>>23213120 Because to women, I'm not actually that attractive apparently. Combine that with social ineptitude so horrible my teeth begin chattering when I'm within 5 feet of a woman and you have a recipe for disaster.
>>23213144 Because it is constantly around me and I observe the most pitiful of chads score women. You're right, confidence plays in a lot with this. I guess what I mean to say is anon you are >>23213084 (I believe) objectively attractive and when you can work through the social anxiety of talking to women, you will laid.
The only way I manage to talk to women with any real confidence is 1. try my hardest to pretend I am talking to a man, so there is no distraction of potential future interactions floating around my head and making me more nervous. 2. Try (once again I repeat TRY) to simply not care if I come across as smooth or not, like I could care less about their opinion.
It sometimes tends to work for me at least, It's the thoughts racing in my mind of "fuck I want to pursue this girl, and all that fantasy of being with said girl) that really fucks me up.
I'm not going to pretend like you can simply turn off anxiety but these mental images and exercises help me at least a little. God speed anon.
therapy is definitely a reddit/leftist meme. my advice would be anxiolytics (there are plenty of legal ones online such as phenibut) but of course im a robot virgin myself who gets rated 7s on average. i live at home so losing my virginity is out of the question. >>23213228 its the worst balding pattern. losing the frontal third and sides so the hairline goes straight from sideburn to sideburn will make anyone ugly.
>>23213293 Hard to pick up on social cues if no one even talks to you.
A lot of it has to do with location. If you have "nerdy" interests like anime and video games, and live in an area where no female is into that shit, you're basically screwed unless you want a one night stand, which I don't.
Considering I also can't afford to move, I may very well die a virgin
>>23213344 How likely are you to find women online in your area? I've found that its easier to slip into deeper subjects than shared interests and small talk over texting conversations. It would allow you to find common ground on a more personal level than just hobbies. Or, find something that you enjoy that's outside or can at least be turned into a 2 person activity. Meet a girl, ask her to join. Even if she wasn't interested in said hobby before its likely that she will enjoy a new experience and quite possibly your company.
>>23213352 >Social commentators, journalists, academics, scientists and young men themselves have all spotted the trend: among men of about 15 to 30 years old, ever-increasing numbers are checking out of society altogether, giving up on women, sex and relationships and retreating into pornography, sexual fetishes, chemical addictions, video games and, in some cases, boorish lad culture, all of which insulate them from a hostile, debilitating social environment created, some argue, by the modern feminist movement.
>You can hardly blame them. Cruelly derided as man-children and crybabies for objecting to absurdly unfair conditions in college, bars, clubs and beyond, men are damned if they do and damned if they don’t: ridiculed as basement-dwellers for avoiding aggressive, demanding women with unrealistic expectations, or called rapists and misogynists merely for expressing sexual interest.
>>23213451 Well, an LDR is what I'm in, though its due to employment and we are together whenever possible. She's neither fat nor just looking to bone and was found online, so there's hope. I wish you the best of luck.
>>23213547 >add girl from a Skype or kik thread >has been already added by 100+ guys >if it's a kik thread they've sent nudes to some of those guys >Either way can't make myself stand out enough above the others to win her over >fall in love anyway then feel like killing myself when she tells me she started dating one of the other guys but still wants to be just friends
>>23213557 Sometimes it works dude. If your good looking use a picture of yourself, if not use a funny meme or something. Make real conversations right off the bat, as tons of dudes are just "hey, what's up?" Those conversations run their course very fast. So start with questions about her, or interesting things about yourself. Be confident.
>>23213566 So talk to someone else. Start over. Or give up and be a wizard. The choice is yours. >>23213593 It will take some time and dedication but a majority of those girls aren't actually waiting for marriage. They just want a relationship.
