Black thread? Black thread.
since the other one 404'd, let's have another one. post your pics, say hello, talk about natural hair, music, vidya gaems etc.
I'll start off:
>in college (SC State)
>love all kinds of music
>in the process of locking my hair from 2-strand twists. actually, about to go clean them up with bantu knots.
Same guy from last thread?
Speaking from experience, if you're attractive it doesn't matter if you're black, though you might find more casual sex than relationships compared to other people.
If you're black and can't regularly capitalize on what girls think of black guys and hookup... it might not be because you're black.
*shrugs* statistically, yes, because we are viewed differently depending on where you are in the world, but it does vary on a case by case basis. There is a general sense that we are shunned by a good bit of people, but again, it isn't all the time.
it does honestly make you feel a certain way sometimes when it seems that people don't want you solely based on who you are genetically, but it is what it is.
Do black girls with bush exist? I've been with two, one was a fwb for a couple weeks and I tried to get her to grow one and she literally told me to fuck off.
White, Latina, Indian (feather was the only long term), all don't really mind, but black women are totally against it.
What the fuck gives?
sure. it won't necessarily stop anyone from just using Google to grab a pic and say it is them, but go ahead.
I was assuming people would read the "post your pics" portion of the first post and do it anyway
I am seriously, seriously attracted to black women. Like fuck. More than any other kind of woman I think. Every shade, every nationality, I love 'em.
It feels like none of them are ever lesbian/bisexual though...
Yeah I think black chicks are super critical of everything, but if it turns me on and makes me want to fuck you even more, why's it such a bad thing?
I don't know what the fuck it is, but that oily smell mixed with pussy is just so fucking hot. All other races taste and smell the same for the most part.
But I love eating some black pussy. Like the black makes the pussy look more pink and it tastes amazing.
I just want a qt black girl with a bush that I can eat and cum in all the time.
There is a serious lack of pics in this thread.
come on people
>plot twist, they are the same person
I should have made that my schtick when I started posting on /soc/. Like Ms. Bellum.
Tis me again.
Bisexual-ish, But i'm normally into taller women
the fuk bruh
I believe you, hair shrinkage is no joke.
Yup, i'm all about people being into a "type", but sometimes i'm like what the fuck man
Nose piercing girl is back, alright! This time I don't have my comically large headphones.
Nah bruh, definitely shoulder length
So what exactly is a "munch"?
who do you think made those powdered wigs, Derek?
I'll wait for them to make their eventual comeback one of these days also
There ya go. I end up having to explain this to people so many times I just decided to link people to that because I got tired of explaining.
Calc, trig stuff like that. Although I'd rather use the wolfram mathematica program
I'm never prepared for that bone structure, never
"So it's a banquet for BDSM enthusiasts."
That's on the list of things I didn't think I would ever say.
You should do it, and if you get rich and famous don't forget this one random on /soc/
and its not really much of a banquet. More of a meet and greet at a restaurant, or social with food.
I talk to a lot of people who are "new" in the bdsm community in chicago, they expect to be flocked with pussy and gorgeous slutty women, but that's not how it works. You need to meet people, attend events/classes/munches, and that how you meet people to talk to, be with and learn from ect. But they dont get it, they literally dont get it.
I won't get rich but I rather like 4chan so I don't think if I got success if any would stop me from posting.
A lot of people have been pushing it here though, its really been an encouragement since I have been too afraid to go back for the agencies for some time. (they were kind but basically said I was too fat and short last year)
I can't remember honestly, I was porbably vague as fuck
I was the light skinned dude with headphones and glasses and the cap if you're wondering.
I tend to forget black people post on /soc/
>the one time i actually wasnt a huge bitch
You're the real winner dude
Did you read the killing joke?
Yes. Every last one of them does. And any white guy at all, no matter how hideous, socially awkard, poor and smelly. In fact, you could steal Beyonce from Jay Z right now, because no white guy has ever hit on her.
>tfw infected with that jungle fever
>tfw the one black chick that I find super attractive in my area already has a bunch of kids
>tfw the remaining ones that aren't in a relationship with a white boy are ultra trashy
The majority do I guess. But there is hope, anon. I myself am an example of a black girl who is very open minded and could care less where the other party comes from. Just letting you know that we exist, haha.
Depends on where the girl is from.
Black girls from rough neighborhoods prefer black men. These girls I can't get, cause I'm geeky as fuck.
Black girls from nicer neighborhoods like black men, but sadly fall into the media hype that we're all demon spawn. Therefore they stick to white men.
