New Thread for 25+
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Continue flirting with Moms, advice, feels, ect
First cold day of the season here, only friend I've made surprise-told me she's moving, back to being 4everAlone
On the upswing, I got paid, working on good personal projects, paid rent so have at least +1 month to not worry about money.
5/10, will bump to 7after drinks
Yeah, they flood the gym every year. I mean its good to try and get in shape and take care of yourself but it also brings in a lot of idiots who misuse machines, never clean up and are generally just annoying to be around
Are you one of those females who take post-workout selfies in the mirror from the side, with a leg arched to make your butt look big, and flexing your arm so you can post it on Instagram with 800 hashtags?
>shit that triggers me
Thanks NMpal, I was the guy who has family there from the last thread, Wifi keeps my ID changing. I ain't even mad, just been a tough month in that field.
Maturity=/=Age, but Adoesence is wrapping it's way up.
Yeah okay anon :)
Sure, though my lipring is gone now.
I guess it's true when they say you can't leave. I was on 4chan pretty much when it started already, and back then I was full into otakudom. Those days are mostly behind, but I still browse here.
Yeah but you have been contactfagging on /soc/ specifically for ages. I tried to lick your butt once.
Is this what happens to histrionic chicks when they're too old to get real life attention? Crazy.
29/f reporting back in. Uh in the last thread if you added me on skype I definitely think I accepted.
Also I've been here since 2005. I swear I'm a normal function adult. Pic related me with no glasses. But I rarely wear contacts.
Hey there! 29/f here just got back from a cruise, and I'm excited to be back in SF. I started myfitnesspal yesterday so I'm in the same "health" boat. I hope you're having a great day! :)
You're gorgeous. I like your cheeks, and your upper lip. I'm the type of guy who dsn't care abt boob size or weight if it's within a wide range.
I hope you get a great guy who is kind to you. I don't do this type of thing (/soc/) ever.
Gonna go now. bye!
Anon with 2 kids from the last thread. You are very beautiful, a 10! Freckles are cute and sexy! You have that sexy nerd girl thing going with those glasses! Lol yeah I'm crushin a little. Skype? Mine is aromeoguy if you want to add me
Haha yeah I am pretty much a nerd. What's funny is everything I got bullied for growing up is what people love about me now.
My skype is mandurrh if you want to add me. The two and six year olds??
No just hang out, feel young, make the people who feel old feel better or laugh at em. Talk about fun memories from child hood that kind of stuff. Hit on 27 yr olds and call them cougars lol
East coast is the best coast. So it's the glasses? I broke them this morning T^T
Dad bod or skinny fat is my thing, like tall men with little pot bellies haha.
Yes maybe no but I'm in there with you friend
I feel pretty special that he made an exception for me. I'm pretty cookie cutter. And not really edgy enough for what soc likes.
Sounds like a plan.
I do have a thing for "older" women though, or rather, mature (as in not stupid college kids style) women who know what they want.
>>23092667 is a cutie, but doesn't look her age at all, dem genes...
Well it sounds like a match lol. I look forward to you off soc. My 2 yr old just stormed out of the bathroom after yelling at his sister, turning off the light and slaming the door.
I'm in that awkward age..
Not my early 20s, not yet 30.
You're cute! I always prefer photos of me without glasses, even though I'm always wearing them. Lol.
>>23092894 apparently you're cute with glasses too!
>>23093264 Hey so I hope it's OK if I add you on Skype, cause I'm gonna!
I love cats. Pic related it's my cat fatman he follows me everywhere.
I don't mind
My kitty Sophi, she's my little black panther
That was Scarlett. This is reeko
35 m from 586 area.
Bored as fuck at work right now.
Kik and snap are both theycallmefplus
I am bored. Entertain pls.
Bros welcome, grills preferred.
Of course all of us older people on 4chan love cats :^)
This is lady hitler(named by a very adorable man that I like) she was a runt and got an infection that stopped development so she kind of looks like a bat. And is very awkward but I love her.
