>>23213655 >>23213655 I'm mostly very sub but have been known to get a bit dominant when the mood takes me. For me it is about laziness if anything. Like I want the guy to do all the work giving me pleasure sometimes while I lie there and enjoy. It turns me on if a guy is still going to go down on me if I haven't washed, haven't shaved, generally made no effort and he still wants me. Makes me feel powerful.
>>23213696 Any interest in strap on stuff? i have been thinking about finding someone to try it with, seems fun and a good change of pace, the ownership stuff seems really hot to me. Like where i would be essantaly used as a sex toy/ for her entertainment.
idk if it's weird but I've known I've pretty much always been dominant. I was kind of spoiled as a kid (but not a total brat I think) and have been used to getting my way. I didn't put my thought into it until recently but I definitely prefer being the one in control sexually as well as being the financially dominant one, older/wiser partner, etc etc
All the porn I've watched has been dom/sub ish, and the only thing that seems to get me really wet is seeing someone humiliated, taken advantage of, beaten, spanked, all that good stuff. It's just really hot.
Especially if it's a cute guy. I prefer guys around my height or shorter, not super tall. I dated a tall guy and I didn't like it much. I like innocent-looking boys, and fantasize about pegging all the time. Bending him over and spreading his ass and pushing my dick inside (I realize that sounds suuuuper gay lmao but I refer to my strap-on as my dick because otherwise it sounds not sexy).
I don't know what else to say lol but yeah sub guys are the best
>>23213758 >>23213773 I'd just never be even slightly interested in dating a guy who wanted to dominate me lmao
I guess a lot of people are switch, but I really can't switch. If I'm expected to be submissive it really turns me off.
>>23213831 >I was kind of spoiled as a kid (but not a total brat I think) and have been used to getting my way. I'm an only child who had it a bit like that and that is probably where my dominant streak comes from too. Like I'm the princess, fucking treat me like one! It was interesting to read your story :)
I'm a sub to men but dom to women. Pretty much I think women should be degraded in bed, I'm not exception. I'm a lipstick in a lez but in the bedroom I take control. I won't use strap ons or fake rubbery dicks I would rather use ice frozen in a condom to make it hurt and make her shiver. I can be gentle, but that's after everything is said and done. I'm there to make her cum, but there might be tears running down her face too.
>>23213857 yeahhh exactly. I was the youngest, so kinda similar, youngest and only children tend to get a lot of attention.
Speaking of being treated like a princess though, I really like to make guys grovel and beg at my feet. I go from like aggressive dominance to motherly dominance depending on what I'm feeling. Acting like a princess is the best
>>23213854 Some girls want to dominate taller guys. I like knowing that I can physically overtake the boy whenever I want, that's my preference. I really love role reversal. But that doesn't mean there aren't qt tall sub boys
I prefer a woman who's confident and knows what she wants. I've been forced to make all the decisions in relationships before, and it upsets me. Financially I'll never be a breadwinner due to a number of factors.
I would absolutely love to peg a guy and just completely own him and make him love it. It kind of sucks that' I'm only 5'3 and weigh 115 lbs and I'll never really look too dominant, but it's a huge fantasy of mine.
>>23213919 >Speaking of being treated like a princess though, I really like to make guys grovel and beg at my feet. I go from like aggressive dominance to motherly dominance depending on what I'm feeling. Acting like a princess is the best :)
I like very much :))) Making guys ask permission to kiss me or touch me is awesome, I love to tease them when they're really horny.
>>23213928 I don't think so necessarily. It just sounds like you want someone mature who you can consider your equal and you don't have to take care of them all the time.
I mean do you like the op image? Because I mean that's the kind of dominance we're talking about
>>23213934 I'm sure some guys like little petite doms. I hear a lot of taller guys want short girls to dominate them. I mean if you wanna look more intimidating you can lift (I do because I wanna be able to throw a guy around) but it might make you look p stocky at that height. Just depends what you want
>>23213988 >this is true! Despite being a shorty I tend to go for tall guys and quite a few of them seem to have switch or sub tendencies, so good luck! Really hot when you wouldn't guess it from looking at them.