Of course this is all generalization, girls like whatever the fuck they want to like.
I like you because you kinda look like Richard Ayoade, I fucking love that guy, pic related
I feel you bruh, although if your black it's not called jungle fever. Also, just don't use the phrase jungle fever, it's kinda fucked up.
We got a coding bro! What do you dev in? I'm a gamedev and webdev, I just finished my personal site and I'm launching my next game in November.
Being a dirty hipster, listening to Hundred Waters, getting feelsy
>I don't know who you want me to be
>But tomorrow I'm leaving
Fun little story. I went to England for three months for school and the amount of people that came up to me asking if I was Ayoade was staggering. It's actually hilarious considering I want to be a filmmaker as well.
Also someone asked if I was ?love. Shit was pretty hilarious.
That's awesome, Richard Ayoade is a solid look alike. People tell me I look like young Kid Cudi, not grown up and handsome Cudi, young 13 year old Cudi (pic related)
>>19526322 me for reference
I'm just using vim. Working an QA internship and my boss comes in and asks 'hey do you know perl?'
And so now I'm writing a perl script. And staring at this smug asshole.
What kinda game are you making?
I use vim as well, I hate bloated IDEs. I'm coding my game in C++ and I'm trying to mix top-down Zelda and Pikmin. I've been working on it for almost a year now, but it's starting to come together. Be on the lookout for Nurture :P
>I use vim as well,
I actually just started using it. I've been meaning to get familiar with Linux for the longest time but now I'm picking it up fairly quickly I think. On windows I use notepad++ for most things and eclipse for android apps.
>I'm trying to mix top-down Zelda and Pikmin.
That sounds fucking sick. Are you gonna put it on steam or
Best black video game character.
I'm giving it to Lee.
Perl! good shit man.
I use vim in a pinch, but mostly use sublime text2. It's a really good balance between command line and a full ide.
Not really, And most of the white men i've dated made a big deal about the fact that I was black. ehh
the dude with the bucket hat?
Eating a turkey sandwich for breakfast (at 2:30)
I wasnt ready for those emotions mannnnnnnn
I made it a point to check in.
Plan on that again.
I've been using linux for a while now, I can't image going back to Windows but I do want to dual boot Mac OSX.
As far as steam goes, not really, once the game is done and I am at the marketing phase, I want to see if it's building any buzz before I try selling it, otherwise it will be freeware.
I haven't tried sublime, I can't give up vim, I've customized it so thoroughly, throwing it away would be like throwing away a project
Barett, just because I find him hilarious. He's basically what the Japanese think of white people: he's loud and vulgar, runs a gang, and has a MOTHERFUCKING GUN for an ARM.
This is pretty much what plays in my head every time I walk up to a pretty girl at a party
>but I do want to dual boot Mac OSX.
Why not, even if you don't like Apple you can't deny that they are incredibly well made machines. But mainly it would be for web development, they have way more tools when it comes to frontend dev stuff.
binge watching on Netflix. watching House.
I swear, Cuddy could get the business...
seriously?! where do you guys live? I have literally never encountered this in my life
ah the bleep bloop bleep...the songs of my youth.
>>19529147 glad you could make it
>you can't deny that they are incredibly well made machines
They are now, but I'd argue against that fact in the powerpc days. And most of the stuff in the same price range is well made.
>they have way more tools when it comes to frontend dev stuff.
Hmm.. I can't speak to that since I'm not front end.
> they have way more tools when it comes to frontend dev stuff.
Wut. Do you just mean that Adobe Muse just looks better on an Apple monitor?
is it me you're looking forrrrrrr
I've learned a thing or two from camwhores on /soc/
I'm from Oakville Ontario Canada. It's a really rich city full of snobs. Being black here kinda sucks because there's like 30 of us.
I'll skip the majority of the explanation but basically, I'm a geek, how often do you hear the sentence "I like geeky black guys". That's all.
Girls who like black guys, usually expect black guys to be tough.
Girl who like geeks, don't expect geeks to be black.
I'll leave it at that because this entire conversation is horrendously over-simplified and objectifying.
That is true, but I just prefer Mac OSX to Windows, especially Windows 8. FUCK Windows 8.
I'm comparing it to Linux. Linux tools are circulated around coding and backend. While Mac tools are more circulated around graphics and frontend. That's what I mean.
>upper right corner
Why does your plant look so sad
I don't know why you guys are saying "Black girls don't like geeky black guys" or "black girls like tough guys" because honestly most black gels I know from all over the economic and social spectrum seem to be open.
