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i'm so fucking angry
this thread makes me so angry
you're just some ugly fucking beta who thinks having a yandere girlfriend is SOO HOTT XD
you won't fucking think that when they torture you and completely ruin your life to the point you have to commit suicide you stupid fuck
you wont fucking think that when your girlfriend tries to kill you in the middle of the night for talking to your female boss at work
i'm a yandere, i'm not proud of it, its fucking horrible.
i make people's lives a living nightmare.
if you think you can "handle" it, you're a fucking retard.
i hope you die
stop being autistic and chill. its attractive to a certain point but you arent supposed to "ruin" lives.
the idea most guys have over this topic is a clingy possessive girl who is super loyal to you. obviously theres some room for psychotic behavior but if you are ruining lives over it youre just a psychopath.
basically point being youre messing up the fantasy with whatever your crappy reality is.
btw my if my gf killed me shed be doing me a favor. rip
Tbh I think the chick is being pretty dramatic, but she's in the right direction. The actual reality falls somewhere in the middle.
Clingy possesive girls are inherently unstable. Calling them psychotic isn't fair, but exactly 100% of them are mentally unhealthy, and that manifests in their obsessive behaviors. When they latch on to people, it becomes less than cute really quickly.
I've had a couple girls like this and they do have pretty extreme, suffocating behavior.
Cindy also goes by ausbot on r9k.
no i agree that it will fall somewhere between but you shouldnt feel bad about calling them psychotic. they are. thats the whole appeal.
in my head theres a line between obsessive and a psychopath.
since i myself am extremely obsessive this character trait is highly attractive in a partner for me.
>i make people's lives a living nightmare.
I'll be your friend. I'm being completely honest and serious here. I have dealt with this kind of stuff. I have friends who are like you. I'm like you in a lot of regards. Handle might be a good word but, I know what it entails and I for sure would your friend if you want that. I'm not fetishizing you and I guess I'm not asking you to ed8 me but, we might make good friends. If you want.
Anyone who feels that way really. Especially if you're in Ohio. Not really looking to date, I dunno if I'm even in a good frame of mind to do that to be honest but. Friends are always nice. I suppose believing what a guy says about that is dumb though so if you think I'm trawling for whatever then go ahead and I won't take offense to it.
Handle might be a BAD word oops. I mean, you can't really handle something like that but you can tolerate it to some extent. In any case though I've never had an issue with it, I can deal with that kind of stress easily for some reason.
You realize that in addition to yourself getting hurt you'll end up hurting your partner too right? If you get into a relationship like that and you don't know what you're doing it's just gonna cause unnecessary harm and stress to them. Like. Shit this is a bad example but. Would you date someone with Really Intense medical needs when you have no idea how to preform the stuff that needs to be done to keep them healthy? Maybe you would but you'd probably read up on it and get advice from professionals and like. I dunno, you'd be PREPARED and ready to help out. People on here always just want to jump into something like that with no real idea of what it's like or how to take care of someone like that. I dunno if that's the case with you but with other people it seems to be and frankly it's disgusting.
Two highly possessive, obsessive people together is a recipe for disaster. Every relationship needs at least one person who is composed, disciplined, and logical/realistic with their decisions. This is especially true if the other person is highly needy, clingy, and irrational.
Two people who are obsessive to the mentally unstable degree discussed in this thread will never get anything done. You'll end up living with your parents with a child you can't reasonably raise financially or emotionally.
Do you also play video games all day and live with your parents?
>Two highly possessive, obsessive people together is a recipe for disaster. Every relationship needs at least one person who is composed, disciplined, and logical/realistic with their decisions. This is especially true if the other person is highly needy, clingy, and irrational.
I've been saying this for YEARS and no one believes me. I always phrased it as "Rational + rational works. Irrational + rational works. Irrational + irrational is a death sentence"
i only date crazy chicks and it ALWAYS. blows up. thats the fun of it. you guys sound like 2 fags that want to fix these girls.
youre not supposed to fix them, youre supposed to encourage them.
>youre not supposed to fix them, youre supposed to encourage them.
Please kill yourself. I really mean that. Honestly truly, from the bottom of my heart.