[Pic from last thread] Reposting. 28/f/Kamloops, BC
Just barely make the cutoff.
kik is krankytaco
Moving here from Nebraska soon.
Cats are the best, love mine too.
Pretty much the same, I hate it, it's not even about the sex, but having someone by your side and to be stupid with.
Hoping things work out between you guys!
Eh, don't unless it's necessary in your field, just shape it and maybe trim it a bit. I always hated my facial hair, but let it grow out after years of fighting it and love it now, especially in the winter.
INB4 INSTAGRAM filter
Spending my night pondering what in the hell did I do wrong to end up as a 26 yr old virgin.
And it's not even that I'm ugly or unconfident in myself either. I'm just the only guy on Earth who doesn't like to chase. That's my only sin.
29 years old, never had a girlfriend, old man powerz
Everyday is a mental struggle not to kill myself. Some how I am still the shy beta I was in the 4th grade, how does that even happen? I fucking hate it. I cant get the courage to initiate or make a move and as the guy I am expected to, so naturally I have zero chance with Women. And to top all of that off of course my hairline is now receding and my body is going to shit. It's too late for everything, I missed the opportunity to fall in with all the normal happy people and now all that's left is a life is misery.
That's the only choice isn't it? Problem is that I cant enjoy anything. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking of ways it could be worse. I could be a homeless amputee with aids and cancer living in a septic tank. Now I'll feel better about my shitty existence for a few minutes.
you want the real truth? famous and powerful men have prices over their heads by the media and everyone trying to extract money from them
there really is no winning as a man unless you become master of your own world
you'll never get validation from anyone else, it's always going to be out of reach
I was like you until I hit 21, and then I decided I wanted to change. After I lost a bunch of weight and started working out girls started to notice me.
Every single female I have dated has left me for some other guy. It's always "Your not "random characteristic" enough, but this guy that I just met and fell in love with last night is".
Maybe you have some dream about meeting some girl and falling in love with her and treating her like a princess? Nope girls don't really want that (thanks disney).
This all occured within the last 6 years and my current girlfriend who seemed like the most innocent girl ever cheated on me last summer while I was going to school full time and working full time. I'm still with her, because I have some retarded beliefs and feel bad for her.
When ever this current relationship ends, I don't plan on dating girls ever again. This is something I have been thinking about for awhile now.
You sir, you are living my dream. I wish I was you. I wish I had never went down the rabbit hole.
In advance, I understand that I may just possibly be shit, or just have met shitty people, but shit man.
I turn 25 in a few months. Do I have to accept that, still/currently being single, I may have to date girls whom have children? To avoid dating 18-year-olds, that is. I think it's a huge dealbreaker.
My boiler is broken and it -15 degrees outside. I'm fucking freezing and depressed.
Women are stubborn creatures. There are some that will do the chasing. Not me though. I'm pro gender roles and old fashioned. Fuck feminists.
Thank you I'm still not used to compliments. Maybe I should go outside more.
Hey men have all the power after 25. As women get older we lose our value. However men gain value with age. Soon you'll be able to go after young hot chicks looking for mature men. As for breaking out of not being able to talk to women the only thing you can do is practice. And fake it till you make it. Please don't ever think you aren't important enough to live because you are and you dying would be a tragedy. Do you do any kind of therapy or doctors that you talk to about this stuff?
Two girls! Phew good luck with the teenage years lol I've got one son. I'm hoping for another one day but doing it the proper way ha
Oh god you poor thing not women with children! That's so awful. How will you ever be happy??? <--- sarcasm
It's always freezing in my apartment it gets hard to leave the bed that has the blankets. I've got space heaters. May invest in a heated blanket.
Old pic when son was a tiny baby!
>Oh god you poor thing not women with children! That's so awful. How will you ever be happy??? <--- sarcasm
Hey now, that isn't very cool. I don't think it was a personal dig at you, people have prefrences and some people don't want kids it's as simple as that.