Idk black women hit on me often and I am soft spoken, a plant geek and wordy :-P
Not everyone was saying that, just me. And I wasn't saying black girls, just girls in general. And I never said they don't like geeky black guys, I was saying people don't expect black guys to be geeky.
Not mad just clarifying :P
At the same time, things have been on the increase since I've finally started to shed my 19 year long baby face.
Oh that was you twice, you did say black girls specifically the first time though
Social currency is important, really I see a lot of black women date guys who aren't so hot if they are atleast social and/or talented.
If you look interesting or foreign though it helps a lot too but I don't date people who are into me because I look "exotic" or who focus on my looks at all (which explains why I have had one relationship my entire life :-P)
Yeah the first time I was a bit off base, I probably still am, but fuck it.
Also I guess another difference now is that I'm not a pothead anymore, I really couldn't hold a conversation if it wasn't about weed, or videogames.
Not since 8th grade, I prefer going into the city (Toronto), if I'm gonna meet girls, it's usually there.
I was dating a black girl for a bit. I'm white. She was a cool person and we had a lot of fun however, I'm terrible in bed (I have trouble getting it up and staying hard and when it actually happens I usually cum in about a minute). I keep getting the feeling that I was her first white guy and I just fucked it up for all of us. Sorry guys. That chick prolly went back to black dudes who can satisfy her
I was fucking a half black girl earlier this year. Fucking gorgeous with a phat ass. We'd regularly have would sex 3+ times a day, often just in the morning then more at night of we saw each other. She'd always tell me how good it was. Sex was GREAT. I grew distant because she was so enthusiastic about me and I am horrified of commitment. She was too pretty to put up with my bullshit and we eventually stopped talking. I regret the shit out of it now that I didn't gf her. I drunk texted her a few times and she still talks about the great sex we had but that she's seeing someone else so seeing me right now is a no go. Fuck, she loyal too? Damn I fucked up.
Not really related just needed to rant, never told anyone this thank you anonymous internet. Can some fine black girls please cheer me up? Keep doing your thang.
.....Just wow. Indian guy(native american) here. The way these threads turn out makes me wonder why black people even venture into this racist website. Ignoring a troll is like ignoring a buzzing mosquito. So irritating. Either way. Pay no mind to them and continue on with the legit conversations and socializing.
How do I get to have my life-changing experience on drugs that helps me overcome depression, dismantle my ego, put everything in perspective, realise we're all one, etc if I'm a black female and people tend to think I hate anything and everything outside the norm?
This is a serious question ;~;
Drugs will not fix your problems, they will not magically change your world LSD, shrooms, ayahuasca, etc cannot fix insecurity.
Not trying to be a bitch; I know that life and dozens who've gone down it and they don't change all that much or they have a bad trip and never fully come back from it
He was just sharing a story, why the animosity
This picture fucking kills me
You want to know how to have a life changing experience on drugs? Stop doing drugs. Honestly, life completely changed for me after I stopped smoking dope and popping pills. You'll also make friends inside the norm, but more importantly, you'll make real friends. I can't even count the amount of friends I lost because I wouldn't get high with them anymore.
>He was just sharing a story, why the animosity
Because it's a useless and annoying story that makes generalizations about a race of people and therefore makes people of said race uncomfortable. It also happens every time we make one of these threads.
>I can't even count the amount of friends I lost because I wouldn't get high with them anymore.
Eh, that could go both ways. I'm sure there are plenty of people who lose friends because they decided to start getting high.
>you'll never talk to some cute/cool black girls from soc
I dated one in philly for a while, and loved it because she fucked like crazy, but I rarely have the chance to date another lately.
>I dated one in philly for a while, and loved it because she fucked like crazy,
See? Like this shit literally adds nothing to the thread. I'd even argue that it has a subtractive nature.
Find the drug you need. I hear DMT gets you there. You could get there with music though. Deeper still, find it within yourself. Turn off the world, and be you. Seek yourself. Whoever you are when everything is ok and you don't feel depressed.
What is the source of your depression? lack of understanding from other people? something else?
His response is because it's obvious you didn't really give a shit about her as a person it was just about the sex and novelty. Nothing wrong with being attracted to certain folk, but don't base it on one good experience you've had with one girl.
If you're looking for insight try tripping but it won't necessarily change your life. I would suggest finding a nice strain of weed you like too. Ego death ain't gonna cure your feels, sounds like you're just looking for meaning.
Then guess what, pick up lifting weights or some sport.
Exercise is so underrated.
