Cd/traps/Trans/and there lovers Skype/kik/snap chat thread
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this is probably not the place for it.
but my boyfriend recently told me he's started crossdressing, I'm a lil in shock, though I've been kinda expecting it as he's mentioned a few things that gave me the impression he'd be into it
He says he doesnt think its a gender identity thing, just something he finds nice to do, to feel pretty/sexy for once. he felt kinda bad about how it could affect me, though I reassured him not to worry about that, and he said he wouldnt do it around me as its just something he likes to do on his own.
My only fear is that I wont be able to deal with it in the long run? (which sounds really horrible and selfish of me, but I just want to be able to accept everything he throws at me) atm I feel like I can, he says its a really occasional thing, but that could change, I'm not sure how things would go if he was to dress like it all the time.
I'm unsure of how I'd feel if down the line he ends up realising he's trans, which is probably the only thing I'm worried about atm, he said he doenst think its that, but my instant reaction to anything is to worry about every possibility.
I feel guilty for feeling like this,it might just be the initial shock of it hasnt worn off
I dont know what to feel, send help I am new to this but I wanna do my best to understand
A lot of guys have crossdressing as their hobby, some not necessarily even as a fetish. It´s a way of release as modern society shuns any man for liking feminine things, but doesn´t do the same for women.
And of course those who see it as a fetish, combining it with other things exist as well. I have known people who later on figured out they were trans so your worries are not unreasonable.
My advice is to think about your relationship with him. Are you happy right now? Do you respect one another? Would you keep your relationship if your boyfriend got into an accident and lost an arm or a leg or maybe even his eyesight?
Even if he decides he´s trans in the long run, if you truly love him, it wouldn´t be a reason for you to leave him.
The fact that it might be in the back of your head shows that it´s not him making a problem out of it. It´s you. A relationship is build on mutual trust. If you can´t give your trust to him, how can you expect him to do so? As long as you trust eachother and communicate, there will not be a problem.
yeah, he says its just something to make him feel pretty/sexy, but not just for when he's turned on. I compared it to how girls like to do their hair all nice, put on make up and pretty dresses, not because they're going out or for any reason other than just to dress up and feel cute, he seemed to relate to that.
He said he doesnt want to do it publicly, just privately, he probably wouldnt have told anyone if he was single, we trust each other a lot and have a 'no judgement' relationship so he felt like he could talk to me openly about this, which I am SO glad and proud that he feels like he can talk to me
He sent me a photo which imo was too soon but the only thing I could think was "ohh hell naw you need a better wig sweetie" (I wear wigs often for fashion purposes and have a load so I know a good wig when I see one) I said I'd help with getting nice wigs and help with clothes
Probably unlikely he'll go full trans and if he does you'll see it coming. I think the more likely concern for you is him hooking up with a cd/trans or guy. You should probably decide how you feel about that and let him know.
as a tranny, I can understand your plight, you're into guys, not girls, it's simple. Believe me, you are 100% justified in being worried, but odds are he isn't trans, as we don't often start out through exploring a crossdressing fetish, however, if he does, you have every right to dump him (or I guess her in that situation) and not recieve any negative backlash, I hope this helps, in other news, my butt
I just think that the initial shock has sent me into an anxious panic ( I did the same thing when he told me about his kinks, back when I was hella vanilla, I thought I'd never be able to satisfy him) the slightest thing sets me off on a 'what if I cant handle this' but so far everything hes thrown at me I've been fine with after a while.
I am extremely happy in my relationship. we're very open with each other, with our thoughts, feelings, emotions and everything, and always accept each other.
If he ended up realising hes trans, my only worry is that his personality would change with him, I've fallen in love with this incredible amazing person, and the thought of one day he wont be that person is scary.
and no no its 100% my problem, he felt guilty about it because of how it could affect me but I told him that I refuse to let him feel like he has to bottle it up or repress wanting to do it because of me or anyone else.
its most likely just my anxiety and fear of changes thats making this seem a whole lot worse in my head
20 / trans woman / US
Bisexual, I guess I'm in an open relationship kind of
I've been on hrt for a month
I like other trans people and cis women. I am not attracted to men
I'm mostly looking for people to chat with, lewd or not. I guess I'm usually also up for trading pictures and stuff, but I have weird sleeping patterns so don't think I'm not interested if I don't reply right away
I'm chubby and tall, pale, dark blonde
I like music, art, queer stuff, and lots of other things
I prefer to talk to people from the US or Canada
my kik is AlexErin9
How do you get a bum and legs like that?
I worked out, doing things like lunges, kickbacks, floor hip abductions, and isometric hip abductions, for either just under an entire year, or just over.
It's getting cold out so I decided to layer some nylons!
It's not just about him. Relationships are a two way street. If it evolves into something more you have every right to hit the emergency break and leave.
You're making this all about him without truly considering how you feel. If this is something that bothers you now, and it escalates....can you truly see yourself being happy? Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life?
This shit is rough and complicated. It may not be for you.
My suggestion. Leave him. Let him discover himself on his own. Then when he's figured it out he can drag someone in who is READY for that kind of commitment.
Talking to a guy on CL about hooking up on monday for the first time. I reeally want to but I think Ill chicken out like usual. Any other ladies with encouragement aha
I know from experience that once you get there the butterflies tend to go away. It's normal to feel very nervous up until that point. I would shy away from craigslist desu and find other avenues, but I'm not sure of many out there anymore.
Have a talk with him. A relationship is two ways, and you both have to give and take ahaha. If it comes to the point where he's trans and that's not what you're looking for, then I mean, that is that, right? It's a compromise but make sure you both are compromising about the same amount and are both happy, I guess.
