>chubby gf always complaining and crying about how she feels inadequate because she's not as hot as her QT Stacy sister
>gets even more upset when I suggest working out with me if it bothers her so much
Why are women so stupid?
>thinking your gfs sister is QT
I can't help it, she's gorgeous. My gf would look like that too if shed just lose a couple pounds.
>not telling her she's the hottest
Other than before we were officially dating where she first showed me a picture of her sister while we were drinking and I mentioned she was good looking, I haven't said a thing about it.
>suggesting to work out when she's already vulnerable
Well, what else do you do about insecurities like that? Doesn't it make sense to fix them if they bother you that much?
Triggered you sjw cuck? OP wasn't in the wrong to suggest working out if she has a poor body image it just goes to show that she's not looking to improve herself only her validation. She's not willing to make any positive changes to better herself she just wants people to coddle her and tell her "b-but you're not fat you're thick and sexy girl! Don't ever change!"
>OP wasn't in the wrong to suggest working out if she has a poor body image it just goes to show that she's not looking to improve herself only her validation.
Right? Besides, I didn't even care that much about the extra pounds, I'm content with her as she is, but she just won't get over her own sense of inadequacy.
>b-but you're not fat you're thick and sexy girl!
She actually is a pretty thick girl, just by bone structure and shit. If she lost a little more weight shed be god tier if you're into that kind of girl.
Jesus christ. The thing with people is that they like to not blame themselves for their own problems. If you want to help her, you need to talk to her about how if she doesn't like a part of herself, she either needs to grow to accept and love it or change it. Tell her that it's not about her health or her body, it's about her perception of herself and her self confidence, and you want her to feel good about herself. Tell her exercise is a sure fire method because she's going to feel proud of herself for it and when it's effects make themselves known she's going to feel great about herself. Exercise isn't selling out on positive image, it's about developing a positive image, and the benefits will probably help her depression, chemically speaking.
How does it feel to fuck the sister compared to your gf?
Are you fit? If not, you need to lead by action. That means you need to get your ass in the gym first and go hard, faggot. If you are, you should just dump her ass. She's obviously weighing you down and you don't need that kind of stress in your life.
She actually eats pretty healthy, I don't think that's the problem. Although, I eat pretty unhealthy myself and by association so does she when she's with me sometimes.
Can't argue with the jogging though.
I know this feel.
Had a pretty good looking qt a few years ago.
But her sister man, holy fuck.
They were twins.
And i never popped the question.
I will NEVER, EVER, EVER, get another chance at that, especially since im Hikko now.
Used to be fit. I'm still in pretty good shape, but I haven't been hitting the gym lately.
Dumping her (something I've seriously considered) is something I'm not sure I can even do, since she's implied that I'm one of the only things stopping her from killing herself. Not sure I want to take that risk.
I know, that's really bad, but getting out isn't that easy right now.
Her sisters engaged. I don't think I'll ever get to tap that.
I hadn't thought much about that, but now that you mention it, you might be on to something. I'll have to be more observant.
You're probably right.
I can't even do that either because then its just going to normalize that behavior and knowing women, they'll tread all over you if you do shit like that.
Then you need to tell her family that she's suicidal and that it's not healthy for either of you. She's holding you hostage to bring you down to her level. I've been in this scenario, man. I'm telling you, it's only going to end badly for you in the long run. If you don't get out now, some fucked up chain of events will eventually unfold where you end up being burnt.
Be a man, OP. She's dragging you down to use you as a stepping stone.
I'm pretty sure her family's aware she's dealing with depression. They're very old school though, not sure they take it seriously.
If I were to try to get out, how do I do it without risking her killing herself?
Idk, I've seen plenty attention whores who talk about killing themselves for attention, but I think this one could be legit. She's basically a female robot, not a femanon, but the actual female equivalent of a robot.
It doesn't seem like she's a horrible person, so tell her that she needs to take time for herself. Let her know that it's the last thing you want to do, but her suffering is going to cause substantial strain on the relationship in the long run. Say something like, "Listen, this is the absolute last thing I want to do, but I need you to be present in the moment with me right now. I think you need to take time for yourself. I'm not saying this because I'm over you. I want things to work out, although your depression is going to place an incredible burden on the future of our relationship and I'd rather salvage what we have in the immediate moment than let it crash and burn. You need to figure out what makes you happy and how you can move past this. Everything I've suggested to you obviously isn't working, so I can't do anything to help you and it's killing me. I need you to do this for yourself so you can become the person you want to be. I want you to be happy whether it's with or without me. Just know I'll be in your corner rooting for you. I'm always arms length away."
I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship, so I'm being overly general. Just don't let her freak out on you. Remain calm when you deliver the news and don't go back on your word, it'll make you look weak willed.
She just wanted to hear "No you're perfect just the way you are". You giving suggestions on how to solve the problem isn't what she wanted. So she got upset.
I was in the same boat. Good lord we had so many fights because of that. I'm glad I broke up with that girl.