No, I only hang out with black people.
The blackest of the black.
chestnut to black walnut
oh my gosh 4chan has black people cool what's up guys.
Took me a while to realize Danny Glover and Gambino were the same person.
>Would totally sit on his face though.
hes definitely likable. In a weird way he seems very normal and relatable.
I guess you fooking whiny bitch
yeah i'm trying to focus in the software end of things and I'm currently doing community (cheaper) and planing on transferring to Rutgers. I admit community isn't the best place for computer engineering but that low low price of not taking that much in loans.
>I admit community isn't the best place for computer engineering but that low low price of not taking that much in loans.
You will be so glad you went that route in the end. I did the same thing and being near debt free is amazing.
And stick with that program... they aren't exaggerating about the job market for CS and CE.
I've been flying all over just interviewing and bullshitting and 4channing.
I can't say at this point. I'm still stuck listening to his other stuff. I tend to listen to albums for months at a time before moving on to the next one, since I don't listen to the radio
okay, currently bumpin' it
And thatsd chill as fuck. Did you sit on his face, cuz...like...you know...you should've
*insert evil black woman laugh*
Hah naw, wouldve been weird. Hes cool though, i wish i had gotten a pic.
Need to go to another one of his shows, still got the promo poster they gave away after the show
Oh and not 2012, 2011, my bad
>How was your experience in community did you feel challenged while you were there.
With my math courses, that was about it. Everything else wasn't too challenging. I was in and out of university twice and went back to community college to finish up the bullshit classes. Took the CS courses at the university.
What are you even doing.
either way, i'm jelly.
I'm not to big on concerts, but Gambino...jelly
I'm giving her entire existence maaaaaaaaaaaad side eye dude.
>What are you even doing.
Seconded, plz respond
That sounds entertaining as fuuuuck
also, random pic Ii laff'd at
my teacher is from Taiwan and she has already well informed me that China is not really the most pc country in the world. I spoke with a guy who did it for 10 years and he said that black people definitely get long uncomfortable stares in public.
but I really don't mind stares. as long as I'm getting paid.
I had a friend that graduated from my department with a degree in spanish and she went to teach Puerto Rico. she came back 2 years later to get her masters and got a job teaching Spanish at the little private school on our campus. it's a pretty good gig
I like mexico, but I don't thing I could live there unless its temporary or i'm retiring, you know?
Unrelated but Sometimes I think I'd like to move there to raise my kids. I dunno
Hey I'm only a quarter black quarter white Costa Rican and half white.
So I frequently ask myself how black I really look. Cause I don't feel black but neither do I feel white
omg I love black people you guys have the best music! Black guys have so much swag and giniormous penises my fat friend says. You all sound so intelligent for black ppl omg. I wish I had a black friend.
So serious question. My fiance is nigerian and I'm pregnant. We're having a girl and I have no idea what to do with her hair. I'm 100% latina so I've never dealt with it before. I've asked his sisters but they really dont give me much insight. Anything I can and cannot do?
Unless its like sheamoisture products or other natural stuff for coily hair and curly hair no.
Or atleast if you get black products don't go heavy handed, it might just weigh your hair too much. Just go on youtube, there are thousands of curl hair care videos on there :-D
you said and i quote "You all sound so intelligent for black ppl omg" if that doesn't sound condescending then how else what it sound to someone who knows what the word condescending mean?
You look kind of black, but then again I'd just assume you're afrolatina
I think your hair is amazing. I'm growing mine out too but I just usually keep in in protective styles.
You should just try and find a few conditioning products that your hair works well with and stick to a regimen. Doesnt have to be "black stuff".
I use Cantu shea butter, its amazing and doesnt leave my hair greasy.
I'm half black, grew up with a Latina mom, I lived. Just make sure you keep it moisturized. Dont relax her hair until she's old enough to make conscious decisions about her hair (or at all if you can help it). Dont pull it to tight when you put it in ponytails or braids. If its to much of a hassle just keep it on the medium/shorter length until she's old enough to help you take care of it.
>Youtube is the greatest black on earth for mixed race and black hair care
Yeah, I try not to use shampoo it more than once a week, but I do cowash it a lot.
Not just woman, gay guys as well... seems like everyone wants white guys. Go onto any gay dating site or app and you are guaranteed to find a profile saying "White only" in as little as 3 clicks
Black gays have interracial dating rate of 50%
For LGBT people its a numbers game; although by percentage we as a race have the highest rate of out LGBT people (2.7% I think) we are still only 13% of population.
