Guys, why do people socialise? I'm autist as fuck so this shit helps me immensely with responding to people:
>Ego stroke - (Me, me, what I've done, what I'm doing, respect me)
>Waste time - (social commentary, stupid, funny, shocking)
>Have fun - (mindless, games, tease, sport)
>Be understood - (listen, worldview, empathise, family, emotions)
>Plan actions - (plans, schemes, ideate, goals, discussion)
>Be inspired - (laugh or cry, better days coming or the best is now, story, anecdotes)
I think I've covered it all? What other aspect do people socialise for, and how to respond to it.
Honestly to me it's all just a fake facade. I still socialize, doesn't mean I like doing it though. I'd rather be alone most of the time. Too many over dramatic dumbasses out there and it's hard to meet genuine people.
I like to socialize for a few reasons.
>Have female friends to talk to about my problems/feelings, they're a lot better than men when it comes to talking
>Have male and female friends to hang out with, smoke/drink/sports and occasionally game
>There's this one girl I spend a lot of time with, I obviously love her, but I'm too much of a sperglord to make the first move
>help each other
>bounce ideas for the future
>practice at living
>be better at being yourself
i love people. i hate being around people, but i love them all the same