>>23213592 >be confident >be urself this is almost a perfect replication of a meme women online are 10x more shallow and vapid than women IRL from my experiences, and 4chan women follow that rule closely they have 300+ men banging down their door trying to get anything from them that their self-worth is through the roof and it is physically impossible to stand out for most people on here
so why even bother then? why fight to get the attention of some crazy fat girl who will cheat on you? why fight and change who you are and pretend to be something you're not so that some cruel woman online can get her fill of validation before going off and fucking mr prettyboy pussymagnet without a second thought?
not to mention that by going into and using those threads, you are contributing to the problem you are putting the pussy on a pedestal, you are giving free validation top shallow women, you are feeding their egos and sense of self-worth
which is how people like me ended up involuntarily celibate in the first place, stuck up women with huge egos who refuse to deal with anyone below a ridiculously high attractiveness standard
you know it really isn't lolsoez to get an irl bf, and harder yet to lose your virginity. I think I'm not totally ugly or dumb. Maybe people think I'm a bitch and don't want to approach me. 24 and forever a virgin. No irl offers. Had a couple people e-flirt with me but they were thousands of miles away, and the contact didn't last more than a week until I presume they found a cuter, more interesting girl to talk to.
>>23213679 well I'd rather lose my virginity to someone I like, dating sites are usually just guys looking for casual sex. I guess it's easy for anyone to get laid if it's casual regardless of gender, yeah. ehhhh
>>23213632 Idk then dude, try the irl thing I suggested to the other guy? >>23213646 Women are shallow, men are shallow. Its really not as different irl than online than you seem to believe. You complain that the online girl will drop you as soon as something better comes along but then refer to this hypothetical woman as fat and crazy which leads me to believe you would do the same. How about this: add a girl, and don't ask what she looks like, just talk to her. If she's just a vapid whore looking for superficial validation she'll move on quickly. They aren't all terrible.
>>23213646 >not to mention that by going into and using those threads, you are contributing to the problem >you are putting the pussy on a pedestal, you are giving free validation top shallow women, you are feeding their egos and sense of self-worth >which is how people like me ended up involuntarily celibate in the first place, stuck up women with huge egos who refuse to deal with anyone below a ridiculously high attractiveness standard this this this >>23213664 >I refused my step-moms sister's request to take my virginity good on you >>23213671 >>23213694 >pic related
and it's easy for anyone to get casual sex. But I've never gotten any irl offers. I don't mean email. Even online, it was only a couple guys flirting with me but they were too far away. Probably dropped me for some perfect qt3.14. Yeah I'm bitter
I'm still a virgin, not really an impossible thing
>>23213697 I have added girls from those threads I have also deleted all of them because I see they have 200+ contacts and I realize I'm being strung along for validation and possibly money I would date a fat or ugly girl, but my point is, they won't "settle" for someone like me, they believe it's beneath them because they've had their egos propped up their entire time online just because of their gender I refuse to be another number in some girl's book of orbiters she strings along online
>>23213768 There's no way they talk to all those dudes though. You're just assuming that because they accepted adds from multiple anons (yourself included) that they are using them to boost self esteem. They could just as easily be normal down to earth girls just looking for someone to talk to and weeding through the creeps and dick pics. Having a negative outlook on life and relationships won't get you anywhere dude.
And I wasn't saying that you shouldn't ask for a picture to imply that you were shallow. I meant that if a girl is looking for validation and you don't even care what she looks like she won't linger long.
>>23213768 >I see they have 200+ contacts and I realize I'm being strung along for validation and possibly money
idk about being strung along for validation and money but it becomes obvious very quickly that she's (barely) pretending to have time for you, and if you stopped talking to her she wouldn't even notice or miss it.
I have too much pride to struggle and fight for somebody who doesn't give a shit about me. Nobody talks to 200 people. I have like 40 skype contacts and I don't even talk to most of those.
>>23213837 >girl has tons of adds >gets tons of messages >expects me to believe that they aren't shopping around and I actually mean anything to them delete the fucking contacts if you don't want them around you don't have to keep 200+ people around on your contacts if you never talk to them
>>23213869 Why would you want to talk to that sort of person in the first place?
Even if it is all women, being that attention-hungry just seems like a character flaw. Like immaturity or something. I'd rather have a real conversation. I'm not going to walk up to a woman with a clown nose on just so she'll notice me IRL. In the same right, if somebody says anything like "be funny" or "be interesting" or has thousands of other contacts I'm getting that they have nothing to offer me, they're just looking for some easy entertainment, and I'm better off not trying to talk to that person.