TFW no ex to watch anime with anymore.
Who am I gonna praise hajime no ippo as the best anime ever with now?
You are a strong independent black man who dont need no lady to watch anime with.
imo, you should keep it natural. do your research on how take good care of it and use all natural products. she will thank you in the long run.
my mother was mad at my sister and I for a while because we used all kinds of different products when we reached our teens. it damaged the hell out of our hair and we both have just recently reversed that damage.
How did you find 4chan and how long have you guys been here? What boards do you frequent?
Found out about it freshmen year of highschool >"RULE NUMBER 1 & 2"
Funny enough I know someone from my middle school and highschool who was on here and who ended up being a popular trap on /b/ lol
So almost 8 years but like I go off and on for years
I frequent /ck/ /LGBT/ /soc/ and /Fa/
>he think's that's the problem
been here since thanksgiving day 2006, though I knew about it for a lil bit before that.
/soc/ is my home for the time being, but I'm here for football season /sp/, /g/, /a/, /fa/ and /ck/. I hope to get into /diy/ soon.
Good question I always knew about 4chan but i innately never went because i thought it was a cesspool of racism and CP. Now having matured a little it's cesspool of comedy and CP (there's a difference you know) . I evenutally got over the racism as most people here aren't really racist (there just a few bad bunch that controls the conversation) as there is just the culture of 4chan so I'm cool with it. I frequently visit /b/ and /soc/
no light skined gf kik theboomrazor if you wanna chat me as i rewatch cowboy bebop
Truth. Camp was annoied but Because the Internet shocked the fuck out of me.
Of last year, got to add Chance, ASAP, and Clear Soul forces to the list.
lot of good hiphop last year.
Is it just me or does Chance have a tendency to like leave his upper body exposed at all times
Ive been here since the beginning (03/04 ish) and I migrated from 5chan many many days ago. I normally frequent /ck, /jp/, /adv/. I do go to /a/ occasionally. My fucking god, Ive been on 4chan for nearly 10 years. Well, cant say I havent done anything. You guys want to know whats weird, 4chan is filled with a nearly 50/50 ratio of americans and australians. Im one of those weird americans that moved to australia. Now I notice them both.
I'm not sure, 5ish years?
/tv/ /co/ /soc/ /lit/ /ck/ /wg/ /hm/ /an/ /sci/
Sometimes I go on/hm/, and i used to go on fit before it became a shitpile
>"it was always a shit pile"
*flooded with cowboy bebop flashbacks*
>dat ending though....
Went to school with this mofo
>but I'm here for football season /sp/
I try to move on from this site and pretend I'm too adult for 4chan and /sp/ anymore, but if they don't come up with the most entertaining threads...
I'm still in disbelief.
Also, for the thread, me.
Blaxican, not that you can tell.
I am just so happy, I went to the weekly black meeting and told them about or slow infiltration of 4chan.
They were happy about us creating a base to disseminate broadscale control :3
I want to know am I the only one who used to tell my white classmates/friends that there were actual "Black meetings"?
Like I can't be the only one right? The sad part is people in their twenties would legit believe we all know each other and come together in a building and talk about black things/white people :-p
Just tell them we do, and like scribble frantically on a piece of paper while looking at said white person, as if you're documenting this so they can be put under discussion at the next black meeting,
lol! it's funny how readily people believe this. I used leave suddendly from lame events and tell my white friends I was going to an NAACP meeting. I'd say "wait til I tell Al and the gang about this bullshit" and they'd be all like ?_?
Back during my freshman year my friends would constantly tell me about how dumb the shit on this website is. They were right. I've been coming back for 5 years now.
/sp/, /fit/, /b/, /3/, and JUST recently /soc/
Funny how everyone starts on /b/.
I remember when /sp/ was one of the slowest boards, the thread about Steve McNair was up for about a month lol...
/fit/ has always been terrible and it sucks to watch overweight people get shamed and anons intentionally giving bad advice.
/o/, /out/, /sp/ here and /fit/, /ck/, /r9k/ and /g/ occasionally, /soc/ to look at naked grils
No I used to do that too.. In highschool ( I went to a waspy private school) I actually convinced some greek kid that black people could smell weather changes like rain because of our big noses.
My mom was the mexican one. My dad is some kind of weird dj vegan hipster now, he even moved to Portland.
ALSO, any grills here? I'm having bathing suit troubles. I need dat advice yo.
>I actually convinced some greek kid that black people could smell weather changes like rain because of our big noses
Sad part is i'm not even kidding. I had to tell him I was kidding because I didnt want people to think he was being an offensive racist.
