I kinda have a little, shes long distance and aromantic. So we're close friends and talk about cute stuff every day and sometimes naughty things. But its very hard not having someone physically here for me to tease and play with. I look every now and then for a local but avoiding drama is hard
>>23154193 Uhm I think the worst thing about this is 90% of the chicks are little broken girls who have some deep seeded issues and want a Daddy to "save" them. A lot of them men want a girl to fix, too. It's not just on 4chan.
Maybe I'm getting old, but I don't need anyone to take care of me. I'm mentally stable, independent, etc... I just want this dynamic because if feels right. I've been in plenty of M/s relationships and they were unfulfilling till I got into DD/lg.
>>23154225 The relationship dynamic. The daddy aspect wouldn't bother me.
I think if I'd have an IRL little, I would like to play with her like I play with my own kids.. But I would let it get naughty. I wouldn't want the thought of me getting naughty with my own children to ever cross my mind.
>>23154322 In what way are the girls being taken advantage of? Daddys are supposed the be caregivers and direct girls on the right path. Sex usually isn't super rough, unless agreed upon. The girls probably have the upper hand... Wether anyone wants to admit it or not.
I mean if the Daddy isn't treating them well they can say no or just walk away. Abusive relationships are like pretending cyber bullying is real. Kek
>>23154322 You're a retard and this guy- >>23154349 pretty much hit the nail on the head. There isn't any taking advantage of anything. We're both consenting adults. Yeah, we both have a few issues, but that doesn't mean that they affect our relationship in any negative way. And that's just the thing. We both do, and she's not taking advantage of me any more than I'm taking advantage of her.
I wouldn't admit it to her or anyone else, but he's also right that she actually has more control over the situation than I do. I let the illusion of control go on because we both enjoy it, but I'm pretty sure she knows that she has the ability to walk away whenever she wants. The caregiver thing is just really nice. Don't knock shit you don't know anything about, fag.
>>23154434 It sounds they are in the perfect position to take advantage of these girls, and these ARE men that are specifically interested in girls that can't function on their own and call you 'daddy'. So yeah I'm pretty skeptical.
>>23154349 You sound pretty smart so I appreciate you handing out advice here. Just as a note though, D/s can be arranged with the same kind of caregiver/guiding mentality and be very similar, it just depends where you set the focus.
In case someone is creeped out by the DD/lg stuff but likes the general idea.
>>23154445 >I'm a girl >I'm specifically saying I do not get taken advantage of >I'm not the rule, but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only girl in this lifestyle who isn't a fucking basket case
Also, idk how a man can take advantage of a girl unless they straight up rape them or force them to do things they don't like/are bad for them. Doing the wrong thing to your little is basically what all good daddy's are against fundamentally.
Using your logic you can say every man in a relationship is taking advantage of their gf. That's some tumblr sjw shit, t b h f a m
You have yet to give an example of a girl being taken advantage of in this or any context
>>23154458 You straight up just told me you can't feed yourself, sleep properly, make your appointments on time or even think for yourself without this daddy figure there to 'remind' you to function. You are a basket case and this kind of ultra-dependence seems to me really easily exploitable. That's all I'm saying.
>>23154465 Lol I'm just a mess because I'm a mess. I'm stubborn and don't do anything I don't feel like doing.
I forget to do small stuff like that because I'm usually busy with other things (work, school, socializing, shitposting) and it's nice to have someone who gives a fuck to remind me to take a chill pill.
>>23154465 I'm in the "I really just don't think you understand" ballpark, kind of like all of the people who flat out call BDSM abuse, but I think the word you're looking for is codependent. With some people I guess it is easily exploitable, and that's kind of a morally ambiguous thing to do, but in pretty much every case I've seen, both parties have stayed in the relationship because it made them happy.
It's not some kind of psychotic, manipulative mind-break type thing. We've been together for almost two years now, and we're both happy. Is that really a bad thing?
On the one hand, many girls who CAN function and get by just fine choose to rather relish in the vulnerability or care/attention than to be the tough girl who can do all by herself.
Then there are the less stable ones who might still function in normal life but need some kind of special dynamic in their relationships because a strict hand helps, because DD/lg helps with certain relationship fears and so on.