>>23213737 Of course it isn't impossible. It's very possible if you don't frequent places where people can actually hit on you. If you spend all day at work/school/home/whatever and don't go to parties or just outside there's no way anyone will hit on you IRL.
>>23213191 Well, you seem like a cool guy. Don't you realize that your wits and awareness are the things giving you anxiety? You've got strengths. Some people would kill to be as emotionally intelligent as you. Chill out. You have things to be confident about. And if you're not confident about you're strengths, no-one else will put confidence in them either. As in, you could be a lot of help for girls and gals alike in understanding the "game".
>>23213907 Yeah I'm at work all day. I work a pretty standard schedule, Monday - Friday 8 - 5. I hate the party/club life and are full of guys who are drunk and will fuck anyone. I mean, do people just usually get it over with and then go from there? It would feel really slutty to literally fuck anyone just to claim to not be a virgin anymore.
>>23213932 Being a virgin as a girl is not seen as a bad thing by just about anyone, though. You can just say you were waiting for the right one and most will think it's cute. You don't sound like you just want to get laid.
>>23213869 >>23213871 Ok, I give up. Check it out. I'm a girl. When I post my contact info on here I get anywhere from 30-90 adds depending on how fast the thread dies and all. I quit posting my info for this reason. But back to my point, I at one time had like 400ish skype contacts, I only talked to like 4. I didn't fuck with deleting the others, because who gives a fuck? But I wasn't intentionality keeping them around. I'm pretty normal, I'm not ugly or fat. I don't need 4chan for validation. I live in a rural area in the bible belt and I enjoy being able to talk to people in the outside world. I met my boyfriend on 4chan. I'm just trying to help y'all out. Sex is fun, I think everyone shoud get some. But you can't run around being negative nancys about everything and then complain that no one wants to do you when you're not even trying. So girls get more attention, and its easier for them to get sex. Oh well! That's just the law of the land. And honestly thats not even our fault. But regardless. Y'all could totally find some decent ladies on the internet. It IS possible, though maybe (probably) not easy. But you'll have to quit being so judgemental.
>>23213954 Yeah it doesn't really sound like most people in this thread just want to get laid either. I think most are talking about wanting to be a virgin, but not wanting to fuck a slutty drunk chick or a fat girl or something like that. idk there has to be somewhere to draw the line it looks like.
>>23213974 it's not exactly magic that somebody who has always been mistreated and/or neglected would be a little bit bitter about it (a little bit at least)
I also think you're being a bit dishonest about how you treat the hundreds of people who add you. If you're not seeking them out, the drift off into that limbo of nothingness with the rest of your contacts you never bothered to remove. Do you message other people an equal amount of the time? Do you make them feel like you actually want to talk to them? Why would you even care if you can make a single post and get 40 adds at any given time? To make it out like you're giving them the same consideration that they'd give you is probably unrealistic.
>>23213974 >I get all the attention and validation I could ever want >I even have a boyfriend and successful life >let's go into this thread with miserable virgin guys and make them feel like shit >I'm going to tell people how things "actually are", despite them having actually experienced these things themselves you are what I hate about women if this is actually true I have had 0 replies and 0 dates from online dating over the course of 2 years, 0 friends and relationships from 4chan and online and here, you have had everything handed to you, and you're telling me to "man up"
no, it's not how it should be, women should not get to have a leg up in every social situation, they should not get to have the pick of every man they want, they should not be able to belittle men like I have been all my life it's not right, it's not equal, and women today seem to want everything equal, so I want this shit changed
>>23214015 >no, it's not how it should be, women should not get to have a leg up in every social situation, they should not get to have the pick of every man they want, they should not be able to belittle men like I have been all my life >it's not right, it's not equal, and women today seem to want everything equal, so I want this shit changed elliot rogers has returned!!!!!
>>23213995 If I gave a shit about that I would probably just directly ask people. Or make a tinder or something.
tbqh I'll sound like a total faggot but I don't see how people aren't afraid of catching diseases. Like you're having sex with one person who has had sex with 40 people. Those 40 people have each had sex with 40 people. You can catch enough shit from a doorknob or handshake or something. Sex is 1000x more intimate than anything like that. There's herpes and a trillion types of hpv. It's not good.