Where do/did you buy yours from and what style.
I've always been like an xxl/xl but I lost weight and bought a large one-piece and it fits weird. like, it was from target, so i feel like it was cut for people who are shaped like apples or planks or some shit.
>I'm having bathing suit troubles. I need dat advice yo.
I can give you advice. Let's see it.
To lazy to put it back on, but lets not turn this into /egt/
I smell lies and a 30% chance of rain in your area
Hey I have a personal question and it pertains to my attraction to girls and most of the girls around my neighborhood are conceited ratchet bitches. How do i get conceited ratchet bitches to like me.
Nah. I feel like its be cool to date someone who was a fellow forum lover. Especially since I see couples on /soc/ doing some hot shit.
And yeah I guess. I''d hope you're wearing that with a nice pair of jeans though
es coo, es coo.
Although I do agree it is almost nothing but crackerchans in those
is your cousin my father?
But actually My dad is weird. He tries so hard to be this new age black guy. And i'm like dad, no, where's my child suppport. Stop spending my money on art galleries.
Do mixed people post in these? I'm a bit new here...
Only if your dad is 27. I say he's hating it because he's a blue collar mechanic. Dude loves baseball, boxing, and cars.
Yeah. Wrong fucking city. Hell, wrong state for that matter.
Nah hes in his 40's
But man dude. He even had that little mustache thing going on for a while.
TBH i'd probably hate Portland too. Its infested with Ipads, coffee, and irony.
What are you mixed with?
Until next time, /black/
already got mah costume and everything
This is a great idea! I used to rock natural hair until my dad made me get a relaxer. I was in middle school I had 2 1/2 feet of thick hair and I hated combing out so I was so happy. I kept relaxing it for 2 or 3 years then finally one day I relived that scene from what's live got to do with it the part where Tinas hair falls out. And one day I just shaved it all off sr year. I miss having long hair but I'm addicted to cutting it off. Haha.
I'm debating to shave it all off. But Two years ago I shaved the side and I just spent the last 6 months trying to grow it long enough to put dreads in it. So now i'm afraid i'll just keep chopping it off because i'm impatient.
You'r hair looks adorable! The color is awesome.
>implying everyone on this thread doesnt
Lots and lots and lots of corn and soybeans! Lots of fishing spots and camping spots too. Down east of Carbondale there's a big national forest, big lakes everywhere. Probably boring to most people but I loved it down there.
My parents live near St. Louis. which is a bit more entertaining.
...not any more racist than anywhere else lol. Actually whenever I pass through smaller towns they're probably some of the most friendly people I've ever met.
Also, interracial swingers everywhere in rural Illinois it's hilarious.
I actually know a shit ton of swingers. Most of them live outside the city.
But I feel ya. When I go to the IL/Wis border people are actually nice, but I am usually the only black person there. Cant blame them for staring though, I look like a city grill.
>a lot of Mexicans in Waukegan though
It is crazy how fast that has gotten popular. I hung out with a couple once out in the middle of nowhere in Missouri, that's another story though.
>When I go to the IL/Wis border people are actually nice
Yeah, when you get into those parts and up into Minnesota there is a really bizarre love for colored folk.
It's annoying when people stare but I know when we were in Chicago we all kinda gawked because we're not used to seeing that kind of diversity lol... so I understand it.
What part of Chicago if you don't mind me asking? SIUC is like majority people from Chicago and northern Illinois. I might know someone you know.
Most of the people I know in the bdsm scene started out as swingers. You'd be surprised how many.
But some of the people who run the swingers clubs/gangbang groups are really annoying. Like all they do is spam, and pass shit out and only show up to promote.
>What part of Chicago
like, chicago-chicago. I'm like 10-15 minutes away from downtown.
Hmm, the BDSM scene in St. Louis is really exclusive and yeah I see them promote shit a lot. Sometimes I've been to bars and can tell somebody must be having some sort of meetup that night.
The swingers I've seen here are all 30-50 and they always live out in the boonies and they always want black guys. Like the cuckold videos you see all the time? That's them. Someone should do a documentary...
So you're in the 773, yeah a lot of them down there.
How about I smack your shit
Yeah I have a list of "kinky cities" I plan on visiting and St. Louis is on there. A lot of people from there drive up to events/ classes in Chicago.
I just went to a class this weekend presented by some people who drove here from Ohio.
OH NO U GUISE, THE RACE POLICE IS HERE
Guess i gotta go
Yeees, this thread still lives. Nigerian-American in SoCal, here (since I forgot to introduce myself earlier on).
