Do you guys really think you're ugly? Why? What makes you think you're ugly
Pale skin, hooked nose, short, acne scars...... Basically when I was born, nature said "fuck you". What's even worse is that my father was a Chad when he was my age, my mother was a Stacey, and my sister is also a Stacey, also my cousins are all attractive as fuck. Why did life have to fuck me over so hard.
In a 27 year old kissless dateless don't even have a girl that's a friend. .. virgin. Soon to be a wizard. I think I'm handsome but unfuckable because of my forever alone mindset. I've been alone so long I don't even understand basic human socialization. Also I live in my grandma's basement where she has owned me for about 10 years.
yeah, just fucking look at me. i have a shrek nose and my head and face are lumpy/asymmetrical
>girls in public walk right past me, never ever see a girl looking at me in public.
>only people that say im handsome is family, maybe occasionally someone on okc but barely even that
>not manlet. 6'2 but weird looking autistic mannerisms. meh face. no conversation skills at all
>bullied by girls in high school
.......i just wish someone loved me.. i just want to be happy
It's common in my area to take dancing lessons as a teenager. Although there were more girls than boys in class, it was hard getting a dancing partner.
Besides that, my class visited a talk show during a school trip and I was told to sit behind the cameras since I was too ugly for TV.
I'm not going to post my picture here because I'm not one of those attention seeking faggots who always shows up in threads like this. I've had a total lack of feedback on my appearance for many years, people almost never comment one way or another and I get zero attention from the opposite sex. The only thing people say on the rare occasions they do comment on my appearance is that I look tired. Almost everyone says this. The only conclusion I can draw is that I'm not attractive, even though I've never really had anyone say anything strictly positive or negative.
What >>26490357 said.
If you are a 5/10 or above, you will have at least one girl make the first move with you at some point in your life.
Fuck, I consider myself pretty ugly and have had about a dozen girls do this (mostly during my adolescence).
When I was a kid, my only girl friend (buddy) told me that I was ugly
In highschool, I realized that some girls was really kind near of chads, and neutral to me.
Now I'm kinda scared of girls, I always fear that some random girl come up and say "god, you are ugly"
Yeah, I'm a robot what did you excepted?
That wasn't me that replied to you. I'm into video games and technology currently going to college for a degree in IT. I've been in school for a looong time. I made a few friends but I always lose them after the end of the semester.
>I consider myself pretty ugly and have had about a dozen girls do this (mostly during my adolescence)
I've got some news for you anon.....
Damn dude are you me? You just described me but I haven't been in school for that long. Is video games and tech all you're into? I'm thinking about exploring some other hobbies and trying meet some new people through them. Why not try and do that if you have the time?
>Only a few of them where attractive
What's your problem then? If you've had attractive girls into then why wouldn't they be into now?
My point is that it's kind of ridiculous if you've never had even just one girl make the first move. You either have to have a facial deformity or the most autistic person on the planet to not have that happen to you.
honest questions, would you robots go out with a girl who was physically unattractive? Like, she takes care of herself, she's clean and such, but her face is just naturally ugly.
I feel like a lot of /ugly/ here expect a woman to be able to do this, but aren't able to return the favor. Am I wrong?
My theories are that girls are way easier in high school because of hormones and shit, plus it's slightly more acceptable for teenage girls to make the first move. At that age, everybody's still a little immature and the whole idea about "manning up" and making the first move isn't quite as strong.
You're clearly balding, sorry. Just go for the buzzcut my man, and you are actually lucky because it would look good for you.
At the same time, grow a beard and you will be fine. Trust me man, just try the buzzcut and you will see how nice the difference is.
mate what the fuck are you talking about, you're very attractive. Get out of the board and go ask a girl out.
>Your eyes are your best feature, clearly a great color and attractive
>10/10 masculine brows
>6 or 7/10 jawline, if you feel uncomfortable about it just get a beard
>literally perfect mouth and nose
>masculine hair, perhaps a bit messy but girls like that
you are attractive and can very easily get a girl if you just pretend to be confident in yourself and walk up to them.
Trust me nigger, I know what your lives are like. I'm depressed, antisocial, have no friends, and only gotten laid once. Just because I'm not the biggest fucking robot doesn't mean I don't get it.
>someone posts their picture and talks about how ugly they are
>they're more attractive than me
I'm not gonna make it, guys.