25, soon 26
Since im 20 the time is flying like shit into the toilet
Still got my v-card, wizardry is upon me
Ah well why defend a complaint against women with children? Unless you also think we are bad. Which is fine if it's your preference but I don't understand the need to make negative comments about it. There's tons of types of people I'm not too keen on dating but I don't put them down regularly. I wish people were kinder.
I think that's pretty admirable. I lost my virginity to a guy I was with for six years and really thought I would marry. I don't regret it at all. He was also a virgin. Although at 25 finding another virgin may be tough. I hope you find an amazing girl :)
I'm getting too old for working in cold weather. It sucks a little bit more every day.
You don't need to jump to some kind of 'you must think we are bad' conclusion because I said there was no need to behave like that. There is nothing wrong with being a single mother or father, being someone with a child has no baring on what kind of person you are to me. I was just commenting on your getting angry over someone not interested in dating someone with children, we all have our own preferences and if someone doesn't want to date a person with a child that is totally fine. I didn't feel like that person was attacking you or being smarmy I felt like they were just commenting on how much harder it gets to date someone who doesn't have a child when you get older, which according to the people I know seems to be the case.
I'm not jumping to conclusions I was agreeing with you that it's okay to have preferences in who you want to date. What was not okay was making a comment and singling out a certain type(in this case women with children) with negative comments. I'm sorry it's got you so worked up. I wasn't angry. I replied with sarcasm. That's standard joking for me. I'm sorry my reply to him had upset you so much.
no work for the rest of this week. weather is just too bad, sooooooo freedom and just being lazy and shit. what a bliss.
have a christmassy pic 'cause i'm still feeling festive and fat.
are you that old already? mhh, the time flies by.
I meant to reply to this yesterday bc we have a giant black cat at my parents!
Here have another cat pic. He never leaves me.
It's been pretty mild all through December..pleasant, even. The last few days, though, have been rough, comparatively. I'm in Kentucky. (I'm not really sure that saying "I'm in Kentucky" means much to someone an ocean away.)
Pft those are my nice pics: although the one with my glasses on was taken a few days ago when I was full flu. But I had showered and tried a new eyebrow filler haha.
Here's me in the morning. Runny old male up and awful hair.
Yeah... Working outside in it all day sounds less fun. But hey if it was 100 degrees outside id quit before working all day. Have you ever gotten those little pocket warmer bags? Put them in your shoes and pockets so you can warm up your hands and feet while working or outdoors? We use them when hunting on my family's farm.
I've always had one or two of each. I want a dog but my roommates have 4 giant dogs so getting another would be a bit extreme.
Well i would be chuffed to bits if i woke up like that, i look lile a steam roller has had a go at me at the best of times, let alone in the mornings.
Here is me in the morning with my mate haha
I have small feet. Boots usually have extra room. I wear these awesome thigh high knit socks under my pants when it's really cold but uh I'm not sure how well it would go for a man.
I missed the duckface phase but I can't stop the tongue out pics.
Me and my son like to do marathons every now and then. We haven't seen the new one yet. Maybe we'll go today. Our theater has power recliners, big comfy leather ones. It's pretty legit. And expensive.
Nah it's absolutely human to complain. And no better place then 4chan. But congrats on your own business and work! I owned a store for five years. Opened it when I was pregnant so I could take my son to work and raise him myself. It's tough signing your own paycheck but it gives you so much freedom.
Thank you haha and us women's 7.
Mine just turned five but he's a complete nerd like me. Yesterday I went To play games and found this.
Don't judge me for mess.
By awesome do you mean.... A pain in the backside ha. We were of walking and she wanted out of that car ha
We were pulled over on a driveway at that point, she is precious cargo ha. Altho she loves to bounce about the motor while i drive
I'm dating a 22 year old tumblrina. Wtf is wrong with me?
that stuff is expensive tho...but the technology itself is pretty neat.
