>>26423298 I have terrible upbringing and family, poor in the balkans, ugly, 5'7, probably autist or sperg and god knows what else, just terrible genes all around. All women are instinctively repulsed by me. I don't really blame them but i still feel burning hatred for them and society as a whole, after i discovered what i really am i turned into a bitter misanthrope. I wouldn't bat an eye if the whole world was dying and i could save it, i would let all those bastards burn and die.
The only things i like are some video games, some technology and some animals, like cats mostly.
Stopped caring after i finished highschool and went straight into wageslavery.
I found relationships to be meaningless and without a purpose other than to give sexual pleasure and company to one another, that also implies the sentimental risk that comes with it (which is considerable)
So i decided to stay clear of relationships and women in general. my hands to the same job, not as good as a full blown woman with curves but it doesn't bother me.
>>26423298 Real talk? Im just afraid to let people into my life and hurt them for being the distant fuck I usually am, but I also dont want to make effort to be close cause I might be the one getting hurt.
I was a fat loner throughout middle and highschool. Became a shut in at my parents house right after hs graduation. Now i'm /fit/ and decent looking. But i'm so boring, bitter, anxious and damaged in the head from my childhood, I doubt I'd be able to maintain a healthy relationship.
>>26423298 There's only really been one girl that I think I ever actually had a chance of gfing, and I think it might have worked out, but then I sperged out, stopped talking to her, and stayed in my room wanking and playing vidya for about 3 months until I forgot about her. I really regret having done that now that I think about it.
>>26423403 >Real talk? Why do use that phrase? Either more people use than I'd think, seeing how I've never met a single person in real life who ever said that, or you and I just so happen to browse the same bits of the internet alot.
>>26423564 I could try, but should I? I'm used to being alone. There was a period where I did try and dated and eventually I found I could be successful, but I don't see any real value in it. What validation is there when it all depends on how well I play the game, which is easy enough to play if you know how you're supposed to act?
It doesn't reflect on who I am as a person, because I know that I can get a girlfriend by being a good or a bad person as long as I play the game right, and that nothing else matters. So the remaining benefit of physical intimacy does not measure up to the risks and work accompanying the endeavor. If it was some life-defining thing like people imagine it, it would seem worth it. But as women aren't mysterious and great to me anymore, that illusion is dead.
>>26423298 Absolutely nothing in common with females.
I love history, reading philosophy, working on and driving classic cars, fly fishing, bird hunting, being mediocre at Dota, working out, and enjoying microbrews.
No female want to hang out and talk about that shit.
I'm attractive and really sociable with my bros, and I get laid at our fraternity parties fairly regularly, but if I have to talk to a woman sober for longer than 20 seconds I just start saying yeah, uh huh, sure and looking for a way out of the conversation.
I'm just planning on finishing my degree+masters, getting a solid career, and enjoying my hobbies. Women aren't in the cards at this point.
>>26423298 I was picked on by by girls in middle school, so I developed a subconscious dislike of them In high school I would regularly make sexist jokes, often to the school's feminist club members because I thought it was hilarious that they got so angry. It took me forever to understand that women seem to think in a fundamentally different way from men, and I still have no idea exactly what that is. Now I go weeks without talking to a female, other than for business transactions.
>>26423833 Well I grew up with a great family and I have a tight knit group of friends that I enjoy my time with. I've really been blessed in regards to the opportunities I've had. And I do believe that getting out and enjoying a wide variety of activities helps you better yourself.
I'm planning on playing some settlers of Katan tonight and I have a trip to the Oregon coast planned for this weekend, gonna take out my boat and see if I can get some crab. Focusing on things that bring the good keeps you from focusing on the bad
-Because I like being alone. -Because I am horrible at social-interaction -- really, I have no idea what to say to further a conversation; it becomes awkward with anyone. -I'm a failure. -I'm likely ugly.
>5'6 120 lbs >awful eyesight, thick glasses >huge fucking head >smashed up nose like a pug >mole >can't talk to people because all they want to talk about it sports/shitty shows like the walking dead >super pale and weak >did i mention i have a huge fucking head on a very small body?
