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OK /soc/, I need help. I just started dating this girl, and it turns out that she's had sex with not one, not two, but FIVE men before me. I don't think either of us could truly love each other under these circumstances, and I was considering dumping her. Unfortunately, she knows my mother and I don't want her telling my mom that's why I got rid of her. How would I go about doing this?
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>>23176256
fuck her, then dump her telling her she is bad at the sexing - that way she will think you've had it much more than her
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>>23176257
That would make me a hypocrite, wouldn't it?
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>>23176264
sure, but she wouldn't know it and that's the main thing
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>>23176268
But it's not about who knows what. It's about personal values.
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>>23176264

That depends, how many girls have you been with? It would be hypocrite if you've also been with 5 girls before here.
If you don't think you can make it work this girl because of her sexual past, or anything else, you should talk to her about that.
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>>23176273
no, it's about getting that dick wet and not being a whiney little bitch that's going to die a virgin
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>>23176276
I'm a virgin.
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>>23176278

I understand your feelings in that case. You should do what's best for you, and what feels right.
How old are you? and how old is she?
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>>23176286
I'm 21 and she's 22
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>>23176293

You're still young, you have enough time to find someone else that's more catered to your needs.
Perhaps it's recommendable that you look for a girl that's 3 or 4 years younger than you if you really want a fellow virgin.
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Does this actually bother guys? I'm a virgin F and always think after maybe 2 more years guys will think this is weird.
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>>23176256

You weren't the first dick in her life. Boo hoo
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>>23176308

Why would that be? Women should be more careful about whom they choose to be in relationships with and whom they sleep with.
Relationships should be about quality and not quantity.
How old are you now? 18 or something? I don't think there's anything wrong about a 20 something girl that has not had a romantic relationship. If anything it makes you a more solid character than other women that have already had a number of partners at your age.
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>>23176256
Then go out and fuck 5 other pussies before her, man the fuck up
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>>23176256
woooow\
fucking kill yourself you pathetic piece of shit
you are worthless
you will die alone with your fucking hilarious hentai standards you garbage anime virgin
god
people like you make me glad to be alive, you're so hopelessly alone and useless

please kill yourself you sexless piece of shit
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>>23176352
/thread
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>>23176256
This has to be bait. Please dump her because she could certainly do better than you. If you are seriously concerned about how many sexual partners she has had before you then you need to ask yourself, why? The answer should be "it conflicts with my own personal opinion/ religious views" or "it shouldn't bother me". If A then talk to her and move on (that is if you decide following your views or morals or whatever is more important than this girl and a relationship). If B carry on with your new enlightened life
>>23176321
> implying that not only do women have to be careful about who they sleep with but that men don't.
Please explain to me why women have to be careful how many people they sleep with?
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>>23176314
>>23176332
>>23176352
Why are you so upset with my opinions? I don't like promiscuous girls, my bad.
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>>23176371

Some people, even on 4chan, still believe in traditional values and relationships. I don't hold men and women to different standards in that regard.
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>>23176379
That's fair. I appreciate that you hold both men and women to that. I just hope that people with these traditions understand that there are also people who don't have them and respect that.
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ROASTIES GETTING TOASTIE ITT
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>>23176273
Shit man, how old are you that 5 dudes is even close to significant? You either have outdated conservative values or are like 20 at best
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>>23176460
this
i love how these beef slices are getting salty
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What the fuck, why would 5 guys matter? I mean okay if it was 500 by the age of 20 then I would raise my eyebrows.

Blows my mind that this is even a thing, if I had those kinds of requirements I would still have been a virgin now without a doubt.

At the same time being a virgin or not is really not a big deal, honestly who gives a shit? In the end it just means you are inexperienced and know absolutely nothing what to do in bed, which just is a negative thing.

I'd much rather have a partner that has experience and know what they like that's for sure.
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>>23176504
>I mean okay if it was 500 by the age of 20 then I would raise my eyebrows.
roastie spotted
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Look if this guy is turning down a chick who has only had 5 at his age and he's only getting older I guess we can expect to see him on /r9k/ in a couple years. Congrats future wizard
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>I don't want her telling my mom that's why I got rid of her

Why, is your mom a whore too?
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>>23176256
are u serious man? History is history, dont be a fucking cunt, cunt.
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lmao at all these roastie sluts literally getting personally offended

no one fucking wants you, you're worthless
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What the fuck is a roastie?
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>>23176534
im an average dude not a toasted roastie but i want you to step back and imagine how many dicks you would take if you're were a chick for a week, then you dial that back and realize maybe a 23 year old girl having 5 sex partners is actually really fucking low
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>>23176539
^ truth
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Mfw I'm 22 and I've taken hundreds of cocks
>perfect innie so no one can tell/ cares
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>>23176372
>>23176372
5 partners is promiscuous? Turbofag confirmed. Maybe when you get over your insecurities will you be able to have a responsible and emotionally stable relationship.
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>>23176539
if i was a girl i would take 0 dicks because i'm not a roastie whore you stupid white knight faggot. now begone beta scum, your orbitress needs you
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>>23176549

