Ddlg thread? Ddlg thread.

Awwww
So lonely

daddy and little checking in.

>>23150358
Daddy reporting in. Currently learning and practicing shibari with my little.

I kinda have a little, shes long distance and aromantic.
So we're close friends and talk about cute stuff every day and sometimes naughty things.
But its very hard not having someone physically here for me to tease and play with.
I look every now and then for a local but avoiding drama is hard

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I wish these went better, but they never do

so is this like a pedophile thing?

>>23154157
Nope, not at all.

>>23154157
They say no, but really yes.

>>23154160
Okay you got me, in that case then nope you are not a idiot

>>23154157
There are some people who are into age play, which teeters into pedo territory sometimes, but mostly it's just the "caregiver" relationship that people are into.

I find it more sweet and nurturing than the general Master/sub relationship.
Personally I enjoy the duality of something cuddly and absolutely filthy at the same time.

>>23154148
I agree. I only a few girls who were into this fetish. But they never stayed. They were always moving to person to person. Or just went full crazy.

Which sucks for the crazy one was actually a really good relationship till something snapped in her. Idk what happened honestly.

>>23154193
Uhm I think the worst thing about this is 90% of the chicks are little broken girls who have some deep seeded issues and want a Daddy to "save" them.
A lot of them men want a girl to fix, too.
It's not just on 4chan.

Maybe I'm getting old, but I don't need anyone to take care of me. I'm mentally stable, independent, etc... I just want this dynamic because if feels right.
I've been in plenty of M/s relationships and they were unfulfilling till I got into DD/lg.

As a father of 2 girls, I think it would be weird if I had a little to call my own.

I thought about it a few times, but I think it would seriously mess with my relationship with my real girls.

>>23154217
You could always just call her baby and she could call you Sir if it's the "Daddy" bit that bothers you?

Or is it the relationship dynamic you think would interfere?

>>23154225
The relationship dynamic. The daddy aspect wouldn't bother me.

I think if I'd have an IRL little, I would like to play with her like I play with my own kids.. But I would let it get naughty. I wouldn't want the thought of me getting naughty with my own children to ever cross my mind.

Daddy here. Put her to bed hours ago with a story and liberal cuddles. I was off work today, so we got to spend some time watching cartoons on the couch for a little while. It was p cool.

>>23154243
You could always try an online little to see if it's something you like.

Or if you try something irl perhaps keep the games different than any games you play with your girls.

Or you know, just don't think about you're girls that way cause it's wrong on fundamental levels.

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>>23154254
Utterly and entirely jealous.

>>23154261
Well yeah, that's the point. I currently think that way of my girls, but who knows what happens if I get a little. I don't want my wires to get crossed.

Sounds silly, but I guess I'm paranoid about something like this happening.

>>23154303
Then maybe this isn't for you if you're so week minded?
I don't mean to be rude or harsh.

>>23154309
That's the point of my ramblings in this thread, I even said it in my first post that it probably wasn't for me. I just find it an interesting subject to think about. No offense taken.

>>23154314
Oh, I had a thought!
Maybe you can have it entirely sexual?
Pet play seems better suited for you and it's just as fun.
You get to have a cute girl all to yourself
:3

>>23154318
This thought turns me on. A pet to play with for myself at night, and a big sister for my little girls to watch them play nice together.

Where in the world will I find this magical unicorn.

>>23154157
Essentially, this is what some pedophiles do in order to keep themselves from raping real children. They take advantage of girls with mental issues/daddy issues.

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>>23154321
It's not all that hard.
Depends on how picky you are looks and personality wise

>>23154322
In what way are the girls being taken advantage of?
Daddys are supposed the be caregivers and direct girls on the right path.
Sex usually isn't super rough, unless agreed upon.
The girls probably have the upper hand... Wether anyone wants to admit it or not.

I mean if the Daddy isn't treating them well they can say no or just walk away.
Abusive relationships are like pretending cyber bullying is real.
Kek

>>23154340
Well yeah, the screening process would be most difficult.

