All memes aside, why don't you just transition? Surely life as a qt girl couldn't be any worse than the life you have now?
If I was 13 again I would, without a second thought. Shit I might even if I was still 19. But now I'm 28. I'm 6'2", balding, very large build. I could deal with being an Amazon woman, and my face is actually pretty feminine and I think I would transition well, but the problem is the balding. I'll never be able to have my own hair and I would have to wear wigs. That's the breaking point for me. I wish more than anything that I was a girl but I wouldn't be able to live as a bald girl.
really, if I lived in a place with cold weather I would take hormones, just to look cuter and more feminine, have less body hair and better head hair and dont smell like shit all the time. Would only work in cold weather because then I could hide hormone titties, you cant hide it waring t shirts all the time, but then again I would stil ltry to look boyish so my family doesnt find out.
Any thoughts on this? would it work?
I'm taking the hormones but it's not going to end well for me
I'm too mentally ill to truly internalize this though
Soon after I noticed some recession I got on finasteride and a decent amount has grown back. There's also always hair transplants which are really good now
Why did that guy have to be born a guy? Such a fuckable face. But then..that FUCKING DICK.
>All memes aside, why don't you just transition? Surely life as a qt girl couldn't be any worse than the life you have now?
Getting fucked WILL ALWAYS < FUCKING
Please tell me how the fuck is it better to go from wanting to be chad so you can fuck bitches......... TO BECOMING ONE OF CHADS BITCHES, that's a downgrade moron, you literally betrayed yourself.
lol he fell for the meme that the giver gets more pleasure than the receiver
estrogen gives you longer and more fulfilling orgasms, but there's several times more nerve endings in the clitoris than in the head of the penis so you will NEVER EVER get to have the epic orgasms a cis female can
the simple fact of the matter is that when it comes to sex everything is shit for the male, the male has to do more work, gets shitty, short orgasms, and is just a useless, expendable pollinator whereas the female gets to carry a child if she wants to
>lol he fell for the meme that the giver gets more pleasure than the receiver
Nope I didn't moron, everyone knows women can have multiple orgasms and more intense orgasms than men, but at the price of being the eternal submissive fuck toys of males.......... think i'll pass
Disabled people have more parking spaces.......... doesn't make being disabled better.
Also I can't get off on being submissive anyways, and being penetrated is an act of submission because you have to ALLOW that person to penetrate you, you have to submit to THEIR WILL. You must be a closet faggot if you'd rather get fucked for a boost in pleasure.
life is terrible, i liook like a man. there is no hope. i started at 17, yet truned out to be a manly fuck. give up now. nothing awaits you, but lovecraftian horror.
t. plebian tranny
Female orgasms are way stronger. And sucking dick is so much more rewarding for the female, you get to feel your whole mouth and throat filled, feel it twitch, creamy cum, whereas getting your dick suck it's a tingly feeling, you pop and that's it.
Anyway OP I got referred to the gender clinic but the fuckhead psychiatrist is plainly making it clear that she thinks I'm just a loser with an escapist fantasy even though I spent a whole hour explaining to her that I'd prefer to be female even if I wasn't an autistic fuckup because I've been curious about being a woman since I was 10 however I ignored these feelings until being an autistic fuckup make life as a man impossible so now being a female makes total sense. physically and socially.
Funny thing is it's actually the guys who are submissive, just in a different way -- men do the most pathetic shit ever to get sex whereas women get to just sit around and wait for some pathetic man who thinks he's the dominant one to come wait on her hand and foot and pay for all her shit for a chance she *might* let him bed her.
Women are the dominant ones in the area where it's smart - controlling the relationship and the access to sex.
>there's several times more nerve endings in the clitoris than in the head of the penis
The penile glans is primarily protopathic and more sensitive to pain than pleasure, anyway. It's barely erogenous.
The glans is naturally deficient in specialized sensory end organs. Most of the nerve endings in the glans are FNEs, which are pain receptors. Even the predominant encapsulated nerve ending type in the glans appears like a tangled skein of pain receptors.
The reason for the protopathic sensibility of the glans is due to the relative absence of Merkel terminals and tactile corpuscles.
