>>26489710 No she didnt made a mistake. She made a choice. Mistake is when you pick an apple and try to guess it's color but she knew exactly what she was going to get. I'd probably forgive her a person but i wouldnt have any relationship with this girl - she broke the trust and 2nd time comes even easier.
>>26490277 Frankly if it was me she wrote this to I'd think she's taking the piss. How can you write an apology letter where you say you will be sorry for absolutely no time? Either way bitch is dumb. You don't want retarded children op. This shit is highschool.
>>26490236 Bruh.. That drawing kinda got me. Tbh I think I would. Its always easy to say "no fuck that slut leave her get a new girl etc" but if you spent a lot of time with someone, shared great things, beautiful moments, then it is often not as easy as that... Call me a cuck, but I probably would.
>>26490400 It always really easy for her to just throw away everything and fuck Chad. She clearly didn't care about throwing it all away at that moment. You are literally a cuck and giving her permission to cheat on you in the future because your reaction is to take to her back.
Please leave her forever, those excuses had the opposite effect on me. I mean, Jesus fucking Christ, that shit isn't even relevant. She just told you her grades coming in at THREE POINT FOUR SEVEN stressed her enough to cuck you. If she got a zero point zero zero, it wouldn't have been an excuse. She just explained to you that her life is very good, and she cucked you and scrambled for excuses, and she just said her life is better than anyone on this board's. HOLY FUCKING CHRIST, ANON, DUMP HER FOREVER.
impossible to answer. relationships are too complex. all i'll say is that anything is possible. oh and that in the past i've never been able to forgive or forget. it really is kind of a big deal.
an ex of mine once got propositioned by her sister's husband, and her sister forgave him. turns out he'd been stealing her underwear, going through her computer and stealing nude pics, and one day, having found a pic of her with a ribena bottle up her cunt, said via text: "hey, wanna have a ribena with me sometime?" she immediately knew what must have happened, sent back "wtf??" and his response was simply: "can i come over and fuck you?"
i don't know quite how the fuck she did it, but she apparently forgave the guy, they're still married. i dread to think how many dudes this girl is now gonna fuck behind this moron's back. his life is so very fucked.
>>26490448 Things are never that black and white. People go through hard times and make mistakes, do things they later regret. I wouldnt fault anyone for ending a relationship for such a breach of trust but I also wouldnt fault someone for trying to work it out. It really depends on the individuals involved. In the end she only took a dick. That is really not... That horrible if you think about it rationaly. But hey, as I said, to each their own. I broke up with my ex for something similar (wanted open relationshit) but I would have a harder time with my current gf because she ist just so much better.
I've been cheated on, and we kept talking for months because we were talking about getting back together. All she did was fuck other men and keep saying that she is sorry and a coward.
I noticed something that I urge you to really think about. She didn't use the word "cheat" in that whole letter. Even when she did the worst thing she could possibly do to you, she is lying to herself and to you about what she did. If you are going to keep talking to her, ask her to say "I cheated on you" once. If you're not going to talk to her, that's even better.
- She doesn't care about her "mistake", she just cares that her mistake makes Ethan feel bad - If Ethan forgives, it's a pass to not feel bad about betraying Ethan, which will obviously lead to more cheating. She may even come to believe that Ethan is a stifling presence holding her back from her happiness of swallowing Chad's loads - Dollars to doughnuts if he doesn't forgive her, she'll angrily admit she doesn't actually feel sorry (i.e. the truth)
>>26489617 >>26489630 what makes me laugh is that she barely actually apologizes. All she says is "if I could apologize for X amount of years, I would" then she proceeds to list a bunch of excuses that happened to her as why she fucked another guy. Even the "I'm really really sorry Ethan" is just thrown in there casually but the obvious main point of the letter is the guilt tripping excuses. She's trying to make you feel bad for rejecting her when she's the one who was in the wrong. So not only is she cheater but she's also a manipulative person who is using your feelings to her advantage. There is a reason she decided to seek comfort elsewhere instead of communicating her need for affection to you. Whether it's that she's no longer interested in you, whether it's that you guys have not enough communication going on for her to feel like talking about it would be logical thought, or whether it is simply that she has given up in the relationship, that is for you to decide. But honestly, I predict that if you continue with her she'll either cheat again either break up with you before going to someone else. Cheating with someone indicates not only disinterest in the relationship, but also that the person has moved on to something else and is open to starting a new relationship with another partner. Take is as you will. At this point I think the only reason she wrote this is probably because she feels you are the "safe" choice guaranteeing she at least won't be alone if it doesn't work out with Chad.
>>26490611 Oh and p.s. If you robots ever write this 1000 years is a much more romantic number. Even clumsily expressing 'a lot of years' is better than 3450203010!. They lose meaning. You can maybe charm someone if you pick a meaningful numer like Grahams number. It's stupid big compared to what most people can express on paper. And if the person knows math there's even some sweet relevance. I'd be charmed.