>>23214013 I probably never talked to half of them, and probably had only one conversation with the majority of the other half. I don't force conversations, but if we have things to talk about then I will go out of my way to chat and stay in contact. I would rather have a handful of people that I can have real conversations with than a hundred dudes that want to tell me I'm pretty. So I would rather maintain relationships than try to find new anonymous fans. And honestly I think most women would agree. I mean I'm not saying that there aren't damaged women out there feeding off of the attention, but I'm certain that's not actually the majority.
>>23214015 Where did I try to make you feel like shit? I've just been offering advice to try to get you laid bro.
And everything hasn't just been handed to me in life. You have no idea what kind of hand I've been dealt. But I try to stay focused on the good and get on with my life. I sincerely recommend that you do the same.
I didn't say that it was fair but like it or not that's how things are. There's plenty of downsides to having a vagina but this isnt the place for that rant.
>>23214080 I understand why it would make you feel bitter. But its just the way it is. And of those 40 ants usually 20 are spamming their peen. Its not all that glamorous. I'm just trying to let you know that there are girls worth your time and I was trying to give you advice on how to get their attention.
>>23214089 >offering advice your advice is shit do you know why? because you're a woman dating is piss easy for you because all you have to do is exist in an area where you can be noticed, it's that easy the game and life has been rigged in your favor so hard that you can't even see the astounding amount of shit that has been handed to you on a silver platter
>>23213974 >When I post my contact info on here I get anywhere from 30-90 adds depending on how fast the thread dies and all. I quit posting my info for this reason. But back to my point, I at one time had like 400ish skype contacts,
>>23214100 and I've been saying for a long time how is it even worth my time if some girl keeps 400+ orbiters around for her own personal validation? how the fuck am I supposed to stand out in that large of a group? you'd have to be a fucking superman to ever get laid and I'm pretty sure that's how things are in today's society
>>23214144 You cant, I'll like to add something especially my tinder tries.
These past few weeks I've tried everything to get matches, i listened to the guys on here and those who created Tinder threads showing off their hundreds of matches. I tried changing my Bio many times, tried uploading different pictures of me at different angles, and many other different things.
I took my time, going through profiles and reading peoples bios, those who were 8-9's i disliked, those who were very social or had impressive jobs / schooling i disliked. Those who we had things in common or were around 4-7/10 i liked (Mixed in with a few lowers). The few matches i did get these past few weeks none ever responded back. Even though i changed up my approaches every time.
I also even tried going on here (/soc/) and posting in threads where you post things about yourself and the things you like in hopes of someone adding you. No one ever responded to my post yet everyone else had 3-4 replies each and the women all had about 10. And reading the girls post above it looks like they got 90+ each.
I'm 6ft 5/10 looks Thin
It's bullshit, those 5/10 women pick the cream from the crop then complain about where the good guys went when they get pump and dumped.
>>23214157 I mean I have the same thing >around 6 ft >pic was posted earlier >make OKC and tinder 2 years ago >send out hundreds of non-creepy messages >almost no replies >no dates >no women interested the few replies I get are "ew" or an equivalent
women are fucking cruel monsters that only think about themselves
>>23214131 >>23214144 If you read what I was recommending before I admitted to being a lady I was giving pretty sound advice. I'm actually in a really good position to give such advice because I know what makes one stand out in the masses. I'm done though dude. You would obviously rather wallow in your self pity and blame everyone else for your troubles. Good luck. I hope you find the lady that changes your mind.
Feels bad man, the worst has to be is getting NO RESPONSE BACK, what the fuck?? I get matched and i go forward and take the initiative and send a message only to be ignored. We are basically ants in a pool with hundreds of others. I only bothered replying because of the cunt above who thinks she has a hard life, a hard dating life and thinks she knows anything what a male goes through especially in the dating scene.
We are nothing more but a chess piece, I'll be a virgin probably until the end unless i lose it to a prostitute (I'm in my twenties).
