The general impression that feminists have is that men are predatory and only want to have sex with them. Is this true?
How many of you want to have a real, fulfilling relationship versus a pump and dump?
That depends on the girl, really.
Theres a kind of girl you want to have a relationship with and theres the other thats nothing but a cum dumpster.
This tbqh, I would even be okay with a guy who would show compassion, just anyone
>The general impression that feminists have is that men are predatory and only want to have sex with them.
That's wrong. Attractive/successful men are seen by feminists as genuinely, inherently nice people that deserve what they get despite their flaws. Only unnatractive (this means 7/10 or less) men can be predatory rapists that creep them out by simply having their existence noticed by feminists. Because they consider 80-97% of the male population unnattractive, this may seem like they treat all men this way, but that's not actually the case.
their might be exceptions, but for the most part, yes it is true. also: MEN DO NOT RESPECT YOU. I could never have sex with someone i don't respect, but that doesn't stop them. they will never attribute the same intelligence, competence, or humanity to you that they would to another man. this makes it really hard for me to respect men either, because i know that 99% of them are chauvinist pigs.
if a women wants respect from a men she must avoid the financial issue.
i know its hard, but guess what its just plain shallow and people see through it.
i mean yeah it means alot when a men invest in a woman but tommarow she might not even call back, or completely retreat from dating. men are good at risk management and woman have trouble understanding the underlaying risks of asking a woman out that essentially owes him nothing.
just dump the whole financial issue to the garbage, if you want a solid relationship
I don't want a pump and dump, though I wouldn't mind having one. Honestly, I want a gf just to have a best friend in the world, someone with whom I could share my achievements and fears. I would cheer her up and be there for her when she needed, hear her problems when she's had a bad day, and I would expect her to do the same. Just, I don't know, built a nice life together. I'm doing fine in other aspects of life, but not being able to have a companion hurts you in strange ways, like you are being left out of somehing that's so good and most people can get it, but not you.
>not being able to have a companion hurts you in strange ways,
>like you are being left out of somehing that's so good and most people can get it
>but not you.
I know that feel all too well.
My ex kept sleeping with her ex after I started "dating" her
Next time, if a girl asks me she'll leave me because I havent slept with her by the 3rd date, than I'll just ditch her myself.
Sex just pisses me off. How girls can get it so easy and think it means absolutely nothing to a guy. Sex is a big deal, regardless of how many guys want to fuck you, I am not interested in having sex because now I'm afraid I caught something. And now I can't even sleep in my own bed.
Fucking cunt piece of shit, I told her to go kill herself, and I don't regret saying it.
Most women get really pissy if the man isn't making at least 20-$40k more than she is. If she "plans on having kids", she'll throw a fit if the guy isn't making at least 50% more than than her. Most women want their husband making $40k+ than them if they were to have kids - which is flat out impossible considering the average wage is pretty stagnant.
This attitude is further untenable considering women have attained higher/more education at every level (from high school to doctorates) for more than five years straight now. On top of that, women don't work for higher wages, so inherently, all the lower paying jobs are flooded with women, and only a few men with connections can get better paying jobs. You end up with women under 30 making more than men, with that number creeping higher as women take more and more jobs.