I'm bald, that's enough for women to tnink of me as a beta provider they will settle when they'll hit the wall
Rember one thing, you can always lose wait, you can always gain muscle, i'm not saying you'll get handsome but once you start balding you've lost it, i'm trying my best to regain my hair but i've only stopped balding and only because i apply something to my head every day twice and if i stop balding will start again.
Be thankful you've got head full of hair.
>What makes you think you're ugly
The people who repeatedly made fun of me in school, calling me an "ogre.
Before that, in middle school there was a list that the "popular" girls made of guys in the class where they ranked attractiveness and I was at the very bottom.
Then in college I immediately got made fun of by housemates the week I moved in, which resulted in me quitting that university.
Literally every large social environment I've been exposed to has resulted in me being mocked for being ugly.
That's why I KNOW I'm ugly, you faggot.
Wtf? Should I really get a buzzcut?
Pic is from random Irish wilderness. Well its technically in a residentual area but its all woodland and shit
22 year old guy here, I was never overtly approached by a single girl for the entire course of my adolescence and now that I've had a bit of distance from those years it's become apparent that the issue wasn't my appearance at all but rather a combination of my autistic behavior and social norms.
There needs to be some kind of pretext for a girl/woman to approach a guy she's interested in. This is just how our shitty society works; women who do the chasing are stigmatized. When you act like you have aspergers by shying away from friendships in general and never being involved in extracurriculars there is no possible pretext under which a girl can initiate any sort of relationship without being seen as desperate/slutty and as a direct consequence they simply won't initiate.
TL;DR none of you are ugly, the 'fault' can be found in the way you conduct yourselves
I'm a chinky lad with long hair, a greasy acne-ridden face, and teeth like corn from chainsmoking. Doesn't matter too much since I work from home, but wew lads, the few meetings I have to attend have me sweating bullets. The only thing I've got going for me are my voice and a 420 (DUDE MUSCLES LMAO) deadlift.
>everyone treats you like shit
>end up shy and scared as a result
>everyone treats you like more shit for "conducting yourself like an autist"
There's no winning.
All it takes is one shit experience to trigger a domino effect of autism and loneliness.
I'm ugly but it's mostly because I just don't groom or dress myself very well. I'm so unable to socialize with people that I don't even think about getting a gf as a possibility, so I don't care.
Get a haircut private
>a greasy acne-ridden face
Start washing boy
Start brushing too. Go see a dentist and I think you'll be alright
When I was younger I was fucking hideous. I was fat, pimply, greasy, dressed like shit, and was just overall disgusting. This ruined my life. I didn't improve myself until it was too late.
Now I'm objectively more attractive than I was, but I still can't look myself in the eyes. Every flaw I have is unavoidable when I look in the mirror. I've almost broken a mirror because of how frustrating it is to look at myself. And the worst fucking part of it all? I'm not even attractive. It's not one of those ugly duckling stories. I went from a 2 to a 4. All that hard work and I'm still fucking vile to look at.
One of these days I'm just going to jump off a building face first and make sure it's a closed casket funeral.
I'm not ugly, just not pretty like I'd like to be
>had a handful of girls (fairly attractive ones) approach me but at the time I was too much of a horrible depressed socially stunted sperg to do anything about it
>had another one recently and realized I honestly didn't want to do anything because I didn't want to be responsible for a girl's entertainment
also I'm literally a fag
>tfw you actually like the way you look but didnt always
I was fat as a kid so I never really had any confidence but once I lost the weight, it's like I had been reborn into a person who actually wanted to live.
Some people have ugly faces and you can't really help them but any time an overweight person talks about how ugly they are, I can't even feel bad for them because they haven't tried their best to look good. If you exercise/work out and you still don't look fantastic then at least you tried and people will respect you for that.
>If you exercise/work out and you still don't look fantastic then at least you tried and people will respect you for that.
Oh yeah, the ladies get hot when I flash my stretchmarks at them.
"no". And the grease is infuriating tbqh m8, I'm a clean person. Daily showers, I wash my face every two or three hours, so on. Maybe it's my diet, but I'd sooner chalk it up to shit genes and overactive hormones. I eat an Asian af diet chock full of greens. I brush and floss twice a day. Shit, I actually preen myself pretty thorough, but it's just makeup on a turd. I feel like shit, so I may as well look like it.