>>26490704 >By the way you'd be amazed how pissed off your girlfriend would be by just not caring if she showed affection towards other guys. inb4 everyone calls this dude a cuck. i think there's something important to be learned here. i think the more a man is able to appear not to give a shit, the less likely the girl is to cheat, perhaps because she thinks that she's more likely to get jealous than he is, and as such she's somehow not good enough for him. reminds me of eyes wide shut. she raged because he didn't give a shit. she ended up actively attempting to make him jealous.
i think girls are like cats, let them be free to do whatever the fuck they want and they'll love you. try to tie them down however and they'll go batshit insane and do anything they can to escape you.
dammit women are complicated. lovely, but complicated.
>>26490807 This letter is complete guilt-tripper. If he doesnt take her in, she can blame him for not forgiving a person who slips up. If he takes her in, she knows he's easy prey. With this letter she wins either way.
>>26490869 that is because being a controlling asshole is a shitty thing to do. A relationship should not be someone dominating another but two people working together for a successful, shared life. Anyone seeking total control of their partner will never be loved by them. Either she will fear you and stay out of submission, and fear of being alone, either she will leave you.
>>26489565 This. I would not hold a grudge on my deathbed, I would probably smile and say hello to her on the street (sincerely). But I wouldn't take her back. Just wouldn't be happy with such an arrangement.
>>26489372 I could definitely forgive her. She was going through hard times, it was an emotional moment for her, she gave in to a physical passion and got with some other guy. It would hurt me, cause a lot of pain, but, in time, I could get over it, get past it, forgive her, and hopefully come to forget about the hurt.
I'd definitely end the relationship and stop talking to her though. Having demonstrated that she can't be trustworthy or faithful, I'd have no further interest for her. It's like when I watch my sister's kids, and they break a glass. I forgive them, but I also don't let them hold a glass again.
yeah watch who you're calling a "newfag" you piece of shit. i was on this board posting before they added the stupid rule that you can't repost so maybe you need to get good and realize there are people who've been around longer then you.
>>26491059 >total control i'm not talking about total control, i'm just wondering whether if, hypothetically, you were to say yes if your gf were to ask you if it's ok if she has a close friendship with another guy/multiple guys. i mean an ex of mine used to go out with a bunch of friends, some male some female, i was ok with that, but one time she asked me whether she could go out to a pub with one guy, just the two of them, then stay at his place, because it was so far away. it was an ex of hers. i said fuck no, and she didn't. it made me angry as hell, in fact. i mean it's pretty much the definition of a date... but... now i wonder whether if i had said yes, whether she'd have liked me even more.
>>26491148 i thought i'd been in love too, until i fell in love. it does exist, you've just never experienced it. i'm sorry to be so utterly assertive about this, but it's fact. to think that love is a lie, is absolute proof to me that you've never experienced it.
>>26491228 >i was on this board posting before they added the stupid rule that you can't repost The board was made with that rule, you moron. Thank you for proving how much of a new piece of shit you are.
No because one if I fucked other girls behind my GF's back she would dump my ass as I would rightfully so. Did you agree to an open relationship/not serious relationship, if not then what she did was a break of trust and that's unacceptable. Even hardcore feminists would not agree with that. She had the opportunity to breakup if that was her choice and go out with other men.
Also some good and bad news here, girls don't mistakenly "cheat" on anyone. It's a totally conscious action, you can't blame it on alcohol or drugs either. I know /r9k/ believes all girls are all cheating happens behind you back without breaking up that's rarer then you think. If a girl actually does cheat and even makes a letter about it that the exception and you can bet there is more then just her being a whore going on, as in mental and psychological issues that go well beyond taking dick from other men. So to answer you question OP, No don't take her back tell her upfront you accept her apology but you can't continue the relationship.
I've been with my GF for 2 years now and I would never take that bullshit from anyone. I don't have time or patience.
>>26491285 pic related >mfw u read filename >mfw when i get quads and u get btfo'd by me >mfw u check the date on the image >(hint it's 2012) >mfw when i was on 4chan then and u werent >mfw when ur still a newfag piece of shit >mfw ur rekt son
>>26489372 forgive? sure, I'd forgive anyone asking for forgiveness. But forget? You're asking me to rewrite history here and that's practically impossible. I won't go in a relationship with someone I don't trust, that's a rule. And forgiving doesn't mean my trust is repaired. I'd need to rewrite history to do that.
>>26491433 >Look it up. humans don't come with instruction manuals, consciousness can't be calculated. not saying i'd forgive, i've never been able to in the past, but it's still an interesting subject.
>>26491578 >how could you trust someone like that again? i'm not saying it'd be easy, but i'm not sure it'd be impossible. i was told by a doc that i have two incurable diseases, one of which is likely to make me go blind, make me lose the use of my arms and legs, perhaps go deaf too, then die decades younger than would otherwise have been. i've come to terms with it and i'm no longer unhappy about it. love to me is a bigger deal than death, so as i say, i don't know that it's impossible. fuck it's scary to think how i'd have felt if she had cheated though. it would have been... yeah. pretty motherfucking difficult to say the least, and i feel sorry as fuck for anyone who's had to go through with that with anyone they're in love with. dammit man, people can be so fucking evil.
