With time all unrequited love fades away. Imagine your feelings as a bonfire. More you see her and get to interact with her positively, more fuel she adds to your flame. If you see her not, flame extinguishes and all that remains are embers. Sometimes those embers catch fire if you meet her after a long time of not seeing her. Sometimes they become less than embers. Personally, all of my innards are half alive embers.
>>26398881 I guess it was her body, her personality, but also the fact that she went out with me. I thought she was outside my league, but when she said yes and was as excited as me... she saw the great in me. She made me feel great. That's it really. That and the fact that she was great, so it was like a compliment on your swimming form by Michael Phelps, not any fucking shitstick that could verbalize thoughts. I have a girl now, but I've never felt so lonely
>>26398921 I mostly forget about all the women I had feelings for, but sometimes when I meet them I can understand why I liked them and I get the feels. Other than that, its just 'embers' and apathy that comes after the realisation that it will never work.
Tell us the story between you and your ex. I was in the same spot as you but on a smaller scale a while ago and I'm almost out of it. I took the period where I was depressed as an opportunity to push through the pain I was feeling and to concentrate on constantly improving. I am now a much much stronger version of myself than I was prior to meeting that broad. It's all about creating the positive from the negative my man.
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