>>26423298 >5"11" >Attachment issues >Can't hold a stable relationship >If someone avoids talking to me for one day I get irrational and think they hate me no matter how hard I try to objectively look at the situation
>>26424086 That seems unreal to me. I mean, I'd actually love to not talk to anyone for that long but after I got a job that was pretty much out of the question. People immediately forced their friendship onto me and began feeling entitled to my time just because they like me.
old, poor, neet, shitty social skills, bad teeth, overweight, too lazy, will never love anyone more than they love me ever again, probably high function spergo, debt, ugly....its easier to whack then the trouble of what I could pull at this stage
>>26423298 I have no friends I have no acquintances Im a nobody My dick isnt big but not small but its not big so I have a complex over it I dont have any self esteem Im unemployed so I could never pay for a date Bad gaming skills when it comes to women face is meh so no luck there skeletor mode but Im tal Im not interesting at all no woman is gonna like me because I cant make her feel excited to be apart of my life Im a virgin a 19 year old virgin Very bad social skills I automatically assume everyone doesnt care about me so I dont bother to socialize at all Stay home all day just shitposting on 4chan to get rid of my infinite boredum what woman wants that? I have deeper psychogical issues than just not having a gf
There I listed every reason I dont have a gf now go ahead and laugh at me while I cry
>>26424212 Lmfao senpai >Get told 5"11" is manlet >Get told 5"11" too tall for manlet >Be white (getting a girlfriend should be easy, right?) >Even fat guys can get girlfriends from self confidence and good social skills alone >Don't have any of those >Potato face anyways
>>26424211 Thanks anon, glad to know someone actually cares. Leaving this shithole is not that easy though and it requires a literal shitton of money. God I hope the whole fucking middle east gets burned to the ground.
I'm 31 and married to a recovering alcoholic. I'm a recovering opiate addict myself (never had issues with alcohol), though I've been sober for 6 years (with the help of kratom and weed). I also work 70 hours a week and am a known professional in my field. Making $$$.
That said, I hate my life and the people around me. My wife and I never have sex anymore -- the last time was 3 years ago. We don't sleep in the same bed. She wants kids, but I don't; that issue alone is driving us to the brink of divorce. I suspect that she secretly hates me because I won't give her a child.
I want to just say "fuck it," drop some acid / get high on opiates, go outside, and have one of my famous life-threatening adventures. But I'm hanging in my marriage and my sobriety due to cowardice on both fronts.
>>26424540 Lost knowledge mostly, all the information inside the pyramids is about the king or how was the life of ancient Egyptians. We still don't even know how did they speak back then, We only know the written language, not the pronunciation.
>>26424515 I have an excellent collection of porn. I've only had sex with 5 women, but good porn is honestly better than banging some slut you don't care about. I've had long relationships with women I don't care or respect. Porn is better.
Being married isn't bad. The problem is raising kids. God, I don't want that. I'd rather put a bullet through my brain than raise a child. Though I've been depressed most of my life, so maybe it's me. But holy shit, I don't want anyone to ever go through what I've experienced.
If you legitimately enjoy your life, you will also enjoy marriage. If you honestly dislike your life and other people, then it is a bad move.
>>26423298 Because my ex dumped me cause she has depression and issues, and I live in a town of 8K people, and there was only 1 highschool, and I know everyone my age, eeryone's dated everyone, and there's no good girls in this town.
>>26424858 do you understand how muhc of a bonus height is? i'm not saying it's the only thing, but if you're 6'0+ girls will rate you much higher than a shorter guy. also tall guys get paid more/are respected more by girls and guys, etc.
I'm 6ft tall, white, and make good money for my age. No one shows interest in me. I don't put myself out there because I'm miserable. If any girl would like to try and make a connection let me know. I'm 22. I'd like to think I'm an alright guy
>>26424905 Do you understand how much of a bonus a billion dollars is? I'm not saying it's the only thing, but if you're ridiculously rich girls will rate you much higher than a poor guy. also rich guys get laid more/are respected more by girls and guys etc.
