>Anyone notice anon has never been seen with a GF? haha! I bet he is a virgin lmao.
What do you respond to this?
the truth? why lie?
>Yes Chad I am a virgin. I wasn't fortunate enough to be endowed with goods looks like you. I do not have any beauty so that a woman would desire me like you. This is my lot in life, and it is evil to laugh at it.
>just man up bro, you're not a special snowflake.
Had a Chad co-worker once sniff me out as a virgin and call me out for it. I just told him I had no experience with women and didn't really care anyway. He found it strange but didn't give me shit for it, even offered to set me up with his sister in-law but I declined. Personally I can't understand why normalfags find virgins so fascinating, it's not like we're a different species, our only difference is that we haven't put the penis in the vagoo. Guess it goes to show how much they think about sex.
>If that's what you want to think, be my guest.
That bluff works surprisingly well, apparently acting like you don't care about such claims because they don't hold any merit, and looking at them almost in pity seems to catch them off-guard as they expected some defensive stance or muttering to confirm the claim.
When asked why I don't have a GF atm, they all accept me claiming I'm not looking for one yet, too much drama last time, wanting to focus on more beneficial things.
If anyone could related to drama surrounding women, it's Chads, which is why they often just go for flings.
Hell, normies in general (both men and women) who have had more than 1 relationship (AKA the vast majority of them) can relate to the drama sometimes being too much to handle or to go for it. Add to that some claim of the supposed ex being "definitely not your type after all" for bonus points of being kind and mature or "a fucking bitch" for bonus emphasis on why you're still 'enjoying' the single life.
Same applies to question of whether or not you're dating. Working on (normie tier) hobbies or self improvement are very accepted reasons not to date casually for them. Depending on how you play it you can even get away with a simple "Not my thing" kind of response.
I don't think anyone cares. If you want an attractive gf as a status symbol to make you feel more secure around others, you're just treating her like an object, a security blanket in this instance.
> implying I live like you, to please 20 yo girls
Why do you guys always picture Chad as a bully?
Chads were the only guys that talked to me in high school, they even stood up for me a couple times when I was getting bullied.
I know they did it in as consulation, but at least they didn't bully me.
Haven't you noticed I had a bf instead, Chad? You that ignorant you haven't noticed i'm gay and only want to see other guys for you to compete with?
>Yeah, I am a virgin.
>Then some random girl calls bullshit and says she bets I could teach people a thing or two about sex.
>Some other girl starts saying shit like I'm pure and shouldn't be corrupted anyway. This kinda girl always has a go at guys for just talking guy shit around me, sayin' they'll corrupt me (To be honest though, there way works, mine doesn't so... it aint just men encouraging that behaviour).
I honestly never got this... women talk shit about virgins all the time, but when they find out I'm one they treat me like it's a good thing?
How the fuck am I supposed to respond to that?
Only ever lied about being a virgin once. Regretted it. I lost some integrity that day man....
Being a virgin, or socially awkward creep - being that guy who knows his place and doesn't make any moves... that's all a part of me. It's who I am, I aint gonna lie about it.
We live in a society where sex is pretty much part of every person's life, be it actually experiencing it (the case for most normies) after a certain age, or simply through any form of media.
As it's often glorified and seen as something that separates "men" from "boys" after a certain age, not having obtained sex yet will be an oddity in their eyes, thus fascinating. Not necessarily a negative fascination, though often it is (much like unknown things in general are inherently seen as negative until proven otherwise). Understanding that being a virgin doesn't automatically mean being a faulty or bad person is something that requires either some ability to see through other people's perspectives, or having been in the same shoes. Simple put, it requires a certain degree of empathy in a specific aspect of life (love, romance, sex, etc).
Not everyone has that sense of empathy; goes for Chads/Staceys, normies and robots alike.
Your Chad co-worker sounds like a pretty decent dude in this specific regard, my experience with actual Chads (rather than the dbag people that some robots claim are Chads for ease of labeling) is much like that as well.
I've had genuine offers of wingmanning for me from a Chad, a Chad-potential dude, and even a female co-worker/friend. When going out with one of them they tend to continuously claim things like "She's totally checking you out" while she isn't. They don't get that false signs or getting my hopes up in vain don't work for me, but I do appreciate their effort and intent to help me out how they think they can.
It seems like "Chads" here are often depicted as either this charismatic type with high social status, leadership skills, doing his thing (successfully) without caring what others may think, and overall success in many fields he goes for, or as this typical douchebag jock who tries to impress others by faking many things, gladly dragging other people through the mud s he seems better because he can't appear better on his own accord; the typical high school popular bully type.
Basically the difference between a man who's successful and a decent person, and a kid thinking or acting like he's something.
Actual Chad vs pretend "Chad", if you will.
OPs scenario would be that of a pretend "Chad".
On the contrary, being a virgin involuntarily is a major sign of weakness and character flaw. Most people tolerate it, but the way I see it, virgins aren't getting enough social drilling about the status of their virginity.