I don't get this post; what are you trying to say? You meant the odds of finding one who IS, right?
>The odds of finding a Black person in the US who isn't 1st generation from Africa AND entirely Black....
...are pretty good, bruh
A black person has two black parents. Don't group mutts with purebreds.
My nigga what? There is no such thing as a pure -anything- and secondly Black as a classification is one of cultural ideas surrounding race that is to say you are black if you are perceived as one by society and in the Western World mixed race people are seen as black (and being mixed race doesn't stop any of us from being called a nigger, so we black)
What are your feelings on interracial dating? What have been your experiences? Do you prefer to date outside of your race? Tend to be attracted toward a certain group?
race isn't an issue for me. personality is.
I remember the first dating advice my father gave me back in middle school was "don't bring no white girl to this house"
so what did I do?
>1 month later
>12 Year Old Me: "Ma, daddy, this is my gf, Becky"
>12 Year Old Me: ???
long story short, I have an issue with authority and I tend to be highly facetious.
I tend to side eye colorstruck black folks but I can't really talk; I end up with European guys from the continent or like Americans with very recent European roots.
Honestly I'd prefer to date a guy that looks somewhat like me who is black but its hard when you are queer and harder because I don't look all that typical :-/
Picture is of my ideal man though he is a Maasai tribesmen in Uganda/Tanzania :-(
>tfw no Maasai bf
>nona creeping on me
that's literally the best pic doe
"mixed race doesn't stop any of us from being called a nigger, so we black"
Being human doesn't stop people from calling me a bitch so I guess i'm a dog now.
who da fuk are you?
hon hon hon hon
I am so indifferent to what race I date. I honestly dont care. But I am into a certain type of guy so I tend to exclude races where certain features/traits are uncommon. so there's that.
I like you
Stay mad though
oh yeah, in case anyone is having trouble keeping up, or if you just so happen to care, I've reincarnated in this thread a few times.
I'll be someone completely different by tomorrow.
I see quite a bit of interracial dating in my city, but it's usually black male, white female or Latina female, black male. It doesn't bother me. It's pretty normal here. I just think it's funny when my bro and his friends say, "It's so nice to see a black guy and a white woman together since it's so rare." That's when I give it the side eye. Overall, I don't have much of a negative opinion of it. I like seeing unity in the community. My older sis is with a native guy, my two brothers have white girlfriends, my younger sis only dates white guys. I've had short relationship experience with 2 Mexican guys, and a white guy.
I don't prefer to date outside of my race but I am attracted to all races, so what happens, happens. I would never strictly date my own race. I let other factors play out on it's on without making a person's race relevant in the dating/mate selection process.
I do tend to be most attracted to males of all races with dark features (brown eyes, black hair, tan-darkish skin tone). The group I'm most attracted to is the intellectual group. If you were referring to race, I can't pinpoint other than those features that I like.
Nm, came to check out what /sp/ was saying about the wc lol. Ochoa pretty much. Then popped in and saw this thread.
Sup with you?
>old pic is old
lol she meant to say chocosoc, which it was called the last time we tried to make these a regular thing
lol i saw your #messi tweet and had to talk myself down from obnoxiously spamming you with #messi /sp/ style.
life is kinda shit right now I think. nice, well paying intern-to-hire but summer classes are kicking my ass rn
did you get a new job but still work the same hours?
>What are your feelings on interracial dating?
It's whatever. I try not to have racial preferences because even if I say I don't like ________, the reality is that somewhere down the road, I can be proven wrong. La vie. I try to be realistic about that, even though I used to have a mindset similar to what >>19528734 posted about black girls regarding black [American] guys.
Nigerians spread their genes like crazy, though, haha.
>he is a Maasai tribesmen in Uganda/Tanzania
You should know half of my wc tweets are jokes. Everyone going crazy for Messi, so I said it to be annoying. I do like Argentina though. I haven't seen them play yet. Same with the USA USA!!! U.S. has no chance but it's funny to rub that patriotism in. I hear they got lucky with Ghana.
And cheering for Brazil because I like Neymar.
Same. People don't seem to realize it's 2014.
Oh I forgot, what summer classes?
And I do have a new job and no my hours aren't the same. I work anywhere between 2pm-12am. I hate that shift.
What set you from, bruh?
But yay, other Nigerians.
