Hello, Experts. I am 27 and registered on Tinder yesterday. Could someone explain to me how hooking up works? I have a few matches already.
Do I wait till afternoon/evening, when they are at home and feel more comfortable than at work/college?
How do I initiate the conversation? What are good topics to talk about?
At what point can you ask for a date? How far in the future should the date be? Should I try to figure out before the date if she wants sex or more? Or should I not ask her about her intentions at all, so she doesn't feel like a slut?
Hooking up works but putting your penis in and out of their vagina repeatedly until one of you is embarrassed and you stop out of shame.
I don't think there is a 'golden hour' for contacting girls. There are so many factors, I can't see this having a big impact.
▲Google cheesy pickup lines
▲FORD - Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams
▲not RAPE - Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics
▲Open with the most bizarre thing you can think of.
▲Open by asking for their number
>At what point can you ask for a date? How far in the future should the date be? blah blah blah
Any point. Any time. There is a reason netflix and chill exists, so girls can choke on a different dick everyday and not feel like a slut, give her an excuse so she can tell herself 'it just happened!'. (to clarify for the autistics; don't coerce her into sex, that's rape)
just message everyone something that stands out
i think you should be able to tell if you click with them or not pretty early
then you can drop whoever you don't click with which would probably be most of them
Just start simple, simple is better, tho depends on girl and what your after (one nighter,relationship?) , I generally just start with a "Hey There! :) " And that usually pulls replies then after reply find some common ground look through her pics and Bio talk about random shit make her laugh and what not, then i like to complain about tinder and how the notification is shit and ask for her number and post mine in the chat once you get number your half way there! Start your conversation keep it fresh exchange pics if you want I try to set dates within 3 days if not that night (being weekends)
Been on quite a few dates and hookups through it some girls like to meet in public which is fair enough they also tend to bring a friend along which has ended in a threesome on occasions just enjoy your self condoms and get tested
I'm just wondering if I could get Assistance on my tinder profile as well. I'm 22 and horrible at picking up females
>be a fat girl
>look chubby at best in face pics
>post body pics
>write that I'm fat in profile
>people still surprised that I'm fat
what else can i possibly do? I'm not the kind of girl that tries to take weird angled pics and hide her fat self, I'm too old for this shit. obviously people exist that are either desperate or into fat chicks, so why do I keep getting guys that refuse to believe I'm fat when I give them all the proof I can find?
im gonna go off my rocker if i get one more "i love chubby girls XD" or "you don't look that fat, you're cute!" message followed by literal shock when they see more photos of me that look exactly the same as my profile
maybe if you are not so self conscious of it in your profile description. I think that with that picture of your body is fine.
Add some stuff about your personality or personal life in it instead.
Has anyone noticed the quality of women has dropped massively in the past six months? I find myself only swiping right after 15-20 girls now, as nearly all of them are fat, or single moms, or bots.
When i started a year ago I was getting quality matches daily. have they all moved on to another app?
Shame you're practically light years away (central eurofag here), you don't look so "fat" you have a facial structure that is attractive to me, but then I am a bbw lover, so I am biased. Problem is, nowadays the younger generation is made to believe that everyone has to look "skinny and fit" first before personality, character and interests. As for those who are still surprised about your physique after full disclosure - shows how much attention they pay; hardly any.