>>23214132 I'm not pretending to know how anyone feels. Again, just throwing out some pointers for virgin anons that don't want to blend into the masses. I guess I assumed that you would want to change the situation, but it appears that some of you are just using it as a baww thread to bitch about women. Isn't there a whole board for that? > go back to r9k
>>23214166 good to know you can't actually argue back besides calling me bitter your advice is awful, it's bad online women are the most picky group I have ever seen in my life and you being one of them doesn't change a thing you have been lying through your teeth because you want to feel good about yourself you think some bullshit advice you throw out there is going to help a down on his luck guy and get him laid it's not, you have no idea how relationships work from the guy side you have never seen anything about it you have only seen guys come up and approach you and do everything for you
you cannot give sound advice it's like someone who uses cheats to beat a game trying to help someone else through it you can't do it, you couldn't do it, so you can't help
I can guarantee if you lived one day as a guy in modern society you'd blow your brains out before the end of it
>>23214180 >I guess I assumed that you would want to change the situation,
You think it's an easy as 1-2-w, well it's not you stupid fucking idiot. You live an easy life and get a pass simply because of your existence and having a vagina. Nothing more, a male who is not good looking is shunned by society.
And no one is "bawwing", everyone is calling you out for the retard you are.
Women always seek the attention and validation. She knew exactly what she was in for. Only she was dumb enough to pretend like she has a hard dating life and the males are all a bench of cry babies who can easily change their life and start getting adds left and right.
Women like this deserve to be put up against the wall and shot for her stupidity and obvious denial.
>>23214180 everyone wants to change their situation you dumb cunt but you're giving TRASH ADVICE it's bad, you are really really stupid holly shit you wouldn't even be in a relationship if your boyfriend and hordes of guys didn't do basically everything for you
online dating is TRASH 4chan is TRASH for dating the game is so rigged against men that the only winning move is to not play because the act of participating and giving women attention means that you risk certain humiliation and financial ruin in exchange for her getting social validation and monetary gifts
you have no fucking clue,m so why don't you just fuck off out of this thread then? oh, you won't, because you're a self-centered cunt who wants the attention from going into a male dominated space and destroying everything you can
Do I count if I've had sex less than 10 times and all of them were with hookers? The principle of this thread is that people don't want to fuck us, so I think I meet the mark. >>23214131 >your advice is shit >do you know why? >because you're a woman This. Honest, I don't hate women. Literally I have nearly zero guy friends and all my friends are women, I get on really well with them.
But straight men have no good advice for how to date men, and straight women have no good advice for how to date women. You've never had to. This is basic shit.
>>23214182 Ha! But it was honest! I bet he could pick one up. He looks the part, and he's always nice and respectful. They'd be on him like white on rice. >>23214187 Do you not get that I'm not trying to give advice from the mans side? If anything this is more like a villian listing his weaknesses for a hero. I'm just telling you what has worked on me. >>23214190 Lol. Jesus tits dude, ok I didn't lay out steps. I didn't say it was easy (in fact I acknowledged that it would not be easy) I'm just being helpful. Talking shit about not getting laid is totally not going to get you laid. But maybe making it a point to stand out, or trying new things irl will. Ya dig?
No you aren't, you're being a dumb bitch who continues to regurgitate shit. Even the other guy told you to fuck off and that your advice was shit. Take the hint, cunt. You know nothing about what it's like.
Now run along and go get your hols filled by your boyfriend you met from 4chan.
>>23214218 >I'm just telling you what has worked on me. Could we trust you to know? My entire life experience has been that women say one thing and actually do/feel another. Women will say they like the stereotypical dream guy because they're too ashamed to admit that they basically get wet for psychotic rapists.
>>23214218 There might be some therapeutic value in whining about something, seeing other people whining about the same thing, and wallowing in mutual empathy. No one in /virgin/ has gotten laid posting in /virgin/. There's no reason for you to care about the people in here and you really aren't helping by posting the most obvious of advice that any late-in-life virgin already thought of years ago.