Some retarded sluts will judge you by your height... are those the girls you're looking for and want to spend time with, anyway? No? So what difference does it make? Grow the fuck up! Not literally... lol
>>26423774 Are you me I've broken down and tried to date the fat hipsters and I'm just amazed at how vapid they are. Their tastes in music sucks, their tastes in video games suck or they're total posers or they're obsessed with shitty TV like Dr. Who or Grey's Anatomy.
The idea or concept of me being in a relationship is so alien and wierd, let alone sex, I can't envision my life with anyone, I don't really complain about "tfw when no gf", I like the idea of it and have dreams where I'm holding my dream girl but in reality, it just doesn't compute in my mind why any woman would want to be with me, I mean I'm not unattractive, I'm like a 5, maybe a 6 if I try hard, but I just can't see it, my mind has either accepted that it doesn't make sense or If I just didn't care if it did happen in the first place, in the end, it doesn't really matter, It doesn't really bother me being a KHV for the rest of my life, I guess that's just me
>>26424453 Egypt seems to be a country advanced enough for it to be full of promising youths who hate it but then still backward as heck You be strong, I hope the Arabs will have dignity in my lifetime. t. European
>>26423298 I've had gfs before, women are psychotic, jealous control freaks and illogical thinkers who rationalize everything after the fact. I suspect men are too though, maybe I'm not cut out for human relationships.
I am boring as fuck, simple as that I have no passions or get excited for anything at this point, even when my 'friends' are all excited for something, i'm just bitter and think "shut the fuck up you're literally being children over something" Anything I did like i've grown bored of and don't care about it anymore, not even simple things like vidya, music or shows have gotten me excited in years, my lifes just a mundane blur at this point.
>tfw women are memes but I want to make babies with them but I don't want to raise children but I'm also attracted to men where I'd take the sub role but all the types of men I'm interested in aren't in this area on dating apps and I'm too much of a pussy to go to bars by myself
>>26423298 >fat >5'6 >overthinker >can't talk to girls about non-mundane shit >hostile towards people as a defense mechanism >apparently I'm "funny" and that's gotten me nowhere with any girls >good at memes and hold an impressive reserve of useless knowledge, so that's something >tfw not completely broken but still undesirable
>Have a ugly ass overbite and gap in my front teeth >Have a dry sense of humor that most Megan's and Ashley's don't understand. >Can't genuinely sympathize with a girl when she's sad or it comes off as fake.
I don't leave my house except for going to classes, barely have any friends and have no idea where to meet girls. I'm also pretty bad at smalltalk, I'm fairly attractive but only 5'9. And dating apps are trash.
>>26423327 Just being a manlet won't make you a permanent kv robot. Just like just being tall won't get you a gf. Height is an advantage but not a very big one and almost all manlets are full normalfags.
I will answer honestly. Since the dawn of human civilisation we have realised that women are shallow beings easily swayed. They were to have no real power as societies cease to function when power is placed in the hands of the irresponsible and irrational. Women are only for breeding, that is the only thing that satisfies them. As man's journey developed, as he found new and more subtle ways to express and affirm his very self, women remained the same. Society reached a point where we convinced ourself that equality could be extended towards women, this was the beginning of the end. Women have no consistency and squander their freedom, every cock suck is just their to repress their only true purpose. A women is not happy unless she is raising a child. It is a man's human right to have a woman answer to his every whim, many are far more subtle creatures that require this basic foundation to even function. A woman will just chase her instincts immediately. The notion that women are confusing is only because we noble minded men cannot understand being so swayed by differing desires in the same day. The reason why I don't have a girlfriend is because I am the vestige of the classical attitude, I am a man who does not tolerate childishness. I will never have a girlfriend because I will not compromise. The only solution to modernity is returning to the natural relation between the sexes. Women are eternal children. If you disagree, you are one of the many things wrong with the world.