>The ratio of FNEs to corpuscular receptors is approximately 10:1 and a similar ratio of small to large axons is seen in dermal nerves. Genital end bulbs are present throughout the glans, but are most numerous in the corona and near the frenulum. The unique corpuscular receptor of the glans penis consists of axon terminals that at an ultrastructural level resemble a tangled skein of FNEs. Simple, Pacinian and Ruffini corpuscles were occasionally identified predominantly in the corona glandis. Epidermal Merkel nerve endings and other types of mechanoreceptors typically found in primate glabrous skin (lip or digit) are not present. Rarely, dermal Merkel cells have been identified associated with genital end bulbs.
>The abundance of FNEs in isolated as well as corpuscular form can be correlated with the embryogenesis and known neurophysiologic and psychophysical parameters of sensory function of the glans penis. Finally, the divergence in reported values for the threshold of tactile and painful stimuli when applied to glabrous skin of fingertip and glans penis can be considered as an example of dissociated sensibility. The anatomical basis for this dissociation is the abundance of FNEs and absence of Merkel terminals and typical Meissner corpuscles in the covering of the glans, and the converse in glabrous skin of the digit.
talk to like, a D/s couple sometime, the submissives fetishes are the ones that get played with most of the time and she usually has control of where things stop
I'ts really temporarily giving up control, but it's like getting waited on instead of doing the reverse
I'm ftm and I would never go back. My life may not be great now, but at least I'm a man. You guys don't know how bad it sucks to be the wrong gender. Unless you actually suffer from gender dysphoria please don't throw away your manhood.
Hey guys I'm black. I'm confused as to my chances because /pol/ says black women look masculine so I'd blend in however /pol/ also claims that black men look ultra masculine so I don't know what to believe. I personally think that while the above two claims are racist generalizations there is indeed more variation in the black race that would make an Amazon tier transwoman slightly less noticeable. What do the expert racial theorists of /r9k/ think?
>tfw both mum and dad are accepting
As for the rest of my family I believe they already think I'm some sort of fruit anyway because I'm 24 and they've never asked me about relationships
I think that its absolutely impossible to make a claim on your passability in any way without a pic of your face and body and a description of your height. You will never, ever pass if you're over 6' and that is fact.
Don't laugh at the JUST-tier hair, it's 5am here.
i like /femgen/ boys, but i don't believe in getting a boob and and wearing make up and going the whole 9 yards. i think there is beauty to found in the male form without all that trap stuff.
Thanks for the input. Luckily as you know hair extensions is pretty much standard among black women.
You I remember you, I asked you why you browse /r9k/ and you said you liked the abuse. Anyway it's half because I am beta and half because I just plain prefer to look female. Not into the muscles, beard and baldness.
Whatever dude I'm already Elliot rodger-tier unpopular, adding a few more people to the list of people who think I'm a weirdo won't make a difference..
because i'm already a girl and not a cute one. i can't transition into a cute one. had one shot at life and fucked it up
Transition into a cute boy I guess?
Worth a shot if you're not fat
Or I mean you can't take Mones, but the plastic surgery is the same, and breast augmentations and so on
It's possible, just hard.
It's gotten so bad that I got triggered when my mum called me a man. You know what set this off? Anti-depressants. Losing my sex drive made me realize I never had any interest in being male beyond having a gf which is just as well because I'm an awful male.
Literally every tranny says that
If there was a way to do that, everyone would take it
Fuck even if it was just like a 100% body change and instant instead of a slow gradual thing it would be so much better
Would you rather be thinking about this in 5 years when it's really too late, I guess?
I mean, you can go on hormones for like 8 months without permanent changes, and try a weave or something, see how it looks on you. Worth a shot if you can get a way with it.
Isit really? Because fuck my facial hair I hate it so much. When I was in my teens I only needed to shave it once a week now at 24 it grows back to stubble within a day. Luckily it's localized to my chin and mustache but still it's annoying. I'm starting to grow chest hair too....
You can still do this without being a girl.
