>>23240500 Yeah I did consider some kind of give away at the end like "oh yeah I like to quote movies" or something.. my old about me was is pretty standard student @ __ university likes: dogs, polos, food, books dislikes: burnt coffee, floral table cloths, clowns
Hey tinder thread. Not looking for a rate but more some advice, both tinder and general dating. 1) I'm 27 I got a match with an 18 year old, is 18 too young? I know this is 4chan, but seriously. 2) How long do I have to keep up this banal to and fro before I ask for phone number and/or meet up and what are the ways to do this? 3) If you're chatting to more than 1 girl at what point do you choose and how?
>>23240885 If I'm gonna be super blunt (I am).. Your first pic makes you look chubby (subsequent pics look better) Your poses are a bit dorky. Unless drugs really are a big part of your life I'd leave it out. I very occasionally do drugs but I'm not mentioning it because it's not who I am and I don't want to get with someone for who it's a lifestyle. If I see a girl with "420" or anything like that in her profile I swipe left.
>>23239213 I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that this bateman routine, to someone who doesn't know what it is, makes you sound like a douche and that coming from a gymbro. Even if I did know what it was, still seems both douchie and trite. Even though you're cute I'd swipe left based on the bio. >>23245641 Your bio makes you sound like a mopy whiner. Nothing positive, fun or exciting in there.
>>23246898 Well if you're trying to attract movie geek chicks keep it, if you're trying to attract chicks who don't even look at your bio keep it. Otherwise put something about you in your bio. As that's what it's there for.
Not sure if beach photo is best for main photo, seems a bit arrogant, but at the same time sexy.. probably best for casual sex. You probably get more matches than me anyway :p
>>23246970 I can't really be fucked with the app anymore, I don't take it seriously. Had my fun I guess. I got bored with the whole stale 'university at _ likes: dogs. polos, food, books dislikes: burnt coffee, floral table cloths, clowns'
This stands out at least, if they want to know about me I figure they can ask me
And yeah of course sex appeal sells, I'll happily show off a little (and only picture I do so in order to not come across trying too hard) just to get my foot in the door
>>23246961 also while #3 is actually kinda cool because it shows you having fun and with a big group of friends.. its hard to tell from thumbnails but you seem to have a serious expression in every photo. and #3 and #4 look like the selective colouring was a bit lazy, bits of colour where there shouldn't be any. As a nerd this would upset me.. probably 99% of women wont even notice.
>>23246989 Yeah I was just thinking maybe not as first photo, but I might be wrong on that even. You have plenty to show off, no shame in that. Why bored of it? Are you not actually meeting anyone from tinder?
>>23246996 Yeah I met a handful of girls and fucked an even smaller handful of them, kind of seriously talking to a korean girl (good gf material) so seeing where that goes. There is a lot of trash on tinder but it's been good to get back into the dating/whatever scene you want to call this
I want to use more of my time on myself though, learning code, finishing my degree, contemplating a masters, travelling.. I broke up with a gf of 2 years like.. 4-5 months ago and I guess I don't want to make women a priority yet
Thought this was best place to ask advice instead of starting new thread.
>Newly single, go back to parents for weekend, small town bongistan, everyone knows everyone. >Go on Tinder, have mutual friends with about 1 in 3 women due to being bumfuck no where. >Few people I know and went to school with but swipe left because they're bitches who didn't get out of this hellhole. >See old friend on Tinder, haven't spoken to for like 5 years but she's fun, 6/10 with above average body. >Swipe right because why the hell not. >Due to tinder being shit now, have no idea if she's online anymore or anything.
Do I message her on facebook (we're friends) and make a joke out of finding her on tinder, or is that creepy and weird /soc/?
>>23238368 >tfw match with a girl >talk to her >have a few conversations >eventually meet up with her >she's genuinely fun to talk to >our meeting lasts some 4-5 hours all talking >didn't try fucking her or anything >few days after the date >she still doesn't bother writing to me first She'd write first if she was interested, right?
>>23248750 Of fucking course. Her mind right now is "why isn't he writing to me, didn't he like me? did he just want sex and got disappointed? am i too fat? too boring? i think our date went well but he just stays silent now"
Go for it and thank me when you're inside her panties
I've not used tinder for like 18 months, any new bullshit I should be aware of?
I've got pics of me taken on my fancy camera (no selfies kek), one of me on the beach (clothed because it was evening), one of me dangling my feet over a cliff and one of me in surfing gear with friends (which also shows that I'm kinda tall and fairly well built). Any other ideas for photos?
Also is it better to have a shorter bio than list all my hobbies and what I do for a living?
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