Also adding, leashes, chains, mabey even fourced into outfirts or whatever, Psycologicly im really into the concept which is why i want to try it a bit first, i would really love to do like a multi day thing, even to the point of eating and sleeping in those roles, Like sleeping with a leash on attatched to the bed and getting woken up by getting bent over and fucked by the girl.
Mabey even some humiliation type stuff to like "If you want to eat you have to cum in your food first" and then she watches while its eaten.
Pic related, would like to be in the sub girls position.
>>23214209 >>23214209 Hay if you can appreciate both sides it adds to it! Im normaly the more "Top" (Which frankly i find annoying, i like relationships with equal imput for everything, one sided relationships are boreing as shit) Hence why i want to try the polar oposit.
>>23213758 >go from submissive to dominant ideal candidate for cuck relationships of for cheating on her sub partner guys, if you are subs and don't want to be cheated or cucked, then watch out for such girls
>>23214257 I'm kinky but I'm loyal. If I was with a guy I felt dominant over sexually (could only work for me if this was not all the time) I would never go looking to get fucked by someone else unless he was into it.
How do you find someone who's into this? I understand not to treat women like walking fetish machines, but every relationship I've been in, the girl was submissive. It's always been a divisive part of my relationships too. I don't have problems finding a partner, but I can't seem to find a dominant partner for the life of me.
>>23215389 Most girls are submissive tbqh, just like most guys are dominant. I don't think there's a guaranteed way, other than maybe online dating and they explicitly state it. Even girls with dominant personalities can be sub in the bedroom lol. Yeah it sucks
>>23215415 Yeah its basically unless they say they're a dom, you have no way of knowing but they're probably submissive because of how humans are wired. Although, I've found more socially rebellious girls tend to be a bit more dom leaning but also much more crazy.
>>23215447 I've known girls like that, seem kinda rebellious and are pretty crazy. I've never met another dom girl irl though so idek what stereotypes are for them. I'm quiet irl but i have a feeling that's not how it normally goes
>>23215475 I mean it varies dramatically because people are different. I'd like someone who's quiet normally because I'm fairly quiet and I enjoy being able to just be together in a nonsexual sense. Of course, someone like you is hard to find because you're quiet.
>>23215482 I love dressing a guy in girly clothes, especially if it's embarrassing for them. I like using a guy as my slave and personal toy, so I do whatever I want. If they hate it I get a lot of pleasure out of it, knowing they dislike it but want to please me.
But yeah, definitely really sexy seeing a boy dressed up. Then me lifting his skirt to finger his ass.
>>23215500 Yeah I like quiet boys too, it makes it nice outside of the bedroom. And I like bratty boys, who try to disobey me. It was hard for me to find a short sub boy (I'm 5'7"). I think dropping hints would be best, the girl should pick up on it if she's into it. If she never gets it, then probably not dominant? It might always be risky. If it were me, if a boy was acting really cute and shy around me I'd want to see if he was sub or not. Tbqh though I'm always the one to ask guys out. I'm quiet but I'm not gonna wait for a guy if he's what I want
>>23215543 Yeah there really isn't a good way to tell because if she doesn't get it, you're either bad at dropping hints, she's clueless to them, or she's not dominant. C'est la vie. Anyway wanna chat outside here? What's your preferred contact method?
