Guys, Could you ever long term date a chick you could never fuck? If she was perfect in every other way and was more than happy to blow you or jerk you off whenever you wanted, but just can't ever get in the pussy? Or is it just a deal breaker for you?
>>23149324 Shrug. Alright I guess? I don't get the best sense of her body from that video.
>>23149380 Mnn. Tricky. I am non-monogamous so I could easily get my sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere, but sex and physical intimacy is one of the most basic and core ways of me showing affection. It would be weird dating someone for an extended time period that I could never fuck, even if we played around in other regards.
You would have to have some CRAZY strong connection with me for me to want to do that.
>>23149324 she's fine, even quite hot, she's attractive.
>>23149380 Of course not i can't date a girl that wont allow me to fuck her, even blowjobs are not enough... Maaaaybe i'd date her if she let me fuck other girls or if she invite some girls to threesome everyweek, but no sex is a deal breaker.
>>23150766 Or more likely the woman from the vibrator thread who finds penetration super fucking painful but doesn't mind sucking cock.
>>23150713 Dude here and all, but generally 'confidence' is meant as 'being at ease with yourself / comfortable in your own skin / not looking for eternal validation'. You're not trying to impress anyone, you're just doing you. A lot of folk, especially when younger, tend to confuse confidence with arrogance.
Good personality is going to be fairly variable depending on what the person in question likes - but generally it comes down to "fun/comfortable to spend time with". You're *interesting* and you are *enjoyable* to spend time with.
Fair enough. It would be silly for anyone to bravely take it upon themselves in the face of 'literally shaking' by objective reality to answer questions meant for the opposite sex because muh gender and anyone can be anything regardless of what is between your legs.
Please excuse, English isn't my first language.
Question for women: How do you feel about men with an agenda who transition and desperately want to be a pretty pretty princess, thinking life will be on permanent easy mode cause they shift into being a woman? It's almost always mtf, hardly ever ftm. Thoughts?
>>23149380 If you are asking because there's a guy you like and you are insecure about it, I think you should tell him right away about that. If I were that guy, I would like to know at first, I wouldn't like it as a surprise. To answer your question, if it's because of a physiological reason, then I would say I'm willing to try and make my best effort.
>>23149380 This though. I've tried and tried but penetration is the most painful thing in the world for me. It's so bad I'm pretty sure I'll never be able to have sex, even if I someday decide that I really want to. I feel like all guys want is sex, even if they say they don't. Makes me feel unlovable. :(
>>23151087 Not female here, but I'm curious: How often does this even happen? I've never heard of it in my entire life - I've heard of men who think that if they WERE women life would be easy mode, but I never have heard of it being a reason for anyone, and especially not a substantial mass, to decide to become women.
There's a huge huge huge stigma towards trans people and gender reassignment. I don't get how someone could go through all of that and think it's just going to get miraculously easier; or passing the requirements in order to get gender reassignment.
>>23150766 nope Anon >>23150838 is right. That's me, figured I'd ask around and see just how limiting this thing is. >>23149590 >>23151194 It's a medical thing, I'm making appointments to get properly diagnosed but I'm about 99% certain I have vaginismus, basically every common symptom describes my situation perfectly. I've never been able to fit anything bigger than a finger in, and even that comes with extreme discomfort and pain. It shuts itself down so tight its just not possible to get into. There's "treatment" but since it's mostly psychological treatment is basically just "get better." So basically, there's no fixing it. >>23151236 I mean, our dating pools are pretty fucked, but at least I received more positive responses to this question than I expected. So, theres that I guess. I'm at the point where I'd be ok with just suffering through the pain in order to ensure I won't die alone, but I'm starting to think its just physically impossible to do even if I wanted to. I've only tried to have sex once but he couldn't get it in. But I've been fingered multiple times with nothing but discomfort and pain, and only 1 finger has ever gotten in. Tampons have always been too painful to use for me as well.