Yes 5 is high, for any age.
I personally believe that you can show the level of commitment required for a stable relationship towards that many people.
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>>23176256
Shes had sex with 5 guys, but how many dicks has she sucked?
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>>23176565
>>23176569
I kekked
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>>23176546
If that's really your face no wonder you've taken hundreds of cocks. Damn!!
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>>23176571
Clerks
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>>23176577
Pretty sure that's Taylor Swift mate.
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just keep her as fwb. when something better appears just go ghost on her.
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>2016
>caring about how many people someone has fucked before you

what are you fucking gay?
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>>23176371
Because it's incredibly easy for girls to have sex since you are he gatekeepers, whereas men need to wine and dine and do all of the chasing. Anytime a guy has sex it's because he worked at it, a girl just decides to have sex without doing any work whatsoever. Not the same thing at all
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>>23176713
I'm gay/bi/pan/whatever and I wouldn't care. I'm surprised people actually care about this, as if your standards aren't in orbit already because y'all fap to fake porn puppets all the time.

Seriously, if a person is nice (kind, humble, open-minded, calm) I'll go for it, regardless of gender. Condoms are a thing and free STD tests as well.

>inb4 I didn't use gay in that sense
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>>23176371
Virtuous principle means more than any relationship. Fuck you.
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Man did this blow out of proportion
>>>23176713
>I'm gay
>for wanting a woman who hasn't penises on or in here
Explain this logic.
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>>23176725
Wow, holy crap. Do you know what year it is? If you see relationships only as sex and the guy doing all the work then you're doing it wrong. Don't bother responding. You win.
>>23177169
In your opinion, sure. So then just continue to live by it and ignore girls that don't fit your principle. No need to get berate ones that don't.
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>>23177616
What I'm saying is that people shouldn't trashtalk OP for holding a strong distaste for the promiscuous.

Degenerates can continue to be as degenerate as they like.
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>>23177616
>do you know what year it is
lmao is this nigga serious
you can't seriousky be this retarded
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>>23177626
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>>23176256
I guess that you're young since you mention your mommy. I would make a judgement about a woman based upon her character, brains,looks, sense of humor,+education. I don't understand why the number of men she's been with would impact your ability to love her or her ability to love you. But, obviously you're quite immature and are passing judgement on her based upon an irrelevant metric
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>>23177727
>a person who has become a slave to the lure of pleasure and has had sex with ten thousand people is as viable a partner as somebody who has had the temperance to hold onto chastity until she meets a person who she believes she can spend her life with
meme
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>>23176256
Op i know how you feel. I am glad there are guys like yourself out there who value morals like myself. Sadly the older we get the harder it is to find someone with a low lay count
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You guys should move to an Islam country, sounds like it would be right up your alley! Probably plenty of them there.
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T O A S T I E
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>>23177616
I wasn't talking about relationships I was talking about initiation. It's the guy who asks the girl out, it's the guy buying the drinks, it's us putting in the work and you deciding whether or not you wanna fuck. It's entirely your choice which makes it easy as fuck to have sex for women. For a girl to have sex with a lot of guys means she's easy, for a guy to have sex with a lot of girls means he has good social skills/looks/etc. that's why slut shaming isn't a bad thing
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>>23176278
Of course you are.
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>>23176256
In other words, you're worried that you're not good enough in bed and she'll either cheat on you or dump you.

Break up with her. You don't deserve a girlfriend.
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Jesus fuck, I knew a lot of guys on soc are socially retarded, but I didn't know it was this bad. Thankfully the chances of someone with the same views as op actually reproducing are pretty fucking slim
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>>23178231
>you prefer girls who haven't had sex before
>therefore you don't deserve a girlfriend ever

this doesn't follow
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>>23178212
>it's the guy who asks the girl out, it's the guy buying the drinks, it's us putting in the work and you deciding whether or not you wanna fuck

That is a really archaic way of looking at relationships. Not really true in this day and age. Whenever I was dating I always paid my own way unless they absolutely insisted on covering the bill, and I have asked out guys about as much as they've asked me out. Whenever I had sex with a guy I was dating, I wasn't "giving him sex". It was a mutual decision to have sex because we like/love each other and want to express it.

