Have you matured yet /r9k/? or at least are you in the process of finally growing up?
That picture is garbage and more or less advocates neutering yourself and tempering perfectly natural emotions (like rage or disillusionment) for the sake of being a psychic slave.
There is no inherent value in being a calm, peaceful, morally smug goat any more than there is in the ballistics of anger or teenage desire. People are often agitated and irrepressible for a good reason. Hollowing the context out from generic states of being like "responsibility" and "fear" turns the entirety of the human experience into a silly, cartoonish moral fable. It's just jerking off.
I don't think there's a single person on this planet that doesn't possess traits from both parts of that image. How fucking immature it is to think that "maturity" is defined by these small personality quirks. The guy who made this is immature by his own standards just for making the image.
I'd like to believe that I'm in the process, but at the same time I don't really care one way or another. For as long as I can remember, people have told me things like "You're mature for your age" or "You're level-headed and mature anon, that's why I come to you for advice." I don't always view myself like that so I don't know what to think, I just kinda go with it.
>There is no inherent value in being a calm, peaceful, morally smug goat
Spoken like a true NEET that never left the basement. I've seen anger destroy a person's career a few times. Being angry is always detrimental to your outside image.
Destroy a persons career? So if you don't act "mature" how normies want you to act, they will destroy your carreer. And is that supposed to make us comply with this retarded worldview? Threats?
To be someone who keeps their composure requires you to be a person similar to one described in OP picture. Which makes no sense really. If you get treated like shit by normies, you should be angry. If you got dealt a shit hand, you should be angry. Normies just want you to be calm so they can use you better. Fucking cunts.
Well obviously you shouldn't show your anger. You should keep it bottled up and always remember who is the enemy.
But from OPs post I assumed they want you to actually stop being angry and feel calm even inside. Not just pretend you're calm.
BLAMES SELF FOR WORLD
BLAMES FUCKING SELF FOR WORLD
How the fuck do I improve being ugly or shy or literally anything inherent in me which society hates?
Tell me what I have to do to be happy, and I'll do it.
I've been told a thousand times that the right girl is just around the corner, and then she says the same thing.
Show me where my friends are; show me the girls I'm supposed to ask out; tell me and I'll listen.
>Lots of people are okay with being treated like shit and humiliated every day. They accepted their inferior position in society and slave away for the luckier people. Why can't you?
Do I really need to answer? I understand that normies would want me to act like this, but that ain't gonna happen.
>Tell me what I have to do to be happy, and I'll do it.
Find something attainable life goals, and work hard everyday to reach them. Be patient with and considerate of others. Don't be argumentative.
If you do these things, you will die happy.
As opposed to working very hard and getting barely anything in return? Not worth the effort.
Typical just world. If bad things happen to you, you deserve them. It never even crosses a normie mind that some things are down to luck. So typical.
>assumes the worst of everyone
>scorns other for efforts
>can't admit responsability
>focuses on differences
>sees no flaws
>obsessed with status
>takes out problems on other
>has to be right
Literally nothing wrong with that if you have the slightest ambition on life. Being a green goat will lend you a shitty retail job and you'll spend the rest of your life posting on reddit about how enlighted you are.
>Find something attainable life goals
Are having friends and a partner not obtainable?
What goals should a pariah have?
What happens when I don't want to work towards them?
What happens when I don't want to do anything that happens to be obtainable for me?
How can I be happy when the only advice you can give me is to work towards things which aren't what I want?
I am patient and considerate of others, and they still don't want me around because of things I can't control.
I can't control having nonstandard hobbies or being ugly.
Doing something about it would not make me stop miserable. I would still be getting humiliated and I would still be working hard while Chads get things easily for less work. I would be getting results(I actually am getting results, I'm not a total NEET, I have a job, I study) but I'm still angry about getting humiliated by having to work hard on things that others don't.
>haha bro everythings your fault, the worlds always been a perfect place!
>dude just give up any pretenses, literally everyone you meet is an awesome friendly person!
>haha you know to much man lmao! hey just get on tinder already and find someone to fuck like the rest of us lol
>bro dont be a fucking pussy! only pussies are scared, youre supposed to be fearless!!
Sometimes it doesn't always work out, anon.
Sometimes you're fucked and it's not your fault. Sometimes the nicest, most cordial person is scorned for no other reason other than he's "weird" because he likes things others don't and he doesn't care.
What happens when even the green goats don't give a shit about your attempts at being friendly?
What happens when you'd be willing to be friends with the whole world, and the world won't even look you in the face like a human being?
What happens when you can't do anything more?
Where have I seen this before?