Question to both genders: If you could know exactly how physically attractive you are to the opposite sex on a 1-10 scale, would you want to know? (Nothing would be off limit for this rating. Weight, height, breast size, penis size, etc.)
Question for girls: If you found out that a guy you know has a huge penis do you think that would change what you think about him in any way? ("huge" = the length of the average waterbottle and thick)
>>23149380 No. Beyond the "sex is fun" argument, I do want to have kids one day, so that would be a dealbreaker for two reasons.
>>23149312 I have a question for girls, particularly those of college age.
Does a girl sitting next to a guy in 2 of our classes mean anything? This one girl always waits for me after class and we walk to our next 2 classes and sit with each other for both. We get along pretty well. I can't tell if she's just being friendly or if it's something more...?
Also one day just to test it, I walked to class alone and sat alone, and she still came over and sat next to me, lol.
Also sorry if I sound like a total fag but for some reason I'm catching feelings for this girl...
>>23152264 Just casually ask her out to grab coffee. Nothing fancy. This is coming from an extremely shy girl who can't flirt in any way. Being friendly is my form of flirting so it might be hers too. But definitely don't come on too strong >>23152278 Actually coming from a girl who recently turned a guy down. It changes the friendship and makes it awkward most the time. But I say you rather regret an awkward patch than miss an opportunity
>>23149312 For the girls, I'm looking for a truthful answer on this. How much of a turn off is it if a guy is chubby? Would you outright refuse to date a guy like that and do you find it disgusting. Thanks in advance.
>>23152457 I don't think it's a turn off at all :) Obviously different girls' opinions will very. I appreciate all body types but I /prefer/ chubbier physiques. Every chubby guy I've been with has been immensely sweeter and funnier than other body types, and I find it attractive, and it makes cuddling infinitely more amazing.
>>23152264 I'd say it means something for sure, just don't be too quick to assume how much it means. As the others said, ask her out for something casual.
>>23152248 First question: I don't really think that makes sense because two guys could be standing next to each other and one could be droolingly attracted to me while the other thinks I look inbred. Everybody has different standards of "attractive". If there were some way to baseline attraction level of everyone, sure, I'd want to know for the sake of curiosity, but I don't think it would matter in the slightest simply due to the fact that even if I looked like I'd been hit by a train, there's someone in the world that's into that.
Second question: No, at least not sexually. I might wonder how many dumb chicks he ends up with, because any girl with half a brain knows that size doesn't matter 99% of the time. That's just like asking if I would think any differently about I guy I know because I found out he had a tiny penis. The whole "dick size" thing is just another ego/masculinity complex that has absolutely nothing to do with the guy himself, or his sexual performance.
>>23152457 I'm a bear mode anon here, let me shed some light. I've been dating way out of your league for years not because I'm some rich dude with a huge dick that looks like a movie start, but because I'm fun and confident in my own skin. Nobody wants to spend time with somebody that's worried if people even like them so once you get over that and just go out and enjoy yourself it'll all change for you.
>>23152712 That depends on what type of "country boy" it is. If you say yes to any of the following questions, then it'd be a big ol' "Nope". 1.) Do you chew? 2.) Do you hunt for sport and not use all of the resources gained from the animal? 3.) Do you own anything with a confederate flag on it? 4.) Is your truck lifted and/or does it have "truck nuts"? 5.) Do you say "nut" instead of "cum"
>>23152746 1. No, I prefer cheap cigars 2. When I was about 16 I got paid to shoot rabbits out of neighbor's vegetable gardens. Does that count? 3. I fly an American and Gadsden flag above my house 4. Yes, my truck is lifted 5. No?
>>23152671 Yeh I've been working on the whole self confidence thing and I'm starting to realize how little the body type can mean when you come off as confident and fun. It's good to hear success stories though.
>>23152637 It's really nice to hear, thanks for answering.