>We were pulled over on a driveway at that point
ha, then it's "fuck dude, hit the pedal, the cops are coming"
Hahaha I can't believe you can see those. Yeah my 7 year old brother is obsessed so of course my son is how obsessed he's got 4 so far. My brother however had like over 20. I him a rapid fire disc nerf gun for Christmas with instruction to shoot my dad a lot. My dad says it hurts.
Nope just awesome. She looks like you're sidekick ready to fight crime and save damsels in distress. Or take a shot of captain Morgan.
I think it's normal. I've been told women lose value after 25 because men our age now have their pick of young girls. Good luck anon.
I hope he's playing on an n64. I'm trying to get mine to be a bad ass goldeneye player like me. One day...
>Hahaha I can't believe you can see those
my cousin got me one for my 25th birthday as a joke. best gift ever. and we're having a blast every time he is around. i also got my older sister one as well and my mom. so we're having a little nerf war from time to time. pretty fun.
Sounds fantastic :) I have young siblings and a very competitive father so we all run around and play often
Does anyone else always get the street name captcha wrong the first time?
Thanks :) I understand the appeal of skinny girls with health. I just think it's more feminine to be soft. Plus people have different values for their own lives. Some people value fitness and looks or health even. Some value happiness and laughter and family.
Lol thank you
I know I click them all too Google is just fucking with me.
You absolutely should. I go to the one in DC for rocky horror picture show night. I like dressing up as Janet and singing along with all the other crazies.
As in you vs me? Because I actually don't have much practice in giving foot massages lol also I have awful hands. They are super small and chubby fingers. It's awful.
Glad you can appreciate it! I admins fit thin girls I know how much work it is and they look fantastic I just have a different preference personally.
Sorry :/ I think it's just nice to have older people to talk to! We could start a skype group because it's hard to respond to everyone on there. I feel bad. I have an awful attention span and am on mobile so it's worse :(
Don't apologize! It is nice to have an older set of people to chat with and flirting is harmless and fun! I was just teasing a bit. So now I will crown you queen of the 25+ thread! Lol
Looks like between the five of us adults we may be able to screw in a light bulb, I mean start a kik group ha!
Also here's the weather! Here's hoping for snow :)
32 m from Europe, getting bald, grey and feeling old & unattractive.
God I shouldn't even bother jumping into this, but where is the negative comment you're reacting to? He stated he has a preference for people without children, and implied he also has a preference for people around his age. In his experience, he's seen that more and more he cannot have both of those things simultaneously as his age group grows older and has more and more children, and he's asking if that's been other people's experience. He never said there was anything wrong with women with children (or 18 year olds for that matter).
No he said
>I may have to date women with children
That's not a preference implication it's a "I have to settle for a certain group" and it was rude I'm sorry you thought he being sarcastic back was inappropriate. I apologize if it hurt his feelings.
"I turn 13 in a few months. Do I have to accept that, still/currently being hungry, I may have to eat food with asparagus? To avoid ordering off the kid's menu, that is. I think it's a huge dealbreaker."
Is this hypothetical person diminishing asparagus or meals with asparagus? Is a steak any less worth eating because it comes with asparagus? No. It's just something he doesn't want that seems to be coming more and more with something he otherwise does want.
I don't think sarcasm is inappropriate, I just think you're strongly mischaracterizing what he said. And given how much you've talked about women losing their value after 25, maybe what you're seeing in his comment is more accurately a reflection of your own impression of the matter rather than his. (Or to take it even deeper, a reflection of the impression you've built composed of pieces of the impressions of everyone you've ever met and everything you've ever interacted with, which I'm only mentioning to clarify that I don't peg you as any sort of "source of fault" in the conversation)
Anyway, I get wrapped up in these types of things usually because I recognize a reflection of my own impression in the statement under attack. So maybe I can offer my own opinion as a way of showing what I think was also his intention in a way that is least possible to interpret in a hurtful manner:
I am 27 and single. I would like to date. I've dated girls much younger than myself before and I did not enjoy the experience. I've also taken care of children before and also did not enjoy the experience. Going down the avenues I know of and am somewhat capable of going down for finding women, it seems like I'm less and less likely to find a woman who is both close to my age and without children. Many of them are lovely women. And I'm sure many of them have great kids. I have a massive crush on a girl with a kid right now, and might even date her if it ever seemed like a likely event. But the fact remains that she has set certain rules for the path her life will follow, and I have trouble reconciling that with my wishes for my future.
