Anyone ever had premature ejaculation and conquered it?
I have several girls who I could have sex with, but I can't last longer than a minute or two. Even before the sex starts I feel like I'm going to explode.
Even when fapping I can finish the fap within 10 seconds of finding the right scene.
It's ruining my life. Dunno what to do. Am I doomed?
My ex was like this he would pull out then go again but still only last a few minutes. The first time we had sex he came before he even went in.
I'm not sure about advice with that but just make it up to the girl with awesome oral.
I don't know man, some say you have to build up a tolerance. Learn to edge, and try your hardest to hold back. Basically bring yourself close to orgasm but still enough where you know you won't cum then stop and rest for a minute.
I just always try to get it up quickly when it happens to me.
OP, ensure you have a decent lifestyle to eliminate contributing physical factors. This will all then by achievable by your mind and training yourself.
i know this feel bro. i learned to last a bit longer by paying attention to my breath during sex/fapping. Also, my ex was very cool with it. she just didn`t care, as long as i also made her cum. been together for 7 years and she didnt mind.
had the same problem, so i can give you some advice.
the first couple of minutes are the hardest, try not to focus on what makes you horny, close eyes and try to distract yourself. For me math works pretty well, multiplication rows and stuff like this. after the first minutes your dick gets numb and you can focus on sex.
also try to have sex a couple times in a row. four to five times a day. do this for a couple of days and the excitement disappears.
well cant go on, shes my ex now (>>23247295
why do you think it will be different with someone i don't like? When someone likes you, they should just dont care how long you last. if its someone else, they just want to have sex. Sucks when you are bad at it
When fucking a hooker you won't enjoy it, you'll realize sex isn't always exciting. That'll train your mind to not get excited as much when you're going to have sex, so you'll last longer. When having sex with someone you love, you'll start focusing on her more, it'll make it better for her and you'll last longer.
After 2 hookers I didn't feel like sex was something special anymore, I started lasting a lot longer because the sex wasn't important anymore, the fact that it was with my gf became more important. I don't feel the need to get satisfied anymore, instead I focus on making her have the best sex of her life everytime we fuck.
Breathing, seriously. If you hold your breath and don't concentrate on it your blood pressure shoots thru the roof and you'll be done in no time.
Also, it's not a perfect solution but anti-depressants like Zoloft and Prozac (if you need them) can make you last forever.
Lemme tell you what OP. Lean in close n listen up- here's what you do m8...
Cum multiple times. If you're that horny, you can cum multiple times, which will impress chicks more than not cumming for 2 hours.
While you're at it, find a way to wiggle your hand in there while you fuck er. Give the ol girl a rub-a-dub-dub while you're filling her lady parts with mighty mega-meat.
You cum a lot, she cums a lot, everybody wins