Love isn't everything.
So, why do robots/failed normies still complain about "tfw no gf" when they could be doing something better with their lives?
>Because the only point of being alive technicaly is to continue the existence
Yes, if we were still cavemen.
You could be spending your time not caring about something as petty as procreation and play some vidya or get into a hobby such as drawing or programming.
I don't think robots need to get hung up over that. After you've finally procreated then what? Do you kill yourself after you've finally finished your "goal" as a human? You might feel satisfaction for a while but eventually that feeling of satisfaction will go away.
Robots can go about in their lives without reproducing. That's an old way to view life considering the other ways you could make your life useful and meaningful.
God this is so true. But every time I point it out to friends they just say I don't understand because im a semi attractive girl and I could have anyone I want.
I guess the fact that it fucks with their ego really fuels wanting a gf. It's all society.
Here's a pasta anon.
There's so much potential in each of us, because our minds are a beautiful gift. They can build, invent, and explore. Truly, the meaning of life is creation. So why aren't you working on your magnum opus? Aleister Crowley believed each man had a duty to complete their opus. I love Crowley so much, I'm trying to read all his books. I would love to live like him. Living as a nomad NEET, traveling all over the world, doing shit tons of drugs, having sex with dozens of beautiful girls, studying esoteric theology, and coming up with his own fucking religion and gaining a mass following. Fuck, if I could live just a fraction of the life he did I would be able to die happy. But, I digress. You should all strive to complete your opus, a work of art that fulfills your existence and proves that you have a right to be here as a living, conscious being. It could be a book, a bunch of poems, a music album, a film, it doesn't matter. Just fucking create, that's what humans are here for. The point of life is creation. Everyone listen to me, this is all very important. I hope I've convinced at least a few people.
It's a big deal for a lot of people. I was convinced I didn't need it age 13-19, I was convinced I could die alone with no relations ever happening. It's not the reason nothing happened but I can sympathize with your idea. Now I feel a rather large amount of stress concerning this. Not only because of immediate loneliness but I think I want kids. I really want to raise my child that's going to be far more happy than I ever was. It's weird feeling love for the unborn but it's there.
>implying that a profession is enough.
I have a mentor type guy who has been in school all his life pretty much. He's very smart and knowledgeable. But I couldn't lead my life as he does.
The people posting those feels are not real robots, my friend, for robots have no need for companionship. A true robot is an emotionless machine, running through his processes with cold and calculated resolve. The people you speak of are 1st degree normies. They were born with the need for love and unfortunately will never become true robots. They come to these boards looking for some type of belonging, but unfortunately they are rejected just as in the real world for true robots can see past these normies with ease.
It makes sense for you.
If you're really a semi-attractive girl, you've already experienced the feeling of being wanted by other people, and being loved, so love isn't valuable to you anymore.
>could be doing something better with my life
You think my depression/social anxiety is going to let me?
Never in my life have I read something so painfully millennial.
>totally ignoring the depression I mentioned
You don't know what that feels like huh normie? So ill tell you
>You literally don't want to do anything
>Anything you liked before is shit now
I just want to die in my bed
''Depression'' isn't real, you sad sack of shit.
It's an excuse for the boring and lazy.
Everytime people tell you how to get out of it... You meme ''Just be yourself guys'' Blah blah...
1. Get a fucking job
2. Go to the fucking gym
3. Fix your terrible fucking diet
4. Find a fucking hobby
5. Talk to people regardless of how it makes you feel
6. Force yourself to do shit
7. Work on your discipline
IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE, YOU RETARD. DEPRESSION DOESN'T EXIST IN THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES.
Your post's are triggering me and I refuse to help you bump this thread now
>Talk to people regardless of how it makes you feel
>Force yourself to do shit
Why are you giving advice when it's pretty clear you've never been afflicted? What would you know?
Trying even though I know im going to freak the fuck out on the interview
Already got a membership
Trying to get back into vidya
>b-but... they'll judge me!
>Love isn't everything.
Love doesn't exist, at least what you mean by it.
The thing is, it's easy enough to say having no gf doesn't matter. But that's irrelevant when your every biological drive is telling you the opposite. I wouldn't want kids though, as I can't think of anything crueler than spawning similar versions of myself.
Also, what exactly could I be doing? I have no real skills or talents of any kind. I can barely muster the motivation to stand much less anything else.
I didn't give the advice
I'm just sick of people talking about how lonely they are or how much they want a GF, or they post bullshit like >>26531195
/r9k/ is like the tumblr or twitter of shut ins
Every doctor I've seen has told me I suffer from depression. I just started to refuse it and actually change my life. Not sit and rot away doing the same shit over and over.
Fuck yourself, faggot. You know nothing.
So? Keep going to interviews until you don't care anymore.
You don't need to be fat to hit the gym or fix your diet. Bad food is bad fuel.
Video games aren't a good hobby. You sit on your ass doing nothing other than wasting your time doing nothing.
Do something productive atleast, for fucks sake.
As for the rest, you're doing it again... Making excuses. Will it kill you to force yourself to talk to people? No. So get a grip and just fucking do it, faggot.
