at what age is it safe to conclude that you're just not gonna make it?
i'm 22 and a half and never had a gf. i think if i don't get a gf by my 25th birthday i'll just an hero
anyone else have a set date?
I'd be okay with like 50, but I think if I reach that age then I would just keep waiting for my heart attack or stroke for thirty more years. I mean, there's always Russian prostitutes I can fuck.
there.. really is no hope for robots, is there?
it's not a meme, things never change for people like us..
25 is where you're fucked if you're not on at least SOME sort of decent track. By track I mean: school, a job, a girlfriend, social circle, some combination thereof, etc.
I'm 26 now. Never had a girlfriend or been kissed. Jobless. Deeply in debt. Thinking about suicide.
I actually decided in my teenage years that I would do it by 30. I expect my grandparents will be dead and siblings will be married/distant enough that it doesn't matter as much.
I thought 25, but that's too soon.
25 is the deadline for me as well.
I'm 24, turning 25 in September, so the next months will be full of desperate attempts. I'll hang around normies, try to adapt their behavior.
Been doing that since October now, so far it wasn't worked.
27 kissless dateless virgin here. I just stopped giving a shit after all the rejection. I have no desire for a gf and the thought of touching someone such as hugging or cuddling now completely disgusts me.
Smart lad, to slip betimes away
From fields where glory does not stay
And early though the laurel grows
It withers quicker than the rose.
Now you will not swell the rout
Of lads that wore their honours out,
Runners whom renown outran
And the name died before the man.
And round that early-laurelled head
Will flock to gaze the strengthless dead,
And find unwithered on its curls
The garland briefer than a girls.
Just hire an escort and fuck the shit out of them. Was is there to lose? Maybe two hundred bucks at the most?
Fuck an attractive girl
Pick of the litter
No need for emotional ties
Can't make her your gf
Just do it
My set date is constantly changing.
When I was in high school, I used to say 21. Then I turned 21, and it moved up to 25.
I'm 22 now, and I'll probably change it again sometime soon. I'm too much of a pussy to kill myself, so I'll just keep on existing.
I think if you go through college/university and you're still a loser, then that's basically the end for you
If you go through high school and college, the most social times of your life around tens of thousands of people your own age and can't make friends/connections/relationships, then you basically have no chance to
You might say high school, but the issue with high school is that if you get a stigma early in life like middle school, it can carry through with you through high school. But all those new people in college and make no friends with any of them?
I know that because that's what happened to me. 24 now. It's over. I just wish I had the balls to kill myself.
Middeagefag here--believe it or not, many people do not "blossom" until their 30s. At least save your an heroing until 35. Once you get to 35, you realize that everybody in their 20s is pretty much immature and doesn't know shit, and you're glad to be out of that decade, though it didn't seem so at the time.
I may be lucky and not have to do much work. A friend of mine whom I told I liked her said she'd love to date me if things didn't work out with Chad (her friend told me she thinks I'm cute weeks before I even told her, so I'll just assume it's true).
I'm not so fond of being someone's fallback plan, but I'm thinking it'll be worth a try.
Don't worry anon. The road to success is paved with failure.
But I mean so is the road to failure I guess.
A lot of people try and fail only to succeed but I guess you don't really hear much about the people who fail and then fail some more and keep failing and never make it.
I am just waiting to see if it is possible for life to improve. I have had a string of shitty months and if it gets to a normal level for a month, I won't. if I guess it depends on how shitty things are, but probably about a year if nothing changes.
there's a difference between "blossoming" in your 30s and being completely abnormal throughout your teens and 20s.
i assume you mean by "blossoming" that it isnt until their 30s when they settle down with a career, kids, whatever. that's all well and good. but those people are almost always at least normal through their lives up until that point with friends, relationships, etc
well i went through uni and made friends, just none of them girls. i became a drug dealer to survive though and i always lived in a place that was messy and uninviting to women. i basically couldn't get a GF, except maybe some druggie gf i wouldn't even like.