People will simply laugh at ugly people who tried to work out/exercise. It just makes them look delusional and pathetic.
Same goes for ugly people who try to dress really nice. There is no cure for ugliness; accept your fate and focus on other parts of yourself instead.
I've put on about 30 lbs, but when I was thin I looked a lot like young Mark Hamill. Still a KV, but I liked how I looked. Losing weight as we speak.
N-no bully lads, I wasn't expecting the picture. So few pictures of me actually exist so yeah.
A-Am I purty?
You're alright, but if you post photos look up some ways to make yourself look more attractive. Lying down, being in a corner/ having a wall right behind your back, and having your face obstructed in any way; these are big turnoffs.
If you had a good photo, you'd probably do well on tinder with women over 30.
Actually I think I'm less ugly than I'm just socially retarded. That I believe is the biggest reason why any of us are such pathetic virgins.
Even ugly and fat guys can get pussy if they're loud and can get women laughing. Of course that's impossible for the average robot. We're too asocial.
You kinda look like this guy. What do you look like with hair?
Getting past your insecurities and building your confidence will put you ahead of everyone who never had to struggle against the feels you've experienced. It's a glorious realization when you first come to understand how incredibly emotionally weak normies are and it's made all the sweeter by the fact their weakness is born of all those experiences you envied them for having.
It's difficult to be unattractive as a male if you're fit with ~12% body-fat, dress moderately well and have healthy-looking skin. Take care of those and even with an asymmetrical face you won't be ugly.
Also, weightlifting seems to have a masculinizing effect on the face, so that's something to consider if you've got a girly heart-shaped facial structure like I do.
>its our only way out
It's not even a way out.
If you're ugly and ripped, people know you're just compensating. They hate you MORE for it than if you were just skinny.
>these are the people who stutter type and ERP as healsluts/with animu pictures
Extremely handsome man reporting in. So handsome I'm going to attempt suicide for the third time this week
wrong, i went to a party on the weekend and most chicks that i know were complementing me because my arms are kinda strting to bust out of my shirt
you look more alpha because you are more physically intimidating
id rather be a 5/10 in the face fit as shit than a 7/10 faced skinny faggot
I don't even ERP dude, I do it because I think it's funny, if you wanna get all assmad over it that's chill though
I've been lifting but gradually come to realise that plastic surgery is my only option.
Got to get that asymmetry in my eyes and nose corrected, but all the rhinoplasty suggestions involve my getting too much taken off of my nose for me to like. Having a larger-than-average nose suits me, but the shape has to be right.
"you're not HIDEOUS"
something a "good friend" said after I said she should be a wing-girl
She is seriously the most shallow person I've ever met, but as such she makes a good judge of that shit. My takeaway is that I'm probably a 4/10
I'm pale, balding with fine hair to begin with, have a boyish face, and I cannot grow a full beard. I know I'm not the ugliest thing in the world, my face looks alright, but the combo of looking so young along with the baldness kind of makes me nobody's type.
And women are not actually less shallow then men are so personality doesn't count for shit 90% of the time.
I need to find a girl who is into boys who are also balding, which is literally never going to happen, so yeah, I am functionally hideous.
look up supermang on fit
pic related is him, he gets a bunch of 5/10 orbitors
its defintely possible
think what you want. i was tlaking to a friend of mine last year and she showed me her bf. dude was a 4-5 but ripped and she loves this guy everytime i see them. she treats him like an adonis.
you also can act more alpha in bars because no one is interested in fucking with you. Ive gotten compliments and it helps you confidence. go be a plastic surgery female bitch on soc you nigger.
plastic surgery just makes you look more ayyyy lmao anyway
AGAIN to all robots work out, just do it most you are neet or in college where they have a free gym to use. do it and reep the benefits
>think what you want. i was tlaking to a friend of mine last year and she showed me her bf. dude was a 4-5 but ripped and she loves this guy everytime i see them. she treats him like an adonis.
>you also can act more alpha in bars because no one is interested in fucking with you. Ive gotten compliments and it helps you confidence. go be a plastic surgery female bitch on soc you nigger.