>>23152746 oh, I qualify.... 1)nope 2)nope, use the entire thing, even donate to hides for habitat 3)nope, country not hick 4)yes truck is lifted, it's a toy that's meant to be used off road, no on truck nuts, dumbest thing ever, nothing says I can't get laid like a good pair of truck nuts 5)only when I'm eating nuts
>>23152783 self affirmations dude, if you convince yourself that you are something then you can and will become it.....give it a try and you might be surprised :)
2nd tip, don't be afraid to jump, as Steve Harvey says, you can't live your life and make it what you want unless you jump, you gotta take risks and put yourself out here, nothing great comes with risk
>>23152248 No, because scales like that irritate me to no end. I'm going to be a 1 to some people, and a 10 to others - and my interaction with them will cause their rating of me to slide all over the place.
If you were talking if I somehow could know what EVERY INDIVIDUAL PERSON rated their *interest* in me out of 10, that would be far more useful.
>>23152316 It can be a sign of instability, dependency issues, projection issues, yadda yada. I am wary of anyone that falls in love with me super quickly, triply so when its a distance thing and you cannot easily interact face to face.
What is "quickly"?
>>23152457 Dude, everything that ever gets asked in that context is going to end up having people say its a turn on, neutral, and turn off. There are women who will not be interested in you because you're chubby, people who don't give a shit, and people who like it.
Just go and talk with people you find interesting. If they respond, flirt. If they flirt back, escalate. Human interaction 101.
>>23152783 My general rule of thumb is people will pick up on what you get insecure and uncomfortable about - if you just kind of flaunt it with a who gives a fuck attitude people just accept it.
It doesn't mean that people automatically find you bangable or anything like that, but it means that everyone knows what the situation is and you're not going to catch anyone off guard. They are less likely to pay attention to your weight.
>>23152712 I always imagine my ideal man being a country boy, but I'm most likely being chilldish with how I might be romanticizing them quite a bit. I picture all of them not being so obsessed with technology like most people, being very hard-working, masculine while still being sweet, a super handyman and a chill person who likes to just spend time together instead of going on the usual dates.
>>23152902 there aren't many like you're dreaming of that's for sure. Most of that list of "Yes to any of the 5 question" stuff will get most country boys to answer yes to all 5. A good part of what makes the country boy you're talking about is life experience. The things you're looking for are more a sign of maturity and knowing the kind of man you are than they are of a country boy. Sadly there's not many of us men out there anymore. If my wifes friends are any tell, only 2 of her group of 20 scrapbooking friends have happy marriages. The rest don't help with kids, don't help with chores, don't do this or that, marriage sexless, can't get it up, can't satisfy me, can't get a job, can't fix this, and on and on. It's a sad state of affairs ladies. But on the flip side there's plenty of women that are insufferable also that I'd never marry, of her 20 scrapbooking friends including my wife I think 2 of them are beautiful, confident, smart and funny. The rest are a fucking shit show in one way or another.
Having been here a few months, both on here and on advice, this thread has been around for hundreds/thousands/whatever iterations and it's just always been called, "Ask the Opposite Gender" and always used a blue male, pink female logo as it's image. It's just what's immediately known and searchable.
>>23152248 >If you could know exactly how physically attractive you are to the opposite sex on a 1-10 scale, would you want to know?
Nah. What good would that do? If it's higher than i thought it was, it'd give me an EVEN BIGGER ego, if it was lower, then it'd crush my Ego. My ego is at a good place. The only opinion that matters to me is mine (and maybe my GF's at this point I guess).
>>23152316 >Is it scary to have a girl on the internet fall in love with you quickly? She hasn't said it, but it's obvious?
Depends on how obvious, and depends on if we've met in real life. If we haven't met, maybe a bit, but at the same time, you're not real to me yet so whatever.
>>23153102 Blowjobs are a heat of the moment thing man. They should never be expected, but always appreciated. Guess it depends on how old you are but I don't think there should be any set timeline for when sex and foreplay enter the game.
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