>>26407203 You're actually selling yourself short. Much bigger pieces of shit than you have been loved fully and genuinely for very tenuous reasons. I appreciate the sentiment that we should all strive for self improvement but that's merely the product of societal brainwashing. Nobody cares if you improve yourself. You need a dumb, retarded lover to love you for the dumb, retarded hooker you are.
>>26407043 if you have time to consciously love yourself, enjoy the depression ride down to all sorts of health problems. loving yourself just means taking care of your body and mind. so like be healthy and you're good. if you're like these autists who are referring to that shit advice about how to get a girlfriend, just get another pathetic girl and it's easy street from there.
>>26407043 Your thoughts, behavior and mood all affect each other. Being aware of all those things would be a good start. When you realize you've been sitting on your ass all day and you ask yourself "is this what someone that respects himself would do?" it kind of helps.
>>26407043 Forgiveness forgive your parents for the mistakes they made, they are only human and (probably/hopefully) did the best job they could
forgive your enemies, realize that every human on earth is working in their own best interest, and transgressions against you probably have nothing to do with you in the first place (except isis, fuck those guys / hear the lamentation of their women)
forgive yourself - this is a big one, forgive yourself for every single one of your faults and shortcomings , but keep a list of them and work on correcting them every day
you find out that you are actually a pretty good guy/girl
Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, for it becomes your destiny
Before i get diagnosed with autism, here's has helped me:
Imagine a character you really like, someone you look up to even. Now change both the appearance and personality to resemble you more, giving you a similar self image eventually.
Whenever you have to do something scary/awkward/difficult imagine the character in your head doing that, and pretend you are that character.
Ive noticed in situations where i should be embarrased, because of my self image, i think; ''Fuck what everyone thinks, im above them'' And i know it sounds cocky and edgy, but its a source of confidence.
Aspiring to be this character will cause to take care of yourself and improve yourself as well.
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