I'm naturally very submissive with other women, I love to serve them and let them do terrible, degrading things to me, but I love dominating men. I'm not even remotely sexually attracted to men, but dominating them feels really fulfilling, and it adds an extra layer of degradation/dehumanization to interacting with them, like they don't even sexually excite me, they're literally just allowed to be there because it amuses me. I'm also occasionally dominant with other girls but they have to be reeeeeally naturally submissive and obedient, I can't top girls who struggle or fight back because when they show a little dominance I want to give in to it and let them take charge. Luckily that feeling never happens with guys. I really like fulfilling guys cuckold fantasies by making them watch my girlfriend fuck me, especially when they're really dominant, and I can tell my sub that they're so lowly even someone who gets degraded and treated like trash is more important than them. I'm getting into the online domination/key holding/findom scene a little bit recently too, and I've really enjoyed it so far. I'd love to have a stable paypiggie who spoils me and begs me to Skype with him just so I can tell him what a loser he is and make him pay just to watch me undress. That level of power over someone is so fucking intoxicating, I love it.
Wish I could. I'm in the most vanilla relationship of my life. Had a very dominant friend of mine who sometimes brought her boyfriend along with her when we'd fuck around, you remind me of him (hope you're also easy to get along with outside the sex).
>>23215894 The financial domination aspect came about because I realized pathetic little subby boys are littered all over the internet and they're not too hard to wrap around my finger, but I'm not attracted to them and don't get any real sexual fulfillment from them so I might as well pick the ones who are willing to give me something extra in return to make my time worthwhile. I will say I'm not one of those crazy girls who demands hundreds of dollars at a time or anything, I just expect my little subby boys to respect that my time is much more valuable than theirs and I'm doing them a favor by being there. But I understand that it's not everyone's cup of tea, or that they can't afford it, and that's totally ok. Different strokes :P >>23215901 So why can't you? It's just online and I'm definitely never going to touch you in any sexual way. And I like to think I'm pretty easy to get along with, I'm usually a very laid back person outside of kink >>23215908 Then give me your email and we'll talk
I'm a sub guy, very into any and every fetish aside from actual kids and scat (sorry but easier to just say it that way), but I love the idea of a innocent looking short girl pegging me, humiliating me, taking full control of me. In person, voice, or text. I'm 26, 6ft, 210 pounds, italian, heavily tatted, small dick, very intimidating looking, think biker/bouncer. Willing to share pics through email. Willing to meet as well. Live in PA. I'd also be okay with just discussing any of your fetishes or fantasies. Not opposed to being friends and it not just revolving around sex too. Sorry I can't habg around and chat too much right now. Busy with some stuff. I'll try to respond if you say something. :) I really hope I get someone to email me though... I have spent years looking for this. Not a single bit of luck. :(
Oh, waist size and stuff means nothing. I'm not all about dolled up girls. I have a very strange definition of cute and sexy. :) So please... don't judge yourself... I bet you look amazing.
>>23216763 I don't do it because I'm poor, I do it because I'm literally not attracted to men at all I just get like morbid amusement from it, so it seems pointless spend time fulfilling their sexual fantasies without getting compensated. And having control over someone's money is a big power trip too, that's definitely a part of it. Like know you command so much respect and they're so loyal that they'll but you a $200 pair of jeans, or pay for your date with someone you're actually attracted to, god it's a great feeling
I have the issue of being from a super duper vanilla suburb, so I have no idea what a dominant woman/girl would act like, aside from being usually quiet. I went from occasionally watching femdom porn to watching it exclusively, so I don'the think I am going to be really sexually satisfied until I find someone like that who isn't a complete bitch the rest of the time. Any tips on finding this type of thing, provided I'm reasonably attractive?
Dominant transwoman here, I'm technically a switch but I like to domme about 99.9% of the time. I'm mostly into bondage, teasing, impact play, teasing, sensation play, occasionally humiliation, and did I mention I really like teasing? Clamps and vibes and insertables are always fun too, and lately I've been thinking about getting into knifeplay more.
>>23216763 I'm a poor domme and I still wouldn't pull that shit. I've occasionally told my subs to buy toys for me to use on them, but I'd never make them buy things just for me. It's shitty to take advantage of people like that, it seems like less of a real fetish and more of an excuse to get free stuff from gullible saps. If I could afford it, I'd be the one spoiling my subs with gifts all the time.