>20 years old
>don't know what I'm doing with my life
>going to community college for I don't even know what
>taking some bullshit philosophy class because I need the required credit
>in the class is a 50 something year old guy who sits down in front of me the first day and starts friendly chatting with me
>I'm really quiet and don't really know how to talk to an older guy being so friendly with me
>he sits by me every day after that
>after a while get comfortable and don't think anything of it
>find out we have a bunch of common interests like PC gaming (which he'd been into since the 80s) and old sci fi shit
>last week of class he invites me to his place to check out his new PC and play some games on it
>he drives me over there after class
>real fancy house all to himself
>he offers me some booze
>never drank before but also don't wanna be rude
>have a couple of mixed drinks and play some games
>I'm pretty drunk
>at one point he puts his hand on the back of my head all touchy feely
>no girl or guy has ever done this
>suddenly out of nowhere I realize what's going on
>I'm drunk and I've never even considered doing gay shit before but within five minutes I'm sucking this guy's dick
>I'm bent over on his couch taking his dick up my ass and screaming fuck me daddy while he turns my guts inside out
>spend the next three days over there getting my asshole ravaged and going out to nice dinners
>I pretty much spend the next couple months over there before deciding to move in
>he pays for everything
>I live at home and keep things clean and have started learning how to cook
>play vidya and shitpost on 4chan while he's at work
>call him dad in public and everyone legit just thinks I'm his son
>daddy fucks me almost every night
>sometimes he shares me with his friends
>this has been going on for the last four years
>haven't ever thought about going back
>truly living life on easy mode
tl;dr: get a daddy
aaaand he will dump you once you start looking older. This is why we transition. Sure you can be young and cute as a boy but when you get older it's woman or square jawed hairy man. Anyway hot story, I hope it's true.
>you'll never be qt
>this will never be your life
Im I think a B or a C and I can hide my boobs.
I wear shirts that are a few sizes too big and gained some weight.
I keep my hair on my chest most of the time.
I wear a lot of shirts with patterns on the chest.
Dark colors help to break up shadows.
I wear facial hair.
I drop my voice a bit and watch my body language.
I put on a layer of extra bravado usually too.
Does that mean that the effects don't become permanent if I stop before reaching the purple parts or something?
Get a job, move out.
IKR? Gotta change your name and everything. What's a good non-ghetto black girl name?
Maybe, I dunno it depends. You could end up with permanent huge titties after a few months. No pressure.
That's outstandingly true. Trust me. After being on /lgbt/ since it's inception, and researching and seeing transsexuals in real life and going through transition myself this comment >>26523726 is fact.
/lgbt/ is over-obsessed with passing. Like I'm not one of those SJWs who think it doesn't matter but they put such a ridiculous standard on passing that if you post a cis girl there they will say she doesn't pass. There are plenty of pictures out there showing big army dudes becoming slim qt girls.
It's not just the face, it's your whole body structure that has to be potentially feminine beforehand.
And since you are black, especially socialization. I personally believe minorities get a lot more gendered socialization than whites.
But if you still want to try, dress up in more feminine clothing for at least 6 months in public and see how it works for you. Start slow with unisex clothing then try more gendered clothing.
Have a psychologist and a friend to cry to on speed-dial, have good relations with your family, it's going to be rough senpai.
That's to keep "hons" from Reddit and Susan's away.
>There are plenty of pictures out there showing big army dudes becoming slim qt girls.
Camera angles and makeup do a lot. Don't believe everything you see on the internet, go outside and met some real transsexuals.
>I personally believe minorities get a lot more gendered socialization than whites.
That's part of the reason why I want to transition. Sick of having to uphold some bullshit overinflated masculine ideal.
I'm not prepared to live the hell that is transsexual life.
Also, I like my dick, and I only like women, even if I'd be happier as a QT girl. There are very, very few women willing to accept a shitty trans girl, even less than are willing to accept a shitty normal guy like me.
The homeless thing isnt really a problem other than immediate throwout. Its the goodbye to the last 20 years of your life in one moment thing. To give up your mother and father and siblings in the one point of your life, you need their support more than ever.
I dunno anon. I'm 6'1" and transitioned seamlessly. Literally nobody thinks I'm a guy, and most people would think you a liar if you insisted otherwise. Really, I'm not even that pretty. It's mostly to do with how I carry myself.
nope i just look like an angry foot.
yeah you have girly eyes. or are you doing it deliberately with mascara?
They might not hate you. And even if you do they'll get over it if they really love you. My grandma freaked out for years when my uncle converted to Islam and now apart from the odd battle over crucifix placement they are perfectly fine with each other.
I worry about this the most. My mum says I walk like a man. How do you walk like a woman????
No makeup :/ i just have dark lids.
I dunno. I just do. I think it's something to do with the angle that your legs make with your hips as your feet strike the ground? Like if from each hip socket to each other was line A, and the top of the leg to the ankle was line B, and the ground was line C, the angle AB and the angle BC generally differ between males and females due to standard hip width. But really, I don't think it matters how you walk? A woman is a woman is a woman. Some women are really manly. Like, I've met women that look more female than me but are just... super otoko-poi, so they get misgendered where I don't.
