Lots of matches on tinder but I totally fucking suck, how does /soc/ use tinder?? I've almost never sent a first message no idea what to say and when I do get them I have no idea how to steer the conversation to hooking up, losing hope here, forever autist
I like to start with "Hey, how's it going?"
Despite what I'm sure some MGTOW wank shaft will surely be about to tell me it petty much always gets a conversation going as long as you're capable of one.
I use stupid lines, make up poems, ask if they want to eat ice cream and have sex (this has a high success rate), give them quizzes, etc.
You suck because you lack imagination and are boring. You will fail.
Ok OP listen up because I'm about to give you some important advice:
I've hooked up with 4 girls I met on tinder, and 3 of them I fucked on the first date.
Listen closely: THERE IS NO STRATEGY TO TINDER.
I've tried everything; saying hi, cracking a joke, talking dirty, asking about them or their interests, cheesy pickup lines... you name it, I've tried it. Here's what I found: regardless of your approach, most of these girls aren't going to reply so GET USED TO IT. I can't stress this enough, infact you should just assume that they won't reply as your default expectation.
Just BE YOURSELF, and if they reply and want to meet, there is an extremely good chance they want to fuck you. DON'T GIVE UP just because most girls won't talk to you.
Keep trying until one does.
I don't want to hear your bullshit excuses, just do it.
This guy gets it
Most of the bitches won't answer, but those who do will probably pay off. First match on tinder who replied to me constantly asked for my snapchat and directly sent me nudes without me asking for anything or implying anything dirty.