>>23154322
You're a retard and this guy-
>>23154349
pretty much hit the nail on the head. There isn't any taking advantage of anything. We're both consenting adults. Yeah, we both have a few issues, but that doesn't mean that they affect our relationship in any negative way. And that's just the thing. We both do, and she's not taking advantage of me any more than I'm taking advantage of her.

I wouldn't admit it to her or anyone else, but he's also right that she actually has more control over the situation than I do. I let the illusion of control go on because we both enjoy it, but I'm pretty sure she knows that she has the ability to walk away whenever she wants. The caregiver thing is just really nice. Don't knock shit you don't know anything about, fag.

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>>23154349
>Daddys
>directs girls on the right path
sounds like there is no way mentally ill girls are being exploited at all

>>23154423
I personally need someone to remind me about stupid shit.

>I forget to eat
>I don't sleep
>I'm constantly late for things
>they give me advice when I'm stressed

I'm not mentally ill, I just am bad at taking care of myself.

I'm not saying there aren't some girls who are fucked up, I said so in this post
>>23154211

But I don't think daddy's "take advantage" of anyone.

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>>23154434
It sounds they are in the perfect position to take advantage of these girls, and these ARE men that are specifically interested in girls that can't function on their own and call you 'daddy'. So yeah I'm pretty skeptical.

>>23154349
You sound pretty smart so I appreciate you handing out advice here. Just as a note though, D/s can be arranged with the same kind of caregiver/guiding mentality and be very similar, it just depends where you set the focus.

In case someone is creeped out by the DD/lg stuff but likes the general idea.

>>23154445
>I'm a girl
>I'm specifically saying I do not get taken advantage of
>I'm not the rule, but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only girl in this lifestyle who isn't a fucking basket case

Also, idk how a man can take advantage of a girl unless they straight up rape them or force them to do things they don't like/are bad for them.
Doing the wrong thing to your little is basically what all good daddy's are against fundamentally.

Using your logic you can say every man in a relationship is taking advantage of their gf.
That's some tumblr sjw shit, t b h f a m

You have yet to give an example of a girl being taken advantage of in this or any context

>>23154458
You straight up just told me you can't feed yourself, sleep properly, make your appointments on time or even think for yourself without this daddy figure there to 'remind' you to function. You are a basket case and this kind of ultra-dependence seems to me really easily exploitable. That's all I'm saying.

>>23154465
But that's every woman, anon.

>>23154465
Lol I'm just a mess because I'm a mess.
I'm stubborn and don't do anything I don't feel like doing.

I forget to do small stuff like that because I'm usually busy with other things (work, school, socializing, shitposting) and it's nice to have someone who gives a fuck to remind me to take a chill pill.

Eating and sleeping isn't all that great, anyway.

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>>23154473
Basically this

>>23154465
I'm in the "I really just don't think you understand" ballpark, kind of like all of the people who flat out call BDSM abuse, but I think the word you're looking for is codependent. With some people I guess it is easily exploitable, and that's kind of a morally ambiguous thing to do, but in pretty much every case I've seen, both parties have stayed in the relationship because it made them happy.

It's not some kind of psychotic, manipulative mind-break type thing. We've been together for almost two years now, and we're both happy. Is that really a bad thing?

>>23154465
>>23154482
You both have a point.

On the one hand, many girls who CAN function and get by just fine choose to rather relish in the vulnerability or care/attention than to be the tough girl who can do all by herself.

Then there are the less stable ones who might still function in normal life but need some kind of special dynamic in their relationships because a strict hand helps, because DD/lg helps with certain relationship fears and so on.

Then there are the "abusive" littles who just jump from guy to guy to get a day's worth of validation and obviously are beyond saving.

And then there are the sweet but weaker-willed ones who might get too dependent or fall in love with a man and think that the way he treats her is still okay or that she has to put up with it to be a good little. And there are many men who do exploit that. It's the same in M/s.

>>23154490
BDSM is fun, but a submissive should also be a functioning adult on their own.

>>23154499
I feel like most sub/slaves are waaaaaay more crazy and codependent than littles.

