Who give up on women here? Seriously sex is so overrated, I'm tired of casual sex it's always the same shit, and having a gf is fucking worse. I prefer to be alone and do what I want when I want desu senpai.
Sometimes I'm happy I'm a retarded autist.
Does it count as giving up if I never had a shot at it in the first place?
I have never in my 27 years of life asked a girl out on a date.
Don't know about autist, but I can't trust people, and I am a coward.
So unless some woman walks up to me on the street and puts her hand in my pants to jerk me off, I wont be seeing action. To think of it, if this were to happen, I'd probably push her away and call the police.
Same here anon, I don't trust anybody anymore.
Honestly I can get myself off better than any girl could. Also I am much happier alone. It makes me feel uneasy and weighted down to have to worry about another person. The intimacy must be nice but the cons outweigh the pros.
me too. a woman could go into lordosis behavior and beg me to fuck her in Japanese and I'd still not do anything out if embarrassment.
I guess this is called being loveshy or something but I'm definitely destined for loneliness.
Yep, total 100% prison gay misogynist here. There are guys out there that will fuck anything in a dress and a wig, and some of them are probably okay looking. I'm still too much a coward to go through with anything, but it's nice knowing that I could whenever I wanted, unlike women who are an endless struggle.
On one hand I am curious to try gay sex. On the other, I am 99.94% convinced that it will be awkward and embarrassing, and I will regret it as soon as its over, for the rest of my life.
>try pua and get a few leads but they all go nowhere
>try tinder and its squeezing blood from a rock just to get a response from a 5/10
>ask why am I driving myself crazy playing the roasties' rigged game
>give up and immediately feel liberated
Are you speaking as a virgin? I guess all sex is awkward the first time. But there's gotta be someone out there that feels the same way as you and you can experience it together for the first time. Or do you feel there's just something more awkward about gay sex?
Dude don't do it. I started by fapping to gfur (still do) and then I got drunk and asked a guy over from craigslist. The reality was fucking disgusting. Butthole, hair, stink. I am scarred for life now.
Yeah, I'm a virgin. But I feel hetero sex would be awkward because I will always be thinking how she judges/rates me and if I am not doing everything wrong.
While in a gay sex I think it will be the sharp realization that I find it disgusting, which I often get when I am done masturbating and look at the screen.
I think that may be the case, which is (among other things) stopping me from moving onward with that idea.
Honestly I probably wouldnt do it even if I was sure I'd like it. I am sure I'd like hetero sex, yet I never look for any.
Pic related, I imagine.
I thought the same about gay sex at a time, but I think that's just a biological response so you only put all your effort into procreating with women. If you believe there's nothing inherently wrong with homosexual acts, then once you justify that in your mind with logic and reason it's not a problem.
>Repeat with many women, and eventually sex happens.
Wait a second, you're skipping a few steps there. Explain to me as if I were an autistic alien.
I'm assuming you chat for a few minutes about some mutual interest, then get her number?
Then go on a date for dinner or something?
Then after that you invite her to your place and sex happens?
Is that the gist?
Imagine if you couldn't even qualify for casual sex.
Imagine how lonely that would feel. Not even good enough for a throwaway fuck, not once in your entire life.
Now you know what a real robot feels like every day. Abscond, normie.
You go to a club, start dancing with a girl, eventually you kiss her, she continues kissing you, you start french kissing her and then you wait some time and ask her number.
Next day you text her, start chatting for some time, and finally some day you meet her to have dinner or something like that.
After that the sex happens.
Keep repeating this shit all the time
I just want love and companionship. Someone I can trust, but no one wants me. It's safe to assume no one ever will. I have lots of things going for me, but I'm not very good looking. I guess I'm just too ugly to love
>Hey anon remember me? :DDDDD
>I really liked that time I spent with you seriously :))
>Are you ok? Still with hangover? xDDD
After some bullshit like then ask the key question
>Someday we should meet again :DD
>We can go to drink a beer or have dinner, what do you think? :P
And this nigga over here been working since he was 16.
How the fuck am I not responsible?
Anyway...this board is useless, you learn nothing except how shitty women are.
And growing up with women you learn that anyway.
All of you need to get a hobby and stop focusing on girls.
They are the bread of a three course meal.
Thanks for the insight.
I'm still scared I couldn't hold a conversation over dinner or even the initial meeting, though.
Also, should I be using emoticons unironically? Should I be showing emotion at all in txt? Should I be making jokes?
ALWAYS use emoticons while chatting with sluts, ALWAYS. You can say all the bullshit you want and then listen to her bullshit, anyway most of them are retarded so the conversation will be empty of content almost for sure. Just tell her funny moments that happened in your life and if there aren't any just lie about this shit.
If you make her smile or laugh sex is guaranteed.
Once you have sex, never talk again with her, just forget her and look forward the next one.
>unironically believing this shit
I have some bad news for you anon
I see people around me having girlfriends and dealing with emotions.
By giving up on women and dating (not really giving up, I never started), I can cut emotions out of my life almost entirely.
I don't know how I'd manage to live any other way. I don't know how people do it.
Don't play it off like you weren't trying to be super slick. Like in real life you cant pretend. Every girl within a few seconds can see right into the darkness of your embarrassing inexperience
We are talking about women that go to clubs, so most of them are retarded. And retarded women love emoticons so fuck off. Of course you cannot use emoticons with non-retarded women.
Solitude is a rock. It's a cool, stone slab that you can rest on. It is constant. It is sure. It is steady. It is unwavering. It asks for nothing but understanding and patience, and it offers both peace and freedom, and the possibility of self-refinement and aesthetic contemplation, the greatest of gifts. It is the best friend in the world, available to everyone but at the same time uniquely your own.
Yeah, but I've noticed a difference. These people, who get involved with women, they really really hurt. They share everything, they get inside each other's heads, they have these deep emotional connections...
And then it's gone. It's gone and they don't know what to do with themselves. It's a low that I can't even imagine.
I'd rather have constant loneliness. Because there is a bottom, there is a maximum loneliness, and I know what that feels like. When it gets that bad, I just wait for it to pass, sometimes it passes, sometimes it takes a long time, but at least it's constant and I know how to deal with it.
>tfw I just want to hug someone.
I'm so incredibly sick of having to hug my pillow.
I hate the chest pains and I really dislike the idea that there's someone out there who could be happier in my presence. Even if that's just a hypothetical. It doesn't matter how long we're gonna hug if we're gonna end poorly. I just wanna feel closeness for one night.
And it bothers me that the closest thing that's available to me like that is hookup sites. That's too much.