Even the grossest, ugliest guys have had sex, and the fact that some people who want to and are physically able to won't, is frankly unforgivable.
This, Chads are cool guys 4/5 times because they've no reason to be bitter when they've got everything, maybe just a bit deluded thinking everyones got it like them then questioning how we all aren't auto-piloting.
Regular normies are the real dicks, they've had fine lives then think something like their parents splitting up a long time ago gives them a reason to be cunts to anyone below them, even if they had no other real hardships. Fuck off, my mom died when I was 7, you have nothing on your parents splitting up when you were 13.
Real situation, some normie cunt was giving me shit that got me into a fight with him, we got sent to the principles and he said "sorry my parents split up 2 years ago and i'm still shaken up over it" to the principle, which I responded my mom died when I was a kid but I never took it out on others, he fucking said "yeah well, you had more time to get used to that" and the principle just said nothing.
Holy shit that made my blood boil, fucking hated school.
*takes sword slashes cigaret in half as his eyes turn round by surprise
>Don't you know smoking is bad?
>Walk away into the distance
It CAN indicate a major character flaw or show weakness, sure. Plenty of major flaws and signs of weakness exist that non-virgins show, but happen to not be a big enough cause for them to not have sex though, or they manage to hide it well enough for periods of time.
For all intent and purposes I'm practically a normie, except I'm a virgin.
(Sorry if this sounds like bragging), people like me well enough, I do volunteer work, I'm not bitter or resentful to anyone, I genuinely like helping others and whatnot. Acquainting and befriending comes almost naturally since some years with both men and women, and if I were to tell anyone I'm a virgin they'd be shocked (except very close friends, they know).
My one "major sign of weakness and character flaw"? I'm fairly passive when it comes to romance; I'm a low risk-reward kind of person and don't want to hurt others for my own gains. I don't feel like forcing my presence upon women for possible romance if they don't show clear indications they want my presence for potential romance.
Disregarding the bitter and resentful robots with obviously crappy personalities, of course, a big amount of the robots here are simply also of the low risk-reward mentality. Whether because they don't like rejection, low self image, or not wanting to bother other, is just a detail for this.
I'm genuinely curious, what makes that trait worse and more notable than things like excessive pride, arrogance, narcissism, blind bitterness, anger, closed-mindedness, sociopath, psychopathy, sense of entitlement, etc.? Most if not all of those traits won't cause virginhood on their own, yet can make someone horrible people to even be associated with. Heck, plenty of these will give a niche of "mystery" effect allowing for sex, only for women to realize those men suck; some even make excuses for those men and stay with them.
A pity, I was hoping for an actual answer to the question I posed.
Perhaps I'm low T, I never got it measured. Either way I don't see how that would somehow make me (and importantly, other virgin robots in a similar position) somehow bad or or flawed, especially compared to people showing previously mentioned character flaws, just because we're virgins.
If we suddenly were to find a gf or someone wanting to have sex with us and we lose our virginity through coincidence, it wouldn't suddenly change who we are as people.
Yes, they are flawed.
>we lose our virginity through coincidence
So you coincidentally get the social skills and libido to have sex, or a woman coincidentally slips your penis into her vagina?
I have a good foundation for the social skills, and if I would allow myself to be more selfish chances are I'd possibly be able to put myself in a romantic situation. I have the libido to have sex, definitely, I just don't think with my penis is all.
>or a woman coincidentally slips your penis into her vagina?
More along the lines of coincidentally meeting that rare woman who'll be very clear or in her romantic interest for me, capable of communicating it clearly so there's zero doubt or potential misunderstanding what so ever, so I can make a move knowing the interest is definitely reciprocated and I'm not just harassing someone.
Even better if she's somewhat assertive while at it, but I'm trying to be at least somewhat realistic.
I'm so blind to arbitrary hints and disregard vague ones as false positives, that apparently I did have someone interested in me in the past. She waited for me to make a move while giving no signs. She even mentioned several times that she's not looking for any relationship or other things. I can't read minds nor translate it to that she wanted me to make a move and convince her otherwise or some "mindgame" she tried as "giving signs".
It just plays into the "innocent" meme they've plastered on him too for being oblivious. If it was just calling bullshit or calling you pure on its own, it might have been less obvious but they're snowballing it at that point
Just don't put yourself in a social situation where anybody can say that about you. If you always keep to yourself, nobody can get close enough to you to notice how alone you are.
This guy yesterday was right. I went on /tv/ during the time period in the pic, and I saw some shit that shall not be named.
No, see you're wrong because uhhhhh....well I went on vacation this one time, uhhh quite recently in fact. Yeah. And uhhhhh...I, like, met this really cute biatch that was kinda, like uhhhh, alike a total hoe, yeah? And we kinda, sorta, fucked and stuff and uhhhhh yeah that was like the 17th time I've had sex anyway so.....whatever lol
pssh... nothing personnel kid
Not really man. When we get a hunch that someone is a virgin, it usually trickles out through their social behavior. Finding out that someone is a virgin in their 20's just shows that they lack the social skills required to be intimate, which is understandably odd.