Trips of absolute fucking truth, praise be to lord Kek. "For thou shall procreate during days laden with scholarship, or lead the path of wizardry." - book of pepe 24:54, chapter 7... Let me fucking explain. Once you're out of school, that's it. From freshman year of college, chances of getting laid go down ASSYMPTOTICALLY. Im a recent grad, surrounded by old, raggedy pieces of shit. And when I do try to make a move on a girl that looks half decent and isnt too old, I get shot the fuck down. Sure, maybe im just unlucky and autistic, but I bet most of you will find yourselves in a similar situation. FYI: 23, M.
Its always too late for you.
You think no
It is too soon
I need more time
Anyone have the one pic i think with a french guy saying that by the time suicide becomes an option its already too late to do it.
im the exact same
except the reason ive never asked out a girl (besides not being fit since im a holocaust victim) is because ive basically never had friends so im too afraid of them finding out
i'm going to do a steroid cycle this summer. i'm currently taking DNP since it's cold out, once i run out and get low body fat % i'll just take roids and lift until someone loves me.
after 25 just give-up and embrace your failure
Look at it this way.
Many very fat, shitty people (who aren't rich) find girlfriends.
You're basically admitting you have no personality if you don't think you can do it while you're fat. Have more confidence.
>killing yourself because (a lack) of grills
Dang, you are me. I'm 22 and have also picked 25 as my give up date. If I don't have a promising future by then I'm gonna move to another country then an hero. I'll wait until my family and friends forget about me first.
If I tried hard enough I'm sure I certainly *could* find a girlfriend, I've had my chances in the past
The issue is my body is absolutely fucking disgusting and I'd feel bad to disappoint any girl willing to date me since I look okay in clothing
now did it happen?
the reason i feel like you're done after university is because if you go through the most social times of your life with nothing, then you havent developed the social skills necessary to change
>The issue is my body is absolutely fucking disgusting and I'd feel bad to disappoint any girl willing to date me since I look okay in clothing
Yeah, because women certainly don't lie about the way they look every day.
You're holding yourself to a higher standard than the women you date if you're doing it that way.
I got a job where I get on well with a lot of my colleagues. To be honest, I never had much trouble getting on with people or even making friends, I'm just a below-average looking guy with no confidence, so no GF ever. .
I'll stop blogging now.
I'm a 20 year old kv.
I wish I could know now whether or not I'll ever get a gf. The only reason I have to put effort into myself and my education is the hope that I will one day raise a family.
If I'll never have a family, I'd rather just become a NEET and sponge off my parents until I get fed up and kill myself.
I don't want to be a lonely wagecuck, it seems so pointless.
You sound a lot like me. I have little trouble socialising, but I don't think any woman has ever been interested in me.
>i think if i don't get a gf by my 25th birthday i'll just an hero
Pretty much the same, except I won't an hero because apathy/reasons no longer make me want to do this. It's great to be at a point where I no longer think about killing myself all day... I used to browse silkroad looking to buy rohypnol and/or a gun to kill myself. Pretty amazed I didn't go through with it actually. I was very seriously planning to kill myself.
But yeah, I just turned 24 two days ago and I've had "25" set as the date for a while. I have a feeling when I reach 25 if nothing has changed I'll just move the goal post to "28" and then "30".
I remember when I was 18 and 20, I was trying to fix my life and ended up working in a computer recycling plant and made sort of friends with this guy who was an absolute fuck up.
Smoking weed saved my life. But I remember he was about... I think three, maybe it was four years old than me - and I remember thinking "No way am I going to end up a fuck up like this guy". He was 22 at the time. Now at 24 I'm just as much of a fuck up, if not more so, than what I dreaded to become or be at 22.
That said, he's like 28 now and nothing has changed for him either. So yeah. At least I quit weed and kind of have a chance of getting my life on track.
I tried this last year...twice, sex with hookers is just disappointing and waste of money. Fapping is better.
>tfw you lost your virginity in the worst way possible and can't be a robot anymore, but you can't be a normie either because tfwnogf
Don't do it guys.