It really is a spectrum. You just have to be comfortable with where you are on it, I think. If you're true to what you are, and you're trans-female, you'll just end up somewhere slightly too red to be considered blue.
I've never fucked one but I've been sucked by a lot.
The only ones that are remotely passable are the asians. And those basically go home with a guy every night.
I'm relatively experienced.
>All memes aside
You forgot one :^)
Apologies for the burst bubble, but I don't grow ass hair either, anon. Then again, lots of women do, so why is it even an issue?
And if you don't believe me about the 'girls have ass hair' thing, riddle me this: why do bikini waxes always cover both front and back?
you're wearing girly hair extensions of course you will look like a girl. Anyway you seem to have the exact same jaw as me. Start hormones.
I'll work on it
If you want girls that pass super well then why don't you just go for real girls?
>If you want girls that pass super well then why don't you just go for real girls?
Apparently only faggots and trannys find me attractive. Not even memeing.
This 4/10 asian chick rejected me for valentines but this actually pretty cute asian twink literally wants me to go to his work building and forcing my cock down his throat in the bathroom.
He finds me so attractive me literally wants to drink my urine. Yet this stupid fugly bitch made me feel like garbage the whole weekend
Trans girls have female body hair anon. Methinks you were just fucking crossdressers.
>do what you want to do
>people bully you out of it
>"It was because what you were doing was bad"
Great circular logic.
>are you asian
>female body hair is a lot thinner and doesn't stubble like male body hair does
Do you really believe this? Do a quick google search for me: "vagina stubble itch". Literally millions of results.
how am i fishing for complements? no where in anything did i type say tell me i'm pretty :/ also 4chan is the last place anyone should ever seek validation on their aesthetics... pretty sure that's common knowledge.
Pubic hair isn't regular body hair and you fucking know it.
Also congrats on winning the genetic lottery for being a trap.
Asians are literally the only passable ones.
you guys age like shit though
TBQH white people are more likely to pass/be pretty in my experience.
As for body hair, IPL is a thing. To laser the entire body costs ~5500 and is covered by most major insurers these days. Traps well into their transition don't have body hair these days.
are you that nigger who posted complaining about how you get told how attractive you are all the time by girls but then you also got rejected by a 4/10 azn who said you weren't her type?
It feels good being remembered.
Add faggots, traps and trannies to that list.
I avoid the latter though; unclean, delusional and unattractive.
Asian crossdressers are the best if you wanna go that route tbqh
Passable but without having the mindfucking that hormones do to you.
Dunno, you just look like one of those instagram people that can't stop taking pictures of themselver and want to be told they're pretty, but it's more likely just me trying to find a reason to hate you since I'm sn ugly and unconfident piece of shit
can't do that senpai i'm fat too lazy and poor
and did i mention that i'm VERY ugly? i kinda look like a fat retarded neanderthal i'd post a pic but im afraid i'll become a meme
They actually seem to work best if you're a tiny bit fat first. The issue is that people tend to gain dozens of pounds when they start hormones. So if you're already fat, you'll become even fatter.
If you're confident that you'll be able to lose weight even after starting hormones, really just start hormones immediately.
I am not. I am one of those people who has a lifelong weight problem, like if I stop concentrating on what I eat for 1 second I fucking balloon. Obviously it's due to high appetite but whatever the reason metabolism slowing hormones isn't going to help.
Literally. Diet. Exercise. IPL. Surgery.
STFU. Get a second job. Ultimately, you're the only person stopping yourself from making an extra 10,000 a year. And, if you're in America, surgery is 100% covered by insurers. You just have to prove that you're trans to two psychologists and be on hormones for a year. Super easy.
hahahahaha no.. I mean i'm really sorry you feel that way.. but no. i'm not a selfie whore. i don't really like taking pix because of various reasons i wont get into. but yea. self esteem issues are common and really the only way to get over them is to pretend you don't have them.. as weird as it may sound people pick up on it.. cuz they're fukkin stupid and don't know the difference between feign confidence and actual fucking self pride. good for us. bad for the people that actually work hard on themselves to get acceptance only to realize they could've played pretend and gotten the exact same results.
Ugly manlet will still be ugly trap. Works only for qt petite faggots. It sucks but that's the reality of it.
literally the only thing he;s missing out on his reproducing an offspring.
most guys here don't even want worthless annoying kids so it works for them.
also he trap gf will never have persiods and loves anal. admit it, women are obsolete.
