have been with my girl for a year. She is 10 years older than me and not very pretty.
She is very good in bed and takes cock like a champ but recently I find it harder and harder not to cheat on her. I have turned down more than 10 girls during past year but last weekend was the last straw.
I love my girlfriend but it's really hard to feel touch of another girl on your dick and back away. ( pic not related)
So break up with her and go chase tail. I have no idea what you are even doing here, if you are so interested in all the hawt bitchez who are approaching you that 'love' wont stand for much since you already apparently are having such a hard time not cheating on her.
If you are considering cheating on a chick who isn't a terrible gf just break it off and go have your fun. Better for you both.
They just want the thrill of 'beating' your gf. They'll lose respect for you once you fuck them ,and you'll get a reputation. If they don't know you're taken then once they find out you'll get a reputation. Less woman will want to have sex (aside from 5/10s and crazies) After the empty sex wears off you won't find a quality woman to settle down with due to your reputation.
I live in Vienna. Most of the girls here don't care that much if you have a girlfriend or not. Relationships here are a bit different. Really girls just want to fuck and move on.
fuck off you faggot, you just want the absolution of someone telling you its alright to cheat on your gf.
If you want to fuck other people then do. if you want to stay with your gf then don't. its not fucking hard you piece of shit
First off, Servus Anon :)
I can only tell you. 10 years has been forever especially for people who are younger.
We are not made to be with the same person on a physical level in forever. As romantic you can be this is pretty much the reality.
Does nt not mean you love her or cant be with her until you grow old emotionally there is no problem.
But dont make it a bigger thing as it is. We re not teenagers anymore and sex can just be sex. Its a natural desire period
Me and gf have an agreement that I am allowed to fuck other chicks under rules which make alot sense. Very rational. We are being together for 5 years now too.
Do you think I fuck all the time? No like every once in a while like 1-2 times a year and it also is health for my relationship. It recindles my libido and also showed me how diffrent it is wit hthe other girl . sure its exciting and everything but sex with somebody you love will always be something else and special. Regardless how good the sex is outside the relationship.
TD:LR sex is just sex dont overrate it. it can be healthy for the relationship and make you appreciate your lady more.
>10 years older than me
Found the problem.
You should break up with her now and get it over with. It's perfectly natural for males to want women who are younger than them. It's part of male sexuality, and it's nothing to be ashamed about. You'll eventually find it impossible to find satisfaction in your current relationship as time goes on, making the inevitable breakup that much more messy. You're not a bad person for caring about your own needs.
Finally some helpful advice. My thinking is also close to you. I am not looking for something constant or relationship, just something for once or twice a year just because i really feel i need it. I am sure i will never love somebody like my girl but still i feel the need to be with somebody else for one night. Thanks for your time and thanks for your tip :)