You can't fix anyone. But you can at least try to help keep them safe. Jesus. That's the fun of it? You're fucking scum.You can't fix but at the very least you can NOT ENCOURAGE THEM what the hell anon. People like you are such fucking predators.
I'm not really crying it's just that one human being can be so noxious desu. It's sad. Really. You should make people happy with your life. It's disgusting to live any other way.
If people allow themselves to be 'encouraged' then that's their problem. You can't rely on other people and the "goodness of their heart". Learn to take care of yourself or get meds.
>calls others betas
>talks about pleasing other people
alright where the crazy girls at? theres a severe shortage of them around these parts despite all the mental illness here.
You can be both rational and irrational at the same time, it's not like you have to be strictly one or the other all the time, a truely completely rational person wouldn't get involved with an irrational person in the first place if they were completely rational. It's definitely a spectrum which also means that the women you are referring to also possess some rationalism, everyone is different.
That's one of the stupidest things I've heard lol instead of admitting to doing something illogical you want to "fix people", you have to realize someone who believes in pure logic wouldn't try to "fix people" there is no reason for them to.
You have to realize that being 100% logical either makes you a robot or autistic.
>>calls others betas
>>talks about pleasing other people
I-I didn't call anyone a beta what
>If people allow themselves to be 'encouraged' then that's their problem
Some people don't really get a choice. They just...are like that. Or they're easily manipulated. Or they're weak. It's not a reason to abuse them. I'm not saying anyone should count on someone else to be a nice person but I think as a human being you should TRY to be a decent person.
You can not fix someone. Only you can you. You can help someone help themselves but, ultimately, it's really very much up to them to fix themselves. That said I don't think anyone should ever hinder anyone's attempt to fix themselves.
Also on what that anon said about rational/irrational. Lately I've been thinking of it as whether or not you understand that you're mentally ill and the actions you take are a result of your illness. My mom for example does not think that she's mentally ill and denies that her actions are odd or crazy. She's irrational. I know I'm crazy, I know when what I do is crazy, I try to fix it. I seek help. I think I'm more of a rational type. Really it's just. Willingness to admit illness and willingness to seek help.
I'm still waiting for the Tara nudes. Come on Tara, you posted them on other chans, just post them on here!
Don't be a prude! Spook isn't your bf and you shouldnt be ashamed of your camwhore side.
You said in a previous post that you probably haven't dated a severely clingy/needy/obsessive girl. I have mate, it's not fun. I don't want to fix or coddle anyone. I didn't go into a relationship thinking 'hey this bitch is crazy'... it didn't surface until much later.
You also said you're extremely obsessive. That's not how healthy relationships work. A 'yandere' girl requires and demands way more attention than any person can reasonably give. At that point you're basically taking care of a person.
Listen freud, no one cares about your internet psychoanalytics. Bottom line is that two mentally unstable people should not be together. They don't have the skillset or resolve to take care of themselves, much less each other.
Freud lol, I'm saying it's a spectrum meaning that any combination of logical/illogical is adequate, if you have two people who are say 50% logical/illogical they should be able to function well, the same with 80%/20% but even 70%/20% functions together. If you have two completely illogical people though sure it might not work in reality though it may work in something like some sort of artist's colony perhaps, environment plays a large factor into if a relationship works regardless.
I'm just here because people were looking for people with NPD and it sounded intriguing and I'm not quite bored of this place yet
Yep, a dude for sure and not sure what makes someone with NPD and sociopathic traits hot anyhow lol
It's much easier to get in charge of things, I've manipulated people into giving me power a lot which is always fun. In terms of how it shapes me, I hate not being in charge most of the time so I only tend to work at something if I have a solid endgame. I do tend to delete people rather often though, so it's hard for me to find lasting friendships outside of people who seem to like to be abused by me or that I can use in some way, I tend to delete people quite often if anything and the only people I seem to actually want in my life are people I'm intimate with or animals.
Do you just have a fetish for crazy people or something?