>plastic surgery just makes you look more ayyyy lmao anyway
>AGAIN to all robots work out, just do it most you are neet or in college where they have a free gym to use. do it and reep the benefits
you are still in the denail stage, don't worry about it, you'll see the truth soon enough
Please post pics of your face, body, penis, and boipucci when you lose weight anon.
Don't know if i'm very ugly anymore, just terribly insecure about shit from my past.
>stretch marks because I used to be a fatass
>gyno(probably from growing up fat)
>skin so pale I look like something out of a Tim Burton film
>kinda crooked teeth
>girly looking eyes
>every time i try to smile it ends up being a snarky looking grin that scares people
>pretty muscular now, so everyone expects me to be outgoing/talkative
It's never too late.
Get a doctor to prescribe you propranolol for the physical manifestations of anxiety and buy a vial of etizolam online along with a gram of 2-FMA or 4F-MPH. Take 80mg propranolol, 1mg of etizolam and 20mg 2-FMA or 4F-MPH and you'll see it's possible for you to be confident.
Use that combination daily as a cheat code for the confidence to fix your problems. Stop taking it when the major sources of insecurity and anxiety in your life are gone and enjoy your genuine confidence.
Thanks modern medicine :)
except that dude isnt a total skiny fag, thats like a little worse than my body right now (again 3 months lifting)
whatever man, enjoy being a loser virgin like elliot rogers and think its ALL MUH FACE. You are probably an autismo anyway. A chick two weeks ago literally grabbed my dick at a bar and made out with me. Im a 5/10 but im confident. learn to life, you would never be happy with plastic surgery, its just your latest excuse for being a failure
Used to be overweight not too long ago, gave me a lot of gross stretch marks. Worried that I'll never be able to get rid of them or the loose skin without surgery, so it keeps my body at about a 1-2/10. Great ass, face is 8/10. Very proud of that. The body haunts me though, honestly depressed because of it.
do you bars bro? there are always dudes looking to scrap with someone if you knock into them by accident (which happens all the time in crowded places). being able to stand up for yourself is important and ladies will dig it.
You're the one who's being hostile and insulting me. Maybe because on some level you think there is some truth to what I say? I can link you to studies that show that face is infinitely more important than body when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Some of the most famous male celebrities that women lust after are total twinks, one direction, justin bieber, etc. Having a good body is obviously gonna help but for a person who is legit ugly it's not gonna do much.
I actually think I am pretty good looking, I made a Tinder and an OKcupid account as a test and have received quite a few messages from good looking women, the problem is that I am far too socially anxious to even respond to any of them let alone actually go out and meet someone.
Can't you jump from a tall building or shoot yourself? It will be far less painful.
But I know you are not talking seriously, no one who trully lost his will to live cares about looking hilarious.
>What makes you think you're ugly?
Because I look like Mark Hamill and post JUST Brendan Fraser had an ugly socially inept love child.
When I put myself out there, I get offers for dates left and right. My personality is too off putting to people because of how much I rely on faux-arrogance to protect my delicate ego, though. I hate my ugly attitude.
I grew up a fat loner, and became a shut in neet after highschool. Now all I do is sit at my parents house lifting.
I'd like to fix my life but I honestly don't know where or how to start. As an anxious 21 year old kv with no social circle whatsoever, I feel like i'm doomed.
Youre not particularly attractive but if it makes you feel any better i know a guy that looks almost identical to you except w a bit skinnier face and he was dating a 9/10 smokeshow chick w an insane body for like 3 years.
[Spoiler] till she broke up w him last week...[/spoiler]
I don't know man, khv even with normal length hair. I have a big fucking head in relation to my body.
>what makes you think you're ugly?
I'm at that awkward point in weight loss where I'm not quite fat but I'm not thin but my face is still lumpy and I have a double chin. I will probably be an 8/10 when I'm thin because tall and symmetrical with good genes but for now even the guy complaining about how many girls are attractive doesn't find me attractive.
Is there any hope for me family?
The lack of female attention for me is what confirms my ugliness.
I feel that my face is average and that my hair is what decides if I'm ugly or not. I've had days where it looks terrible causing me to feel ugly, but other days when it looks nice, I feel attractive and sometimes have random women compliment me on it.
Long hair is a blessing and a curse.
Hey I remember you.
Your picture sold off on Friday, I appreciate it.
