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I am a 22 year old male who has decided to remain virgin for the rest of his life. Since there are a lot of men with no self respect here i have decided to educate you lot by providing some insightful answers
Exactly. I feel like orbiting women is the most beta thing to do. I just know way too many women to trust them.The stakes are too high abd the awards are pitful. I rather play it safe than lose my mental health over a cunt.
I have met a lot of people in 2015. I will admit to being a shut in for most of my life but i have a social circle now and i know a lot of women.
I only had two people show interest in me so far though and i have never asked anyone out.
I am not lonely. I felt lonely until i realized i was not missing out on anything when i got to meet a lot of people.
I sometimes go out on friday nights but i really perfer to be alone.
but what about love? denying your need for it might for for awhile but eventually it will resurface.
i was traumatized by a horrific relationship when as a teen and afterwards i tried for years to tell myself i did not need love, i did not want love, and that people would only ever hurt me in the end. and i did believe it for quite awhile. It's been about 4 years now since my last love affair but in the past few months i feel i've reached a bit of a breaking point in my no-love choice. no matter how much i try to deny it, i do crave love. i want to be held and i want to care for someone and i want to be cared for. I just havn't met the right person yet i guess..
no matter how afraid we are of getting hurt, deep inside we are not meant to be alone and our hearts know it.
Sigh. The more partners you have the less you are capable of feeling anything for someone new. Kinda like getting used to hurting people. Once you go down the path it's hard to go back.
Sadly most women are taught to explore their sexuality and what you end up with is women from Soc. That is the average female. Highly prone to jump the boat at the smallest issues.
Have fun getting cheated on or dumped. The sad part is that most people don't even find out they were cheated.
i am a female..
maybe i'm just a romantic but i like to think that there is someone out there for me who i could spend my life with and love and care for with all my heart and who would do the same for me.
I mean sure we are all so different that most of the people we meet are not right for us, and are at different points in their lives that make them not right for us as a romantic parter, but just because statistically most people aren't a proper match, doesn't mean we should pass up the opportunity to be with the one person who is, you know?
Okay so this thread is basically about how you got cheated on cause you didn't want to get intimate with your exes untill some certain amount of time. And she wasn't feeling that and wanted someone who could satisfy her sexaully. That or your a really boring and dull in person but idk man.
God damn that gave me feels. You can deny a lot of things in life with your head, but you can't deny what the heart desires. When your hearts on fire and strong with desire just got to let it keep burning till the flame dies out.
You're a dreamer or naive. People are really similar which is why most of them share the same popular beliefs. Murder could be completely normal if society was slowly convinced to drop those morals.
26 y/o male. Not a virgin but I'm extremely jaded/frustrated sexually. I'm considering two extremes right now: either swearing off of sex forever or pursuing hookers and kinky shit on craigslist as an outlet. Either way I can't see myself initiating a romantic relationship due to insecurity. I just find it hard to connect with women. I get attached at like day one and start fantasizing about this amazing life that we'll have together, then on day two she'll do something I don't like or didn't expect and I respond with misogyny. I'm also a cutter.
There is hope but as long as you are a part of the problem nothing can be changed. If i decide to date someone they will have to prove themselves in order for me to forget their shitty past.
Prove me they want me by not rushing in another relationship. If someone manages to be single and wait for me a year i will date them.
>I get attached at like day one and start fantasizing about this amazing life that we'll have together, then on day two she'll do something I don't like or didn't expect
I feel like this how I'd act if I could even make it that far
I made the same choice, 23/m
I'm awkward and boring, was in a relationship once and the girl was lovely, but I was an emotional train wreck. I ended it because I couldn't take it anymore, I'd rather be lonely then go through whatever the hell that was. I'd go from being angry at her over literally nothing, to being depressed, to being overwhelming happy in about an hour.
Whenever I feel myself becoming too close to someone or if I crush on someone I isolate myself from them.
Kinky shit is degrading. If you must at least pay for your service with a far more attractive prostitute and order her around. I don't promote prostitution but at least that way you are not getting personal with someone and they do not enjoy it.
I used to feel lonely but i never dated anyone and i just stopped feeling lonely about a year ago. It feels great to hold no interest in females and be fine with being alone. Sadly a lot of people are trying to hook me up because they are shocked about my virgin status.
eh. i've been single for 4 years now so, yea. i don't want someone who just rushes in and out of relationships either. but then again, you can never predict how life will go.
and i feel like when you meet the right person, there is no reason for them to need to prove themselves. if you need them to do that, you probably the one who is not right for them.
i know i personally would not like to feel like i need to prove myself to someone in order to gain their approval. it just wouldn't feel natural.
Then why have been talking about untrustworthy women and getting cheated on? Honestly you sound like you have high morals and high standards so maybe an escort would be what you need but like I said earlier, idk man
Not interested in cheap sex. I speak about cheating because of the observations i made. I also rejected two girls for being sluts and they both "fell in love" with someone else in two weeks.
My standards are low. I only demand the basics. To not be a degenerate slut. I am not picky about looks or anything.
I share some of Elliot's beliefs but he was wrong about a few things. Any normal looking guy can get laid, he just has to degrade himself enough to take the tainted sluts.
Unlike Elliot i am fine with being alone so here is where we are different.
you just havn't met the right person yet either anon. you are 22, you are young. a lot of young people are just not ready for a serious relationship yet. Don't let that make you lose hope, okay? You gotta stay open to the possibility of it still being out there, because if you are closed off you will miss your opportunities. true love is not a one-sided thing and it won't happen unless you are open to it.
>I'd go from being angry at her over literally nothing, to being depressed, to being overwhelming happy in about an hour.
I think we have the same disease anon. Mood swings are baffling. Suicidal one day, ecstatic the next, miserable after that. The entire time I'm thinking "Wtf is wrong with me"
If you ever decide to put yourself out there again because who knows who you'll run into. You should drop the how cynical "all women are sluts act", cause that will honestly attract the demo your trying to stay away from. And honestly makes you come off a little bit like a douchebag. And if you had low standards and have all ready been rejecting people you should have lost your v card a long time ago. Just hit up christian mingle sometime that might work.
I don't cut but I can empathise with you there. I've got a better chance of walking on the moon than getting into a relationship.
No, I'm not fat or deformed, no my standards aren't high. I just think I'm destined to die alone, kissless and miserable.
So in the 22 years of experience, with, what, lets say ... 7 years of probably particularly trying to be involved with women, you decided you want to be celibate for the next 60+ years?
I mean, hey, do whatever you want, doesn't matter, but I just find it really weird.
The vast majority of my friends are female. I know a stupid amount of women. If you cannot trust the women in your life, GET BETTER WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE.
Not how affection works, bub. If anything, my ability to express and feel .. Pretty much anything has increased as I've gained more and more partners in my life. Hell, the time my emotions are most accessible is when I am involved with multiple partners at a time.
People cheat. People get dumped. Whatever the fuck. It sucks, but in the end, it's not a big deal - if you're in a monogamous relationship you're in it until either you break up or someone dies. I would much prefer a fucked up relationship fall apart earlier than super late in my life.
Why the hell is kinky shit degrading?