>Everyone going crazy for Messi, so I said it to be annoying.
yes... yes... let the /sp/ flow through you...
they probably did, but ghana also probably had a particularly weak showing this year
>what summer classes?
linear algebra and accounting 2
>normal human hours
>I hate that
diary of a vampire up in here
Ah, that's cool. Do ya'll make Egusi soup or nah?
That's like the only 'traditional' dish my Mom makes...if we ever try anything else, it's takeout from some West African restaurant in LA (she has two favorite spots but their names escape me).
I'd prefer mornings so I could have my afternoons/nights free. I have to sit inside of a bank while the sun is shining. And get out of work at the dead of night. No bueno.
Working overnights was exhausting but at least I had the option to be awake during the day, chilling at the beach.
>let that American pride flow through you
I still can't see them fairing well but I'll still cheer them on.
And that has nothing to do with /sp/ really. It's just my personality with my friends. Must annoy at all costs.
>Working overnights was exhausting but at least I had the option to be awake during the day, chilling at the beach.
fair enough. when I was working overnights it seemed like everything I wanted to do feel on that night and I hated it. 9pm to 6am too, so I couldnt even go for just a lil while
> It's just my personality with my friends. Must annoy at all costs.
>nona will never annoy you out of love
I've never been to an Ethiopian restaurant but I hear they're popular for whites. That ~ethnic experience~ I guess. Yeah, there are a lot of [West] African businesses in LA, though we go to ones in Inglewood. We typically go once every other Saturday, too, since it's a far drive from our city in Orange County.
My parents are loud as fuck when they're talking to relatives back at home.
Ethiopian cuisine is everything though; in DC a lot of Black Americans go there and NYC its popular too.
The West African places I honestly feel aren't popular to white folks here is because its not catered for them, its for the immigrants and their children and so they aren't trying to go over and beyond. To make me comfortable.
That and I speak enough French to know that they don't like black Americans either haha not many Nigerians in Manhattan surprisingly :-P
>What's your night life like now?
I hope yours are better.
Sucks to be you.
My weekend nights are shit too though. I look at stacks until midnight, then I go straight home wish I was in the club like...
None of my peeps want to do anything on weekends anymore and half of them work later than me.
Figured you'd be DJing at least.
Okay so like we have to recognize that
1. There IS whether we like it or not "Blackness" on a cultural level in the U.S. And increasing in the Western world in general
2. With a break down of legalized racial segregation and the acculturation of various black communities into the dominate groups blackness (while never a monolith) has been in a constant state of redefining and diversification.
3. People who are culturally disconnected from other black folks and/or get their main ideas of blackness from media will therefore have the same limited ideas of blackness because they are viewing it as an outsider (because the outsider view will NEVER be able to encapsulate the "other")
4. It is only when they realize that regardless of how they act they are black and only when they take the chance of being with black folks will they finally realize they have always been and felt black they just didn't know it and the actually paradigm of blackness is in fact a state of mind rather than anything performative.
Stop being a hater, many of us were where she was at, she is atleast trying to connect with people.
I do have a gig coming up on the 4th, but I wasn't even going to play originally; they're just understaffed. I'm super out of practice though.
and dang gurl. first salsa and now clubbing. you're quitting life, little by little :[
I'm biracial and live in a mostly white neighborhood, so all my past boyfriends have been white. Not that I wouldn't date a nonwhite guy, of course, but I just haven't really gotten the chance.
Haha yeeeah, the West African restaurants we've been to are more personal, too. I don't think they're trying to appeal to other people; that's not to say others aren't welcome, of course, but typically you walk into one and you get that family feel. One of the places we go has an owner who'd treat you like one of her little nieces/nephews, basically.
>they don't like black Americans either
LOL. I obviously can't speak for all but for the most part, it seems that way. I know my parents act like that.
Born here. Mom immigrated here in the 70s to further her studies, then Dad followed suit...though I wish they went to England instead (some African communities appear stronger there rather than scattered and I could've had a cool English accent).
Yes I am. That sort of thing all depends on the people I have around me and I just have weak connections as of late.
Aww. You're an understudy. What sort of location is it? Like a dance club? What's the largest crowds?
>I just have weak connections as of late
>Aww. You're an understudy.
lol nah, it's more like I've been trying to do behind the scenes stuff and find other ways to help out since I haven't been practicing. Maybe even get some networking out of it.
> What sort of location is it? Like a dance club? What's the largest crowds?
It's an illegal rave so I won't say much, but it's an open space with a view of the city so we'll be able to see the fireworks. The first ones we did two years ago had between 100 and 250 people. I didn't go last year, but hopefully we get a reasonable turnout this time too.