It's best to start now than never. Best of luck to you Anon!

>>23301147
Sex is never perfect

>>23301015
>I didn't make the thread this time
>church girl
>4chan

Yeah, bait af desu.

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>A/S/L
22/m/Ireland
>Contact info
If anyone cares, sure
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Playing music/neet atm/college dropout
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Partly physically, partly anxiety and partly by choice
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
Sometimes, but then I remember that it's probably better off this way
>If/when you think you'll lose it
When I feel ready and can find someone that'll have me
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Not since I was a teenager. I feel a lot more comfortable around girls when I stopped worrying about it
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
Not much. You'd probably have to pay me
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
A few close friends know. Others probably assume I am
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
No. If anyone asks, I'll tell them
>Have you been teased about it lately?
Only in a playful, non-malicious way
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
I browse /s/ and /gif/ a few times a week
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
Mutually disappointing
>What would you like it to be like?
Within a relationship with someone I trust and have feelings for
>Even without any experience, what are your percieved kinks/turn-ons/fetishes?
I'm pretty vanilla. I kinda like asian girls, I guess
>Anything else you'd like to share?
I'm staying a virgin until I mature enough for adult relationships. Won't be hard avoid sex til then

>>23303740
Define mature enough

Like being able to afford your own place?

>>23303866
I mean it in two different ways. Mature as in having my own place and a steady income, but also being emotionally mature. Not being overly protective, overly sensitive or jealous

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>A/S/L
21/m/Illinois,USA
>Contact info
If anyone actually wants that
>Hobbies/Employment/Education
Auto racing and video games/work at a private race track/currently going to a community college
>Why you think you're still a virgin (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.)
Currently haven't tried hard enough, but I suppose my anxiety does not help at all so that makes it 100x harder. Plus not like I know jack shit about the 'woman game'
>Does it bother you sometimes or even at all?
It does sometimes, mainly when I want to do shit with a person who is close other then that not really
>If/when you think you'll lose it
Don't know I feel if I think too much on it it won't happen or will but won't be as enjoyable. So just go with the flow is for me
>Do you ever feel like your virginity hinders you or spurs on any of your problems?
Yes, my ability to talk to women I think is hindered because of my general anxiety and just the idea of doing something new can be worry some at first. It can make me feel dated too
>How desperate are you?/Would you pay (e.g. hooker/escort) to lose it?
lol no, in the end it's just sex. I'd rather have sex with someone who enjoys me then who enjoys the money I just gave them
>How many of your peers (friends, co-workers, etc.) know you're a virgin?
As in straight up told them? None. As in probably can just see it? I feel they all can but that's just my low self esteem
>Do you try to keep it a secret?
If someone asked me I'd be truthful. I see no reason to lie about something so small. So I guess I don't 'hide it'
>Have you been teased about it lately?
Nope
>Do you watch porn? If so, how frequently?
Yes, everyday but it's really just seeing the daily uploads on /gif/
>What do you expect your first time to be like?
God awful, most likely the person with me will have done it and I will feel like shit the whole time for not being able to give her a good time
>What would you like it to be like?
Enjoyable for both of us