>>23214218 your advice is bad, we already knew half of the shit you've been saying >go talk to the shallow vapid sluts that post info on /soc/ >be at least 9/10 and include pic of /fit/ body >be at least 6 feet tall >make at least 100k a year
we already knew all this shit but it's unfair, it's awful, I bet you're an ugly as fuck slut who doesn't do jack shit for a job but you still get to be picky as fuck because society gives you literally everything you would ever want
you never had to try ever so your advice is bad the only good advice for people who need to try is other people who had to try and work for it not some dumb cunt who posted I AM A FEMALE on a board and sorted through the 600+ offers she got
this is why the thread says no women and why they aren't allowed on r9k you have no self awareness, you can't even think about what you're saying or who you're saying it to hell, you don't even know what you want, women have no fucking clue what they like, they just like what they like
The most amusing part is the dumb cunt still hasn't figured it out even though it was mentioned earlier, she made it through life just by existing and is here right now trying to give advice to men who have tried everything and been like this for years now.
Honestly, how fucking stupid can someone be? It boggles my fucking mind.
>>23214198 Never said I had a hard dating life, never said anything about getting adds. >>23214201 I'm really really stupid because I recommended that a) you not feed into the validation game by not asking for a photo and therefore not complementing her looks, b) dive directly into a conversation, don't just say "what's up?" And then expect to talk about anything, and c) if you have trouble relating to girls irl find something to do that you can invite them along for, because even if it isn't something they would usually do they might enjoy the new experience/company? Which part of that is so awful and not going to help? That's really all the advice I offered before everyone started bitching about how awful all the girls are.
>>23214241 >be 9/10, /fit/, 6', earn 100k >this is what it takes to have sex This is complete bullshit and if you went outside you'd see plenty of poor, manlet, fat, uggos who have a good personality wading in pussy. It is 100% a social marketplace, what can you offer them? If you can offer them good, intersting, fun times, you will get laid. And you don't need any of the greentexted qualities to do that, they just help a lot. Just acknolwedge that you have a boring or annoying or miserable or some combination thereof personality, and try to fix that. >protip, you can't, personalities don't change, you're fucked, i'm fucked, we're all fucked because we post on 4chan all day
>>23214256 >go outside meme I have been outside at a town with 3-4 universities withing 50 miles of me I can say with confidence that unless you are a superman, women will not want to talk to you and will tell you to fuck off if approached
because I have approached them and they have told me to fuck off women are cruel, shallow, heartless pieces of shit that expect the world from a potential bf and expect to be entertained at every turn as >>23214254 confirms from her posts
The worst is when you're a naturally small guy. Your only option is to be gay if you want someone to love you. Everyone says get /fit/ were all gonna make it. It's the worst meme. I've noticed most virgin guys have small frames. Few are the obese neckbeard steretype. When you're a thin guy, not skeletor but just healthy slim like ottermode, only gay guys will like you. With clothes on you do look skeltal, the cut look doesn't show unless you're shirtless or pumped. And you can't complain, all your work to even reach ottermode is disregarded and you're told to either bulk up like a real man or become gay. Even zyzz himself would've been stuck at ottermode if he didn't kill himself juicing.
So basically an entire set of perfectly fit men (ectomorph types) are being denied by women. It's the Calhoun experiment realized. There was a thread here on soc the other day showing a fatass and a twink otter, everyone preferred the fatass. WHAT THE FUCK has the world come to that guys have to take androgens just to be given a chance.
I've seen this image posted heaps and never once was it refuted.
>>23214262 My universe. There's this ginger dude right. Now I'm short, I'm 5'8", but he's barely up to my shoulders. I'd guess he's around 5'5" or lower. He has a neckbeard and a pot belly and he walks around in the same jean shorts and t-shirt every day. He kicks off his sneakers in class and spends it barefoot. But he's so fucking jovial, he's so good at holding conversation, and he legit has women baying at him. At the two social functions I've been to with him, he's gone home with the girl I considered most attractive. He's the most extreme example that comes to mind every time I see this, but there's plenty of more reasonable examples. Real fat dudes (I mean blue whale fat) who have a bit of self confidence often have gfs. every resident in the low SEAs, with their rat like faces and their 100% welfare income and their king of the manlets status. You don't have to be perfect in every way to impress women.
So why don't I, and why don't you? I reckon it's because we have shit personalities lads, and people don't enjoy themselves when they're around us. Personally, if I wasn't me, I probably wouldn't want to talk to me.