Animals are nice. I think the only people who don't like animals are sociopaths. No offense but I'd never be friends with an NPD case for just that reason, same way I'd definitely never be friends with an AsPD but. It's interesting. Do you like your life? I mean do you enjoy it? Would you change if you could? If there was a drug or therapy or something that would "cure" you, would you do it?
Sociopathics and Psychopaths are different, sociopathy is a lack of empathy which is generally more common. I just view animals as innocents typically which is why I prefer women who I date to be more towards innocent as well.
I pretty much like all animals, it has more to do with the innocence factor animals are simple not complicated. I've had a duck, had a turtle before, had a dog, have a tortoise now I just like animals in general.
Sociopath and psychopath are the same thing medically. It's just in common usage that they mean different things and even then the distinction is pretty different depending on the person. Psychopath is kind of derogatory I guess. Unless you're saying that psychopaths have psychotic features and sociopaths are just...sociopathic. But I've always seen them as the same thing, from a medical standpoint anyway. I have psychotic features but I am not a psychopath. I am a psychotic at times though.
Typically the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy is the resorting to violence typically that and I think psychopathy is more biologically linked than sociopathy is, if anything psychopathy is like a specialized version of sociopathy.
Hell there's even a webmd article about it, I'm too lazy to find a better article. http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/features/sociopath-psychopath-difference
Typically the difference comes with self control, I'm pretty sure psychopaths can't be functioning despite what movies seem to suggest. Stimulants in particular seem to bring out my crazier side. I don't do drugs but I've accidentally dosed myself with high levels of caffeine before ~2g is not good for anyone's mind though I don't think.
Yan girl reporting in. Ask me any questions, or you wanna hear stories let me know.
Socio VS psycho:
I have been diagnosed as a socio from a actual doctor. I didn't always been obsessive and possessive...but after some shit, and how i was brought up(and broken mentally) i believe it natured the yandere in me. This caused me to now not trust my partner(but yet puts all my trust in them), stalk interests, obsessive/possessive, easily jealous or outraged, etc.
I also believe Mental disorders play in those who are Yandere. Or atleast this is coming from myself, and others i happen to know.
Mirai Nikki came out when i was in the 9th grade that's old news. And i've had professional help, thats why i believe mental issues are tied with yanderes.
It was satire, you have no clue what the fuck you're talking about. You cannot quantify 'logical' and 'illogical' there's no metric to measure mental instability.
Stop playing semantics, you can put any label on it you want. The bottom line is needy/obsessive people have mental/chemical instabilities/imbalance at the source. Coupling two people with mental instabilities together, even if they exist on different areas if the mentally instable spectrum, is a recipe for disaster and WILL NOT WORK. Ever. End of story.
Let's entertain for a moment that it's possible for a healthy indivdual to fetishize obsessive/possessive/clingy behavior in another person, it still won't work. Exactly 100% of people who fetishize broken ass girls have NEVER been involved with one.
You're like 18-22 years old. You sit at home all day and play video games and jack off to cartoons mate. I think you should reevaluate your life instead of trying to find a 'yandere' girl. Eventually you'll have to learn how to take care of yourself
I've been diagnosed for 2yrs now. My doc tested me for it as soon as i was 18, cause with BPD you aren't allowed to give a "confirm" on it until legal age of adult.
I literally just made this throwaway, cause i know it's gonna get hella spammed. But to "see all the hype" means i would have to fall for you/become obsessed with you, you realize this right?
I have two jobs that I enjoy, live alone in a neat house, focus on social & physical things when I'm not working. Also maintain a healthy amount of diverse long term and short term goals.
I'm actually just waiting for relief at work right now.
Oh sorry i didn't mean i was going to, but for you to experince the "hype" that's how it would be. I didn't mean to scare you darling.
^it's gonna get spammed but oh well i have no care it's a throw away
Logical decisions/all decisions made, gives you a percentage, if you think it's all or nothing you know nothing about people.
I'm generally a logical person, I make logical decisions in my life but I made an illogical decision by moving across the US and living with a girl with BPD who abusive and shit a more logical person would have not, a less logical person would have sooner.
I've never been here before, but is this thread always like this? Why is everybody so mad?
I always thought this was more of a fantasy/roleplaying thing, not actually hooking up with crazy people.