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So i have a pretty decent life. Actually, a great life. Soon finishing my masters degree at age 22. Got amazing supportive family and a couple of great friends. Getting top grades in school. Working as a research assistant for some of the best professors in my country in my field. Healthy, good looking, very fit body. Works out 3-4 times a week. Intelligent.
But when it comes to girls im just fucked (not literally...). It is a story of rejections, awkard situations and fuck-ups. My crippling social anxiety has crippled me for years, and even though i've worked through it I still absolutely suck at going out and i feel awkward and uncomfortable in clubs etc.
While all my friends are fucking girls like it was nothing, i need to put so much mental effort into it and nothing comes out of it. Absolutely no girl in years during college has shown the least ammount of interest in me, even though friends/family people openly tell im good looking. They dont understand my lack of love life either.
I have a great life on all other levels so why does this keep pulling me down? If i just stopped caring about getting laid/getting recognition from girls I would have the time of my fucking life. But it just keep fucking with me.
So is it possible to stop caring and just live you life? Does the right one come along when you least expect it? And is it possible to go through youth not living up the no. 1 parameter of succes amongts young people these days: HAving success with the opposite sex?
>tl;dr if your life is great except your love life, is it possible to stop caring about your love life and just live happily ever after?