It's not hard to fabricate up a story to try and put females under a spot-light and make them seem like genuine angels. Everyone with an IQ above room temperature knows your ass gets jealous from the amount of shit that comes out of your mouth. Being funny, being charming, being talkative is considered weird, a put off and many other things if you are ugly or very short.
Being good looking puts your foot in the door, it makes your jokes funny, it makes you cute, it makes you smart for knowing what 6x6='s.
Nah, the worst is when you're a manlet but with a stocky frame. Nobody wants guys like that except gays. Skinny dudes can get women because that's what's fashionable now. Muscular men are frowned upon.
>>23214301 Except I'm 6ft and skinny, that doesn't work unless you look like the guy in OP's picture. Just check out the bodies women on here for example lust over. All ripped bodies while the faggots lust over the skinny guys.
>>23214293 I know it helps. Of course it fucking helps. But it's not such a huge barrier to getting laid that it becomes totally out of the question. To a certain extent, it's not even a completely immutable characteristic, the combination of being /fa/, smelling nice and being /fit/ can boost anyone's attractiveness a fair amount.
But personality doesn't change, and so many guys fall back on that (oh, I'm so ugly but I have a nice personality and I wish girls would see that), and I think they're wrong to do so. I literally think everyone in this thread who is an age 20+ virgin has one or more of three personality problems:
So you, you're jaded and bitter. I'm sure you're not so explicitly jaded when you're in conversation in real life, but it comes through in the subtext that socially well-adjusted people pick up on.
I'm in the same boat as you are. I don't know what you look like exactly, but as for me I'm an overweight balding manlet. But as long as I see other overweight balding manlets getting their dicks wet, I'm not blaming that for my situation.
>>23214318 >I know it helps. Of course it fucking helps. But it's not such a huge barrier to getting laid that it becomes totally out of the question. To a certain extent, it's not even a completely immutable characteristic, the combination of being /fa/, smelling nice and being /fit/ can boost anyone's attractiveness a fair amount.
Make up on a pig is still a pig, get it through your head.
>>23214318 >I literally think everyone in this thread who is an age 20+ virgin has one or more of three personality problems: >>they're boring >>they're annoying >>they're miserable You're fucking wrong mate I'm a virgin because I live with parents and can't drive. I can't afford to move out and I don't want a ons I want a gf.
This is another area where women have it so much easier. They can live at home and be picked up by the man until she's ready to move out, whereupon she moves in with the man. It's much more acceptable for women to get lifts from friends as well lol at a guy being driven by his gf to her place.
Like she was hardwired to do, all she needs to do is exist and spread her legs for free food, free power, free water, free gas, free everything else. It's just as if she was married. All she needs to do in return it take the cock.
A NEET guy would never get such an arrangement done unless he was ridiculously good fucking looking.
I'm saying guys can sell their sex the same as women, so it isn't a goal shift you daft cunt.
>whose to say it won't turn into a relationship
Then that would make it something else, and my argument would still apply. We agree with each other, men will accept NEET and physically disgusting women while women will only accept a working 6/10 at the least.
>girl posts in this thread, trying to give advice. >gets called dumb slut immediately and is being insulted. >this is why you beta manlets are virgins hating girls because they don't see what a supreme gentleman of perfection you are is exactly why no one wants to fuck you.
>>23214879 >You get shit on all the time /soc/ doesn't shit on women ALL the time. Are you talking about /r9k/? Well I fucking despise robots and seeing their misery makes me happy. Getting asspained (You)s from them is part of that experience.
>everything wrong in my life is because of women! Kill those whores! These shitheads can't even make male friends, nobody in real life wants anything to do with them; yet for some convoluted reason they ignore the common factor and place that blame exclusively on women. It's hilarious.
Keep yelling roastie bitch cumdumpster you frogposting niggers. I welcome the diatribe with open arms.