I could tell this guy at my work was and asked him about it, he just said that he "didn't believe in it till marriage" despite not being religious in any way. He's like 29 and tells shitty puns like a child.
>The only time a Chad has done this to me I immediately come out of the closet
>>One of the benefits of being in a liberalshithoke like CT, no one is homophobic
>>all the girls immediately start defending me and tell chad he's being a dick
>Chad mumbles an apology
>I have a Shit eating grin the rest of the day
I never met any decent Chads before, when I was in high school, the nerdy kids all hated them, and the hood rats hated them. (the only two groups I really knew)
they were always the fag jocks who tried (and failed) to assert themselves. I was lucky to be blessed with the gift of being the best fighter in the schol, so it never mattered to me, but they did get all of the girls, especially compared to my 0.
That was a given anyway, only have to look at how autistic /k/ is to realize that
>you're making gun owners look like Virgin losers
ummm..... how do I put this delicately...
>Even the grossest, ugliest guys have had sex,
With whales, which is lower than not doing it at all
>the fact that some people who want to and are physically able to won't, is frankly unforgivable.
it's also really none of your business.
Cept I'm not a Virgin anon San
You are though
Anyway guns are more fun then women who rely on their hole.
With the dragon dildos?
Yeah I am never telling anyone about this site unless it involves me talking me about how shitty this site is.
>I could tell this guy at my work was and asked him about it, he just said that he "didn't believe in it till marriage" despite not being religious in any way.
>>when I asked him about it
Why would you ask anyone who isn't particularly close to you about that? I'm not even a virgin, but unless we're dating or something that information is firmly 'mind your fucking business mate' territory
>I have a libido, but I don't think with my penis at all
Yeah, sounds like low-T.
I also fail to see how having sex is selfish. Women tend to enjoy sex.
There also isn't a fairy pixie girl that's just going to pick you up and save you from your shitty life "coincidentally". That girl doesn't exist for anyone. The ideal girl is everywhere, and she requires some social skills to pick up, however.
It sounds like you possess basic social understand, separating you from the common autist, but you don't seem to understand women and dates a women.
Honestly, being a virgin is a red flag, believe it or not. That doesn't mean you have to have sex, it just shows a lot about someone.
Not most of the time
>inb4 "hurr durr, you're wrong, fuck you!"
>it's also really nine of your business
It's my business who I associate with. I don't associate with creeps, and virgins over the age of 20 tend to be creeps.
This isn't that hard. 16. Try to lose your viriginity then. It will help a lot in the long run.
>If it's a chick: Then fuck me and stop talking about it.
I actually said something similar to this before when I got asked by a work colleague if I was a virgin, because I didn't talk about sex as much as others in the place.
>why you interested suddenly anyway? do you plan on changing it if I was?
Then she said no because it would take away "my innocence" if I was, so I just left it. Its like asking someone if they're hungry while you have a big cake and if they say yes, you just turn around and enjoy it with others who have eaten already.
I'd probably tell him how it's obvious because I'm inferior. And how being expected to work hard to compensate for things out of my control is humiliation. Also how he is a dirty just-world believing normie who deserves to die.
It's better to have no friends, than be the inferior one.
I'd probably end up getting angry and end up throwing some autistic tantrum, screaming shit like "why are you so interested on that, you wanna suck my bro? Wanna suck my shaft, you better get ready to get some dick." Or something like that
My sister pretends to be my GF when we are in public
>I honestly never got this... women talk shit about virgins all the time, but when they find out I'm one they treat me like it's a good thing?
They're making fun of you so harshly behind your back. You have no idea.
You've got an alright sister if she's willing to do that for ya
I tell them the truth i have low confidence, shitty self esteem, im indian and i fuck korean escorts all day :^) sometimes they even let me go in without a condom its just gr8 m8
>talk like an autist
you sure showed him
That pretty much confirms it.
The best course of action is a look of smug shock and a firm "No" like what they said was comically retarded. It's hard to keep it up when they ask follow up questions though.
>I-I'm sorry Chad, I'm in love with you and waited for the right moment to come out of the closet but now I want to kill myself ;_;
If you deny it, they'll know, if you agree, it's still a social execution. If you talk too much is social suicide through spaghetti overload. The only card to play here is homosexuality.
Jokes on you Chad, i've had sex
which was a regrettable half an hour for 100 bucks
You can file that under autismal social suicide. The homo card is the only one that will make the normies shut up and cast a shield of political correctness, fear and forced symathy around you.
>or made smalltalk with me.
DELETE THIS POST, I CAN'T DEAL WITH THESE FEELS MAN JUST STOP BEFORE I KILL MYSELF
I had a Chad classmate who asked me that, i told it was cause i was shy.
He tried to help me, introduced me to his 9/10 friends, problems his, he never realized they were out of my league.
Dude don't redexclamationmark me with a cryptic reply like that for no reason I almost had an orgasm.
Elucidating what you fool? What's wrong with you?
I'm too busy with my superhero life so I have an hard time scheduling a proper date.