I mean, most DD/lg relationships don't go into any sort of physically abusive territory aside from spanking.
A lot of subs and slaves are masochists and doms are sadists.
That's way more fucked up in my head than DD/lg.

Why would you willingly be beat up?

>>23154507
To me, the physical play in s&m seems nowhere near as harmful as the psychological dependence in daddy/daughter roles.

also try getting hit with a belt. it's fun.

>>23154510
I understand both sides
I have been in the bdsm, M/s lifestyle since I was a teenager (I'm 26 now).
I was a lot more emotionally fucked up in those relationships than I've ever been in DD/lg relationships.


Yes, I like being hit with a belt.
I've been degraded, used, all sorts of fun and awful things.
In a DD/lg relationship I feel a lot more nurtured and cared for.

Again everything is case by case, of course -
To each their own and all that, but it's rude to say one life style is worse than another. We're all deviants in the end.

I'm a deeply closeted little. I don't really know what to do about it. It seems like all these daddy types want a little girl but I'm a boy.

Most of the stuff I do that makes me a little is non sexual. I enjoy coloring and playing with toys and pretending to be small.

I think I would love having a mommy. But I have a really hard time trusting women. I've never even participated in this or posted a thread,, how do I even get started?

In an ideal world I could have a mommy and a daddy. I'd be their little trans boy.

Oh wat do...

>>23154529
What do you look like?

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>>23154536
Not my favorite picture but I've got so many up on soc now it's the only one that didn't come back for duplicate file entries

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I would suggest taking this mental illness and degeneracy to reddit. You can enjoy all the hugboxing you want there.

>>23154547

I feel sorry for you.

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>>23154594
>on 4chan
>on soc
>judging others degeneracy

I'm sorry we're not posting naked cartoon monsters, traps, and mlp porn.

>being this grumpy on a Mongolian finger painting forum.

>>23154594
The feelings mutual. Ever since I was young I could not understand why someone would waste time putting other people down on the Internet. You're not getting anything but a false sense of superiority. If you took the time you spent putting people down on the internet to work on yourself you wouldn't have to hurl venom at others to feel good. You'd just sincerely like yourself and feel good.

You can argue that you don't do it a lot or that you're a super sexy person already but what speaks of mental illness to me is spending time deliberately searching out other people who are different from you just to tell them you don't approve as if it matters.

You could even argue that what I'm doing is a waste of time to say this to you. You can even argue that posting at all it's just as much of a waste of time but while you're pushing others away I'm building connections. People are resources and you throwing yours away to feel good about yourself

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>ASL
28/m/Southern California
>orientation/role
daddy
>ageplay Y/N, if so what rough age?
Yes and I dont really have an age range just no diapers
>any experience?
Ive had a handful experience but I'd want to learn and do more
>kinks
bite, scratching, voyeurism, degradation, spankings, pet play, feet , incest , public sex
>limits
scat and animals
>non-kinky hobbies
video games, reading, adventuring, conventions, comics and anime
>what are you looking for?
do have a ddlg relationship thats long term and serious with someone who shares the same likes / hobbies i do.
>contact
kik:mcboots
skype:evldcky1

Little checking in. My daddy had to stay late at work :(

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haha these threads are just creepy by nature but that's OK, I'm just kinda creepy. I've been flirting with the idea of an online ldr-little, and I'm willing to offer a lot, but I also have crazy high expectations I dont' think any girls on here would be willing to do for the small amount of emotional caregiving and sometimes money I can offer.

I'm glad this works for some of you though, it's so cute.

>>23154321
I'm sure there's plenty of candidates. I'm amazing with kids (I plan on being an early educator) and I have a big Dd/lg and petplay fetish .

I can't wait to be 50 so 17 year olds will want to fuck me.

>>23157996
Ha! Not always the case. Doesnt always have to do with physical age either

>>23157988
Where do you live?

>>23158019
California

>>23158002
Seriously. I'm 25 and my little is 21. Some of these people seem really confused as to what it actually is.

>>23157009
You guys seriously seem like you're confusing this for the whole sugar daddy thing. It's completely different.