I pretty much never have encounters with women because I, like you, refuse to make the first move.
the truth is, girls are simply too lazy to make the first move. they know that it has been ingrained into everyone's heads that men are expected to make the first move, so why would they bother?
>be in queue at cafeteria
>sweat like 10 men in PE
>after PE so I'm all blazing red
>also got worst eyebags and eyesockets
>literally laughed at by a group of guys like no one else since school is pretty mature
>another year this gypsy trash tells me to cut hair
I was also shit on 250x times worse in ele-middle school so didn't even start recounting. My crush was a witness for most of it so you know how confident I am.
I guess if I ate more, worked out, didn't play video games so much I would look like Chad. But that's not who I am. Just a late bloomer with shitty choices that makes even my attractive developments me around a 4/10
I've had girls make the first moves on me before. It's a rare occurrence, but it happens, mostly uggos or sluts though.
I really appreciate threads like these.
Some days I'm feeling okay and I consider myself to be a 5/10, but then I see threads like this and remember my place as a 3/10 max. Thank you for keeping me in check.
Paranoid that someone will recognize me, but fuck it, even if they do it won't a thing.
>do you think you're ugly
because I have had 0 girls show interest in me in my 21 years
I have never had friends or a gf ever
I have never received compliments or messages from girls
I have never received positive attention from them either
that isn't normal and only happens if you are severely ugly
the only people interested in me are gays and I'm not gay and no matter how hard I've tried, I can't be gay
I don't think I'm ugly, I've been complemented many times and even got with multiple chicks when I was in martial arts. I just know for a fact that my excess 40 lbs is detrimental to my sex life. I just got back from the gym so in a year or so that will no longer be an issue. I might even start up ju jitsu again.
Girls don't approach guys 99% of the time. Girls are more socially anxious in terms of talking to the opposite sex than you think. Not getting approached by girls is not a measure of how attractive/unattractive you are.
no, that's a lie, a fucking fairy tale
they only initiate with the most chad of chads that they are hopelessly out of their league
what most women mean when they say they "made the first move" is that they said hello and waited for him to make the actual first move like asking for her number or asking her out on a date
are you a robot or a normie? I guarantee you only the the chadest of chad's, i.e Leonardo Dicaprio or some other rich celebrity, get approached regularly by women. Even the average Chad doesn't have women initiating conversation 99% of the time.
this, women are just as socially anxious as the rest of us in terms of initiating conversation with a potential partner
that's what initiating is dumb fuck. just saying hello
no girl has so much as said hello to me, but that has happened to literally 99% of the population
you're such a fucking dumb chad you don't even know what initiating a conversation means.
I'm pretty sure "making the first move" is putting yourself on the line and your heart out there trusting the other person isn't gonna do something to hurt you
saying hello doesn't do any of that, there is 0 chance for rejection, nothing is risked by saying hello
this is because women CANNOT handle rejection in the slightest
for real, go make a chad OKC and reject a few of the girls on there that message you, they will legit be crying and off to buy tubs of icecream because that shit never happens to them when they never put themselves out there
You're the dumb one. Not even him, but initiating means giving clear signals of being interested of sexual relationships. And I mean crystal clear. Conversations don't mean shit.
I'm balding, I have a fat face, small dick, beady eyes, small framed body, 5'9", annoying voice and mannerisms, and I'm lazy and weird and am doing nothing with my life. I am not attractive.
well i am fat
my facial aesthetics were never great to begin with
i've been growing a beard for the last three years because if im going to be ugly and alone i should at least milk it for all it's worth
i thought i wasnt that bad, maybe a 3/10 but then i posted a pic on /soc/
I'm 5'5" and nobody talks to me. I commute from home to university everyday for the last 3 years and I've yet to make a friend. I feel extremely self-conscious and my heart rate increases whenever I have to speak aloud. I'm practically invisible.
>I commute from home to university everyday for the last 3 years and I've yet to make a friend
you just need to let the acceptance flow over you like a comforting blanket made of poisonous spiders
if you're lucky maybe they'll bite you
Pretty much like this dude >>26498225
I'm 5'4, I commute by train and bus to university (2 years now) from home to university, and it's a route widely concurred by university students, and I've never, ever, ever caught a girl looking at me or anything like that. I've got like 3 "friends" in university, this super christian dude, and two girls that watch anime, neither of which are all that cute. They're all closer to acquaintances, though, not really close.