I have high standards and one of the things I am most particular about is feet. They can be 10/10 but if their feet are not to my liking, it doesn't matter. The problem is that sometimes you may not see their feet for a while so I have no idea what to think of the girl.
Also, I am 20 and have never had a girlfriend and I have pretty bad social anxiety so that makes it worse. I also don't have much to say about anything to anyone. I also don't like talking to people for the most part and I feel like the effort I'd have to put in to cultivate a relationship would be too much of a hassle.
>>26423298 Ah, the beautiful girls of Let's Talk About Something More Interesting. I watched every episode, as lame as they were, because the girls were so qt. So, reasons for no gf: Awful social skills, probably an aspie A 5/10 with bad teeth NEET, live with parents in middle of nowhere (in the country with no city or town for miles, and no public transportation of course) No driver's license or car I'm a nerd, and my interests are rareified and abstract (computers, math, very technical music theory stuff, etc.) Consequently, I have little in common with normies, even putting aside my awkwardness. I am antisocial and paranoid. I have a severe social phobia. I'm poor. Pretty damning collection of disadvantages.
>>26423298 Because I'm already depressed and don't want to get broken any further if that is possible. Every girlfriend I've ever had has cheated, left, or fucked me over. I'm alone for self preservation is my number one goal, well... until I kill myself that is.
>>26423298 Even though I'm not a manlet, am deent-looking, have somewhat neat hobbies and can hold a covnersation I can't get a gf. I'm guessing there are small things about me that subconsciously drive all girls away.
I don't even bother at this point, dying alone ain't so bad
I keep getting crushes on wrong girls (like taken or crazy). Sometimes a girl that I wouldn't mind having as a gf gets a crush on me but I don't feel the "spark" so I don't make moves and since they don't directly ask me out, it never happens and they end up getting another bf and keeping sending me pictures of them with him and I don't even feel regret or anything. I just sabotage myself.
i'm sort of a failed normie. in HS i played 3 sports, was popular, all state musician, smart, etc. but i was like 20 pounds overweight so i never had any confidence with grills. i made out with a few but i never got further than second base. i ended up losing my virginity to a hooker when i was 19.
then in my 20s i got really depressed after my best friend killed himself, dropped out of school, and hurt my back and got addicted to opiates. for the next 8 years i had a job for a little while but then when i lost it i was basically a shut-in, only leaving the house to cop and rarely getting out of my car. i also gained a lot of weight and ended up at 340lbs.
now i'm 33 years old, i've been clean for over a year, i have my own place, i'm in school with a 4.0 gpa and i have a part time job. i also lost over 100lbs and look pretty god though i still have a little bit more to lose. the problem is girls don't want anything to do with a 33 year old ex junkie who is still getting his life together. i think it's already too late for me. sorry for rambling on. i hope one day i'll find a girl, but i'm not holdling my breath.
>>26430344 31 here, I'm more or less in the same predicament, save for the addiction and weight gain.
I'm glad you're getting your life together man. Sounds like you've been through a lot of shit. I don't want to spout normie platitudes about the future not being written in stone and other such bullshit, but sometimes life does throw something good your way unexpectedly. Surprisingly, I have a quite a few girls interested in me even though I'm a 30 year old wageslave living at home. Unfortunately for me, I'm too depressed to pursue anything with them.
>>26423298 I'll be completely honest because no one will read this shit. 3 things traumatized me as a child: 1) mother left me with grandparents for a month when i was 3 or 4. From then i've started stuttering till then. I remember saying to mother that there i've seen monsters. 2) I've seen my mother completely naked one time and i think it caused high sexual aversion. 3) I didnt had any female friends, sisters or relatives in childhood, that stunned my social integration. Because of that i'm literally scared of girls as people with whom i could feel close.
Even if I do somehow manage to get a fat ugly gf from OKcupid, I have no idea how I'm going to interact with her sexually. This is my biggest fear. I can socialize ok but goddam I have no idea how to make moves. What the hell am I suppose to do in these situations? Put my arm around her during a movie? Kiss her? I have no idea how to kiss? Do you like move your tongue around like a toothbrush in her mouth or something?
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