Then there are the "abusive" littles who just jump from guy to guy to get a day's worth of validation and obviously are beyond saving.
And then there are the sweet but weaker-willed ones who might get too dependent or fall in love with a man and think that the way he treats her is still okay or that she has to put up with it to be a good little. And there are many men who do exploit that. It's the same in M/s.
>>23154499 I feel like most sub/slaves are waaaaaay more crazy and codependent than littles.
I mean, most DD/lg relationships don't go into any sort of physically abusive territory aside from spanking. A lot of subs and slaves are masochists and doms are sadists. That's way more fucked up in my head than DD/lg.
>>23154510 I understand both sides I have been in the bdsm, M/s lifestyle since I was a teenager (I'm 26 now). I was a lot more emotionally fucked up in those relationships than I've ever been in DD/lg relationships.
Yes, I like being hit with a belt. I've been degraded, used, all sorts of fun and awful things. In a DD/lg relationship I feel a lot more nurtured and cared for.
Again everything is case by case, of course - To each their own and all that, but it's rude to say one life style is worse than another. We're all deviants in the end.
>>23154594 The feelings mutual. Ever since I was young I could not understand why someone would waste time putting other people down on the Internet. You're not getting anything but a false sense of superiority. If you took the time you spent putting people down on the internet to work on yourself you wouldn't have to hurl venom at others to feel good. You'd just sincerely like yourself and feel good.
You can argue that you don't do it a lot or that you're a super sexy person already but what speaks of mental illness to me is spending time deliberately searching out other people who are different from you just to tell them you don't approve as if it matters.
You could even argue that what I'm doing is a waste of time to say this to you. You can even argue that posting at all it's just as much of a waste of time but while you're pushing others away I'm building connections. People are resources and you throwing yours away to feel good about yourself
>ASL 28/m/Southern California >orientation/role daddy >ageplay Y/N, if so what rough age? Yes and I dont really have an age range just no diapers >any experience? Ive had a handful experience but I'd want to learn and do more >kinks bite, scratching, voyeurism, degradation, spankings, pet play, feet , incest , public sex >limits scat and animals >non-kinky hobbies video games, reading, adventuring, conventions, comics and anime >what are you looking for? do have a ddlg relationship thats long term and serious with someone who shares the same likes / hobbies i do. >contact kik:mcboots skype:evldcky1
haha these threads are just creepy by nature but that's OK, I'm just kinda creepy. I've been flirting with the idea of an online ldr-little, and I'm willing to offer a lot, but I also have crazy high expectations I dont' think any girls on here would be willing to do for the small amount of emotional caregiving and sometimes money I can offer.
I'm glad this works for some of you though, it's so cute.
Oh, there's shelves, quite literally, shelves, of the shit for the flu. Nothing does anything for it, it's just medication to help make you feel a bit better (read as DRUGGED AS FUCK) for a little while. I worked at a CVS for the last 6 months, it's funny as shit how much money people spend trying to alleviate the symptoms of feeling like 10 lbs of hammered shit.
More related to the thread.
I'm getting into the DD/LG relationships with a girl I met on Skype. We're talking and I spend time on video and I just... watch her color and it's incredibly relaxing. There's a bit of sexuality, some pet play (which I never knew I was into until we started talking and doing it) and even a bit of School Girl play (which never did anything for me until her)
Sadly... we are extremely far apart and it sucks. We're looking to meet sometime in March, and spend a long weekend together. I'm moving and Phantom of the Opera is coming to TPAC and I. Fucking. Love. Phantom.
I'm currently in NC, she's in MA. It's tough, but we both only recently got out of abusive relationships. Mine was a marriage (divorcing when I can afford it. Separated currently.) hers was another LDR but distance doesn't mean anything, it's still painful.
Looking for something similar to the dd/lg dynamic. I'm not into ageplay, and have no interest in pretending to be an actual 'little'.
I just feel as if this sort of relationship best suits what I'm interested in right now. I am only interested in men ages 30s-40s, nothing too long-term. I like the sexual kinks involved, but it's slightly more than sexual without necessarily being romantic.
Not interested in a sugar daddy, I don't want to feel obligated or paid for. Not interested in an online relationship. The goal is to actually be able to see each other in person.
Oh, and if interested I don't smoke, drink, or use recreational drugs.
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