>>26491276 No i don't think love itself is a lie, i just think it's being portrayed as something it is not, hence the lie. It may very well exist inside your head, but that doesn't change the fact that women don't love the way men do. Women are not capable of the same unconditional love men are capable of, men can love for the sake of love, womens love is dependent on what you can offer her.
Not that any of this matters though, you reek of so much self righteousness that i don't think there's anything that can change your mind.
>>26491990 >women don't love the way men do i agree with that, men and women are undoubtedly different, but... >womens love is dependent on what you can offer her if you're talking in terms of material goods, then garbage. if you mean that she'll fall in love with a man whose lifestyle is conducive to her being loved, protected, and able crucially to provide a healthy, safe and loving environment not just for herself but for a kid too should one ever happen, then yeah i agree with that too, and doubt i'd date a woman who wanted anything but precisely that.
you appear to be saying that women love 'less'. i believe that while different, women and men can love to an equal extent. just to complicate things a little, i also think that many if not most men will only truly fall in love once in their lifetimes. i can't quite get my head around why yet, but i believe too that women are capable of moving on and loving again. from an evolutionary perspective, having given it... very little thought quite frankly so don't expect a long debate here, but from that perspective, i think it makes sense that women would be capable of 'moving on', because women are near-invariably going to be the one in custody of the child, and as such in the event of a breakup, will need to find a new environment in which her kid can be equally safe and loved.
am i making sense? i'm quite rekt on multiple substances. tl;dr from my own experiences and loosely it appears to make sense from an evolutionary perspective, that women can love just as intensely as men, but are more capable of falling out of love and moving on.
>>26490236 INSTEAD OF GIVING YOU SPACE TO MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS, SHE SENDS YOU MARKETING COLLATERAL TO INFORM YOUR DECISION IN THE FORM OF THIS HEARTFELT LETTER. HOW IN THE FUCKING WORLD IS THAT RESPECTFUL AT ALL? IF ANYTHING IT DEMONSTRATES HOW SUBJECT TO MANIPULATION SHE THINKS YOU ARE
I'd probably hire some guys to rape and beat the shit out of her while walking home one night. Mail any nudes of her to her parents and other family members as well as have any of her pets put down if I didn't think I could get away with the first one. Cheating pisses me off hard.
>>26492863 not sure i'd take it to quite that level of extreme, in fact i'm fairly confident that you wouldn't either. thing is though, some people do. people are murdered because of this shit. my question is... fucking why? why the hell does it bother us SO much?
>>26493138 If I got a ";_; I'm soooo sorrry ;_; ;_; it's not my fault, I'm just insane or something..." bullshit letter like in the op I'd probably just email nude pictures of her to friends, family, coworkers, employers, anyone I thought I could get away with etc. and tell her she's getting beat to within an inch of her life the next time she talks to me. If I literally walked in on her and some frat boy in bed they'd probably be in an oil drum in the middle of the desert before the day was done. And because it's betrayal of the highest order I suppose, don't know what else to say.
>>26493485 What in Davy Jones' locker did ye just bark at me, ye scurvy bilgerat? I'll have ye know I be the meanest cutthroat on the seven seas, and I've led numerous raids on fishing villages, and raped over 300 wenches. I be trained in hit-and-run pillaging and be the deadliest with a pistol of all the captains oh the high seas. Ye be nothing to me but another source o' swag. I'll have yer guts for garters and keel haul ye like never been done before, hear me true. You think ye can hide behind your newfangled computing device? Think twice on that, scallywag. As we parley I be contacting my secret network o' pirates across the sea and yer port is being tracked right now so ye better prepare for the typhoon, weevil. The kind o' monsoon that'll wipe ye off the map. You're sharkbait, fool. I can sail anywhere, in any waters, and can kill ye in o're seven hundred ways, and that be just with me hook and fist. Not only do I be top o' the line with a cutlass, but I have an entire pirate fleet at my beck and call and I'll damned sure use it all to wipe yer arse off o' the world, ye dog. If only ye had had the foresight to know what devilish wrath you jive was about to incur, ye might have belayed the comment. But ye couldn't, ye didn't, and now ye'll pay the ultimate toll, you buffoon. I'll shit fury all over ye and ye'll drown in the depths o' it. You're fish food now.
>>26489372 >Would you forgive someone who made the adult decision to completely throw your trust and commitment under a bus? I wouldn't forgive a bank that steals from me. I wouldn't forgive an exterminator that plants bugs. I wouldn't forgive a chef who purposely doesn't cook meat properly. Why would a forgive someone who cheats on me?
When I was younger, I forgave my girlfriend for cheating on me. Only because I was infected with the "love" plague, so I was blinded and high on blue pills. I forgave her and she said she would never see him again. Long story short, they're now engaged and living the EXACT life her and I had always talked about. >Nice house >two dogs >working in careers we both loved My dreams of a future were crushed, while she gets to live hers with a guy she acquired by cheating on someone with. Women make me sick. Pic related, her in the shower, on the day she cheated on me. So here you go folks, because I don't give a fuck.
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