>>23214271 Thats some bullshit. My straight best friend is the sexiest son of a bitch that i'll ever know. In 21 years of my existence he's the only real person that has ever made me horny. Ok, im a prolly 100% gay guy (since i hooked up with many attractive girls and nothing went further), but that beast is always making girls line up for him :/
And thats the main reason i remain a virgin. Still waiting for others to make me feel like he do
And no, its not like im not trying. Its just... i dont feel it, ykn :C im sad anons
>>23214997 I thought you said you were fucking done But you come back to be a count again and gloat about some perceived victory you have Face it, you never had any advice, you were in it for the attention
>>23215141 In all honesty though, no. I wasn't looking for attention. That's why I spent the first half of my time in the thread not acknowledging that I'm a lady. I dun goofed when I exposed my roastie status. Next time I'll leave that bit out.
>>23215299 Sure thing then Looks a lot to me like you just like making virgins feel like shit because you're worthless besides your gender And you feel the need to shove in our faces exactly how much of an advantage you get just from that coin flip at birth
>>23215308 I don't see you helping looking back I see you trying to justify your lifestyle and tell virgins itt why you think they're all pathetic and awful Which doesn't seem to be help at all when your first 2 posts are victim blaming saying its self inflicted and then you go on for 10-20 posts trying to justify your long distance cuckolding of some guy you picked out of 300+ "fans" that added you on 4chan
None of you seem so bad visually. If anxiety's your issue, women have it too. If you're better at communicating online, use Internet dating interfaces until you're comfortable enough with the other person to meet.
If you're not getting replies, find someone trusted to look over the messages you're sending.
Only send out messages to those whom you've been matched with. If OKC, think 85% or higher.
>inb4 no girls allowed Rules are made to be broken.
>>23216113 How can I not seem to get over you? I said in the OP that girls shouldn't post in this thread. There are 1000 other threads up for you to attentionwhore in but you had to do it in this one. What's up with that?
this is why we can never have nice things on 4chan the sadistic asshole women on here will tear everything down for their own personal amusement because they can't fathom that there's another person on the other end with feeling and problems
>Was resigned to my fate as 25 year old apprentice wizard >Qt appears >Stick penis into vag couple of months ago >Didn't finish >2 months later, she cuts off all contact with me cause of my autism >Still feel like a virgin
>>23213163 Can confirm this a thousand times over. I can get dates like people catch a cold, but my autism fucks me more than anyone else ever will. And I'm exceedingly high functioning, too - just got bugs in all the wrong places.
I am almost 25 and a virgin. I might be legitimately autistic. Whenever a stranger shows interest in me I sperg out and try to avoid them. Friends almost never show interest and have told me that I don't seem interested in them. I know I'm not super attractive, but uglier girls than me manage to get laid.
>>23218468 That's hilariously ironic, considering you can't tell where the sarcasm was or what it was toward. Now take a chill pill before you dig yourself any deeper.
>>23218485 Considering you're not bad looking, it might be the sperging, yeah. Though, I will say a lot of people see brightly colored hair like that to be a red flag these days, for various reasons. You more than likely just need to find someone you're comfortable with, and then it'll all be fine.
>>23218586 What exactly do you think I took literally? You're confusing me now but I think we can work this out.
You said "hurr durr, we all know women are fucked out of the womb", meaning that you think it's completely unnatural and out of the question that any woman would have sex at maybe 15 or 16 years old, as opposed to having sex in adulthood.
I said that you have to be over age 18 to use this site, meaning that since the vast majority of women (more than 9 in 10) will already have had some kind of sexual contact by then, I was justified in not wanting them to post here, among other reasons.
Then because I said that for some reason you thought I was insinuating that you personally are underage?
I don't know shit about >>23218485 but I wouldn't be surprised if we're getting some lies by omission here and she's actually blown 10 guys and tried to have sex or something. I also didn't want the thread to get derailed like >>23213974
Like really it's just supposed to be a comfy thread for virgins and still people have to come in and cause problems because they're so butthurt about somebody else just existing in peace. Really if you think people are going to say disparaging things about you, you shouldn't look at the fucking thread. And it really is just that simple.
You know, OP, if you're the ginger you posted after having posted the fake picture, then you're really not terrible looking. Ever think your problem is your outlook?
Also, the statistics RE: female autists/female virgins in the meatworld vs. on 4chan vary significantly. They are two entirely different domains with the latter harboring a rather, um, skewed sample set.
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