I've came up to the conclusion that robots don't easily find a gf because they have very high and unrealistic standards.
You can easily hook up with some 5/10 girl and be together for a long time or even a lifetime.Seriously,there are girls out there that are robots,not all girls are stacies.
Why aren't you just trying this?I know she might not be the girl of your dreams but it's easy and kinda sure that you'll be together.Most 9/10 girls are roasties anyway and are literally not people but places to stick your dick in and then dump.
Why do you fuckin do this to me.
>Assuming its just us that has unrealisticly high standards.
Thats why stacies fill the void with chads thunder cock .
Ever widening her souless void ever escalating the size of phallic objects that she can get off from. And gets used and dejected. Hurt and used
And bronons would rather fill the void with video games and anime. Looking for a story the can escape into. And feel utterly alone.
OP here again
I regret so much rejecting all my chances to fuck,i could literally fuck over 40 mediocre girls but they're gone.Seriously,i don't want people to do the same mistake as me.
People rage at simple solutions to complicated problems.
The truth is, women are far less willing to settle than we are. All her hotter friends tell her she could do better.
as for the ones who are similar to us: They never leave the house or they go for extroverts who can plow through their awkwardness.
There's nobody to blame, it's a mix of biology and a dollop of economics.
But there's always blind, dumb luck. That's usually how I get laid.
>You can easily hook up with some 5/10 girl and be together for a long time or even a lifetime.
Bullshit. I'm a 29yo KV. No girl has ever wanted me.
Prove me wrong, anon. Tell me how to do it and I'll do it.
>But there's always blind, dumb luck. That's usually how I get laid.
Got any stories to share? Luck is literally the only hope I have at this point, but I have no idea where to start.
Social media i guess,facebook can do the trick.I bet you're not living in the middle of nowhere.Just add some 3/10 girls and talk to them,if you talk to 10 i'm sure that 2 of them will not reject you.
>Find the equivalent of yourself.
The problem with this is that my equivalent feels entitled to chad. Even 3/10 girls want a handsome jackass. That is why they end up as crazy cat ladies I guess.
I've come up with a better solution.
Girls love assholes right?
I'm just gonna be an asshole to girls from now on.
And in general, being an asshole gets you respect and people like you, it's messed up but I'm starting to realize it is the ultimate truth.
Is wantinga 3+/10 girlfriend that's not uglier/fatter than me, but shares/appreciates my (nerdy but pretty normy) interests, and is OK with me being asocial mean that I have high standards?
>Social media i guess,facebook
Thing is, I'm a robot. I have like 3 friends. No photos. My Facebook would look pathetic even to a 3/10.
>talk to them
About what? This is an honest question. I literally can't last 2min in a conversation with a guy without awkward silences, I imagine it would be 10 times worse with a girl who expects you to lead the whole thing.
Between working retarded hours and knowing literally no one my age in my area, going out for the express purpose of meeting women is extremely intimidating.
There's no clear short goal I can visualise, set and feel comfortable with. I fear rejection and being ostracised by people who will not understand I simply wasn't interested in a relationship before now. Why present myself for attack when I can stay anonymous and invisible.
Anime and videogames are so much more pleasant than this paralysing uncertainty.
Because once I can fulfill my basic needs, I can start enjoying life, and maybe even become a better person.
>I have no idea where to start
That's literally the starting point. You've already begun.
Yes, I have stories. But for your benefit I'm not going to share. I have a belief that certain things are better found out if you're unassuming.
>You can easily hook up with a 5/10
>Just bee urself:^)
Bullshit. I've gotten shrugged off by 5's and 6's several times.Deep down, all Women are just heartless, entitled cunts that feel like they deserve a Chad.
This is where the hard part comes in: having to think outside the box.
I've met 3% of my gf's at parties
and I'm probably running a negative balance on clubs.
I've met them through people I know. And while I'm out and about. I've met them in the dojo, or at the library, or at the grocery store.
I'm not a normie, nor am I an extrovert, but I'm warm, and I'm not afraid to open up a conversation with someone.
Fear of rejection never crosses my mind. That must be the biggest thing, I don't approach people out of need for a gf, I approach them out of genuine affection and kinship. It's MY strength and I play to it.
What's one of your strengths, anon?
One other thing:
When I approach people like this. I never get a number right off the bat.
I just talk to them or say hello when I see them, each time. Have a short little friendly conversation and be on my way. People warm to you a little each time, You've become a part of their world simply by the virtue of reaching out.
With some women, it was literally YEARS before we started dating.
Because eventually, you drift apart from these people, and the absence seems to make them fonder. They're glad to see you when you randomly encounter you.
And since you both know that this may be the last time you happen upon each other, you exchange numbers.
Literally 70% of my gfs.
I honestly don't think I have any strengths, anon. I'm cold, boring, unlikable. You tell me to start by chatting, but I can't even do that because I have nothing to say.
Sorry to be a downer, but I'm pretty much at rock bottom right now and its hard to believe I will ever get out.
It's ok man, you're not a downer.
I don't expect you to do things my way, which is part of the reason I disclaimed my personal experience.
You're not a lesser man than I just because you can't get a woman *interested* in you. Women don't qualify your worth.
To clarify, I'm not a stunning conversationalist either. Observational humor is often my opening. But it's not everyones bag. Have a little compassion for yourself, it's never easy being lonely.
Yes. Or text her, because I do get a bit edgy talking over the phone. I like to see the people I'm talking to.
Thanks for the pointers. You're a nice bloke for sure.
I guess I've been living this way so long that it's hard to see from any other mindset. Maybe it's that thing where you have to learn to love yourself before anyone else can. I want to be an open, loving person, but it goes against my nature and my experience of the world. But I know that's how I was when I was a kid, so maybe it still is possibe.
Any ideas for a first date, if I ever get the chance?
Most men here would rather be alone and cry about it than force themselves in a relationship with someone they're not attracted to.
I could get a decent looking single mom for example but I don't want to take on that role yet. Mostly because I missed out on being someone's number one in their life and now I never will be. So why bother. It's better to sit on the side and not play than it is to watch trophies handed out and you get pity participation ribbon.
>missed out on being someone's number one in their life and now I never will be.
That fucking feel
Ok well I'm a kissless virgin but my standards would be basically don't be fat or have addictions. I can overlook pretty much everything except that. It's just plain unhealthy.
Frankly I'd feel like a impostor if I had a 9/10 Stacy gf, so it's not like my standards are that high, my awkwardness and social anxiety fuck me over though.