>For a girl to have sex with a lot of guys means she's easy, for a guy to have sex with a lot of girls means he has good social skills/looks/etc

It doesn't matter the gender. People (guys or girls) who sleep around a lot are sluts. No excuses
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>>23178263
>slut logic
>making sense

pick uno
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>>23178276
>It doesn't matter the gender. People (guys or girls) who sleep around a lot are sluts. No excuses

agreed
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>>23178276
>That is a really archaic way of looking at relationships. Not really true in this day and age.

99% of initiation takes place like this. No girls are walking up to dudes at bars and buying them drinks. I agree that nowadays, dinner bills are sometimes split that is when they are already in a relationship. First/second dates, it's expected for the guy to pay.

>It doesn't matter the gender. People (guys or girls) who sleep around a lot are sluts. No excuses
Back that up with an argument. Slut isn't a gender neutral term
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pull a woman move and say
>"it's just not working out"
or
>"I don't see you in my future"

I've had those lines used on me, they must be pretty kosher.
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>>23178240
I can't understand what you're mad about

>>23178231
you too

>>23177727
you too

>>23176713
you too

>>23176526
you too, also history is everything

if you're a convicted felon you have a very hard time getting a job even though you're not currently committing crimes. If you're a sex offender, you can't be around children. If you're a slut, nobody will want to be with you.

It's a harsh fact, but permanent consequences do exist.
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>>23178302
the only chicks expecting that kind of treatment are those annoying "princess" types who think they should be spoiled at all times because they are female. and by appeasing them you are putting women on a pedestal that either they don't deserve or can't live up to. I don't understand why people can't just treat anyone equally.
>>23178302
men who sleep around with many women are easy.
women who sleep around with many men are easy.

how can you not understand that
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>>23176256
i would give this a 0/10, but youve gotten a fair amount of replies. so ill bump that up to a 2/10.
but please apply yourself in future b8 posting, i sense great potential going to waste
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>>23178320
>If you're a slut, nobody will want to be with you.
>It's a harsh fact, but permanent consequences do exist.

That's not completely true, plenty of beta cucks will still want to be with you.

Roasties get toasties
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>>23178302
In promiscuous men encourage promiscuity amongst women in the same way that drug dealers encourage degeneracy amongst potential drug users.
The fault need be placed on both: the instigator for attempting to subvert the better conscience of the other, and the instigated for being weak willed.
A stronger instigator can subdue a person of normally strong will. If promiscuous men ceased to instigate as often, women would become less promiscuous.
Of course it stand that women can more easily find partners than men can.
If men weren't as desperate to fuck everything, the urges of the promiscuous woman would not be satisfied.
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>>23178335
Remove the 'In' from the start of this post
change the beginning of the fourth line to "Of course it stands"
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>>23178334
well there you go

I still can't understand why everybody is getting mad. OP, and all men, has every right in the world to dump a girl for being sexually promiscuous. It's like if you dumped a girl for getting fat or for being too lazy or mean. Some people don't think you had the best reason for dumping her, but it's his fucking choice.
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>>23178324
>men who sleep around with many women are easy.
There's nothing easy about that. It takes skill to do this. That's why the phrase "good with women" exists. You never hear "good with men" because you don't have to be
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>>23178348
i think anon is saying that promiscuous people are easy in the sense that they are easy to sleep with, not that their actions are easy to reproduce
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>>23178361
If that's her point then I'd agree. I'd also say that promiscuous people, both men and women, are usually shit tier people
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>>23178361
But that's what easy meant. Any man is easy because women aren't trying to have sex with him, and men generally always want sex from wherever they can get it.

But there's no "game" for women, so men can't really be easy.
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>>23178374
men aren't always easy, it's just more common for them not to be

they're more often easy than women, i'd agree
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>>23176256
kill yourself OP

itt kissless virgin is butthurt girl has had more sex than him
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>>23178348
Actually most non-autistic average dudes do not have a huge trouble getting laid, doesn't take that much skill. I think you've been stuck in the basement too long
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>>23178394
>strawman
>ad hominem

Have a good day!
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>>23178381
why are you getting angry about this?
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>>23178401
>no argument so I'll just throw around some buzzwords i learned from the internet

You too!
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>>23178409
because she's a roastie and roasties get personally offended when they hear someone being called a slut because deep down they know they are scum of the highest order
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>>23178409
people are getting upset that there are actually consequences of sucking every cock on planet earth

