Fembot here, looking for boyfriend who will let me warm my ice cold hands and feet under their rump. My hands are so cold my boyfriend screams every time I touch him and won't let me near his dick.
I love cold hands... but... BUT...
You wrote you are looking for a boyfiend... yet you also wrote you already have one. Please abadon your inner roastie, do the decent thing and either dump your current bf and then start looking for a new one, or, talk to him about this issue and try to find a solution.
This is now a Michigan feels thread.
No, he most likely doesn't let you near his dick because you're a dude.