I'll make this short.
>Gf and I are 21
>Been together 4 years now
>Never had sex before
>Have done nearly everything else
>Joke that we should have a threesome
>She says she'd be up for it if I can find a girl
I... I don't know what this means. She's legitimately up for it, and it's just so unexpected. We've never had sex before, so I don't know how a threesome would work out. How would I even find a girl to do it? She said she wouldn't want it to be any of our friends.
Bad idea. Bitches always bring shit up from the past. No matter how down she says she is just know she's always gonna have that to stir shit up when she gets pissed or doesn't trust you.
>Girlfriend is catholic
>says she'll be down for a threesome but not have sex with you
Positive. It'd be weird if we did nothing sexual, we get intimate all the time. We've done everything (tried anal multiple times, but it's too painful for her) except sex. We've gotten close a bunch, but she always freaks out, panics, and shuts down
I'm not sure how your relationship with her has been going these past 4 years, but it must be a really healthy relationship. But isn't it wierd that she doesn't show much interest in sex? it's not wrong, it's wierd, but i do think it's wrong to hesitate doing such things with someone you've trusted for over 4 years now. It's nothing so dangerously offenssive to her religion, right? Showing affection to the one you love is completly understandable and natural, there's no need to hold back now. You need to discuss with her again, limiting yourselves because of such thing will only cause more stress
It's really healthy, yeah. And it's not that she doesn't show an interest, she just is afraid to do it. Her sisters have gotten knocked up and she was raised really strictly catholic.
1. Tinder/ Okc. Seriously, just be straightforward about what you're looking for. somebody will bite.
2. it doesn't sound like your gf is anywhere near emotionally mature enough for a threesome. or at least, it doesn't sound like you have discussed it enough to really know what's going on with her.
you're retarded for being in this gayfag relationship. you better figure something out quick, because she's going to turn into a kamayahmaya slut at some point so it better be w you after all the time you've put in.