>No one can seriously believe that doing those things will somehow make someone not depressed anymore.
Implying it won't you stupid fuck. How many times do people have to tell you that it works before you admit it, you just like being a lazy sad sack of shit.
It's been proven to fucking work but carry on denying and living your pathetic life screaming ''muh depression''
Everyone is fucking depressed. Big fucking deal. It's down to you how you go about living your life. No one is going to fix it for you.
Depression isn't a thing in third world countries.
>Every doctor I've seen has told me I suffer from depression.
Nope. I don't believe you. Sorry.
There's no way you could have legitimate depression or anxiety and tell someone to "just do the thing".
Why? Because the thought of him doing that scares you out of your mind? Because it means you just sitting still in time would be nobody else's fault, nobody else's choice but your own?
You're retarded. I don't care if you don't believe me. I've been put on neetbux for Anxiety and Depression before. I was probably more ''depressed'' than you are right now and yet I still turned it around by actually trying.
I decided to fuck all of that and actually change my life instead of wasting away.
Carry on making excuses though, you pathetic cunt.
No because when you're depressed, every single part of your brain is telling you that things are hopeless and nothing is worth doing because it won't change a thing
It's not something that can be cured by edgy tough love by someone over the internet. It's a brain chemistry issue.
>Depression isn't real and is just an excuse for the lazy
Never thought about it like that
Maybe.. If I keep seeing depression like that...then maybe..
Love isn't everything.
Not even happiness is everything.
There, I've opened your cell.
>ITT chads bullying me and people yelling at me
I thought r9k was my safe haven, not reality
>No because when you're depressed, every single part of your brain is telling you that things are hopeless and nothing is worth doing because it won't change a thing
So fucking what? If you know that then you know that it if you actually try, something might change. You just don't want to. Be honest. A part of you is perfectly happy sitting and wasting away doing nothing.
It really is. It's an imbalance that can be fixed by appropriate lifestyle choices. This has been proven time and time again.
Ok, sure I am.
see an actual professional for help, not some armchair faggot on /r9k/
the only advice you're gonna get here is "just do it" like lifting weights or putting motivational posters in your room is gonna help you
see a therapist or a psychiatrist, try CBT, get the hell off /r9k/
Because it's way more comfortable to whine about the injustice of it all instead of going through all the trouble of bettering ourselves.
> like lifting weights
Lifting weights has been proven over and over to help, you fucking dunce.
One of the first thing the doctor says when you're diagnosed with depression is:
''What's your diet like?''
''Do you excersise?''
Keep crying though...
Fair enough then yeah. That's exactly how it is. People thinking they're somehow special because they have ''depression''... Find me a person who fucking doesn't.
Meh, I adressed people like you in the original post. It's been proven the things on that list will help.
Fuck off cunt, stop being a waste of air and actually do something with your fucking life.
Atleast you're honest.
>it's a "depression is learned helplessness and not a chemical imbalance" post
I did everything you listed and it didn't help. the only thing I didn't do is talking to people because I have no one to talk with
And I'm still a sad sack of shit
Easy to say you don't need love when you had a loving family raising you, unlike me (inb4 you bullshit that you didn't have one as well)
I'm too old to rely on my other relatives 'n' shiet for affection so of course I kind of need a gf
Do you believe you have true control over your actions, really? You respond to situations solely based upon preexisting factors, a mix of past events, knowledge, and genetic makeup. This has really nothing to do with mental illness, it's just a label. Control is only felt in hindsight, it's just a trick of the mind.
I've got a challenge for you. I want you do something you deem to be non optimal response(especially regarding socialization), or deliberately do something highly painful. Then you can tell me you're in control.
>I did everything you listed and it didn't help
Post proof you lying fuck. You did nothing, did you?
Who said anything about positive attitude, faggot?
Just do whats on the list. It's that simple.
>Easy to say you don't need love when you had a loving family raising you, unlike me
Oh look, another way to justify your laziness!
You're SO HARD DONE BY anon! YOu've have the WORST life EVER!!!!!!!!!!!
Wake up, you dumb fuck.
No. He did shit. He was part of a fucking music scene, you idiot. He was in a band, you idiot. This requires activity.
You're retarded if you think this
I don't care
>hunter s thompson
Lol, nice troll. Top kek
He was an opiate addict you fucking moron.
Also, he's not exactly relatable to you in anyway is he? He was a celebrity rockstar who idolised the 27 club from an early age.
Just shows how little you know.
Love is still a lot of things and as humans we are programmed to desire human contact and affection.
Its a lot easier to do "better things" with your life if you have someone by your side.
Not everyone is mentally ill/autistic in the same way.
You're that one faggot that thinks /r9k/ is anything BUT failed normies, right OP?
Quitting any addiction is easy; your just drinking because you are too lazy to face reality, all you have to do is stop. Addiction is just people who have very poor self control.
False hope anon. Avoid it.
Don't ignore depression. Do good things (as he says) for yourself but be mindful of what helps. I'm sure you'd agree that any improvement is a huge help. I'm also diagnosed with severe depression, I don't have the willpower to just live life normally but I can work out, so I do that.