I've convinced myself I just wasn't lucky and I'm not attractive enough, and I only feel like shit at night, when I read stories or anything romantic.
Worst thing is my dad has started the whole "you should get a girlfriend and friends son else you'll be alone forever" and I don't know how to tell him that I know, that I couldn't do any of these even if I tried, and to fuck off already.
Cause I look like this! Kill me now god since you couldn't even give me a chin or a jawline
Am i ugly? I never been approached by a girl. I have no confidence due to being called ugly and fat in middle school.
I'm having trouble selecting my 5-robot haremu
So many cuties in this thread
Really? I think you need a less-receding hairline, to be frank.
Just a little rotund with the face, but that's it.
>tfw i'll never be the house husband of a qt dominant woman that will watch animu with me
>average to mildly attractive people posting their faces
I dont think im that ugly, but im not really attractive either (also my teeth are fucked)
Indeed! I know I'm a very beautiful
That's literally it. I could he perfectly average without it
I've never actually asked to be 1 to 10'd before
Well my face looks like a battlefield; acne scars, cysts, adult acne. I have a large roman nose, bushy eyebrows, bags under my eyes, and an under bite that I've yet to fix.
Got braces that I'm stuck with because my insurance stopped covering it after my 21st birthday as well as a round face that looks rounder because I've gotten fat as of late.
Should've seen in my high school pham. I looked like utter ass with my shit skin and awkward smiles.
I have to say that I'm surprised at how incredibly average to quite good looking the brave souls in this thread are. So much of our problems are all in our heads. This thread is strong evidence of that.
It had been a similar situation for me, yet this is not really reassuring. It's somewhat even more damning, as appearance typically has the potential to be improved a considerable deal, however little can be done about an embedded, defective behaviour. Others can sense there's something uncanny about it just by an expressionless face or monotone communication. Even if they've the pretext, it can lead nowhere in these situations, even with superficiality. Despite this, I can see how it could apply to the majority where only reforms in confidence are required to make ends meet.
My nose is fucking enormous, but I also have no chin/jaw. So that makes my already enormous nose look even bigger.
Skinny as fuck and always have been. EXCEPT in my face. Which is hilarious. If I gain any weight at all it goes straight to my chin.
So I somehow managed to be 6'2 150 but still have a double chin fat face.
And now that I'm getting older I'm collecting belly fat but staying skinny. So I'm becoming dale gribble.
Had face acne in high school.
Now I have terrible body acne.
Looking passable is a fucking ordeal for me. I need professional help to look good.
got that school shooter vibe yo
Crappy face shape (it's a bit too wide imo and I have a weak jawline), ugly lips, too big eyes though I hide them behind glasses (it also makes my face look less wide, works pretty well along with long-ish shaggy hair, makes people pay attention to the hair instead of anything else).
I'm also a skinny manlet. I consider myself 5/10 though, I don't think I'm super ugly. I'm just not good looking, I save myself a bit with OK clothes though. If one day I'm able to grow a decent facial hair and hide my feminine lips and jawline I may actually get up a bit
Probably pretty decent looking actually, girls have been interested in me in the past but I never noticed their hints until months after the fact. Not kissless either but still a virgin so it's probably my personality that's stopping me more than my looks.
I don't know if I am, no one has ever given me a honest compliment. Your mother or sister will always give you a positive opinion no matter what, while the people who bullied you will laugh at your appearance no matter good or bad,
>Do you guys really think you're ugly?
Naw looks wise I'd probably mark myself as average. Qt's aren't looking for average guys and I'm too apathetic really to settle for an ugly chick. Chad or bust in this world.
I'm ugly because I'm not considered attractive by women dont like things considered cool or manly and still like attractiveness so why would a hot girl go for me when she can just for chad thundercock the third.
Whoa just noticed I kinda went off subject sorry. I'm ugly because bad skin no sense of style. And I have a crease between my eyebrows so I always look angr nose is kinda big too.
>/vg/ (/ksg/, /meg/, /fog/)
>/k/ you're asking for that horoscope with that haircut
I'm fat other than that I'm cute
I'm a /bigguy/, I'm merely 19 and my hair is already falling out a bit, etc.
I'm not like disgusting ugly, but I'm not attractive at all.
Is this some secret way to kill oneself?