>>23217243 >>23217312 I'm poly but not into cuckolding at all. Not judging those who are, but it completely goes against my core ideas of what a healthy non-monogamous relationship should be like. I generally prefer to keep all my relationships separate, unless I'm getting everyone together for awesome mutually fulfilling group sex.
>>23218618 spooky scary skeleton though. slightly jealous of tiny bw. I'm 5'7 and 150lb and i wish i could be smaller and more petite for a domme, but i have a dilemma in that i love lifting. the obvious route of course would be to just compete in lower weight categories but even then i feel like my shoulders are too bulky and not effeminate enough for most dommes. long hair seems to help though. >>23218961 from chatting to dommes on skype theres quite a mix in terms of preferences in regards to begging, most like it, its just the degree to which they like it. >What's the best way for a sub to tell when they should keep begging and when they should stop? intuition man, you'll know after a certain point. though I myself am horrible at begging on account of being a bit of a "bratty sub" i generally need to be cowed into submission before i start properly begging.
I'm attracted to women who make the first move, initiate sex and maybe even get into face-sitting. Everything about a domme women, besides the financial domination and pegging, turns me on. Where do I find such a lady?
Financial domination can be exhilarating if two people are a good match, but finding a domme can be a bit of a minefield. Anything which involves money changing hands is going to attract fakes. Anyone can post a few slutty photos, send out the occasional text calling some guy a worthless pig, and wait for the money to come rolling in.
If I end up paying a girl's rent or helping her keep up with her car payments then she's not dominant, no matter how good she is at belittling me. She's just a mooch.
The financial submissive's dream is basically a sadistic rich girl. She already has more money than she could spend - maybe she worked for it, but more than likely it's family money and she's never worked a day in her life. She owns shoes that cost two months of the sub's rent; she dines out at restaurants where one meal costs as much as he spends on his groceries for the whole week. Even if he handed over his entire monthly wage it would be pretty much pocket change to her, and yet she'd take it just to watch him suffer. She makes him live off instant noodles for two straight weeks and uses his grocery money to go for cocktails with her girlfriends. She makes him shiver and freeze in the winter so he can give her the money he saves on his heating bill, and she just throws it on the fire in front of his eyes, because it's nothing to her - all she wants is the power to make him suffer.
THAT'S the type of girl financial submissives want. It's a pity she only exists in fantasy.
>>23222741 I'll never understand why people want findom like this, moreso because it seems unsustainable. my idea of findom has always been in the context of a proper relationship in which the domme has final say over financial decisions and of course has complete access to her subs finances as naturally she knows best.
>>23222741 >The financial submissive's dream is basically a sadistic rich girl. I'm sure there's millions of boys out there who would love nothing more than to have Taylor Swift treat them like that, but the ugly truth is we're too pathetic to have her acknowledge our existence.
Man I wish I could find a domme. I've only had one experience with one and I had to pay for that, though it was a great time and we've become friends. Both my girlfriends are total submissives too so there's no chance in hell I'll ever be able to talk them into anything like that, they think my foot fetish is disgusting enough as it is.
>tfw no Domme gf to use you and your other girlfriends for her pleasure.
>>23223170 yes this is how it should work. in the end everything is owned by your domme not you (in the bounds of relationship ofc). you end up being completely dependent on your domme, you drive her car, you sleep in her bed if she allows you to, you wear "her" clothes, you live in her house. I don't see single reason to give money to woman that doesn't even care for me. bdsm is all about trust and trusting someone up to the point where you give up control over your money just shows that your relationship is working well.
>>23225820 it is not like that. dome girls just don't have reason to visit sites like 4chan. there are few exceptions but that's it. I have never heard about dominant woman that said "oh it is so hard to find submissive man"
I am 6,0 ft even. Brown hair brown eyes brown skin. I have always been interested in Femdom it was an unusual thing for me. At first I thought it wrong but I grew to get kind of attracted to a dom. But I mean seriously do girls like that would anyone be my dom?
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