my brother didn't ask me to be the best man at his wedding because he felt that i couldn't handle the financial responsibility nor would i want to
are there any names for the feels you have when you are left out of your own family? i expected to feel like a guest at my cousin's wedding(s) but not my only brothers
>i couldn't handle the financial responsibility
lmao did he want you to pay to be the best man or something?
what kinda faggot makes the best man pay his way to be there? the groom buys the suit and what not for the best man
ur brother sounds like a fag
my brother kind of is a fag and now i don't feel like his brother so much lately
as for the "financial responsibility" it usually is the best man's responsibility to arrange a bachelor party, plan etc.
i don't work and am in school on our parents dime so my brother figured asking me to plan anything would be like asking our parents for extra money which he doesn't want to do. it's not just the "financial aspect" but that my brother honestly didn't feel like he should ask me but rather his friend from high school who flakes out on their gym plans.
Dude best man is pretty much an honrary title.
It not like the mayor of your town is gonna bed the bride down for the night.
He just being dickish
They be divorced before he croaks. And when he does shes gonna take that life insurence payout and run far away.
how does is it work when one person marries someone who has a lot of debt? they somewhat are responsible for that right?
if my brother marries someone with a lot of debt and he has no debt, and then they get divorced.. what kind of legal cuckery is my brother looking at?
you organize the bachelor party but don't pay for it. you get the attendees to all chip in. I was the best man for my best friend's wedding and the rest of the groomsmen helped organize the bachelor party. Everyone chipped in for the strippers, food, drink, hotel room.
i guess my bro didn't get that memo
i wish my brother was as smart as yours
if he asked me first i might have said "are you sure X wouldn't want to do it?" and then he could make the decision that way
the way he chose to do it was to cut me out entirely and treat me like a child in the process. i don't take kindly to that
If she pushes for the filing jointly on taxes or having a joint bank account. And there misgiving about trust, or you just want to secure your future get a seperate secret bank account.
Im not sure about debts but my inial uneducated opinion on it is that the husbands needs to be established as a cosigner. On any loan contracts which includes credit cards.
If shes a stay at home mom and she cuts she just gets alimony.