>>23158045
so far!

>>23158082
But my messages are almost instaneous. It's like I'm right there...

>>23158106
INSTANTANEOUS *
forgive me, I am on flu medication

>>23158132
What medication is there even for a flu?

Also, who are you?

>>23158142
Theraflu. I have a severe cold. Er...you don't know me?!

>>23158159
Heard you wanted my kids or something

>>23158142

Oh, there's shelves, quite literally, shelves, of the shit for the flu. Nothing does anything for it, it's just medication to help make you feel a bit better (read as DRUGGED AS FUCK) for a little while. I worked at a CVS for the last 6 months, it's funny as shit how much money people spend trying to alleviate the symptoms of feeling like 10 lbs of hammered shit.

More related to the thread.

I'm getting into the DD/LG relationships with a girl I met on Skype. We're talking and I spend time on video and I just... watch her color and it's incredibly relaxing. There's a bit of sexuality, some pet play (which I never knew I was into until we started talking and doing it) and even a bit of School Girl play (which never did anything for me until her)

I'm 30, she's 27. It's nice.

>>23158045
What part of Cali?

>>23158178
Haha! Not necessarily. I was just mentioning I'm good with kids

>>23158188
That sounds lovely, I hope you don't live too far apart. I haven't seen anyone her age in such a dynamic, myself. Makes it interesting, I think.

>>23158204
Southern!

>>23158234
What part of southern Cali?

>>23158237
La

>>23158248
Wow. I'm over here in orange.

>>23158250
Not far

>>23158271
So if I may ask, what draws you to this kink specifically?

>>23158207

Sadly... we are extremely far apart and it sucks. We're looking to meet sometime in March, and spend a long weekend together. I'm moving and Phantom of the Opera is coming to TPAC and I. Fucking. Love. Phantom.

I'm currently in NC, she's in MA. It's tough, but we both only recently got out of abusive relationships. Mine was a marriage (divorcing when I can afford it. Separated currently.) hers was another LDR but distance doesn't mean anything, it's still painful.

>>23158277
Daddy issues.
More specifically, I *accidentally* developed an incest fetish during early high school. I also have a thing for innocence. All of this eventually stemmed off to Ddlg

>>23158308
How does one accidentally get into that i wonder?

>>23158321
I used to go on literotica and asstr (still do) and came to a shitty, poorly written series where a busty girl fucked her uncle. And I wanted more similar stories

>>23158333
Ah. I see. So what do you plan on gaining from this thread if I may ask?

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32 Daddy Savannah Georgia
Kik: Daddy.Donnie
Looking for a little to spoil and talk with. Prefer local, but at least in the US

>>23158368
Honestly just to respond to post I responded to originally. Sometimes I post here seeing if anybody would be interested in talking or teaching me. I do have kik

>>23158393
Post that kik then.

>>23158399
C-can you post yours instead?

>>23158415
Certainly. Genericusername08

23- F- Northbrook, IL

Looking for something similar to the dd/lg dynamic. I'm not into ageplay, and have no interest in pretending to be an actual 'little'.

I just feel as if this sort of relationship best suits what I'm interested in right now. I am only interested in men ages 30s-40s, nothing too long-term. I like the sexual kinks involved, but it's slightly more than sexual without necessarily being romantic.

Not interested in a sugar daddy, I don't want to feel obligated or paid for. Not interested in an online relationship. The goal is to actually be able to see each other in person.

skype: centimeterspersecond

Oh, and if interested I don't smoke, drink, or use recreational drugs.

>>23158437
Your post would do much better in an age gap thread

>>23154547
Woldtakefishing/10

>>23158437
Just added you, fyi. 31m here

>>23158080
All I meant was like I'd buy her clothes and underwear and stuff not like just throw money at her, that's retarded

>>23159668
Ah. My bad, I'm just seeing several people completely misunderstanding the actual relationship as a whole. To be honest, I'm kind of getting unnecessarily defensive. Sorry.

>>23159698
No I wasn't mad lol. I'd never get anything out of these threads but it's a nice dream