>>23178420
pic related
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This thread has given me a new insight on women. When I say that I don't want a nonvirgin, they insult me and become greatly offended. It's simply a quality I don't like. You're allowed to ask for tall and attractive men, why am I not allowed to ask for a virgin woman? You fawn over traits the individual has no choice in. I'm making a decision based off of something entirely up to the individual which allows me to gauge their personality. I don't understand why I'm in the wrong.
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>>23180278
never take what a slut has to say seriously. they are mentally unstable and very rotten people.
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>tell guys my partner count close to the beginning to weed out the weaklings like OP
it's been a fantastic system so far. virgins are fine, but nothing more annoying than the holier than thou type
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>>23180278
>I'm a tall and attractive man
We believe you
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>>23176321
it's highly unlikely at OPs age that he will find a virgin who isn't the hardcore religious type or have major social issues. he's likely going to have to go after a girl that is several years younger, and he's going to be competing with lots of other guys for that one girl while ignoring a lot of potentially great people. it seems a bit silly
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>>23180325
Nowhere in that post did I claim to be either of those. But I will claim to be more intelligent than you since you're unable to read plain english.
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>>23176256
You're a cowardly moron who's shit in bed and scared to get better. Do her a favour and break up with her so she can go meet a grown up instead.
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>>23176308
It bothers idiots and psychos. Anyone who has a problem with it isn't worth your time, either in a relationship (massive emotional problems, selfish, controlling, immature) or sexually (shit in bed, hence the fear of a woman who's slept with enough people to notice).
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>>23180393
>Nowhere in that post did I claim to be either of those.
No fucking shit. I'm calling you out on your hypocrisy.
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>>23180406
sluts getting mad ITT
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>>23176256

Does the number of previous partners really matter so much to you? If it does, dump her and find a girl that suits you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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>>23176725
You are an idiot. Go crawl back into engineering school where you can subsist as a dweeb
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To all of you insulting me for no reason, please refer to >>23180278 .
Why is it OK for others to have preferences based off of things that cannot be changed, but when I have a preference based on an individual's choices, I am berated and made out to be a bad person? Really? You all call me childish for making relationship choices based off of a persons actions and personality? I don't understand. What's wrong with all of you?
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>>23180546
But were things going well until you learned she had 5 partners? How long have yall been together?

And yes you are allowed to have preferences, but people are allowed to voice their opinions
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>>23180546
You're browsing a board full of degenerates and camwhores yet your partner must be pure. Get fucked hypocrite. Virgins don't want you.
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>>23180566
A few months, and yes, you're allowed to have opinions, but I'm merely pointing out the hypocrisy here. Why is it generally considered OK by society to dislike someone for being ugly for example, but it's seen as an abhorrent and hateful act to dislike someone for being promiscuous? I'm not even insulting her and calling her a whore or anything, I'm just saying I don't want to be with her anymore.
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>>23180546

This isn't really the right place to be asking if you want emotional support. Ask on /soc/ if it is fine to want a virgin and you'll have a thousand turbosluts telling you that you are a horrible person. Ask on /pol/ and you'll get a thousand greasy neckbeards telling you she is a whore.

It is perfectly fine to want a virgin. The older women get the more likely they are to be in long term, committed relationships or out slutting it up. At 21/22, most of the virgins are married by now.
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>>23180608
>most of the virgins are married
Where can I find sexless marriages?
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>>23180546
>but when I have a preference based on an individual's choices, I am berated and made out to be a bad person
because virginity is a made up meaningless concept and pretty dumb to be so concerned over
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>>23180626

You cant, sorry.
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>>23180633
Then what the fuck are you on about
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>>23180636

My bad, I see what you are nitpicking about.

You sound like kind of a douche. Maybe everyone in this thread is right to be yelling at you.
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>>23180645
>point out your retardedation
>hurr you're a douche
el oh el

Also nobody's yelling at me.
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>>23176549
>ITT autistic cuckolds get triggered over OP's personal preferances
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>>23180288
this
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>>23180645
That isn't me anon
>>23180629
It's not made up. Did you imagine the penises going inside of you?
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>>23180690
>>23180657

Sorry, I'm too tired for this. I don't even know why I'm still here.
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>>23176256
jesus fucking autism, please be a troll........Just because you've been a forever alone doesn't mean a girl has to be too. This whole "she's had sex with X number of guys" stuff is such bullshit. I'm a dude, if a girl wants to fuck me I appreciate the compliment and fuck her like a man should fuck her. If she's relationship material and I think we might work out I'll date her. You're making life way to hard by being so fucking judgemental.
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>>23180690
not sure if stupid or trolling, but the concept of virginity and its significance is made up as a religious means of control. that's literally it. look it up if you don't believe me
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>>23180787
It just means wheither or not you've had sex.
Had sex? Not a virgin. Didnt? Virgin. It's really simple. I hate the "virginity isn't real" meme.
See >>23180594
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>>23180800
Why are you still here? /soc/ isn't going to help you.
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