Like 2 and a half (half is a blowjob and petting, but no sex). I see no point in sex outside of relationships and I tend to go straight for serious monogamous ones Like if I can't see myself spending my life with someone, I just don't bother about fucking that person
>>23249714 I'm a female. 7. Most was at 16 when I tried out one night stands after breaking up with my first bf (2 of them) and I began dating later that year. So 4 partners in 1 year. Now I've had 2 additional ones who were both bfs in the last 3 year (so least). I frown at promiscuity because I tested it out and whoever stays around in that sort of lifestyle gets a big thumbs down from me.
Um. I legitimately have no idea how many partners I've had. I can say how many partners I've had since my last STI testing, but I never pay attention to numbers outside of that. Mid-high double digits? I'm considered a fairly whore-ish fellow, but that's mainly because I sleep my way through everyone in the social circles I step into. Not much for the random encounters
Or are we talking about currently? Because currently I've ... Four or five partners? Three of them are on going things, the other two are just kind of casual hookups whenever I feel like it. Of the people only one person I see hugely regularly.
Most number of partners at once was probably seven. Or if we are going age wise, probably .. 25-27?
Least was probably whenever I was monogamous, because only one partner.
No, I don't see it as a goal to have many different partners. I just am a debaucherous bastard and have an urge to see everyone I know naked and in the throes of orgasm.
>>23251272 Empty sex is shallow and boring. Promiscuity goes hand in hand with lack of restraint and self control, which might be ok at 16 but should be left behind soon after. I just think promiscuity sheds light on what type of person that person is in aspects aside from their sex life. So that's why I avoid promiscuous men when looking for a relationship for example.
>>23253156 Empty sex may be shallow, but it is far from boring. And i don't think it needs to be restrained from. Its fun for both parties, its healthy, and its natural. So its not so much a lack of restraint, just a lack of care for societal norm and a lack of stick in the ass.
From what I can see most of the anon on this thread are quite modest to say the least, so I figued I'd share my dark past; Slutfag reporting In.
I've slept with over 250 women. I didn't lose my virginity till just before turning 19, didn't see it as a goal and just waited for it to happen rather than obsessing over it and trying to make it happen. from 19 till 24 I had only had around 20-25 partners, then I had a child. I stayed with the Mother for 4 years, mostly because I wanted a family for my child. Yet it was after we broke up (badly) that I flew off the rails so to speak. from 26 -29 I slept with at least 1 girl a week if not more. I had a serious problem often only doing it because I craved the feeling of being wanted coming from a very broken family. The problem was that I wasn't even physically attracted to many of these girls.
I'll leave it at that before the "go to oprah" meme's start.
What was your number of partners overall? 13 When did you have the most and least? Most was like early 2014. I kept most of my fuck buddies around so i had like 4 different guys to switch from at that time
Do you see it as a goal to have many different partners? No, if it happened it happened. I never saw it as a goal
>>23254868 Sorry, I must apologize, but your energy simply isn't compatible with mine. But, I'm feeling generous at this time, so I'll read some cards for you tonight.
You / Situation: King of Swords (reversed) / 5 of Wands Internal / External Challenges: Page of Wands / Justice (reversed) Advice: The Star (reversed) / 5 of Pentacles Projected Outcome: The Fool
Oh my, you're quite upset, alright. Angry and bitter are you over your stands of one night, and it seems that some of them may have taken your mind for a ride. You got fooled once or twice, right? Go ahead and blame it on dumb youth, and keep telling yourself that you wanted it too.
Despite your regret, you haven't quite outgrown it yet: looking for love in the wrong places, trying again with a few new faces. That lack of affection and acceptance is plaguing you these days, and that particular hangup now gets in the way of getting to where you want to be.
Now then, if you'd like to be free, you need to understand that the world didn't treat you cruelly; you simply acted foolishly. It's okay, we all make mistakes, but it does you no good to project on all who come your way. For better insight, you might seek to confide in the part of yourself that wishes to stay the course, but it will do you no good to call others whores. You see, I likewise abhor degeneracy, but I make no habit of announcing it publicly. Maybe let go a bit of your habit of judging, because it's wasting your energy.
Make no mistake, I likewise find most of these vile degenerates disgusting, but I find it better practice to refrain from judging; rather I prefer focusing on my own goals, and I prefer ignoring the things over which I'm not in control. (cont.)
>>23257677 (cont.) Get it? There are things that you simply can't change, so you should not waste effort try to arrange them to suit your particular taste. Now, dearie, you should focus on your self-image, I think. By all means, keep to your wholesome style of life, and perhaps focus on becoming good material for a wife. Do keep in mind that improper projection may cause some strife, and nobody wants to have that to contrive and cause so many faults that make one...insufferable.
Oh my, I hit a nerve, didn't I? There are a lot of things you hate about yourself, but disparaging others offers no help. When you see something you hate, simply laugh and go your own way. I might think a woman or two who approaches me a complete whore, but I don't say that, obviously; I merely reply with a polite “no.” I mention this because rejection is a theme I see to consist in your life; attempts at approval so foolishly bought, but I would suggest that it would be better brought by focusing less on the things about yourself you dislike and seeking to expound upon those which make you a light which others of value can see. Are you following me?
Well, I think I've changed your fate with this reading, for the projected outcome now looks quite good to me. The Fool indicates that there is some change in your frame of mind that you'll likely find in some proximate time. As you're reading this, you'll be pissed off and say “fuck you, you stupid tarot-reading faggot, you know nothing,” but it will sink in eventually. You'll wake up one day and have that revelation that comes through clearly.
Once you change your way of observing, it will simply be a matter of improving, working, and waiting.
Best of luck to you; I hope I haven't been too cruel.
>What was your number of partners overall? 1 consensual and 1 non-consensual >When did you have the most and least? What? >Do you see it as a goal to have many different partners? No. While I don't look down upon those with many partners, I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with sharing my body with many people.
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