Wow usually my threads die asap:) :)
glad you like it
oh? what would you do to me?
well that was both sweet, cute, and awkward
my kik is j2r9jess
w-would you watch go to the toilet?
I don't feel like you're truly commited to our relationship anon!
think of the children!
Tall, slim ginger
Wanting to talk/ trade pics with trans/ traps/ cd
I mostly use email: email@example.com
I'm more of a CD/femboy but I'm from southern Ontario
teenage cd here.
I have the house for myself for the next few weeks and im looking for someone to dom me for that time.
skype is sissymelli
any of you have snapchat? mine is gustariaz
19/ bi/ BR here, just started trying to crossdress and getting used with the idea, it really turns me on. Looking for pretty much everything dick/butt related
I'm still around and looking for other trans girls :3
its cold and snowing a lot and there's not much to do
Finding any sort of cute trap or trans in my area is ridiculous. I just want to talk to some qt's, maybe meet up. Open for relationships too.
23/m/bi very interested in cd and traps. Add me on snapchat for some fun.
22/mental illness/southern California (909/760)
looking for a platonic friendship with someone who has easy access to weed, shrooms, or Xanax. also if you have a spare Webcam I'd totally take that off your hands since I want to start camming again.
Don't kik my with dick pics or asking me for more pictures of myself. if you don't have have I want odds are our convo won't last more than a day tbqh
My kik and shapchat are gungasoup. Any cd/trap/trans peeps are welcome.
This thread might as well be on /b/. Are there even any decent looking guys here who actually know how to date a transgirl and who aren't just some faggot with a sissy fetish looking for dick pics?
There's a pretty big difference to most men, which is why having dating filters helps sort out homophobes from men who are open and able to date transwomen vs what this thread seems to be - gay men seeking gay men in panties.
if the guy is afraid of it making him gay, or being "tricked" or whatever, then yeah it is. some guys wont date transwomen because they dont view them as women, but as a gay man.
because it's like saying it's racist to not date black guys, the initial attraction just might not be there for some people
i'm assuming here that the trans person told a guy that he was trans and the guy said no he wasn't into that, I find being afraid of it making you gay is perfectly legitimate as well, some people are quite afraid to confront their sexuality and prefer to just stick to their binaries.
Nice shape :) I don't use kik though sorry. Just email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Damn, I'm from Texas :c
You're gorgeous though!!
Am trap going on MtF HRT soon, but am going to keep my cock bc I like it+surgery is scary.
If someone doesn't like cocks, or say even my height/hair color/ethnicity/w-e, I'm not going to be butthurt just because people have sexual preferences.
Ofc it would be pretty awful+self-sabotaging for someone to turn down a transperson who they would otherwise be sexually attracted to just because they once resembled another gender.
Nah, no HRT
Thanks for the compliment :)
I mistook this for trap general, so I headed to that thread :)
22 UK Midlands, looking for someone to treat me like a girl who doesn't mind me talking about my trap journey. Please don't message me if you aren't at least from Europe, preferably UK
Hai thread :3
I'm taking requests right now... I don't do this very often so take advantage of me while you can ;)
You guise have no chill lol, I'll be here a minute, slow down cowboy ;P
Looking for traps, trans, or hairless cd to chat with and/or exchange pics
Just thought i'd say hey, with a photo of me :)
I would post my kik, but when ever I do it get's bloody flooded. :/
that name ohh god haha.
regular toilet, bowl, seat, etc
Here's another photo just to try and keep some interest in the thread.
And thank you! ;)
This advice is STUPID. Fucking autist enjoy your HIV faggot.
>relationships are a two street
>act like a selfish cunt because your significant other trusts you 100% and shares all of himself knowing you could utterly destroy him
>you disgust me
both, but like, it's not like you'd be able to see much, I'd be on the toilet seat and you'd be a distance form it just staring at me, god this is fucked up lmao
19 y F
Looking for some exciting fun! Trade dic pics for nudes ;)
Dont mind the profile picture its my boyfriend (he wont mind)
UK, 22 mtf, bisex master race. 6 months mones
Feel free to add and talk random shit
i feel like every guy on this board has msg'd me at this point tbqh but w/e
my kik = meanbby
what am i interested in, u ask? handsome men who are cool and nice
what am i not interested in, u ask? ugly men who are entitled and dense
i live in PA but am prob moving to CO. ok thank
aaanddd done. idc anymore feeling risky tonight, so here you go /soc/
hella, thanks! Been wanting to figure out how to cut it in the back but it's okay for now if I just tie it up c:
>this isn't lewd
pls usually I just post coords
Depends on what you're going for. More deets.
Should I make the plunge and buy some panties, socks and a skirt?
My body is feminine enough for it, but im not going into a store and buying this. I want to order it online, but i really dont want my roommates knowing. Is amazon safe to buy it from? I have never ordered clothes from there. Everything comes in those same unmarked boxes?
Anyone in SoCal near Palm Springs? I feel like sucking some dick.
umm a little over a year and a half now I'd say
thx. i do have one but i don't really use it and my phone's off
yo i see that league in the background, 1v1 me scrub
haha, don't think i've heard that before. uess i'll try to keep it up.
idk, it's pretty butty I suppose.
well since you asked nicely...
Thanks, haha. I love your hair, it's so long! :o
uhm, like 5 and a half
i fucking love sucking dick. more than sex actually, haha.
it would be my pleasure ;)
i get that often. I don't really think so myself though
I do have one, i just don't use it haha. its irouquis.pliskin i think
KIK/Snapchat is WittyEpithet
I would love to chat or send pics back and forth. If you are nearby, I'd entertain meeting up.
still up? lol can't get over how cute you are.
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