>still gets confused for girl
excuse me? maybe that only stands for white people. I mean. Jordan peele is a full grown man about to be 40 and throwing on a wig and lipstick makes him more passable than some 23 year old white guys taking hormones.
he will also get hiv eventually and die a slow painful death. Hes out here showing off his body and probably having a lot of unprotected sex at bars. this qt could have been my husband, we could have had a normal life, had 4 kids and grew old together but this cute boy will die in his early 30s from aids...
Have fun with that disgusting degenerate.
Try avoiding things with penises.
>Hes out here showing off his body and probably having a lot of unprotected sex at bars.
He's not tho and you can easily catch hiv from women too since statistics show women like cuckolding their husband with niggers.
btw you can ake your trip off you're not trolling anybody i'm only feeding you because i'm bored
>"just eat less!"
No shit. What do you think I've been trying to do for the past year? As I said I only dropped 22 lb because if I lose focus for just one week I regain all the weight I lost in the last like a snap of the fingers. People who say they can't gain weight just infuriates me, like I gained fucking 80 lb in a year once without even fucking trying. Now I've lost 20 lb in the same time despite trying as hard as I can. And the water thing is bullshit, it has no taste therefore how is it gonna satisfy my appetite?
This is another one of the many reasons why I'm transitioning, alpha black women want jamal and beta black women such as bebe want jackie chan. who wants beta black men? nobody.
that's what testosterone blockers are for
/lgbt/ isn't SFW
>that's what testosterone blockers are for
Habibi Estrogen gets converted to testosterone in males by androgens.
You'll need androgen blockers too. Have fun fucking your endocrine system.
Again, if you're not an asian manlet with an already cute face you're fucked.
like I said, I identify as a lesbian. which means I identify as a girl, not a boy
whether i literally am a lesbian or a girl i dont really care, you can have your own opinions
eat things with no sustenance. such as rice. or at least in addition to your normal meal. that way you can fill up.. but there's not really any nutrition so you won't gain weight. that's what i did.
That's a major question for me. I wish I could date men because it's no hassle but while I enjoy dick I have zero feelings for men. So I'll probably be sticking with women. I made a fake OKC profile with pics of a random tranny and my reply rate was still way higher than my straight male account so there seems to be a difference between straight women and lesbians. Just so long as I don't have to date straight women again I'll be happy. I was on the verge of blowing my brains out if I ever have to be "cool and confident" again.
Yeah that's a major tactic of mine, super low cal food. It works' it's how I lost the 20 lb.
If you weigh it it's ok. 100 g rice which is a plateful is 367 calories.
problem with the rice advice, is that i can eat like 800 cal bowls of it and still be ready for more within 10 mins
my stomach is a pit and it takes pure discipline for me to lose weight
What I did is week 1 eat 3,000 calories, week 2 eat 2,500 week 3 eat 2,000 week 4 eat 1,800 and hold it there. practically all diets fail because people jump straight into it. I am convinced that stomach shrinkage is a thing. Last year my appetite was crazy, now I can get by on three meals.
depends on where in america
if you're in rural areas with no car/transit option to get to a major city it can be impossible
in most cities its pretty easy
brits have cucktier wait lists is their problem, and creepy therapy requirements
Like the guy said earlier, name is ladyboy bee
Someone find the source
Maybe because I'm 6'2,120kg,have a 50 inch ribcage,9 inch wrists,have a neadrethal brow ridge,square head and a cinder block for a jaw, and I'm not mentally ill.
I don't think I'd be a very good female, but the main reason is who the fuck would actually want to be a woman?
I don't want to lower the difficulty setting but this game has been badly tested
don't tell me what to do, shitlord. i am a proud genderfluid opportunist who would gladly benefit from female privilege and accept being addressed as "she" in public spaces despite not being insane enough to believe i'm not genetically male
So that means you'll have to catch up more, Most of that socialization happens between ages 1-13, some it is for survival that is nearly impossible to shake off.
>Sick of having to uphold some bullshit overinflated masculine ideal
But you don't have to, be your own male. You aren't going to change much anytime soon. At the end of the day you are going to be nearly the same person you are regardless.
>Lesbians like manly women.
They don't actually, they prefer fems who are female btw.
It could be because of your race that 4/10 azn girl rejected you. They mostly keep to their own.
Am 5'10 and kind of like you, I attract mostly Blacks and some Hispanics.