I'm not reading all of that I already apologized. What more would you like? I'm sorry we disagree on being rude. I cannot change how I feel or you do so... Let's just agree to disagree and not argue.
I wasn't looking for an apology, just to educate based on what I find to be true. I can change how I feel, but if you cannot, then agree to disagree I suppose is the cliche that most fits where I go from here. Have a great day and I'll stop shitting up your thread!
All the action here has been while I'm sleeping or working, oh well. Time for work now, I'll be lurking around later
I'm the one in green getting pointed at for being good at nerd things
33 and still into older ladies and fat thighs
cool, just googled it lol thanks! From the website it looks like farmers market, food truck line, park all in one?
I want to visit chinatown for sure and I hear north of Vancouver is a good place to kayak. Still have to research that more.
OP here, glad this one lady is having the male attention time of her life, hope everyone else is doing good, not being the creepworst.
How's winter treating everyone? NYC just got ARTIC BLASTED this week and I honestly wasn't ready, having to commute in full heavy weather gear is the w o r s t
I like cold weather from time to time and the change of seasons, I would probably get bored if it was warm and sunny all the time.
But snow is only annoying, loved it as a kid but hate it as an adult.
I love winter clothes, more things to wear, I think I look better clothed :P
We hardly had any snow here, like 2 days where it snowed but it was too warm for the snow, at least I didn't have to clear the driveway.
Since you got the snow on the east coast we might be getting it here in a few weeks too..
So far it's just been deep freezing overnight. Hasn't snowed yet, and honestly would welcome it against bitter cold winds. I enjoy colder weather to hotter, but that extra cold slays my joints, hands.
I truly do learn of a new website every day. Ancient forum version of backpage? Whatever floats, I guess.
Finally a nice day at the job site
Thanks, I've actually cut all that hair since that picture. I have great hair but when it gets that long it's just a bother.
I'm on my phone now so it's probably another ID
Lots of rain, today is nice at least. It's finally getting cold at nights and perfect for comfy warm clothes. I need to go to the mainland for some winter soon.
Looking for someone to Chat with. Kik: cloc2809 /m/straight/ pic is me
You're a monster
Not even mad, good for you that you can still pull them [shameless online 4chaners or otherwise]
Now this on the other hand, is quality attention bating. [Not that I'm mad my wifi won't let me keep a secure ID or anything, b-baka]
dik pls go
i know this is gonna sound counterintuitive, but the best solution to your issue is to just stop trying.
i'm not saying to give up on sex, just dont think about it at all until it falls right into your lap out of nowhere.
you see, thinking about it makes you nervous. you being nervous makes the girls nervous. nervous girls dont make the sex.
after i quit trying to find it, it just started showing up. like at the most unexpected times.
it isnt uncommon for a dude to give off something that is terribly attractive to a specific type of crazy. for you its cheaters, for some it's the terribly paranoid, for me it was victims of sexual abuse. literally every girl who has pursued me was molested as a child. that made me very uneasy for quite some time but eventually you realize that it is what it is.
tldr: you're just gonna be a magnet to that type of girl forever. get used to it.
>Since im 20 the time is flying like shit into the toilet
it only gets faster
>women lose value with age
Oh honey your post really turned my stomach. Do you really believe all this nonsense? Being a mom is an incredible responsibility but if this is where your ambitions in life begin and end then I can see why you have this attitude.
I'm pretty sure she meant dating/relationship value. You're in denial if you think the average woman holds the same value or even gains compared to when she's younger in the dating game. Moms even more so.
