>becoming real close to a girl the past couple of months
>really nice and caring to me
>always wants to be around me
>always asks me to stay with her when I have to go somewhere
>makes me dinner sometimes
>think she likes me
>ego boost through the roof
>come valentines day today
>actually muster up the courage to ask her out
>"Oh...sorry anon, I thought we were just friends"
I know this feel all too well, seems like I always misread the situation
Genuinely thought she had feelings for me
Oh well, turns out I can't read women for shit, I'll know for next time if there's every going to be one
This one girl I worked with used to be all flirty with me at work every day each week we worked together, hitting up my phone all the time with snapchat, like every fucking day, I'd be flirting back but never really wanted to make a move because she would just find out what an autist I am and work would be awkward.
Then I was about done with that job so I told her about the thing I had for her and how I thought she had one for me because she hit me up incessantly, which girls only do if they are attracted to you, and shes like "lol no thats what friends do they hit each other up"
Then she stopped hitting me up after that, what a coincidence, not like it fucking matters anymore
Damn bro, had something similar happen to me in highschool. Never got to the point where it did the last 2 months but it was almost exactly the same shit as you, except mine came crashing down so much harder and so much more painfully
It happens all the time, girls love the attention they get, and especially when they know they hold the power in the situation. It is enjoyable up to the moment where the friend confesses his feelings for her and then she thinks about what that would entail, what her friends would think about it, if she could do better, etc. But then all the girl has to say if she's not interested is just "we were just friends lol what are you talking about"
If only "we were just friends lol what are you talking about" is what I got, mine was more along the lines of "I fucking hate you, I never want to talk to you again, oh and btw I am showing everyone in our year all the texts you sent me"
>Became friends with a girl through a mutual friend
>from say one she's constantly flirty
>jokes that we are in a relationship constantly
>always trying to hold my hand
>talk to one of her friends, ask what's up with her
>friend says don't bother, she's been doing the same thing to 2 guys for years, stringing them along but keeping them in orbit
Such a mind fuck...
I just want a gf, only person I know that's never had one