I just have an odd sense of humor. If I'm ever being mean or putting someone/particular group down then I'm joking. I don't think women lose value. Yes men date younger as they get older. But hey we can too.
>pretty sure she meant dating value
Oh yes, she's merely sharing her belief about the declining [dating?] value of the aging woman in order to pander to and comfort the losers of this board! Here's to hoping she comes up with a better excuse for saying and/or believing such things.
In any case, lets allow her to interpret for us before long.
It is a very real perception. It's accurate, it's wrong, but accurate. People genuinely seem to believe that a woman's "value" can be directly attributed to her age. Which, at least as an oldfag, is terribly wrong. Anything less than 21 is nearly intolerable for me, and that's my far limits. I'm far more comfortable at 25ish and older. Too young, and there's just so little between us that I can relate to, it's frustrating because there is that apparent belief that once a woman hits 30 she's "Washed up." It's absurd, but hurray for society making that belief an acceptable "reality".
Yes this!! It's a very real belief especially online. But I know it's not true that's why I make the joke. Thank you for explaining this much better than I could. I am the nicest person you'll ever meet and for some reason I'm only ever mean if I'm being humorous. And people don't really get my humor often. But yeah this is a perfect explanation of the entire situation.
You're not mad that she believes it, you're mad that it doesn't make you feel good. In general a woman's desirability declines with age and with her looks. You may not like it but that's the world we live in.
But there are deadly animals and other stuff that's just exists to kill you or fuck you up.
Don't leave/stop posting, you seem to be nice so keep this thread lively!
Interesting, you are not the oldest person I "met" here but the oldest female so far, at least one trophy for you!
How long have you been on 4Chan? Why are you still here? To laugh at all the idiots posting in the dick rate threads?
>Anything less than 21 is nearly intolerable for me
Same here, younger ones aren't necessarily stupid or immature, but the majority is, which makes them unattractive/undateble to me.
>How come I don't get any captchas anymore? Did I break something?
>tuh-huh but u mad?
It does much, much more than hurt my feelings. When women and girls start to live their lives based on the perception -widely held or not- that they decline in value as life goes on, be sure that were all fucked in one way or another.
If you are an aging male taking comfort in this belief, I feel sorry for you as well. The perception screws with both genders.
29 / m / from Philadelphia
skype is callmeovid if anyone feels like talking, no work tomorrow so I might as well stay up a few more hours.
Nobody is "fucked" as you say. Mankind has endured for tens of thousands of years, and the idea that ones worth can be tied to something has endured along with it. It might not always be fair but the world isn't ending just because you are annoyed by that fact. In addition you're not special, men have to deal with certain expectations as well. Our value goes up and down just like yours can and will. You don't have to like it but stop acting like a victim.
>trivializing a problem because there are other problems
Three million females in the world, dude. Why should I have an apathetic attitude about an issue that is not unique or special in the least? Make some sense. It says something about your philosophy of life if you don't give a flying bj about how half of the human race turns out.
You can't see it, but I'm bowing right now. Hah! Thank you for that, it made me smile a bit.
You're right, it is especially prevalent online and in a lot of online communities. r9k thrives on that kind of viewpoint, as does a lot of communities on Reddit. That's the male perspective, but even among young women it's pretty common, especially online. Like I said, doesn't make it right, but it becomes an echo-chamber.
Being terrible in humor just allows us to point at the terrible things in life and go "What in the FUCK IS THIS SHIT?!" and try to laugh at our collective inability to do anything about it. Also see: George Carlin.
Precisely! They're not stupid, they're not immature, not really, they just don't have the life experience that I seek in a partner. Certainly some of them are immature, even for their age, and some of them are genuinely stupid, but I really believe it's just a Life that makes them like that.
I just graduated from college and there were some younger women in many of my early classes and... well... they were gorgeous to look at, but listening to some of the things that came out of mouths was just truly stunningly ignorant. Especially in my Critical Thinking (humanities) and Communications classes.
Oldfag reporting in.
33 male Iceland.